Hayleeandfamily: Messy Divorce, New Baby Daddy Remorse | Part #5
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Didn't Dan just become a cop? Great timing on that one if so. I know he was at least working on becoming one and then someone here had said something about him starting a new job.
I'm glad she left him if she actually did and doesn't go back. That day when she was ranting, at the end it seemed like she was back tracking and making excuses for him, like "I know he really does try though!". To me, if your partner has to TRY and struggle to force themselves to love your child and treat them properly, then they aren't the one and shouldn't even be an option.
It sucks that another wrong guy was brought into Hazzel's life and home in the first place, even if she never called him dad, he entered her family and his presence obviously affected her a lot. You could tell in some of Haylee's lives that it seemed like Hazzel's relationship with him was weird and strained. But also if he was not her dad then technically why do his parents need to be her grandparents? That's all complicated and confusing, boundaries should have been set from the start.
This will be Haylee's third chance to go start her own life with her child (now children) without some toxic man. I'm rooting for her but am not holding my breath.
I'm glad she left him if she actually did and doesn't go back. That day when she was ranting, at the end it seemed like she was back tracking and making excuses for him, like "I know he really does try though!". To me, if your partner has to TRY and struggle to force themselves to love your child and treat them properly, then they aren't the one and shouldn't even be an option.
It sucks that another wrong guy was brought into Hazzel's life and home in the first place, even if she never called him dad, he entered her family and his presence obviously affected her a lot. You could tell in some of Haylee's lives that it seemed like Hazzel's relationship with him was weird and strained. But also if he was not her dad then technically why do his parents need to be her grandparents? That's all complicated and confusing, boundaries should have been set from the start.
This will be Haylee's third chance to go start her own life with her child (now children) without some toxic man. I'm rooting for her but am not holding my breath.
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I really like Haylee above all other YouTube moms. BUT this is trying my patience. I understand not sharing details about personal life but the way she is playing this is way too irritating. First of all don't share every thing that has happened between your partner and you, then don't do half assed vidoes which are totally pointless.
She said she won't do an update video, fair enough but then she made that 'peacefully co-exist' comment but still has Dustin and Dann on her insta and now she goes on deleting her single photo from insta and her latest video has no mention from either dann and his son!
She is confusing as hell
I feel like she patched things up with Dann and deleted the photo from her insta on which she had made the comment about co-existing till lease is up and is now just waiting for this to blow over and people to forget about tjis episode. Which again is fine, her life, she gets to decide what she wants to do but there are kids involved and both Hazzel and Dustin are old enough to understand something is wrong. Especially Hazzel who has seen so much instability in her life.
She said she won't do an update video, fair enough but then she made that 'peacefully co-exist' comment but still has Dustin and Dann on her insta and now she goes on deleting her single photo from insta and her latest video has no mention from either dann and his son!
She is confusing as hell
I feel like she patched things up with Dann and deleted the photo from her insta on which she had made the comment about co-existing till lease is up and is now just waiting for this to blow over and people to forget about tjis episode. Which again is fine, her life, she gets to decide what she wants to do but there are kids involved and both Hazzel and Dustin are old enough to understand something is wrong. Especially Hazzel who has seen so much instability in her life.
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She also claimed she was going to stop doing YouTube to hide the fact that she was pregnant with Sterling, then came back because she knew she could bring in money from pregnancy videos. Once she's hard-up for cash she'll make a tell-all video. Money talks.GimmedoughnitsIneed wrote: ↑Thu Jun 04, 2020 12:15 pm She said she won't do an update video, fair enough but then she made that 'peacefully co-exist' comment but still has Dustin and Dann on her insta and now she goes on deleting her single photo from insta and her latest video has no mention from either dann and his son!
She is confusing as hell
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I am confused by today's vlog... to me, Dann seemed to have paid attention to Hazzel at her birthday, he even went out and got her a bike from the last video, of what I could tell.. it sounded as if he picked it out. So, then why can't he act like that all the time? It makes me so sad for Hazzel.. she doesn't deserve to be put in these situations, nor does Dustin and now Sterling.
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I wonder why Hazzel started being more difficult at age 6 when she lost her former dad and especially at 7 when Haylee really flipped her world upside down.
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Wait until Hazzel is a teenager. That’s when the real fun begins. I’m very close with my teen, but there are days when I feel like we are both losing our minds.
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She made an "adult" tik tok to post about her kinks and stuff. She answered a question about Dannnnn possibly being on there so maybe they are working things out?
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Hopefully she's not just staying with him, because she doesn't wanna be alone.. or has no money to be on her own with 2 kids.
And, I would be embarrassed as heck, to be her kid... you know someday, Hazzel will be in a class with a kid who follows Haylee, and knows all her "kinks" and she is going to be picked on or bullied. Haylee doesn't think about anything but herself, she doesn't think about repercussions to her actions, or how anything will affect her kids.
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He probably knew he was being filmed. who would actually act like such a douchebag when they knew they were being filmed?ThisIsMeCeej wrote:I am confused by today's vlog... to me, Dann seemed to have paid attention to Hazzel at her birthday, he even went out and got her a bike from the last video, of what I could tell.. it sounded as if he picked it out. So, then why can't he act like that all the time? It makes me so sad for Hazzel.. she doesn't deserve to be put in these situations, nor does Dustin and now Sterling.
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So she’s fine and accepting of the fact that he doesn’t accept her daughter and his family doesn’t either. Ahh. Mother of the year award!sssabrina wrote:She made an "adult" tik tok to post about her kinks and stuff. She answered a question about Dannnnn possibly being on there so maybe they are working things out?
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She said on her story that they're coexisting and Dan's mom (who "everyone" warned her was crazy) called Hazzel and Sterling brats and was fine not seeing them ever again.
Sad. I mean, Hazzel doesn't have biological ties, but Sterling does. Curious how custody will go. Doing it alone isn't easy, but not dealing with baby-daddy/baby-mama drama is a plus. Don't think Dan will disappear, she's gonna have to share holidays. Which is hard.
Sad. I mean, Hazzel doesn't have biological ties, but Sterling does. Curious how custody will go. Doing it alone isn't easy, but not dealing with baby-daddy/baby-mama drama is a plus. Don't think Dan will disappear, she's gonna have to share holidays. Which is hard.
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And then she was giving advice to someone, telling them not to move on from their divorce too fast. "You can't have a healthy relationship if you don't heal from the past." I mean, she acknowledges that she brought "a lot of baggage" into her and Dann's relationship, but when I watched her before the whole thing happened with Randy, I honestly thought she was smarter than that. Personally, if I was that person and seeing what's going on lately, I would not be asking HER for advice.PissedOutDQ wrote: ↑Tue Jun 16, 2020 6:34 pm She said on her story that they're coexisting and Dan's mom (who "everyone" warned her was crazy) called Hazzel and Sterling brats and was fine not seeing them ever again.
Sad. I mean, Hazzel doesn't have biological ties, but Sterling does. Curious how custody will go. Doing it alone isn't easy, but not dealing with baby-daddy/baby-mama drama is a plus. Don't think Dan will disappear, she's gonna have to share holidays. Which is hard.
And do we think what she is saying about Dann's mom is true? That none of it is Haylee's fault? Not saying it is, I'm just wondering.
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Haylee puts on a good front like she's this level headed responsible person but she never actually behaves that way behind closed doors. She's just better at hiding what a mess she is than a lot of other teen moms are. She doesn't actually know how to act like a healthy, well adjusted adult because she's never been one.NigheanDonn wrote: ↑Tue Jun 16, 2020 7:56 pm
And then she was giving advice to someone, telling them not to move on from their divorce too fast. "You can't have a healthy relationship if you don't heal from the past." I mean, she acknowledges that she brought "a lot of baggage" into her and Dann's relationship, but when I watched her before the whole thing happened with Randy, I honestly thought she was smarter than that. Personally, if I was that person and seeing what's going on lately, I would not be asking HER for advice.
And do we think what she is saying about Dann's mom is true? That none of it is Haylee's fault? Not saying it is, I'm just wondering.
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Right???NigheanDonn wrote: ↑Tue Jun 16, 2020 7:56 pm
And then she was giving advice to someone, telling them not to move on from their divorce too fast. "You can't have a healthy relationship if you don't heal from the past." I mean, she acknowledges that she brought "a lot of baggage" into her and Dann's relationship, but when I watched her before the whole thing happened with Randy, I honestly thought she was smarter than that. Personally, if I was that person and seeing what's going on lately, I would not be asking HER for advice.
And do we think what she is saying about Dann's mom is true? That none of it is Haylee's fault? Not saying it is, I'm just wondering.
Obviously she's only with Dan because she got pregnant. Otherwise they would've stayed fuckbuddies.
I've met several people like how she described his mom. So... Possible??? But unlikely that's all to the story.
Didn't she and Randy get in physical fights? She is secretly a hothead. She probably said something insulting, and his mom came back with the brat thing.
Unfortunate situation. But it does seem like she tried with Dustin, while Dan did nothing in terms of bonding with the other children.
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I’m honestly so surprised she even acknowledged her baggage.
Do you guys think she regrets her decisions?
Do you guys think she regrets her decisions?
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I haven't followed up with Haylee since she got together, then recently picked up when Sterling was born. Can anyone fill me in on what happened between her and Randy?
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To make a very very long story short, she married him and they were always rumors that things were going on behind closed doors. Things like verbal and mental and physical abuse. then at the end of their relationship everything basically blew up. She said he was cheating, but it really came off like she was cheating. and she went around filming their old house to show how dirty and nasty he was and bad talking to him the whole time. In that same video Haylee had a cast on her arm that everyone thought might be from Randy hurting her in a physical fight but she wouldn't explain it. Later on in a live video supposedly she admitted it was from Randy. Not long after she broke up with Randy She was already with Dann and already pregnant which she had been denying for a long long time and it was clear that the rumors of her cheating were true.someone132 wrote:I haven't followed up with Haylee since she got together, then recently picked up when Sterling was born. Can anyone fill me in on what happened between her and Randy?
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Oh wow...that's crazy that that all happened, and how things eventually turned out.lizpuff2006 wrote:To make a very very long story short, she married him and they were always rumors that things were going on behind closed doors. Things like verbal and mental and physical abuse. then at the end of their relationship everything basically blew up. She said he was cheating, but it really came off like she was cheating. and she went around filming their old house to show how dirty and nasty he was and bad talking to him the whole time. In that same video Haylee had a cast on her arm that everyone thought might be from Randy hurting her in a physical fight but she wouldn't explain it. Later on in a live video supposedly she admitted it was from Randy. Not long after she broke up with Randy She was already with Dann and already pregnant which she had been denying for a long long time and it was clear that the rumors of her cheating were true.someone132 wrote:I haven't followed up with Haylee since she got together, then recently picked up when Sterling was born. Can anyone fill me in on what happened between her and Randy?
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Thank you for filling me in!
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She always said she wanted to live life with no regrets. I think if she doesn't regret her decisions now, she will when Hazzel starts showing signs of being really affected by everything that's happened in her life so far.GossipPeasant wrote: ↑Tue Jun 16, 2020 9:49 pm I’m honestly so surprised she even acknowledged her baggage.
Do you guys think she regrets her decisions?
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In the latest video Dann was helping Hazzel with her hair and I saw few comments saying it is good to see Dann involved.
Why would haylee include that if she is not with Dann anymore? If this is an on camera-off camera situation I wonder how confusing this must be for Hazzel and possibly Dustin.
If Dann's mum called Hazzel and Sterling brats and Dann is still involved in their lives, is it possible that he has finally taken a stand for his partner and step daughter? If that's the case he is really a good man and father figure.
If not, I don't know what Haylee is doing by showing him in a positive light on YouTube and then posting accusations on instagram. It is almost like there are two different versions of her life on Insta and YT
Why would haylee include that if she is not with Dann anymore? If this is an on camera-off camera situation I wonder how confusing this must be for Hazzel and possibly Dustin.
If Dann's mum called Hazzel and Sterling brats and Dann is still involved in their lives, is it possible that he has finally taken a stand for his partner and step daughter? If that's the case he is really a good man and father figure.
If not, I don't know what Haylee is doing by showing him in a positive light on YouTube and then posting accusations on instagram. It is almost like there are two different versions of her life on Insta and YT