Exactly. My baby was an oops baby too, as we were supposed to be done. By the time I got excited and started to wrap my mind around the logistic of another baby, the pandemic was in full swing.madlmadness wrote: ↑Fri Jul 03, 2020 12:07 pmI too got pregnant when the pandemic was on the rise... an oppsie baby for sure because we weren’t trying, and I am absolutely TERRIFIED. I already have a 2 yr old and he’s been stuck at home since March, haven’t taken him out once and I know he’s miserable. I’m so scared about being a new baby into the world with the pandemic still on the rise. I agree with everything you said.. she needs to take a seat and wait!!! and I hope the fertility doctor she will see will tell her the same thing, it’s not wise trying at this moment in time and I would hope a fertility doctor would have the common sense to not allow her to start any sort of treatments during this time. if she really cared about her kids and herself then she would wait and not go out so much during this timeALittleStitious wrote:Ok, rant incoming. But for the love of God, why can't she wait until the pandemic is under some sort of control?! She's young, relatively healthy (and could be more healthy with a few simple lifestyle changes) and already has three kids. She can wait a year or so. I know we can't put our lives on hold forever because of this, but she is in a position where she can put this on hold. I'm pregnant now, got pregnant before the pandemic, like so many others. And I'm so worried and terrified about what the hospitals will be like when I give birth. And terrified of having a newborn, who needs to go to the doctors very frequently, through all of this. She's the epitome of selfish.Sunshineee9 wrote: ↑Fri Jul 03, 2020 7:57 am She has an appointment with the fertility specialist on the 9th
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The best thing for everyone involved would be to NOT have a kid at all, but we all know she'll have one anyway. The LEAST they could do is fucking wait until the pandemic isn't spiraling out of control. Obviously if someone were to get pregnant now or in a few months, there's a chance things will have settled, but we just don't know for sure. I wouldn't fault someone who was older, or has known fertility problems and they know it takes a while to conceive, etc., but we all know that keren doesn't fit any of those criteria where she needs to conceive NOW.
I've been struggling for months with everything this pandemic has taken from me during my pregnancy. I know I'm extremely fortunate to be in a good position overall, as far as being able to stay home and we won't be losing income, but I still stress every time I have to go see the doctor. I still stress over how things will be when I deliver. I still stress over the fact that this is my last baby and I won't even get to shop in a store for her. I still stress over the fact that my older kids have basically lost the chance to do anything fun or special this summer before we add another baby to the family. Fuck keren and her selfish ass.
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And these two aren't even taking precautions. And they're in freaking Florida of all places. Haircuts, eyelashes done, and that's just what they're willing to show us. We all know they're socializing and not showing it.
Guess this explains why they're selling their house. Gotta pay off those taxes they owe and then scrounge up the money for IVF. They must honestly think a baby girl will bring in the cash. And it might, temporarily. But we all know they'll have to put nonnie up somewhere, as they can't kick out the babysitter and not give her somewhere to live. How will she care for their kids with no home? Just when I think these two can't surprise me with their selfishness, they do this.
