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I understand Haylee’s excessive laziness and tendency to not care because that is a side effect of depression and she is clearly mentally ill. However, I believe that she should be doing a lot more to better her mental health because she isn’t just on her own, she now has 2 kids to raise. A man like Dann is never going to change his ways, we’ve all heard about the messed up things he’s done and frankly, she needs to just get out of her relationship with him ASAP. She should also move back in with her parents for the time being because let’s face it, she is suicidal and it doesn’t seem safe for her to have full responsibility of watching 2 young children on her own. Lastly, why doesn’t she go out and get a part-time job. It would be good for her for the social aspect, the responsibility, and to at least make some RELIABLE money on the side to put away for school in the future or I don’t know... maybe, her 2 freakin kids!
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Yall are probably tired of me at this point, or think im crazy/reaching, because im posting here constantly lol. But I've been thinking about this and thought these things should be pointed out.

But I'm starting to really believe Dann is still living there, as much as I wish he wasn't, and that him and Haylee may still be together. Like someone previously mentioned, the artwork on the fridge, you can definitely tell one of the crafts is Dustin's, and if Dann and Haylee are really done, I'm sure Dustin wouldn't be there or Haylee wouldn't continue watching him, and Haylee may or may not keep his crafts up? Maybe Hazzel wanted them up?
Also, in the vlog she posted, but then deleted, she was showing like apartment updates, but she never brought up anything about Dustin's bedroom or anything that was Dann's. Im sure Dann would've taken all of his and Dustin's things and Haylee would've most likely brought attention to it, like all they're stuff is gone now because its just me and the kids. or something like that. Or would have brought more attention to the fact that they are broken up/Dann and Dustin are gone, but she hasnt because she's been so vague.
And, the fact that Haylee and Hazzel keep going out shopping without Sterling. They went in the last vlog and then in the vlog called "Today was hard". Like some others said, Dann couldve been there? Or stopped by to watch him? Or her sibling? Still not sure on that one.
Lastly, if you notice in the vlogs Haylee still has that creepy painting of that man hanging in the dining room that Dann's dad painted. Dann definitely wouldn't have left that there, since it was his dad's, and Haylee definitely wouldn't want it if they were really done.

Heres some things though that prove they may have broken up/want people to believe they are broken up:
- Haylee deleted all of the pictures she had of/with Dann off instagram
- changed her insta bio to "single mom of 2"
- Dann and Haylee unfollowed each other
- Dann/Dustin haven't been in the vlogs or talked about at all besides Sterling's birthday

Idk this may not make any sense and I may be reaching lol but I really wish Haylee would just clear shit up and stop leaving us in the dark. She's definitely hiding something/lying and idk why. All of her fans are obviously concerned about her and her kids/hoping they are doing okay, as am I, and I just hope that she wouldn't lie to her fans like that.

And I know I've said this over and over again, but if Haylee really did take him back she is seriously so selfish and doesn't care about her kids as much as people thinks she does. Hazzel is literally the black sheep of that family at this point and I feel so sorry for her, along with Dustin and Sterling. The children are always paying the price and its horrible.
Also sorry for the long post lol.
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They could have broken up but Dann has not been able to move out yet. My ex and I broke up about a month before Christmas last year and he wasn’t able to move out until almost February. Finances played a part because he left me with all of the furniture and everything we had while we were together and he started over and also there were like no rentals around so he needed time to get a place and we don’t have family nearby to stay with... so we awkwardly lived together for like 2 months after we broke up. It was so fun I don’t recommend lol.

They have a kid together and there are 3 kids involved in this breakup, I’m sure Haylee doesn’t want him to be homeless (even though he prob deserves it cause he sucks lol) and perhaps she is just giving him a place to what until he gets his own place.


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staceymj wrote: Mon Nov 02, 2020 12:12 pm They could have broken up but Dann has not been able to move out yet. My ex and I broke up about a month before Christmas last year and he wasn’t able to move out until almost February. Finances played a part because he left me with all of the furniture and everything we had while we were together and he started over and also there were like no rentals around so he needed time to get a place and we don’t have family nearby to stay with... so we awkwardly lived together for like 2 months after we broke up. It was so fun ImageImage I don’t recommend lol.

They have a kid together and there are 3 kids involved in this breakup, I’m sure Haylee doesn’t want him to be homeless (even though he prob deserves it cause he sucks lol) and perhaps she is just giving him a place to what until he gets his own place.


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Thats a good point too. And I am so sorry that happened, that must've been super awkward :?
I remember they were "broken up" and still living together with their kids a few months back because his family didn't call for Hazzel's birthday or something, and she went on instagram ranting about the favoritism he showed with Dustin and how he didn't treat Hazzel right. And then when she got out of the hospital for the first time, it seemed like they were starting to work shit out and he even started to treat Hazzel better, like when he got her that bouquet of flowers. Haylee probably had a talk with him, like "if we are gonna work shit out, you need to be nicer to my daughter". Imagine having to say that tho. Honestly, if it ever gets to that point just forget it lmao.

I can see how Haylee doesn't want him to be homeless, especially because he is the father of her son, and she probably needs the bills paid lmao. She's also a huge ass kisser, especially when it comes to her boyfriends. I think Dann's family lives relatively close tho? His mom is a bitch tho apparently and might not let him stay with her, even though she would probably understand because apparently she hates Haylee and the kids lmao. Imagine being a grown adult, having beef with children, especially your own grandchild. That whole family seems fucked up. No wonder Dann's a piece of shit.

Also, Haylee kept preaching about how she wasn't gonna sit around and take shit from Dann like she did with Randy, but it seems she's doing just that. I think the reason she hasn't moved back with her parents could be because she wants to keep the apartment, or maybe her parents said no, because if I were them, I'd be so tired of her bullshit lol.
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New vlog:
Thats a lot of food for just the 3 of them, if it is just the 3 of them, unless she buys in bulk, or dann and dustin are still there. Or they just eat a lot. In every vlog, almost every clip of Hazzel is her snacking lol
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sadasfuck wrote:New vlog:
Thats a lot of food for just the 3 of them, if it is just the 3 of them, unless she buys in bulk, or dann and dustin are still there. Or they just eat a lot. In every vlog, almost every clip of Hazzel is her snacking lol
Given I haven’t seen the video but Haylee has always purchased a lot of groceries, even when they lived in her parents basement using a mini fridge to house their food. Haylee cooks 3 actual meals a day, they don’t really eat quick easy meals.
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Lolislol26 wrote: Mon Nov 02, 2020 3:26 pm
sadasfuck wrote:New vlog:
Thats a lot of food for just the 3 of them, if it is just the 3 of them, unless she buys in bulk, or dann and dustin are still there. Or they just eat a lot. In every vlog, almost every clip of Hazzel is her snacking lol
Given I haven’t seen the video but Haylee has always purchased a lot of groceries, even when they lived in her parents basement using a mini fridge to house their food. Haylee cooks 3 actual meals a day, they don’t really eat quick easy meals.
Yeah I think they just eat a lot lol. I also noticed that she didnt buy any kind of meat besides those frozen wings. Is she just gonna cook vegetables? I know Hazzel has bacon with her breakfast a lot of the time, so I'm surprised she didn't at least buy that.
Breakfast wise, she bought cereal, oatmeal, fruit and eggs. Besides the eggs, the rest are pretty quick and easy. And for lunch they seem to just have sandwiches most of the time, and five million snacks lol.
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Lolislol26 wrote: Mon Nov 02, 2020 3:26 pm
sadasfuck wrote:New vlog:
Thats a lot of food for just the 3 of them, if it is just the 3 of them, unless she buys in bulk, or dann and dustin are still there. Or they just eat a lot. In every vlog, almost every clip of Hazzel is her snacking lol
Given I haven’t seen the video but Haylee has always purchased a lot of groceries, even when they lived in her parents basement using a mini fridge to house their food. Haylee cooks 3 actual meals a day, they don’t really eat quick easy meals.
Yeah I think they just eat a lot lol. I also noticed that she didnt buy any kind of meat besides those frozen wings. Is she just gonna cook vegetables? I know Hazzel has bacon with her breakfast a lot of the time, so I'm surprised she didn't at least buy that.
Breakfast wise, she bought cereal, oatmeal, fruit and eggs. Besides the eggs, the rest are pretty quick and easy. And for lunch they seem to just have sandwiches most of the time, and five million snacks lol.
By quick and easy I meant processed like frozen pizza, hot pockets, frozen meals that just get thrown in the oven or on the stove.
If I remember correctly, I would be completely wrong- she buys meat in bulk and freezes some of it. I remember in a video she answered a lot of people’s questions about why she always packs Hazzel a sandwich for lunch everyday and that’s because that’s what Hazzel wants, she doesn’t a want crackers and meat or anything too “Pinteresty”. I haven’t seen the latest grocery video but I’ve seen plenty of hers in the past. And if she went grocery shopping where she typical does; I wouldn’t buy meat there, it’s really expensive and much cheaper and high quality elsewhere.


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I feel like Dann is still there... But hoping it's just because he doesn't have the funds for a new place yet. Hope Haylee can afford the place on her own.
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The handwriting of the grocery list was definitely not hers.


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I agree I think the writing was Danns. Also she got like no food to make meals?? Tf do they eat? Haylee is way too dependent on everyone to leave dann. The only time she’ll leave is if dann actually leaves and she goes back to her parents basement.
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She needs to stand up for Hazzel. Dann is just allowed to cuss her girl out? And it's ok because of what? Because she's afraid to be alone? Afraid to admit defeat and go back home? She needs a backbone. Dann doesn't care about Hazzel or sterling

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lizpuff2006 wrote: Tue Nov 03, 2020 5:12 am She needs to stand up for Hazzel. Dann is just allowed to cuss her girl out? And it's ok because of what? Because she's afraid to be alone? Afraid to admit defeat and go back home? She needs a backbone. Dann doesn't care about Hazzel or sterling

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THANK YOU! Exactly what I've been saying this whole time. She does not care about her kids at all if she is still with Dann after he treated Hazzel and Sterling so poorly. And again, if anybody ever cussed out my child like that, you bet your ass would be out the fuckin door. Shes only with him to mooch off of him because god forbid she grew the fuck up and provided for herself and her kids on her own like a grownup. Shame on you, Haylee! Put on your big girl panties and be a mother to your fucking kids!

That handwriting definitely was not hers. And all they ever seem to eat now a days is just junk, baking cookies/cupcakes every week. Hazzel gets dessert after almost every meal. Yes, she'll cook a healthy-ish meal from time to time, and her kids eat a lot of fruit, but they do eat a lot of crap, even with Haylee being on a diet/working out.
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Haylee deleted her workout highlight off of instagram. Looks like she gave up after the 1st day anyway lmao. It always bothers me how she always says she gonna do shit and then never does it, even though she even went out and bought a yoga mat and everything lol
I dont care whether she works out or not, even though it would be really good for her. My therapists/doctors have always recommended exercise for when im feeling depressed, and even just to be healthier. It would also give something to do since she seems to just sit around the house all day. But we know she's lazy as hell and can't ever stick to anything.
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They really do eat a lot lol. Haylee does seem to make healthy meals, which is great, but they do eat so much junk also. Dessert after almost every meal seems excessive. And then Hazzel wanted a cookie right before bed after she just had an ice cream cone. At least she doesnt starve them I guess lol
Also, still no sign of Dann. Will she ever actually say whether they're together or not? Not sure why she's hiding, if they are
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Holy crap she feeds them 3 meals a day 3 snacks and dessertw???

My son is 2 and has 2 or 3 meals and 2 snacks (sometimes dessert).

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sadasfuck wrote: Fri Nov 06, 2020 2:00 pm They really do eat a lot lol. Haylee does seem to make healthy meals, which is great, but they do eat so much junk also. Dessert after almost every meal seems excessive. And then Hazzel wanted a cookie right before bed after she just had an ice cream cone. At least she doesnt starve them I guess lol
Also, still no sign of Dann. Will she ever actually say whether they're together or not? Not sure why she's hiding, if they are
Minus the junk food, it's like something back from an old time show lol They always had dessert after dinner, and always had full meals and snacks. I wonder if that's where Haylee gets her ideas from, or if because she grew up with a big family, they didn't get to eat big meals... so, she's doing more for her kids?

I also wonder if it has to do with how Hazzel was so thin as a toddler, because of her health issues? Remember how she was always adding extra sugar for calories... like, whipped cream to her pancakes, along with syrup, etc...
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ThisIsMeCeej wrote: Fri Nov 06, 2020 5:03 pm
sadasfuck wrote: Fri Nov 06, 2020 2:00 pm They really do eat a lot lol. Haylee does seem to make healthy meals, which is great, but they do eat so much junk also. Dessert after almost every meal seems excessive. And then Hazzel wanted a cookie right before bed after she just had an ice cream cone. At least she doesnt starve them I guess lol
Also, still no sign of Dann. Will she ever actually say whether they're together or not? Not sure why she's hiding, if they are
Minus the junk food, it's like something back from an old time show lol They always had dessert after dinner, and always had full meals and snacks. I wonder if that's where Haylee gets her ideas from, or if because she grew up with a big family, they didn't get to eat big meals... so, she's doing more for her kids?

I also wonder if it has to do with how Hazzel was so thin as a toddler, because of her health issues? Remember how she was always adding extra sugar for calories... like, whipped cream to her pancakes, along with syrup, etc...
Maybe! I kind of feel like Haylee feels some kind of guilt, or feels like she isn't a good mom (possibly because of all her shitty relationships/mental health issues), and she tries to make up for that not only in food but also material items (since shes always buying them things too). Even though Hazzel eats a lot, and even a lot of junk food, she's still very thin. If you go through Haylee's instagram, all the pictures of Hazzel, she just looks very skinny. Some kids are just naturally like that though. I think Haylee's said before that Hazzel has always been small for her age (height wise too)
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lizpuff2006 wrote: Tue Nov 03, 2020 5:12 am She needs to stand up for Hazzel. Dann is just allowed to cuss her girl out? And it's ok because of what? Because she's afraid to be alone? Afraid to admit defeat and go back home? She needs a backbone. Dann doesn't care about Hazzel or sterling

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That's the thing though, Haylee is in a much better spot than most. She's got, what, almost 300k subscribers? If she put as much effort into YouTube as she does finding men, she would be set.
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sadasfuck wrote:
ThisIsMeCeej wrote: Fri Nov 06, 2020 5:03 pm
sadasfuck wrote: Fri Nov 06, 2020 2:00 pm They really do eat a lot lol. Haylee does seem to make healthy meals, which is great, but they do eat so much junk also. Dessert after almost every meal seems excessive. And then Hazzel wanted a cookie right before bed after she just had an ice cream cone. At least she doesnt starve them I guess lol
Also, still no sign of Dann. Will she ever actually say whether they're together or not? Not sure why she's hiding, if they are
Minus the junk food, it's like something back from an old time show lol They always had dessert after dinner, and always had full meals and snacks. I wonder if that's where Haylee gets her ideas from, or if because she grew up with a big family, they didn't get to eat big meals... so, she's doing more for her kids?

I also wonder if it has to do with how Hazzel was so thin as a toddler, because of her health issues? Remember how she was always adding extra sugar for calories... like, whipped cream to her pancakes, along with syrup, etc...
Maybe! I kind of feel like Haylee feels some kind of guilt, or feels like she isn't a good mom (possibly because of all her shitty relationships/mental health issues), and she tries to make up for that not only in food but also material items (since shes always buying them things too). Even though Hazzel eats a lot, and even a lot of junk food, she's still very thin. If you go through Haylee's instagram, all the pictures of Hazzel, she just looks very skinny. Some kids are just naturally like that though. I think Haylee's said before that Hazzel has always been small for her age (height wise too)
Yeah, Hazzel seems already naturally thin, but she was also a bit sickly when she was really little, so I think Haylee may have gotten in to the habit of feeding her high calorie foods, and whatever she could get her to eat


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