JessFam: Quarantine Jump House Queen | Part 141

[sondraK]

I’m sorry but Kaden calling Messs crying bothered me. I think he’s just mad that Drake & his GF probably didn’t let him get away with shit like Messs does.


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Me,too.Kaden is spoiled n has never been told NO.He's the brattiest one of them all.He's finding out that not all adults are pushovers like his mom n mimi are.Lord help him when he gets his first real love interest.he might get a healthy dose of reality!

[sondraK]

In my opinion, kids that young having ipads/ phones is NOT a good idea, especially when trying to coparent. It seemed like jess spent the entire day on the phone with the boys and drake, when he should have been able to deal with the situation himself. I hope Drake puts a stop to Kaden calling Jess crying every time he doesn’t get his way.


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Amen

[sezzajaydee]

Kaden got a taste of discipline and faced consequences for his actions and he freaked out.

They don’t need their iPads with them. Drake has a phone. They can use it. Shit like that will continually happen because the kids (Kaden) knows how to manipulate Messss and get his own way.

That said, I’m glad Drake is stepping up. Hopefully it’s not just to get child support stopped.

[MiloandMax1]

I didn't think it was easy to just say no child support especially if he pays through the courts (which she has shown in screenshots on her Facebook years ago). I don't know it just leaves a bad feeling of her trying to set him up for failure to pay. Verbal agreements don't hold up in court. And her just saying it was to sound good (after all hasn't she been saying he doesnt pay child support).

I have to wonder if her moving an hour away after he has had them at least 1 weekend a month this past year has to do with this. Like if he pressed the issue on having them?

Kaden is mini Jess for sure. But look at what he sees his mom doing (just like when she stomped off crying when the cop was there for the bounce house).

[MiloandMax1]

If Jess really wanted a co parenting relationship she wouldn't video these calls, video Drake like she does when he was showing up (basketball, baseball (which she hated the boys doing cause its Drakes sport), graduation for Landon. I understand its her job and she will video those things but there are ways to do it while leaving him alone especially after all the Drake bashing she has done.

I don't think this was Jess being nice. I think Drake pushed more time through the courts especially since the move after he had been seeing them. Something doesn't add up. She didnt just change her mind over night.

[Chatabox]

If Jess really wanted a co parenting relationship she wouldn't video these calls, video Drake like she does when he was showing up (basketball, baseball (which she hated the boys doing cause its Drakes sport), graduation for Landon. I understand its her job and she will video those things but there are ways to do it while leaving him alone especially after all the Drake bashing she has done.

I don't think this was Jess being nice. I think Drake pushed more time through the courts especially since the move after he had been seeing them. Something doesn't add up. She didnt just change her mind over night.

And considering he has a really good coparenting relationship with Natalie and regularly sees Arabella... Not to mention photos of Drake with the boys a lot more often then Jess ever shares in her vlogs... I think she couldn’t hide any longer that he wanted to be part of their lives. He was quite open in the phone calls telling her the issue with the boys, and actually having parental responsibility for the outcome of the boys disagreement ect.

I may be wrong, but I get the feeling she’s spinning the child support story to make her viewers feel good about the situation and how “amazing” Jess is after bashing him for so long.

Not trying to defend Drake, he abandoned his kids for the longest time and that’s just shit. But I feel like there’s more to this story then what Jess is saying.

[MiloandMax1]

If Jess really wanted a co parenting relationship she wouldn't video these calls, video Drake like she does when he was showing up (basketball, baseball (which she hated the boys doing cause its Drakes sport), graduation for Landon. I understand its her job and she will video those things but there are ways to do it while leaving him alone especially after all the Drake bashing she has done.

I don't think this was Jess being nice. I think Drake pushed more time through the courts especially since the move after he had been seeing them. Something doesn't add up. She didnt just change her mind over night.

And considering he has a really good coparenting relationship with Natalie and regularly sees Arabella... Not to mention photos of Drake with the boys a lot more often then Jess ever shares in her vlogs... I think she couldn’t hide any longer that he wanted to be part of their lives. He was quite open in the phone calls telling her the issue with the boys, and actually having parental responsibility for the outcome of the boys disagreement ect.

I may be wrong, but I get the feeling she’s spinning the child support story to make her viewers feel good about the situation and how “amazing” Jess is after bashing him for so long.

Not trying to defend Drake, he abandoned his kids for the longest time and that’s just shit. But I feel like there’s more to this story then what Jess is saying.

I do think what he did was wrong and should have fought more (she basically got full custody because he was stupid for not going to court so it was automatic). But I also give props to Drake other than that one video he made he's stayed out of the spotlight while she drug him through the mud. All this negativity the boys will see one day. The boys have also called him dad many times now its Drake? That's parental alienation and I do think Drake has a case if they ever went back to court so Jess had to do something.

Will Drake bashing continue since that's what her channel is about? Will she allow Drake to co parent? Will she just blame Stephanie's kids even though Kaden is a brat with his own siblings (Jess has said herself the "blonde boys" don't get along - Kaden/Landen)?

[Bambi_]

She’s so into Drake. And she set those kids up, especially Kaden. I don’t buy it that she’s doing it with good intentions, she kept throwing shade the entire time.

And the last part with Chris playing Barbies with Addie.... I see what she did there. All for the camera.


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[MiloandMax1]

The worst thing Jess could do in that situation was say she was going to go pick him up. Seems odd he called while she was recording.
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Also I get he was "crying" but you can still not understand Kaden at all

[Haulnarse]

I haven’t seen the vlog, however friends of ours are in a similar situation. Kids call mom every 5 minutes while at dads despite nothing is ever majorly wrong, small disagreements, petty stuff like dad “making” them eat broccoli etc).

She now doesnt answer calls from the kids and they know if they call her to sort out crap thats going on at dads (that he could/should sort) that they will be reprimanded at her house.


Jess needs to do the same. The kids take devices but are only aloud to make contact with her via drakes phone. Unless its an actual emergency. His house, his rules. End of story.

[lovebug1212]

If Jess really wanted a co parenting relationship she wouldn't video these calls, video Drake like she does when he was showing up (basketball, baseball (which she hated the boys doing cause its Drakes sport), graduation for Landon. I understand its her job and she will video those things but there are ways to do it while leaving him alone especially after all the Drake bashing she has done.

I don't think this was Jess being nice. I think Drake pushed more time through the courts especially since the move after he had been seeing them. Something doesn't add up. She didnt just change her mind over night.

Jess has sole legal custody, he doesn’t have any visitation rights. It’s up to Jess when she lets him see the kids, I definitely don’t think drake “pushed more time through court” because he legally doesn’t have any visitation rights. He signed that away years ago.


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[Haulnarse]

I think Drake’s request for her to drop the child support was a real grown up adult thing to do. It must have taken balls for him to do so. It means he can get his licence back (his licence was suspended for back dated overdue child support) and get a better paid job. He has realised that he obviously needs his licence (like doh) to have transport to a job. He can be a more reliable employee and father.

For me if i was in that situation id want my kids going over to his house more often and like she said, know he has money for food and a roof over their heads. $100/fortnight isnt going to make a difference to her budget, she claims she puts whatever she actually gets into an account for the boys for later on. $100 a fortnight could go towards filling his pantry for a weekend visit.

The phone call, he sounded grown up and mature. He actually sounds like he is trying to get his life in order. he was rushed into having to grow up when she spat out a bunch of kids, he rebelled, she was an absolute nightmare to deal with, still probably is, id have issues dealing with her as well. Hes doing the best he can.

[WheresMyCoffee]

In my opinion, kids that young having ipads/ phones is NOT a good idea, especially when trying to coparent. It seemed like jess spent the entire day on the phone with the boys and drake, when he should have been able to deal with the situation himself. I hope Drake puts a stop to Kaden calling Jess crying every time he doesn’t get his way.


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Jess said she wanted them to have the iPad's so they could be in touch with her.

[WheresMyCoffee]

I think Drake’s request for her to drop the child support was a real grown up adult thing to do. It must have taken balls for him to do so. It means he can get his licence back (his licence was suspended for back dated overdue child support) and get a better paid job. He has realised that he obviously needs his licence (like doh) to have transport to a job. He can be a more reliable employee and father.

For me if i was in that situation id want my kids going over to his house more often and like she said, know he has money for food and a roof over their heads. $100/fortnight isnt going to make a difference to her budget, she claims she puts whatever she actually gets into an account for the boys for later on. $100 a fortnight could go towards filling his pantry for a weekend visit.

The phone call, he sounded grown up and mature. He actually sounds like he is trying to get his life in order. he was rushed into having to grow up when she spat out a bunch of kids, he rebelled, she was an absolute nightmare to deal with, still probably is, id have issues dealing with her as well. Hes doing the best he can.

I agree. I think also that people will just spin this to fit their narrative of Jessica but if you can see Drake has changed, why cant Jess? She will always be loud and obnoxious but she has a very good case as to why Drake shouldnt see the boys so he has no leverage to "push back" on. Hell he cant even black mail her that he will make a video as he has already done that. If this was the first time the boys had been in awhile with new gf and her kids it is understandable they are out of their comfort zone. Kaden and his brothers have been at home for the past few months, isnt there talk of Kaden being on the spectrum? All those things add to him being anxious etc and calling his mom. I'm sure after awhile of being around Drake he will get more comfortable.

[KatAce95]

Agreed with all above. Drake is almost a stranger to the boys so it will take some time for them to feel comfortable around him (and his new gf and her kids)

[Hoe4Christmas]

if kaden called jess because he was being bullied or didn’t want to share, i still don’t think she should have included that in the video. it triggered me to when i used to call my mom crying about wanting to come home.

and i think it maybe would have been better for them to spend more time around drake only first before his gf and her kids...from someone who has been there, it’s a lot to get used to all at once and therapists usually recommend (slow and gradual contact with new people)


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[sarahB29]

Let’s not forget that Stephanie went public LAST YEAR and had posted the boys multiple times . They’re no stranger to those boys .

[Haulnarse]

if kaden called jess because he was being bullied or didn’t want to share, i still don’t think she should have included that in the video. it triggered me to when i used to call my mom crying about wanting to come home.

and i think it maybe would have been better for them to spend more time around drake only first before his gf and her kids...from someone who has been there, it’s a lot to get used to all at once and therapists usually recommend (slow and gradual contact with new people)


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Thats really hard if they are living together and he doesnt have his licence. Its not as though he can pick the boys up for the afternoon/evening and hang out with them away from the house and then drop them home before bed.

[Wylee]

Kaden is a bratty little mofo used to always getting his way and manipulating. This will do him good.

It’s been easy for drake to let the child support pile up but he would have also lost his stimulus. I bet that’s what prompted him to manipulate Jess into dropping the whole case. This is Jess she ONLY did this so she can gain views, keep her desire for that D, and appear to me supportive.

[MiloandMax1]

I wasn't spinning anything. If anyone gets to spin things its Jess because She can share what she wants. Just like she has lied they don't see Drake, didn't know who Arabella was. She had to finally admit last year they had been going over there thanks to his gf making her ig public and Natalie saying that Arabella always talks about them and does see them. So its not like overnight it was "your going to this new house, good luck".. I think Drake is crap and should have fought for his kids absolutely. I still don't think this should have been recorded. Also I still think the Drake vs dad thing is Jess 100%. There have been times when he would come to games and the boys called him dad, that video about babies with the pauses he is trying to call drake dad.