Rash and Justine - Life’s a slog, with nothing to vlog | Part 30

[mamabear01]

Yes! Stop forcing them on the same schedule when you’re home all day!!! (Like above poster! Sorry couldn’t quote)
Guess what you don’t get a break from holding, feeding, babies around you when you have 3 under 3. That was YOUR Choice rash. Love your babies and being around them!
I can see them sleeping better now that she gets them on separate schedules


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[Dani_465]

One of the most annoying vlogs. Never saw this warning before (includes paid promotion).

What I don’t understand how two lazy ass fuck people SAHP need a food service like hello fresh. Your asses are home allll day long. What happened to one week justina cooks and the other trashy cooks? Did y’all run out of microwave chicken meals? I’m sure there’s a FB group for microwave meals to get ideas from.

The dishes in the sink look a lot more than just one meal. If you have time to neatly stack the dishes you can wash them. I thought y’all had a dishwasher?? That salmon meal didn’t look special. Looked like normal salmon, rice and broccoli. Maybe trashy needs some cookbooks!

Fake ass tears at the end... now we know all about Justina’s fake IG post background.

[SomeoneActually]

Can they not put sheets on the boys cribs??? What happens if one spits up or a diaper leaks??? That is so trashy. I guess that is why her name is trashy. She needs to suck it up and not force her boys on a schedule.

[mamabear01]

So I have a moment of feeling bad for rash because I see she’s frustrated because Emma was a VERY easy baby that she bragged about and now is her karma, 2 more “difficult” babies with different “difficult” schedules.
Rash here’s a tip because you’ll delete it on IG.
I’m an advocate for sleep schedules, but for flexible schedules, not rigid routine.
Sounds like Reuben needs wider wake windows and Asher needs shorter ones. That will mean the boys are on some opposite schedules, but you can still get them close to the same bedtime. And guess what, those opposite schedules means that you can have one on one time with the boys and get to know them as individuals, that’s a positive!!
You’re making your life harder by forcing them on the same schedule when you can see their tired at different times. They’ll eventually be on 2 and then 1 nap together, this time passes, suck it up. Enjoy the baby stage..or don’t enjoy it and remember not to transfer 2 embryos at the same time so close to your last pregnancy.


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[mamale]

Can they not put sheets on the boys cribs??? What happens if one spits up or a diaper leaks??? That is so trashy. I guess that is why her name is trashy. She needs to suck it up and not force her boys on a schedule.

The newton mattresses are designed to not have a sheet. It has a cover that zips off and is machine washable.

Willing to bet though, regardless of sheet or cover, neither one is getting washed at her house.


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[dessywessy]

On her Instagram story today, Reuben seems to be pretty good at holding his head up, very steady. Asher on the other hand seemed to struggle holding his head up still. And why does his head always look so swollen? Is it really just genetics?

[Ket52]

Omg give me a break Rash! You literally CHOSE how many children you have and when you had them!!! Did you think a toddler and twins would be a walk in the park? Did you really think they’d be sleeping when you want them to and just be the peaceful little money makers you were hoping for?

Can you imagine if Rachelle were a real mom who had to manage this alone? My friend has a toddler and twins at home while her husband works 12 hour days to pay the bills. This is how normal people who don’t exploit their children on YouTube get by. No one feels sorry for you Rash, (except maybe your brainwashed minions who have their poor grandmothers make blankets for you and waste their money on gifts that you could care less about.)

[Mookiel]

She said she doesn’t want to have twins again but how much you wanna bet she ignored a bunch of questions asking if she’s gonna transfer one or two embryos. She’s gonna transfer two again and act surprised when she ends up with twins AGAIN.

She’s said multiple times that she will not be transferring two embryos next time. I think she fully realizes how hard twins are and does not want to go down that road again.


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[Boy_mom12]

I thought their vlog was titled “why we’re separating” and i was like it’s about time

[spicy_dreams]

One of the most annoying vlogs. Never saw this warning before (includes paid promotion).

What I don’t understand how two lazy ass fuck people SAHP need a food service like hello fresh. Your asses are home allll day long. What happened to one week justina cooks and the other trashy cooks? Did y’all run out of microwave chicken meals? I’m sure there’s a FB group for microwave meals to get ideas from.

The dishes in the sink look a lot more than just one meal. If you have time to neatly stack the dishes you can wash them. I thought y’all had a dishwasher?? That salmon meal didn’t look special. Looked like normal salmon, rice and broccoli. Maybe trashy needs some cookbooks!

Fake ass tears at the end... now we know all about Justina’s fake IG post background.

I think it's more about the sponsorship than actually needing the service themselves. They need that septic tank money lmao. But yeah I agree they probably don't cook enough, don't know how to cook, don't know what to cook. I'll give Rachelle a pass for at least not WANTING to cook right now if the babies are fussy and only want her. Justin has no excuse however.

I also don't think there's any excuse to not know how/what to cook. It's so easy to just watch cooking shows and google recipes and watch YouTube videos. You learn over time and will pick things up if you just give it a go! I mean, there are teenagers that learn this stuff, if you're in your mid 20s you should really be doing this stuff regardless of whether or not you still live at home. It's an essential life skill, it saves you money, it allows you to have some control over your nutrition. Takeout and restaurant food is always full of oil/salt/butter/sugar, that's why it tastes so good. It's fine once in a while but it's not good to rely on it. You don't even have to be a good cook! There's so many meals that require basically zero actual skills, and are pretty cheap and healthy.

[wonderwall99]

So.... maybe I'll get hate for this but I kind of understood her frustration in today's vlog.

Im a FTM and whenever my son is transitioning naps or his schedule changes I get so flustered and frustrated because I can see hes cranky, his nighttime sleep is off and hes overtired from his crappy naps. It can be overwhelming so i get it. But it's hard to empathize with her because, and we've all said this, she literally has her husband home all day to help. If you need 10mins, you have the luxury to take it. Even if the kids are screaming. Go outside and take a minute to collect yourself. Even in the car with the boys, they weren't screaming their heads off or crying. She had time to herself to drive around get a coffee, have some peace and quiet and clear her head. Not many moms have that luxury.
And I dont know why she stopped walking. When my son was going through his 4 month regression I would put him in his stroller and he'd sleep for 30 mins and I get a nice calm walk in the crisp fall air. It was so good for me. It helped us both out.


I believe when it comes to schedules it depends on the baby, everyone is different. Some thrive off of strict schedules and others don't. But I dont like when parents force schedules for their own agendas. I get it, we all need a break, parenting without any moment of peace is hard but there's 2 of them. They chose to have 3 kids in such a short time frame that i cannot feel too bad.

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[Mammababe111]

The boys do need their own rooms. They do need to get out of their parents bedroom as well. I know a controversial subject but my son was sleeping in his safe-sleep crib at 2 months. He was a light sleeper as well and it just didn’t work being in my room. Put them on their own nap schedule, make sure they are going down with full bellies and the same routine, in a crib, in the same environment, same sound machine. At bed time do they have warm baths? Lotion? Fresh pjs? Story time? Lullabies? Sound machine? Is the temperature of the room comfortable? Those babies WILL feel her stress and it will cause them to freak as well. Is her energy calm? It’s also confusing having them nap in the swing and nap in the crib now that their older? Crib is for sleep and those swings will be gone soon as they are almost 6 months. Her milk also might be thin.. they might need the solid foods to bulk up and get the extra calories to stay asleep and not need to wake up so much. My son as soon as he started solids was doing 12 hours at night and both his naps during the day. It was like clock work! The whole point is to not stress. But she’s stressing and nothing is working because that’s her focus is getting some “ me time”!

[ZaGaNoDr1968]

I paused the video at 7 min to come here and take a guess at which baby (Reuben) she is going to put in another room. Of course, I see from the responses here I was RIGHT. Poor Reuben, how can a mother have blatant favoritism like this? It's almost as if she doesn't even realize how obvious it is to us, a bunch of strangers just watching "10 minutes of their day"... It literally makes me sick and want to reach in and just hold that baby Reuben.

Oh and her sitting in the car, complaining about how crabby the boys were... Yet I didn't hear a peep or grunt or even a small whimper from either baby. How much you wanna bet, the boys weren't even in the car, just empty car seats and she took time to herself. Guess I'll find out....Back to the vlog, even though I don't want to watch a I'm so disgusted.

[ZaGaNoDr1968]

OH MY FUCKING GOD!!! (Sorry for the double post) but at 8:58 as she was taking Emma away from the table, Beau jumped up onto her chair and was eating/cleaning off the table where she'd left a mess. That is the most disgusting thing I've seen yet.

[Mento290]

Why does she expect the twins to be on such a set schedule and the same as each other. It’s so annoying. I believe in some sort of schedule/structure in a babies day but you shouldn’t set you, you should follow their lead. I’m sure if she followed their hunger/sleep cues she could get each boy ( probably not at the same times but whatever there’s nothing you can do about it) on a loose schedule where they eat every 3/4 hours and then sleep for an hour or two and have some awake time and then over again.

[Mammababe111]

One of the most annoying vlogs. Never saw this warning before (includes paid promotion).

What I don’t understand how two lazy ass fuck people SAHP need a food service like hello fresh. Your asses are home allll day long. What happened to one week justina cooks and the other trashy cooks? Did y’all run out of microwave chicken meals? I’m sure there’s a FB group for microwave meals to get ideas from.

The dishes in the sink look a lot more than just one meal. If you have time to neatly stack the dishes you can wash them. I thought y’all had a dishwasher?? That salmon meal didn’t look special. Looked like normal salmon, rice and broccoli. Maybe trashy needs some cookbooks!

Fake ass tears at the end... now we know all about Justina’s fake IG post background.

I think it's more about the sponsorship than actually needing the service themselves. They need that septic tank money lmao. But yeah I agree they probably don't cook enough, don't know how to cook, don't know what to cook. I'll give Rachelle a pass for at least not WANTING to cook right now if the babies are fussy and only want her. Justin has no excuse however.

I also don't think there's any excuse to not know how/what to cook. It's so easy to just watch cooking shows and google recipes and watch YouTube videos. You learn over time and will pick things up if you just give it a go! I mean, there are teenagers that learn this stuff, if you're in your mid 20s you should really be doing this stuff regardless of whether or not you still live at home. It's an essential life skill, it saves you money, it allows you to have some control over your nutrition. Takeout and restaurant food is always full of oil/salt/butter/sugar, that's why it tastes so good. It's fine once in a while but it's not good to rely on it. You don't even have to be a good cook! There's so many meals that require basically zero actual skills, and are pretty cheap and healthy.

It’s not hard to prepare in advance these people just act clueless! Justine should be doing 100% of the cooking & cleaning if rachelle has to really take care of the twins alone. ( even though I call bullshit) ...if my husband was home with me and didn’t help me even with household chores or cooking he wouldn’t be my husband anymore. They are a team and if one can’t do, the other should. He forgot to mention in his sob story post what he’s doing to supplement for not being able to take care of his sons. If he can’t cook or clean then you know damn well he’ll never get a real job. His parents must be so proud of him.

[GGF1987]

Why does she expect the twins to be on such a set schedule and the same as each other. It’s so annoying. I believe in some sort of schedule/structure in a babies day but you shouldn’t set you, you should follow their lead. I’m sure if she followed their hunger/sleep cues she could get each boy ( probably not at the same times but whatever there’s nothing you can do about it) on a loose schedule where they eat every 3/4 hours and then sleep for an hour or two and have some awake time and then over again.

I don't understand this either. It's fine to have a routine with them but they're babies! They don't care what schedule you think they should be on lol.

[Sillysailing]

She blocked me because lI didn’t say how great she was! She is the worst!!


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[Tweedles3]

So, something that is often told to parents of twins is to get them on the same schedule as early as possible. If one wakes up, get the other one up, both should eat at the same time, etc. But this is nearly impossible, it’s the “get sleep when the baby sleeps” advice that is given to moms of newborns - its way easier said than done.

I don’t know if Rash reads here, but my twins just turned 1 last week and they have been perfectly synched with naps for maybe 10 days out of 12 months. They share a room, we don’t have a spare room to split them up. My son is an early riser and drags my daughter out of bed with him around 6:45 AM. She just needs more sleep than he does, she would sleep until 8:00 AM if he didn’t wake her up. So she usually needs 3 naps a day to make up for it, my son is fine with 2 naps now. Both go to bed around 8:30 PM.

Overall, it’s not a huge deal. When you have three babies essentially, you can’t just assume they’ll all go to bed at 7:00 PM and stay there until 7:00 AM. Maybe Emma did that, but you’ve got two more with different needs. Like others have said, there’s nowhere they have to be. They aren’t having to wake the kids at 6 AM to go to daycare. Just let them sleep when they’re tired, and feed them when they’re hungry. Three under three is time-consuming, it’s what you signed up for.

Edit: I wonder if they are hating their house yet. They could have bought a house with 5 BR, or they could have waited 1-2 months to see how the embryo transfer went before buying.

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[discretechristine]

So, something that is often told to parents of twins is to get them on the same schedule as early as possible. If one wakes up, get the other one up, both should eat at the same time, etc. But this is nearly impossible, it’s the “get sleep when the baby sleeps” advice that is given to moms of newborns - its way easier said than done.

I don’t know if Rash reads here, but my twins just turned 1 last week and they have been perfectly synched with naps for maybe 10 days out of 12 months. They share a room, we don’t have a spare room to split them up. My son is an early riser and drags my daughter out of bed with him around 6:45 AM. She just needs more sleep than he does, she would sleep until 8:00 AM if he didn’t wake her up. So she usually needs 3 naps a day to make up for it, my son is fine with 2 naps now. Both go to bed around 8:30 PM.

Overall, it’s not a huge deal. When you have three babies essentially, you can’t just assume they’ll all go to bed at 7:00 PM and stay there until 7:00 AM. Maybe Emma did that, but you’ve got two more with different needs. Like others have said, there’s nowhere they have to be. They aren’t having to wake the kids at 6 AM to go to daycare. Just let them sleep when they’re tired, and feed them when they’re hungry. Three under three is time-consuming, it’s what you signed up for.

Edit: I wonder if they are hating their house yet. They could have bought a house with 5 BR, or they could have waited 1-2 months to see how the embryo transfer went before buying.

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I was just thinking about their house situation too.
I know it’s not ideal for most people and a lot of people make due with why they have. But if you have that choice and freedom with the budget they had, why buy a house that doesn’t seem to fit your needs at all!
They literally bought a house in the middle of an embryo transfer. They did transfer two embryos but rash only thought they would end up with one baby. (just watched their finding out we are having twins video again, going into the ultrasound she says she thinks it’s just one) I totally agree they should have waited to find out if it was two babies or one at that first ultrasound before buying.
Idk why they would buy a 3 bedroom house when wanting 4 or more children anyway. Especially with there being so many 5+ bedroom house with beautiful yards on the market at the time. Another thing they did that just doesn’t make sense to me! I remember reading here back when everyone was talking about house listing prices! I was kinda still a fan of them back then but even I thought it did not make sense at all that they bought a house they’ll outgrow in less than 5 years... on a dirt pile.
There house has SOOO much wasted space anyway! I know they talked about using that garden shed thing in the back as a guest room or office but I think since their pad in the back yard extends along the whole house they could push out that way and make a dining room there and then turn the current dining area and playroom into another bedroom. But that still seems really awkward so idk. Who am I kidding, they’re too lazy to do any of that anyway lol


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