JessFam: Quarantine Jump House Queen | Part 141

[Haulnarse]

I hope she gets on a schedule with drake seeing the boys and gabe having lilia. That would allow her, chris and addy to fly or drive down and spend a weekend with chris’s boys every now and then. Wouldn’t that make way more sense than shipping them 12 hours return for a two day weekend??

That quality time with chris’s boys outside of that crazy household would do them all good. Actually visit places with them that are local to them, go to sports games, school events, be a parent. Have them returned to home or school well rested and not needing a weekend to recover from the “weekend” they had. Chris and Jess have all week to sleep and catch up on rest.

Not to mention it would be different content, and actually interesting. Her travel vlogs always get more views. They could try out different hotels and areas near where the boys live. Even driving them an hour away beats a 12hr return trip. What else is there to do thats not disney related

Also isnt chris’s grandma near the boys? Does she see them or Addy?

I just think she needs to accept this drake situation is a good thing, support him (even if it means slipping him some groceries on the side) and finally move on. Stop seeing it as a big thing about having an empty quiet house. Enjoy it, go and see chris’s boys. Be there to pick them up from school on a friday. Let them spend some one on one time with their sister.


(The grocery thing is something that a friends dad used to do when she grew up, he was a working single father with full-time custody in a really well paying job. As a child she saw her mum every other weekend. She only realised her dad would drop them off with a bag or two of groceries when she was 14, her mum told her that he had been doing it the whole time.

The mum worked, but struggled to be able to afford to buy extras. he didn’t want her to get into debt or stress about feeding them and also liked that if she still had some cash available to be able to treat the kids, she could - local pool or the movies or a piece of slice from a cafe, etc. She said it was something that he never made her mother feel like shit about, he just casually dropped the bag with the groceries with the kids other gear when he dropped them off and the bag would be folded and packed back into one of their bags to go back again when he picked them up. That to me is amazing co-parenting. Their relationship didn’t work out but neither stopped caring about the other and both did what they could to keep things normal and households running smoothly at both houses.)

Co-parenting isn’t always drama and a fight. As soon as both parents realise that each only wants the best for their kids it gets easier.

[MiloandMax1]

I hope she gets on a schedule with drake seeing the boys and gabe having lilia. That would allow her, chris and addy to fly or drive down and spend a weekend with chris’s boys every now and then. Wouldn’t that make way more sense than shipping them 12 hours return for a two day weekend??

That quality time with chris’s boys outside of that crazy household would do them all good. Actually visit places with them that are local to them, go to sports games, school events, be a parent. Have them returned to home or school well rested and not needing a weekend to recover from the “weekend” they had. Chris and Jess have all week to sleep and catch up on rest.

Not to mention it would be different content, and actually interesting. Her travel vlogs always get more views. They could try out different hotels and areas near where the boys live. Even driving them an hour away beats a 12hr return trip. What else is there to do thats not disney related

Also isnt chris’s grandma near the boys? Does she see them or Addy?

I just think she needs to accept this drake situation is a good thing, support him (even if it means slipping him some groceries on the side) and finally move on. Stop seeing it as a big thing about having an empty quiet house. Enjoy it, go and see chris’s boys. Be there to pick them up from school on a friday. Let them spend some one on one time with their sister.


(The grocery thing is something that a friends dad used to do when she grew up, he was a working single father with full-time custody in a really well paying job. As a child she saw her mum every other weekend. She only realised her dad would drop them off with a bag or two of groceries when she was 14, her mum told her that he had been doing it the whole time.

The mum worked, but struggled to be able to afford to buy extras. he didn’t want her to get into debt or stress about feeding them and also liked that if she still had some cash available to be able to treat the kids, she could - local pool or the movies or a piece of slice from a cafe, etc. She said it was something that he never made her mother feel like shit about, he just casually dropped the bag with the groceries with the kids other gear when he dropped them off and the bag would be folded and packed back into one of their bags to go back again when he picked them up. That to me is amazing co-parenting. Their relationship didn’t work out but neither stopped caring about the other and both did what they could to keep things normal and households running smoothly at both houses.)

Co-parenting isn’t always drama and a fight. As soon as both parents realise that each only wants the best for their kids it gets easier.

That would be good if T & C got a little one on one (well you know with each other but not with all 7, unfortuently that's part of her views adding seven kids).

A friend of mine also had the same situation with her dad putting food in her bag and buying groceries after going to drop her off, he couldn't give $ to her mom cause of drugs but made sure the kids and the mom ate on the weekends they were there.

I really think Jess just still loves Drake. The bashing hasn't worked, the bashing videos are what we have heard so much it doesn't get the reaction she wants so why not. I also think him seeing them one weekend a month (this was even admitted in an ig post after Stephanie went public) asking for more time or a schedule is not too much to ask.

I am happy for the boys. One less day at least without the camera.

[cjl123]

So I feel like drake is playing the game at this point. He knows he has to kiss a little ass, make Jessica happy to smooth things out. It’s very obvious that Jessica is so into him and enjoys the phone calls and attention. How Chris doesn’t see it is beyond me


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[JustBeingCurious]

I think Drake’s request for her to drop the child support was a real grown up adult thing to do. It must have taken balls for him to do so. It means he can get his licence back (his licence was suspended for back dated overdue child support) and get a better paid job. He has realised that he obviously needs his licence (like doh) to have transport to a job. He can be a more reliable employee and father.

For me if i was in that situation id want my kids going over to his house more often and like she said, know he has money for food and a roof over their heads. $100/fortnight isnt going to make a difference to her budget, she claims she puts whatever she actually gets into an account for the boys for later on. $100 a fortnight could go towards filling his pantry for a weekend visit.

The phone call, he sounded grown up and mature. He actually sounds like he is trying to get his life in order. he was rushed into having to grow up when she spat out a bunch of kids, he rebelled, she was an absolute nightmare to deal with, still probably is, id have issues dealing with her as well. Hes doing the best he can.

I agree. I think also that people will just spin this to fit their narrative of Jessica but if you can see Drake has changed, why cant Jess? She will always be loud and obnoxious but she has a very good case as to why Drake shouldnt see the boys so he has no leverage to "push back" on. Hell he cant even black mail her that he will make a video as he has already done that. If this was the first time the boys had been in awhile with new gf and her kids it is understandable they are out of their comfort zone. Kaden and his brothers have been at home for the past few months, isnt there talk of Kaden being on the spectrum? All those things add to him being anxious etc and calling his mom. I'm sure after awhile of being around Drake he will get more comfortable.

I agree, the Drake defenders always seem to baffle me

[TreeHugger11]

I hope she gets on a schedule with drake seeing the boys and gabe having lilia. That would allow her, chris and addy to fly or drive down and spend a weekend with chris’s boys every now and then. Wouldn’t that make way more sense than shipping them 12 hours return for a two day weekend??

That quality time with chris’s boys outside of that crazy household would do them all good. Actually visit places with them that are local to them, go to sports games, school events, be a parent. Have them returned to home or school well rested and not needing a weekend to recover from the “weekend” they had. Chris and Jess have all week to sleep and catch up on rest.

Not to mention it would be different content, and actually interesting. Her travel vlogs always get more views. They could try out different hotels and areas near where the boys live. Even driving them an hour away beats a 12hr return trip. What else is there to do thats not disney related

I think this is a great idea and I hope Jess reads here and sees this lol. I don’t see how Chris doesn’t want to see those parts of the boy’s lives? Even after my parents split and my dad moved out of town he was still constantly driving back to go to my and my brother’s events. His girlfriend would even come to support sometimes. There’s got to be a lot that Jess could do with them in the area. Also, I remember visiting my cousins and being so excited to see where they went to school, did sports, etc. It could be fun to take all the kids down there and instead of going to Disney go see more about T&C’s lives since those boys are always subjected to go to her kids’ events.

I think it’s great that the boys are seeing Drake more. I hope Jess can get over her desire to want to bring them home all the time though. It will take a bit of adjustment for them but like Drake said on the phone, they just have to get used to it. Assuming Drake and his gf stay together, the boys will have to get used to being around those kids and being in a house with different rules.

[nicolefrost]

I don’t understand how anyone can defend drake. Regardless of Jessica. He has had years to get some kind of custody or visitation before she got full custody. He choose to end his parenting relationship when he ended their relationship.

Now he wants one and that’s great but it’s not over night. The kids don’t trust him and probably do not respect him as a parent all of those things are going to take time for him to earn from them. They have always called him drake as far as I can remember in videos landen I don’t think has ever even looked at drake as his dad Chris came along when he was so little and he really did become a great dad to the boys.

I think the child support was a huge step for drake in growing up and knowing he’ll never have a adult life if he doesn’t get a real job. And if he’s barely paying as is then I don’t see the big deal it’s not going to change her living situation.

She always has those kids in so many activities and sports which is great but she never takes them anywhere else but Disney. Maybe with the boys going to drakes it will give her a break and allow her and Chris to figure out ways to spend time with Addy so maybe she’s less of a brat every other day.

I don’t think the conversation of kaden should have been left in the video that’s tacky and it’s a private moment. But I like my children being able to talk to me whenever they go anywhere so I can agree with taking the iPads over there.

But like let’s not all defend drake because Jessica is a hot mess he’s just as guilty he knew what makes kids and he continued to have sex with her and make those kids. And then once again choose to abandon them when he left their mom 9 months pregnant real winner he is!


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[emma101]

I wasn't spinning anything. If anyone gets to spin things its Jess because She can share what she wants. Just like she has lied they don't see Drake, didn't know who Arabella was. She had to finally admit last year they had been going over there thanks to his gf making her ig public and Natalie saying that Arabella always talks about them and does see them. So its not like overnight it was "your going to this new house, good luck".. I think Drake is crap and should have fought for his kids absolutely. I still don't think this should have been recorded. Also I still think the Drake vs dad thing is Jess 100%. There have been times when he would come to games and the boys called him dad, that video about babies with the pauses he is trying to call drake dad.

What's his girlfriend's insta?

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[sondraK]

I think Drake’s request for her to drop the child support was a real grown up adult thing to do. It must have taken balls for him to do so. It means he can get his licence back (his licence was suspended for back dated overdue child support) and get a better paid job. He has realised that he obviously needs his licence (like doh) to have transport to a job. He can be a more reliable employee and father.

For me if i was in that situation id want my kids going over to his house more often and like she said, know he has money for food and a roof over their heads. $100/fortnight isnt going to make a difference to her budget, she claims she puts whatever she actually gets into an account for the boys for later on. $100 a fortnight could go towards filling his pantry for a weekend visit.

The phone call, he sounded grown up and mature. He actually sounds like he is trying to get his life in order. he was rushed into having to grow up when she spat out a bunch of kids, he rebelled, she was an absolute nightmare to deal with, still probably is, id have issues dealing with her as well. Hes doing the best he can.

I agree. I think also that people will just spin this to fit their narrative of Jessica but if you can see Drake has changed, why cant Jess? She will always be loud and obnoxious but she has a very good case as to why Drake shouldnt see the boys so he has no leverage to "push back" on. Hell he cant even black mail her that he will make a video as he has already done that. If this was the first time the boys had been in awhile with new gf and her kids it is understandable they are out of their comfort zone. Kaden and his brothers have been at home for the past few months, isnt there talk of Kaden being on the spectrum? All those things add to him being anxious etc and calling his mom. I'm sure after awhile of being around Drake he will get more comfortable.

I think she said it's Landen she thinks is on the spectrum.I don't see it but I don't think he's been tested,so who knows

[MiloandMax1]

I thought a few years ago there was talk of Kaden being on the spectrum but she asked her mom and they decided he's not so she didn't ask anyone else. She thinks Landen is because he struggled with kindergarten after being in preschool it was a huge change.

[sondraK]

The boys are going to be coming up on the age where they can decide for themselves if they want to visit or not.Nothing legal to it,but I bet kaden will be the first to bail.He seems to have a problem getting along w others,esp. when things don't go his way.jess's mini me for sure

[ReyRey61]

Oh God, no. Please, no more babies. Nothing against large families, but this is Messs I’m talking about.

[ReyRey61]

No, no, no!

[storeynyx]

I thought a few years ago there was talk of Kaden being on the spectrum but she asked her mom and they decided he's not so she didn't ask anyone else. She thinks Landen is because he struggled with kindergarten after being in preschool it was a huge change.

It was thought for a long time that Kaden might be on the autism spectrum. Even when he was a baby, he did things like lining up all his toy trucks instead of playing with them. Jessica says she’s had a doctor look at it and they’re not concerned, but I think the kid could do with a psychologist regardless.

As for Landen, she thinks he has ADHD, because it “runs in the family”. I’m not sure who she’s referring to though.


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[MiloandMax1]

I have to give it to Chris for not giving in to a reversal. Baby daddy #4 it is.

[nachomama]

Why not take drake off child support after one year of consistent visits and overnights?

Because things have been so rocky completely taking him off then videotaping the aftermath is a recipe for disaster. Tempers are going to flair again and those kids will be stuck in the middle.

I say that as a mom who can’t coparent because of endless drama. Jessss, slow down.

[nachomama]

Double post

[nachomama]

Kaden is a bratty little mofo used to always getting his way and manipulating. This will do him good.

It’s been easy for drake to let the child support pile up but he would have also lost his stimulus. I bet that’s what prompted him to manipulate Jess into dropping the whole case. This is Jess she ONLY did this so she can gain views, keep her desire for that D, and appear to me supportive.

100% the stimulus check prompted this change of heart. Plus it’s only a matter of time before drake and Jess start boning again.

[pennyajdg]

My thoughts on the last video: Jess is forever a manipulator. That video should not be on the internet
And Kaden is a whiny brat. Does she ever wonder how Caden and Tommy's mom feels about her sons interacting with her bunch of wild children? no, because she is self-centered as hell. She honestly makes me want to vomit

[sarahB29]

I wasn't spinning anything. If anyone gets to spin things its Jess because She can share what she wants. Just like she has lied they don't see Drake, didn't know who Arabella was. She had to finally admit last year they had been going over there thanks to his gf making her ig public and Natalie saying that Arabella always talks about them and does see them. So its not like overnight it was "your going to this new house, good luck".. I think Drake is crap and should have fought for his kids absolutely. I still don't think this should have been recorded. Also I still think the Drake vs dad thing is Jess 100%. There have been times when he would come to games and the boys called him dad, that video about babies with the pauses he is trying to call drake dad.

What's his girlfriend's insta?

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I think it’s Stephanie Faulk but she’s been private for a while . She went public over a year ago and there was multiple pictures of the boys on there which caused a huge issue and she went private again. So we know they’ve been having the boys a couple times a months for at least over a year .

[sezzajaydee]

The way Messss spun it sounded like he had a new girlfriend that wasn’t Stephanie. The kids have shared holidays with Stephanie and her kids. She’s been around for well over a year now. I wouldn’t call it a new situation.

I remember the whole Kaden thing. A teacher mentioned he may have some “issues” and suggested he see someone. Messss decided against because her and Mimi didn’t think he was. Never mind neither of them were in his class all day every day. At the very least he needs speech therapy. I think most, if not all, of us can agree on that.