The Rader Cult Where No one's an Adult Part 7

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Cat007 wrote: Mon Jul 13, 2020 9:04 pm Sam literally said in today’s video when abram was crying after he broke something; “I wonder when it comes to the time in a boy’s life when you just whip em, teach em to start being tough about things” now I get we were all raised differently.. but cmon.. it’s so obvious how sensitive of a person Abram is, and in my opinion, thats a very good trait for boys to have! Too many men are taught they have to be “tough” all the time or to show no emotion, which can lead to really negative traits as adults...
I just feel Sam is not going to be the best influence on Abram, and it really upsets me because he seems like the sweetest little boy he’s just misunderstood
Agreed. The way they discipline that kid freaks me out so much. The girls are allowed to be sensitive and hurt but they're snapping at him to get his finger out of his mouth, to force himself to have a better attitude. Then Nia whips them all up with a cleaning competition to clean her filthy house with a reward going to the best attitude. Sometimes I forget how young Sam and Nia are, but then they're doing stuff like this and it's like, read a parenting book please? Or just like, do a google search for "disciplining a sensitive child" like, it's not hard??

I mean, imagine Abram growing up to see that his parents put his meltdowns on camera in an attempt to monetize his childhood and make money off his sensitivity, for clicks and views. It's like he was forced into working as a child actor his entire life, only they didn't even make any real money off of it. It's so depressing.
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Cat007 wrote: Mon Jul 13, 2020 9:04 pm Sam literally said in today’s video when abram was crying after he broke something; “I wonder when it comes to the time in a boy’s life when you just whip em, teach em to start being tough about things” now I get we were all raised differently.. but cmon.. it’s so obvious how sensitive of a person Abram is, and in my opinion, thats a very good trait for boys to have! Too many men are taught they have to be “tough” all the time or to show no emotion, which can lead to really negative traits as adults...
I just feel Sam is not going to be the best influence on Abram, and it really upsets me because he seems like the sweetest little boy he’s just misunderstood


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Abram is sensitive by nature but he also has some super aggressive tendencies which probably comes from Sam. One video they were filming a meltdown of his and he said something like "I'll let my fists do the talking." That kid is a disaster waiting to happen and they need to figure out this whole parenting thing fast or else when Nia gets bored of homeschooling and sends them back to school they wont be able to cope in the real world. Symphony is so overly sensitive and emotional, like a mini Nia who will feel like her only worth is trying to look cute finding a man to take care of. Juliet is turning into a little hot head too. They're a mess.
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Sparklehorse1 wrote: Tue Jul 14, 2020 7:46 am
Cat007 wrote: Mon Jul 13, 2020 9:04 pm Sam literally said in today’s video when abram was crying after he broke something; “I wonder when it comes to the time in a boy’s life when you just whip em, teach em to start being tough about things” now I get we were all raised differently.. but cmon.. it’s so obvious how sensitive of a person Abram is, and in my opinion, thats a very good trait for boys to have! Too many men are taught they have to be “tough” all the time or to show no emotion, which can lead to really negative traits as adults...
I just feel Sam is not going to be the best influence on Abram, and it really upsets me because he seems like the sweetest little boy he’s just misunderstood


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Abram is sensitive by nature but he also has some super aggressive tendencies which probably comes from Sam. One video they were filming a meltdown of his and he said something like "I'll let my fists do the talking." That kid is a disaster waiting to happen and they need to figure out this whole parenting thing fast or else when Nia gets bored of homeschooling and sends them back to school they wont be able to cope in the real world. Symphony is so overly sensitive and emotional, like a mini Nia who will feel like her only worth is trying to look cute finding a man to take care of. Juliet is turning into a little hot head too. They're a mess.
Yeah the aggression is concerning. It's so frustrating to watch! They don't seem to care much about the anger problems because "boys will be boys," but god forbid their son cries or shows too much emotion :roll:
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Yeah the aggression is concerning. It's so frustrating to watch! They don't seem to care much about the anger problems because "boys will be boys," but god forbid their son cries or shows too much emotion :roll:
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I thought he was going to kick a hole in the wall, or the fridge. He sure gets mad quickly and I don't think Nia or Sam were helping at all while they were playing the "cleaning game".

I can't wait to see Nia help the older daughter with her math this Fall. Nia operates at about a first grade level, so home schooling will be interesting to watch.
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From the look of the homeschooling package Nia received.......she is much more interested in the biblical teachings, than the math, english, history etc. I am sure that evolution will not be taught in her home. I think that she will be over the homeschooling very soon, having the kids home all day long will put Nia over the edge, and you know that Sam is not going to help at all, I mean he can not even get up in the morning.

Yes, Abram is going to be a handful as he gets older if they don't nip his temper in the bud, laughing when he is having a fit is not helping at all. He is just following in his fathers footsteps.

Nia better hope that Sam finds a new project to get into, cause idle hands and lead to looking elsewhere.........cheating.
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LOL homeschooling three kids is like taking on a third, fourth and fifth full time job (after vlogging and oils) FOR FREE. The public school system is designed to help take a load off of parents and help them work. I don't know if they're looking around them in any way, but we're heading into a financial recession that's going to make the great depression look like a party. These two need to be going back to school for THEMSELVES and looking for ways to support this huge family, and not screwing around with a demonetized channel and a full-time job of free work in the form of home schooling. I mean, this stuff is gonna get serious. How much denial can they be in?
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In today's vlog:
2 Abram meltdowns!
Sam defends the constant click bait by saying they need more fans.
They are dumb enough to go to a buffet and then play in the arcade while Nia sticks her hands in her mouth.
Sam painted a picture but they made it about themselves and how great they are while Nia stuck her head in the camera to make sure everyone is focused on her.
I almost think that one of the reasons they decided to homeschool (besides wanting to sleep in) is Abram is so aggressive and they are afraid to stick him with other kids and risk him constantly getting in trouble and suspended.
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Wow, Abram's really learning that he can get attention by melting down. He's never gonna stop it now!
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The fact that one of Nia’s “must haves” for her homeschool curriculum was that it had to look cute is a little…hmm. Don’t get me wrong, children kind of need to have things that are pleasant to look at, but Nia seemed to need that for herself. At the end of the day, the focus should really be on the importance of the actual curriculum rather than anything else. I get how important their faith supposedly is to them too, but I really don’t think the kids are going to get what they need in regards to proper teaching.

I guess if they homeschool, they can just continue to show their kid’s constant emotional meltdowns though, right?
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Nia's going to do a whole vlog on her *cute* organized homeschool room, which will never look good again. She'll soon realize once she is completely in charge of her children's education that she is way over her head. With Sam not having the cabin anymore, he will soon find something else to get him out of the house and when he is in the house he'll be sleeping in till noon. Abram is out of control with his constant almost violent meltdowns, Juliet is not far behind that in her behavior, they'll need to nip that in the bud (yeah right, that will actually require parenting) and Symphony seems like she has the worst of Sam and Nia with being emotional and having highs and lows. She also has the maturity of a 5 year old. The LOL party masks were tiny because they are for a toddler party guys. It's such a toxic household with Nia desperately trying to make herself be a supermom. No one envy's you or wants your advice. Get some help.
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Super Spreader Raders at it again. First the piano teacher breathes all into their car, then they go hang out at Nia’s friend’s house, then unmasked into CVS, then bring all that over to Bebo! It’s unreal.

Sam has PLENTY to do around their main house, he doesn’t need a new creative useless project. Most of the doors don’t have trim around them, the painting is unfinished, the yard is a perpetual wreck.


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Birdie89 wrote: Fri Jul 17, 2020 12:53 pm Super Spreader Raders at it again. First the piano teacher breathes all into their car, then they go hang out at Nia’s friend’s house, then unmasked into CVS, then bring all that over to Bebo! It’s unreal.

Sam has PLENTY to do around their main house, he doesn’t need a new creative useless project. Most of the doors don’t have trim around them, the painting is unfinished, the yard is a perpetual wreck.


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Exactly, how about instead of paying a lawn guy, you buy a lawn mower and do it yourself. But in true Sam fashion he'll probably buy the most expensive mower, (or find one at a yard sale, there is no in between) and run over one of the kids toys and break the mower the first day, never to mow again.

Apparently they have a cleaning lady yet their house is always gross, and they have a lawn guy yet their yard is always a wreck.
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I am so behind on videos but I just watched the last day at the cabin and I had to laugh at one of Sam's major challenges being stopping his work on the cabin to go home and see his family and help out at home. What a catch! And how he would get depressed for 2-3 days after coming home. Doesn't this tell you anything Nia? When she is gone for a few days she can't wait to get home and see Sam and the kids and for him it is an absolute nightmare. Tension in their marriage because Nia was interrupting his project. The home they are living in isn't even finished. Why does he not put his effort into that? Probably because it doesn't take him away from his "interruptions" for days at a time.
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Nia on July 9th...#wearamask #socialdistance #covidbirthday #2020

Nia on July 19th...Party with 23 people

Idiots :x
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They are the absolute worst. Let's pretend a pandemic isn't happening and celebrate Sam's mediocre cabin. When healthcare workers are risking their lives everyday working long shifts Sam (a former nurse) is showing exactly how not to act during a pandemic. Instead of going back to work, or offering any sane healthcare advice he complains about being tired, being bored, sleeping till noon. They've reached a new low.
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I just checked in on these guys, and wow. I watched some of the cabin videos just to get a feel for their business, and I am surprised they keep so many of their fights on camera. At the end of one vlog, Sam mentions Nia is mad at him because he went off without telling her. In a different vlog, Nia is mad at Sam because he sent unprofessional emails and burned some bridges when he shouldn't have. Sam continues to amaze me with his inability to take any responsibility for his actions.

Don't even get me started on Nia homeschooling her children. I might start following regularly again just to see what a hot mess that is going to be. Even real schoolteachers don't know what the heck to do this school year.
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usernamessuck wrote: Sat Jul 25, 2020 10:31 am I just checked in on these guys, and wow. I watched some of the cabin videos just to get a feel for their business, and I am surprised they keep so many of their fights on camera. At the end of one vlog, Sam mentions Nia is mad at him because he went off without telling her. In a different vlog, Nia is mad at Sam because he sent unprofessional emails and burned some bridges when he shouldn't have. Sam continues to amaze me with his inability to take any responsibility for his actions.

Don't even get me started on Nia homeschooling her children. I might start following regularly again just to see what a hot mess that is going to be. Even real schoolteachers don't know what the heck to do this school year.
Nothing good is going to happen with Nia homeschooling and Sam sitting at home with nothing to do. Sam is manic and not emotionally stable. Nia tries to act all bubbly, but you know she's pissed at how Sam is acting.

Oh, and Nia, you don't have to start every damn vlog saying how this day is "so exciting" and you have "surprises" for the vlog....haha...NOTHING is exciting in your life, Nia. No everyone jumps for joy because they got mail for the PO, or their laundry is now all complete....give the cheerleading behavior a break!!

I watch all their vlogs here so they don't get any views. You can tell that they are buying views again. ALL their vlogs have almost identical number of views....so transparent! Watch here for no views: https://invidio.us/channel/UCAq9s3QQVCDMvg1iWQBVtxQ
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Oh, she's definitely getting cash to promote the kids' homeschooling curriculum look at those posts on IG. Someone should report her to the FCC!
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So instead of simply calling or emailing the rental company and letting them know that the washing machine, private entrance and carbon monoxide filters need to be checked, Sam sends them a nasty email telling them they are going with another choice. The first company rejects them hahaha. Maybe next time think twice before you go badmouthing companies on Youtube and ripping up contracts in your videos. I think the issue with the new company was definitely due to Sam's issues with properly communicating rather than an error on their part. Yes, there may be multiple rental companies, but if you are going to act like total asses to everyone, word is going to get around and nobody is going to want to work with someone so difficult.

On another note, get off your ass and mow your grass! You talk about finances being tight, so go buy a used $50 mower and do at least one thing in your day. Maybe the headaches are caused by sleeping until noon and sitting around all day doing absolutely nothing but stare at a tv and play video games. I cannot believe 2 people who do not work (and complain about money!) hire people to come clean their houses, delivery their groceries, mow their lawns, teach their kids to swim, etc.
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I turned off the cabin celebration video, it’s just too much. All those people crammed in there, they are just proud to be ignorant and selfish, and even with how small their platform has become it’s so irresponsible to be putting it out there. The freaking governor of Oklahoma got Covid, do they think they are immune??

Also, the amount of constant validation and celebration Sam requires is sickening. How much more fawning is nia going to arrange for him over this cabin? I think she heaps attention and praise on him because he makes very clear he’s bored and restless, and she doesn’t want his eye to go wandering again.


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