JesssFam: Favoritism Still Shows, Guest Room Woes (Part 143)

[ReyRey61]

The room looked good, but I just don’t get why she made all the rooms so cold with those grey and white colors. The furniture being white looks weird with the Star Wars theme... all the walls being the same color looks bland.


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Since grey is the new trend, like beige was the last decade or so, she has to go way way overboard with any new trend or fashion. IF she’s still there when the newest colors start peeking out, she will utilize her maniac, shopaholic obsessions, run to the store for gallons of the new color, and make Chris paint for days. What content! (She won’t be able to help bcuz she has hours and hours of editing to do!) Or she will move to their next forever home. Lol.

[MiloandMax1]

I just wanted to add my 2 cents to the whole 'kaden is obsessed with money' thing. Usually when kids are obsessed with money vs like toys, games, candy etc it comes from a place of stress. If you think about it the boys have had a pretty unstable childhood with many people coming and going and money = a measure of security. Plus we know jess makes them act stuff out for yt and i believe the kids are made to act for the channel, it doesn't seem crazy that they may have heard 'we do this to buy nice things/support our family' from chris and jess so there's probably some pressure to 'perform' so that they make enough money to have nice things, trips etc. Kids will internalise that stuff. Plus he comes from a big family where time and attention and probably sometimes personal space is at a premium ( based on his speech i can guess he probably isnt getting most of that attention) and some kids will take comfort in building up a certain amount of a resource or having a collection of something that is just their own. I find it kinda hard to believe that everything with drake has left all of the boys totally unscathed like jess claims so maybe this is his outlet idk.
It totally could just be a character flaw that needs to be discouraged by his parents or there could be other underlying issues.

I don't doubt that she pays them to reenact things, or that they've heard that is how they make money. But he isn't being taught anything either. When her laptop was stolen and when she lost her phone in the sand Kaden was the one that said it in an "oh well we will just buy another one". Where most kids are heartbroken and stressed that their van was broken into and it would scare them. Kaden is just like oh well can buy a new one. Who does that sound like? Jess doesn't make them take care of anything because she has more money than sense. She also doesn't correct his "I want $60" (example) because she says that will make him a businessman or President one day. She thinks its a good trait. When really he should be helping people and not expecting anything in return, including money. Kaden knows exactly what he is doing.

[sondraK]

I just wanted to add my 2 cents to the whole 'kaden is obsessed with money' thing. Usually when kids are obsessed with money vs like toys, games, candy etc it comes from a place of stress. If you think about it the boys have had a pretty unstable childhood with many people coming and going and money = a measure of security. Plus we know jess makes them act stuff out for yt and i believe the kids are made to act for the channel, it doesn't seem crazy that they may have heard 'we do this to buy nice things/support our family' from chris and jess so there's probably some pressure to 'perform' so that they make enough money to have nice things, trips etc. Kids will internalise that stuff. Plus he comes from a big family where time and attention and probably sometimes personal space is at a premium ( based on his speech i can guess he probably isnt getting most of that attention) and some kids will take comfort in building up a certain amount of a resource or having a collection of something that is just their own. I find it kinda hard to believe that everything with drake has left all of the boys totally unscathed like jess claims so maybe this is his outlet idk.
It totally could just be a character flaw that needs to be discouraged by his parents or there could be other underlying issues.

I don't doubt that she pays them to reenact things, or that they've heard that is how they make money. But he isn't being taught anything either. When her laptop was stolen and when she lost her phone in the sand Kaden was the one that said it in an "oh well we will just buy another one". Where most kids are heartbroken and stressed that their van was broken into and it would scare them. Kaden is just like oh well can buy a new one. Who does that sound like? Jess doesn't make them take care of anything because she has more money than sense. She also doesn't correct his "I want $60" (example) because she says that will make him a businessman or President one day. She thinks its a good trait. When really he should be helping people and not expecting anything in return, including money. Kaden knows exactly what he is doing.

I agree,and Jesssss doesn't discourage his behavior,either.We saw how he was all over Landon's bday gifts...no wonder they don't get along.I think Kaden picks on him bc he's younger and vulnerable,and bc he can.And he was greedy grabby over the Easter eggs,even taking one from another's bag.Jesss at that point,stopped the vid.Yes,he knows what he's doing.Landon should have been able to open his gifts in peace,not have his bro all over them.Jmo

[ReyRey61]

I finally brought myself to watch the room “makeover” video. It always amazes me how she’s able to shop with no regard to cost or money. See it, drop it in the cart. It must be nice. She is a shopaholic, big time.

The last two videos, no horrific shorts. I wonder if they finally got their buttons popped from the pressure, or simply disintegrated into oblivion. (Though I’m sure they’ll be back soon.)

[NarcoelpsyMom]

Why wear or enforce helmets as your kids ride scooters and scream at 8:30pm while other families are trying to get their kids quieted down for the night? That would just be silly. Head wounds and other people don’t exist in MessssWorld.

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[ReyRey61]

Why wear or enforce helmets as your kids ride scooters and scream at 8:30pm while other families are trying to get their kids quieted down for the night? That would just be silly. Head wounds and other people don’t exist in MessssWorld.

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I’ll bet they’re quickly become known in the neighborhood as “that family” or “those kids”.

[CottonCandySky]

Why wear or enforce helmets as your kids ride scooters and scream at 8:30pm while other families are trying to get their kids quieted down for the night? That would just be silly. Head wounds and other people don’t exist in MessssWorld.

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I’ll bet they’re quickly become known in the neighborhood as “that family” or “those kids”.

For sure. I live next to “that family” in my street. They only have one kid, but the parents are so incredibly rude and loud, everybody knows who they are.

[Collie]

I watched the three bedroom make over videos and all I could think was where are all the toys, books or any sort of educational stuff? They never seem to get to do any arts and crafts unless she is being sponsored.

Do they really just play on their Ipads if they aren't out riding their bikes or scooters. Which at least they get out and get some exercise.

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[strikeaposie]

Jess: You cannot be on camera without any clothes on.

Also Jess: ::USES THAT FOOTAGE ANYWAY::

[MeredithShepard]

“I wanted to send my kids to school” wow so messs really doesn’t care about covid anymore. It’s fine if she couldn’t be able to keep her kids at home but she literally has enough money to afford childcare. And why did she have so many kids if she can’t handle it when they’re all home

[MiloandMax1]

Jess can't handle 4 kids but was going to school to be a teacher. And this year the twins have same teacher (they must not split twins up like Modesto) so really she has 3 lessons to follow. 2 parents at home. Have Chris help. He was nowhere in this video. I really think she doesn't want his help because he is tougher on the kids, you know actually telling them no.

[Lionking23]

Jess can't handle 4 kids but was going to school to be a teacher. And this year the twins have same teacher (they must not split twins up like Modesto) so really she has 3 lessons to follow. 2 parents at home. Have Chris help. He was nowhere in this video. I really think she doesn't want his help because he is tougher on the kids, you know actually telling them no.

I know in some schools this year they are keeping twins in the same class in case there’s and outbreak with the family or one of the students so only 1 class needs to quarantine


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[Mommamoo]

“I wanted to send my kids to school” wow so messs really doesn’t care about covid anymore. It’s fine if she couldn’t be able to keep her kids at home but she literally has enough money to afford childcare. And why did she have so many kids if she can’t handle it when they’re all home

I mean, good on her for realizing that she can’t handle her kids and didn’t try to full homeschool. Some parents aren’t cut out for homeschooling.


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[MiloandMax1]

“I wanted to send my kids to school” wow so messs really doesn’t care about covid anymore. It’s fine if she couldn’t be able to keep her kids at home but she literally has enough money to afford childcare. And why did she have so many kids if she can’t handle it when they’re all home

I mean, good on her for realizing that she can’t handle her kids and didn’t try to full homeschool. Some parents aren’t cut out for homeschooling.


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So someone that wants to teach other children in a classroom where she would have to do a lesson plan can't even "homeschool" which is being done by an online teacher? Your right she can't handle her own kids.

She doesn't want to homeschool because she wants just her and Chris there during the day. She doesn't want to watch her kids. She wants to go eat out with just Chris. She lied on the vlog saying she edits during the day, odd since shes up until 2,3,4 in the morning on ig stories editing most days.

I feel bad for the parents that work outside the home, the ones that don't have 2 parents to help.

[MiloandMax1]

Kaden looked mad when Chris was taking them to dance. Is it because Chris makes him mind and he knows it?

[ReyRey61]

Poor poor Messs had such a hard day. She was exhausted from the moment she woke up. No Mimi there to do it all. And no Chris either. Boo hoo

Wtf.... Brattilyn with that hideous lipstick on in the bath and even after the bath! Messs made that scene is fast speed.... maybe so viewers wouldn’t notice.

And why was Chris on one of their (of course brand-new) Chromebooks after school was out and the kids were away?!

And then there was the pile of clean laundry on the floor with Mango creeping all over it. Yuck.

[lagenialester]

Per her Instagram looks like the twins’ room is already full of junk again.

[sondraK]

Jess can't handle 4 kids but was going to school to be a teacher. And this year the twins have same teacher (they must not split twins up like Modesto) so really she has 3 lessons to follow. 2 parents at home. Have Chris help. He was nowhere in this video. I really think she doesn't want his help because he is tougher on the kids, you know actually telling them no.

I'm guessing he wasn't up yet.Looks like he left it all to jessss,but yeah,maybe that' the way she wanted it.
It wouldn't hurt Addie to still be learning.Any prep is good.Chris could be working w her on a preschool prog.

[sondraK]

Jess can't handle 4 kids but was going to school to be a teacher. And this year the twins have same teacher (they must not split twins up like Modesto) so really she has 3 lessons to follow. 2 parents at home. Have Chris help. He was nowhere in this video. I really think she doesn't want his help because he is tougher on the kids, you know actually telling them no.

I'm guessing he wasn't up yet.Looks like he left it all to jessss,but yeah,maybe that' the way she wanted it.
It wouldn't hurt Addie to still be learning.Any prep is good.Chris could be working w her on a home preschool prog.

[sondraK]

Jess can't handle 4 kids but was going to school to be a teacher. And this year the twins have same teacher (they must not split twins up like Modesto) so really she has 3 lessons to follow. 2 parents at home. Have Chris help. He was nowhere in this video. I really think she doesn't want his help because he is tougher on the kids, you know actually telling them no.

I'm guessing he wasn't up yet.Looks like he left it all to jessss,but yeah,maybe that' the way she wanted it.
It wouldn't hurt Addie to still be learning.Any prep is good.Chris could be working w her on a home preschool prog.