Viewingsince2010 wrote: ↑Thu Sep 10, 2020 8:33 am
I think chris might leave soon. His breakdown after the boys left showed that it's really starting to bother him. I can't even imagine being in a relationship where you are being controlled 24/7. He has no control over his own self. He is constantly being told what to do, he has absolutely no privacy. He is completely jessicas servant. He is seeing more and more that jess does not care about his son's. She rushed to give them a shitty room. Which I am sure something happened and jess took control, she did end up saying SHE chose the beach theme. Why couldn't they wait and pick something the boys actually wanted. She didn't go when chris took them to the airport. Then as soon as they left they went on "vacation", not the first time that happened. Got that lizard thing, chris probably told her to wait until the boys got back before getting a pet, she probably said its okay just facetime them. She also controls his IG theres no in hell that is him. I believe she responded to someone about the boys bedroom pretending to be him, like how my kids used to text back to someone pretending to be me but it's so obvious. I think he has been emotionally checked out for a long time, but I think he is realizing his kids are growing so fast and he is missing it, and Jess doesn't give a fuck, they are not really included in her family. Wonder how much more he can take. One day he will realize money isn't everything and I think its coming really soon. He is probably holding out because of Addie.
I do think he is depressed and after the boys left was seen less and less in vlogs. Having to help with the twins bedroom had to hurt after his boys cried over theirs (and didn't seem to be in a happy/overwhelmed way) not to mention they didn't get the led lights that they wanted but the twins did. How does he not see this?
But Chris didn't have to quit his job, although I can't imagine being tracked all day like Jess admitted to doing saying he was ok with it (doesn't make it less weird). Chris also moved away from his boys before Jess so I don't blame her for him not being able to spend more time however as a mom herself and a wife I don't know why she doesn't encourage him to do one on one with them. She only uses them for the 7 kids clickbait/attention.
Chris has went downhill since his dad passed. Maybe for a bit Addie having been a newborn when he passed kept his mind off of it. But Jess being so happy rainbows and sunshine dealing with losing whom he said was his best friend has to be hard still to this day. Why couldn't she do something to honor his dad? Even a private video put together for him with pictures.
And then you have his mom that never seemed to like Jess getting married so soon after his dad passed. It has to hurt. So all he has is Jess and her bunch.
Do I think he will leave, no. The money and Addie will make him stay. But you can tell he isn't present, he seems miserable. He has to be over her ditzy act. She controls him like you said and brags about wearing the pants in that house.