Phil and Alex: Struggling With Maternity After Laboring For Eternity | Part 10

[LucyLucyAppleJuicy]

I don’t watch them as I said in comments earlier. I’m just a birthmom who know who they are since everyone talks about them in adoption groups. But I check their instagrams out on occasion and I don’t know why but Phil reminds me of Tyson Gardner is how he talks.

I can’t help this guy has some secret he is hiding. An I the only one who gets that vibe?

I get the sense that when they're camera, they are on their best behaviour. I don't think things are peaceful in their home

I agree, the girls reaction to Alex’s ‘playing’ recently was very telling

[LucyLucyAppleJuicy]

I don’t watch them as I said in comments earlier. I’m just a birthmom who know who they are since everyone talks about them in adoption groups. But I check their instagrams out on occasion and I don’t know why but Phil reminds me of Tyson Gardner is how he talks.

I can’t help this guy has some secret he is hiding. An I the only one who gets that vibe?

I get the sense that when they're camera, they are on their best behaviour. I don't think things are peaceful in their home

[HarleyHeart]

I don’t watch them as I said in comments earlier. I’m just a birthmom who know who they are since everyone talks about them in adoption groups. But I check their instagrams out on occasion and I don’t know why but Phil reminds me of Tyson Gardner is how he talks.

I can’t help this guy has some secret he is hiding. An I the only one who gets that vibe?

I get the sense that when they're camera, they are on their best behaviour. I don't think things are peaceful in their home

I agree, the girls reaction to Alex’s ‘playing’ recently was very telling

I think I must have missed that. What happened and how did the girls react to Alex playing?

[Maite5]

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Whyyyyyyyyyyyy??????


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[Mousegirl913]

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Whyyyyyyyyyyyy??????


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welp...the image is there for her to see when she gets older :/ why wouldn't you clean your baby first and THEN post the picture about the ad? I don't understand people....

also. how was Alex playing? I missed that

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[wonderwall99]

Im so fucking livid at that photo. She used a photo of her poor sweet daughter COVERED in her vomit for a FUCKING SPONSORED POST.

These people claim their faithful and people of God but then they do bullshit like that. Ruthless assholes who use their kids for clout, money and to be admired by strangers on the internet.


Disgusting

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[TopazBlues]

That photo is so disgustingly dehumanizing. What kind of parent would force their child to sit there in spit up so they could take a picture to make money off of them spitting up on themselves? So trashy. That poor little baby. She has spit up soaking her outfit and on her face. CLEAN YOUR BABY! How about take a photo of your baby actually clean? And then say she spit up and you cleaned her off with the wipes? But even then, make your own damn money. Stop making your child make money for you. Jerks. THIS is the kind of thing that really pissed me off. I hate seeing babies uncomfortable.

[RiverRose]

I'm telling you guys, she does this stuff on purpose so people will comment and engage and get her numbers up.

She knows that people will call her out, and then her supporters will jump in and defend her and they'll go back and forth, racking up the comments.

[Elliecat]

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Fuck. That. Shit.

Poor little girl is just a plaything now then. She has no rights because Alex owns her. I’m so sad for her.


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[Elliecat]

Also... I thought they were trying to live in a sustainable way????? So why have a paid partnership with this vile company? Use cheeky wipes or muslinz (reusable wipes).

I’m so over this family.

[spicy_dreams]

Somebody correct me if I'm wrong, I was half distracted when watching it. But either Phil or Alex posted stories of Alex "playing" with the girls, she was chasing one of them down the hall and found the other in the closet. At first it was half obvious she was playing, at least physically. Like she was roughhousing kinda. But her voice was like, deep and angry and yelling? But not like "roaaarrr I'm a monster I'm gonna get you!" Yelling, like she didn't know how you're supposed to do this and it was really weird.

BUT then when she found whichever girl it was, in the closet, she was saying stuff and pointing her finger but you literally couldn't tell if she was angry and telling her off, or if she was still playing. It looked like the kid couldn't tell the difference either. Super weird, super confusing.

As for the photo of Cassidy and the vomit. That's so fucking weird I hate it. Who stops to take a photo in that situation, regardless of sponsorship that may or may not exist. But not only that, she was on her way to a doctor's appointment and was rushing to get Cassidy cleaned up. Why not just stop the car, clean/change her asap and get back on the road?!? Why even THINK about grabbing your phone and taking a photo while your precious daughter is sitting there uncomfortable, wet, and sitting in smelly puke covered clothes, strapped down. That has to be fucking awful. Those poor kids. Just because Cassidy is a baby doesn't mean she won't be affected by these situations.

Lastly about Phil. Y'all mentioned you get the vibe he's got a secret. I apologize if this is way out of line, but does anybody get gay vibes? I know we shouldn't speculate on sexuality etc etc. And I don't mean to suggest he's not into woman, he def has a major pregnancy fetish. But I think he could be bi or something. I just wonder what his life would be like if he hadn't been born into this majorly religious lifestyle. He gives off crazy strong gay bear vibes sometimes.

[RiverRose]

Somebody correct me if I'm wrong, I was half distracted when watching it. But either Phil or Alex posted stories of Alex "playing" with the girls, she was chasing one of them down the hall and found the other in the closet. At first it was half obvious she was playing, at least physically. Like she was roughhousing kinda. But her voice was like, deep and angry and yelling? But not like "roaaarrr I'm a monster I'm gonna get you!" Yelling, like she didn't know how you're supposed to do this and it was really weird.

BUT then when she found whichever girl it was, in the closet, she was saying stuff and pointing her finger but you literally couldn't tell if she was angry and telling her off, or if she was still playing. It looked like the kid couldn't tell the difference either. Super weird, super confusing.

As for the photo of Cassidy and the vomit. That's so fucking weird I hate it. Who stops to take a photo in that situation, regardless of sponsorship that may or may not exist. But not only that, she was on her way to a doctor's appointment and was rushing to get Cassidy cleaned up. Why not just stop the car, clean/change her asap and get back on the road?!? Why even THINK about grabbing your phone and taking a photo while your precious daughter is sitting there uncomfortable, wet, and sitting in smelly puke covered clothes, strapped down. That has to be fucking awful. Those poor kids. Just because Cassidy is a baby doesn't mean she won't be affected by these situations.

Lastly about Phil. Y'all mentioned you get the vibe he's got a secret. I apologize if this is way out of line, but does anybody get gay vibes? I know we shouldn't speculate on sexuality etc etc. And I don't mean to suggest he's not into woman, he def has a major pregnancy fetish. But I think he could be bi or something. I just wonder what his life would be like if he hadn't been born into this majorly religious lifestyle. He gives off crazy strong gay bear vibes sometimes.

I don't really want to go there, so I'll just say I see what you mean.

[discretechristine]

Okay my jaw hit the floor when I saw this photo!! Poor baby! Should have posted an after she was cleaned up pic too to “show the power of the wipes!” I know most babies spit up but that’s a nasty pic to have in a sponsorship!
It doesn’t seem like they are in a car for this, the angle of the pic, the lighting. Plus what is that beside her? I guess it it could be on the seat beside her. It’s very unsafe to have objects no secured down in a car with child passengers. Even her seatbelt looks so loose! Baby can become a projectile in the case of an accident! Very unsafe!

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[LucyLucyAppleJuicy]

Somebody correct me if I'm wrong, I was half distracted when watching it. But either Phil or Alex posted stories of Alex "playing" with the girls, she was chasing one of them down the hall and found the other in the closet. At first it was half obvious she was playing, at least physically. Like she was roughhousing kinda. But her voice was like, deep and angry and yelling? But not like "roaaarrr I'm a monster I'm gonna get you!" Yelling, like she didn't know how you're supposed to do this and it was really weird.

BUT then when she found whichever girl it was, in the closet, she was saying stuff and pointing her finger but you literally couldn't tell if she was angry and telling her off, or if she was still playing. It looked like the kid couldn't tell the difference either. Super weird, super confusing.

As for the photo of Cassidy and the vomit. That's so fucking weird I hate it. Who stops to take a photo in that situation, regardless of sponsorship that may or may not exist. But not only that, she was on her way to a doctor's appointment and was rushing to get Cassidy cleaned up. Why not just stop the car, clean/change her asap and get back on the road?!? Why even THINK about grabbing your phone and taking a photo while your precious daughter is sitting there uncomfortable, wet, and sitting in smelly puke covered clothes, strapped down. That has to be fucking awful. Those poor kids. Just because Cassidy is a baby doesn't mean she won't be affected by these situations.

Lastly about Phil. Y'all mentioned you get the vibe he's got a secret. I apologize if this is way out of line, but does anybody get gay vibes? I know we shouldn't speculate on sexuality etc etc. And I don't mean to suggest he's not into woman, he def has a major pregnancy fetish. But I think he could be bi or something. I just wonder what his life would be like if he hadn't been born into this majorly religious lifestyle. He gives off crazy strong gay bear vibes sometimes.

Sorry for posting and running, yes this was what I was referring to. The girls looked quite frightened, like ‘oh god, why is she shouting at us this time, what have we done wrong’.

Re Phil, yes, I’ve had ‘so far in the closet nearly in Narnia’ vibes from him for years. Obviously not saying that’s wrong, just was possibly a bad idea to marry a woman is all!

[spicy_dreams]

Somebody correct me if I'm wrong, I was half distracted when watching it. But either Phil or Alex posted stories of Alex "playing" with the girls, she was chasing one of them down the hall and found the other in the closet. At first it was half obvious she was playing, at least physically. Like she was roughhousing kinda. But her voice was like, deep and angry and yelling? But not like "roaaarrr I'm a monster I'm gonna get you!" Yelling, like she didn't know how you're supposed to do this and it was really weird.

BUT then when she found whichever girl it was, in the closet, she was saying stuff and pointing her finger but you literally couldn't tell if she was angry and telling her off, or if she was still playing. It looked like the kid couldn't tell the difference either. Super weird, super confusing.

As for the photo of Cassidy and the vomit. That's so fucking weird I hate it. Who stops to take a photo in that situation, regardless of sponsorship that may or may not exist. But not only that, she was on her way to a doctor's appointment and was rushing to get Cassidy cleaned up. Why not just stop the car, clean/change her asap and get back on the road?!? Why even THINK about grabbing your phone and taking a photo while your precious daughter is sitting there uncomfortable, wet, and sitting in smelly puke covered clothes, strapped down. That has to be fucking awful. Those poor kids. Just because Cassidy is a baby doesn't mean she won't be affected by these situations.

Lastly about Phil. Y'all mentioned you get the vibe he's got a secret. I apologize if this is way out of line, but does anybody get gay vibes? I know we shouldn't speculate on sexuality etc etc. And I don't mean to suggest he's not into woman, he def has a major pregnancy fetish. But I think he could be bi or something. I just wonder what his life would be like if he hadn't been born into this majorly religious lifestyle. He gives off crazy strong gay bear vibes sometimes.

Sorry for posting and running, yes this was what I was referring to. The girls looked quite frightened, like ‘oh god, why is she shouting at us this time, what have we done wrong’.

Re Phil, yes, I’ve had ‘so far in the closet nearly in Narnia’ vibes from him for years. Obviously not saying that’s wrong, just was possibly a bad idea to marry a woman is all!

Yes agree! Absolutely NOTHING wrong with being queer in any capacity. I really really feel for people who aren't straight and who are raised in environments where they feel they can't be who they really are. It's a fucking bummer. And I'm just 100% speculating about Phil, but I hesitate to even do that. It's a sensitive subject and I don't want to damage anybody by drawing attention to it if that is what's going on. I just hope that if that IS what's going on, Phil finds peace one way or another. I know he really annoys people here sometimes, and he's got his faults, but I still want the best for him. It can't be easy being married to Alex regardless of sexuality.

[Elliecat]

I’ve always suspected Phil might be gay. I suppose if you are brought up fundie and have to pretend to be straight, Alex is the type of woman you’d marry.


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[saltybitters]

I’ve always suspected Phil might be gay. I suppose if you are brought up fundie and have to pretend to be straight, Alex is the type of woman you’d marry.


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Actually, with the whole pregnancy fetish thing and my extremely refined queer-dar from being out of the closet for the last decade...Phil seems like he would be trans in a different, less fundie lifetime.

[boredonthekeyboard]

I haven’t been here in a while, so IDK if this was already covered! The video, “Life With a Newborn: Cassidy’s First Month (flashback),” really bothered me. At 2:00 into the video, Alex starts going on and on about her “bump,” first with Phil and then by herself in the bathroom mirror. She goes on and on about how cute she thinks her little tummy is and how she is so sad to not be pregnant anymore because she loved having a belly. It really made me double down on my belief that she really just wanted to be pregnant, not have another child to raise. And the only times she filmed Cassidy being fed were of Alex nursing her. She is obviously so ashamed of bottle feeding... but weirdly she is proud AF about the feeding tube. As a pumping mom, I don’t get it. I really don’t. I’ve been pumping for 13 months, and it’s drawing to an end, and I’m proud of all the hard work I put into it. I’m not embarrassed. I just don’t understand that mindset. Also, I’m a C-section mom and I have to say I didn’t whine or mope around or act like I was dying the way Alex did over a vaginal delivery with minimal tearing. Honestly, that woman. Days in bed over a cold. Weeks in bed after giving birth. What will she do if she catches Covid? Hook herself up to an IV and stay in bed for a month? Just her and Cassidy, keep the two adopted girls away!

[DarthMama]

I haven’t been here in a while, so IDK if this was already covered! The video, “Life With a Newborn: Cassidy’s First Month (flashback),” really bothered me. At 2:00 into the video, Alex starts going on and on about her “bump,” first with Phil and then by herself in the bathroom mirror. She goes on and on about how cute she thinks her little tummy is and how she is so sad to not be pregnant anymore because she loved having a belly. It really made me double down on my belief that she really just wanted to be pregnant, not have another child to raise. And the only times she filmed Cassidy being fed were of Alex nursing her. She is obviously so ashamed of bottle feeding... but weirdly she is proud AF about the feeding tube. As a pumping mom, I don’t get it. I really don’t. I’ve been pumping for 13 months, and it’s drawing to an end, and I’m proud of all the hard work I put into it. I’m not embarrassed. I just don’t understand that mindset. Also, I’m a C-section mom and I have to say I didn’t whine or mope around or act like I was dying the way Alex did over a vaginal delivery with minimal tearing. Honestly, that woman. Days in bed over a cold. Weeks in bed after giving birth. What will she do if she catches Covid? Hook herself up to an IV and stay in bed for a month? Just her and Cassidy, keep the two adopted girls away!

They believe they had covid just after buying the house. There was about 2ish weeks where there was no vlogs. Then came back saying now sick all 4 of them were and they were out for a minimum a week and took a few weeks to get energy back. It's also when Alex was running around town getting things.

[Carol]

I remember when they all got sick. Didn't Alex also mention that she purchased some tylenol for the girls but ended up not using it. She wants the girls immune system to build up. Imagine being that sick that you think you all have covid and not even given the girls something to help ease their discomfort from body aches or to help bring down their fevers. I get it if the girls just had a mild sniffles but this was full flu-like symptoms and she just allowed the girls to ride it out.

Also, I didn't see this mentioned, but Alex posted pics of the girls at the doctor's office for their check-ups a day or so ago on her Instagram. I hope Callie got her hips checked up on.