Haulnarse wrote: ↑Fri Jun 26, 2020 11:22 pmI think shes trying way to hard to make everything look cherry and great - that it actually looks far worse. He is controlling and demeaning.Kay81494 wrote:Part of me feels bad for her because she has no identity. A lot of that probably has to do with her childhood which she has no control over. But also (and I know this is terrible) but she shouldn’t have had Nolan until she discovered herself after teenage pregnancy. Maybe her and Ean could have worked out. Maybe she would have gone off and done something with her life. Maybe she’d have a STABLE, happy family.
I have known guys like Frank. I think we can all agree at the very least he is very controlling, alpha-male, dominant. (Anyone remember that video with the cream cheese )
I do think it’s a possibility it goes a step further (farther? I never know, sorry I’m illiterate like Britney)
Anyway. Not to give her too much credit but maybe she flies her sister down so much because he’ll be less aggressive with someone else in the house? Just a thought.
I could see if they ever split that he would take HIS kids full-time and make her the every other weekend parent. And shes a doormat so she’d roll over and ask him how high he wants her to jump.
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But FFS with the cleaning and detailing crap. STOP! Its bad. Its summer, ffs. Travel and go make memories with those kids. Nolan especially. Do a travel series of vlogs, packing, choosing destinations, accommodation suitable for kids & large families, take alyslob with you for another adult in a room of kids if you have too. Vlog awesome playgrounds, parks, ice cream shops, bakeries, etc.
Its summer! That doesn’t mean you spent 18 hours a day with your (pregnant) gut out at the local pool.
I feel bad for Ean. If she had just taken time to herself I bet they could have worked it out. He seemed willing to admit his faults and grow. Because he values HIS family.
And even if they hadn’t gotten back together, they’d have a much better coparenting relationship no doubt. But no, little weiner boy has major insecurity issues. For such a “man” he is truly still just a little whiney boy. He is such a loser. That flipping car and all this shit Brit has bought for it could have been money towards Nolan’s life easier/better quality. Oh but that’s right - now that he has Scarlett that’s all he cares about.