Brittani Boren Leach: Christmas Decor, Unsafe Sleep Galore | Part 8
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can we please use Deja Crew for the next title?
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Ah yes the birth Vlog.
The boys asking “is he alive” just about broke my heart.
Also carter holding the baby, looks like he asks “will he wake up... will he?”
These poor kids.
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The boys asking “is he alive” just about broke my heart.
Also carter holding the baby, looks like he asks “will he wake up... will he?”
These poor kids.
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Doesn't Jeff have an older son? Do they ever talk about him?
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Jesus christ thats so heartbreaking. Those poor kids are obviously traumatized and are not getting the help/therapy they need. It was absolutely WAY too soon to have another baby. No one in the family seems to have properly grieved or even worked on healing. Maybe instead of blowing all of her money at target and starbucks, she could be getting her kids and herself some therapy.
Also, all the rainbow shit is getting really annoying. Even the background song for the video was about rainbows. Are the gonna have rainbow-everything for this kid even when hes away at fucking college?! And at the very end of the video, text came up saying "perfectly hand-picked by big brother Crew". Just shows how much hes already living in Crew's shadow.
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Its not his bio son he just helped raise him. I think its Sydney's brotherPamomma8422 wrote: ↑Sun Nov 29, 2020 12:20 pm Doesn't Jeff have an older son? Do they ever talk about him?
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The problem here would be the timing; how long crew went without oxygen. I mean, from the time the incident occurred, to the time they found him, and then called 911, and then the time it took for paramedics to arrive and begin cpr, that’s a long time to be without oxygen. Sure, you can get blood pumping again, but your organs are effectively dead. If he were without oxygen for let’s say 3 minutes, sure he could have been fine and survived! But that’s definitely not what happened. That baby was without oxygen for so long that he died and then was listed as brain dead. What makes you think his organs would be viable? And everyone talking about the honor walk.... I don’t believe they faked that. I mentioned in my original comment that I believe they did indeed donate crews body/organs, but Not to other children. Instead, I think they donated crews body to science. They’d still have the honor walk & flag. Not disagreeing with you there. But, I do not believe his organs were viable to actually donate to recipients in need.charliema16 wrote: ↑Sat Nov 21, 2020 9:15 amI think you are reaching way too hard there. Organs can most definitely be donated even after the brain has been starved of oxygen. My person belief is Crew died from unsafe sleep practice ie being left on an adult bed and he moved and got stuck and suffocated, or one of the older kids put a blanket on him which (unintentionally) ended up over his face.FinnMiaBelle wrote: ↑Fri Nov 20, 2020 9:03 pmShe wouldn’t have been able to donate crews organs if that were the case. If crew stopped breathing for any amount of tome at home, which Brittani claimed he did, then his organs would be useless.Hyacinth wrote: ↑Fri Nov 20, 2020 2:38 pm Given that they never publicised Crew's actual cause of death (just stating in general that he had been put to bed and then was later found to be unresponsive) I'm guessing that his cause of death was accidental suffocation, rather than SIDS. It's a shame that they haven't used their platform to highlight the need for safe sleeping practices, but it's also clear to see why they haven't - the vlogger/ influencer/ celebrity can be brutal. Them admitting to anything that they did causing their son to die would create a backlash worse than when the Stauffers re-homed their adopted child. Brittani probably lives in absolute terror of people finding out.
Lack of oxygen, even for a few minutes causes cell death. His organs would have been unviable. It does not matter that they hooked him up to a respirator. It doesn’t change the fact that he was unresponsive & ceased breathing.
This was ultimately why he couldn’t be resuscitated, Because he had been unresponsive for too long prior to EMS arriving on scene. He was effectively brain dead by then, and nothing doctors could do.
They tried, but it was too late. Crew had been without oxygen for far too long.... so my question still stands; How were they able to donate his organs?
My opinion is they didn’t. They probably donated his body to research, but no one received any of crews organs. My opinion is Crew had A well-documented pre-existing condition that parents & doctors knew full well about.
I think this is why there was no autopsy. No investigation into his sudden & unexplained death, and why Brittani is keeping tight-lipped on cause of death, Because if there were a pre-existing condition that caused his death, then the GoFundMe campaign was fraudulent, and Brittani knows this.
Does anyone else remember a close family member posting on social media a day or so after crew died? They admitted that his death was caused by a pre-existing condition. It’s since been scrubbed from the internet.
I went back and looked at photos of crew, specifically of his head, and I noticed that it resembled that of a hydro baby. Hydrocephalus. It’s quite common, and there are many different forms & severities. Some benign and others fatal, a few almost always fatal. We do know that crew suffered head trauma during his birth.
Not sure if it could be related to hydrocephalus or not, but I believe hydrocephalus can be caused from trauma. If you go back and watch brittanis birth Vlog for crew, at the end she talks about having a hat on crews head because of the bruising he sustained during birth.
Something about his head hit against her pelvic bone on the way through the birth canal, because he came out so fast. What if she knew crew was on borrowed time? What would that mean for the hundreds of thousands of dollars she received from the GoFundMe campaign? Promoting a fundraiser under false pretenses. It looks a lot like Brittani being in a heap of shit for fraud.
One more thing; where is Crews obituary? I have yet to find it. It is not posted anywhere. It’s as if there wasn’t one. It’s all truly bizarre. Just my own personal opinion.
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Didnt she show something in her insta stories that they were sent saying that Crew saved two lives?FinnMiaBelle wrote:The problem here would be the timing; how long crew went without oxygen. I mean, from the time the incident occurred, to the time they found him, and then called 911, and then the time it took for paramedics to arrive and begin cpr, that’s a long time to be without oxygen. Sure, you can get blood pumping again, but your organs are effectively dead. If he were without oxygen for let’s say 3 minutes, sure he could have been fine and survived! But that’s definitely not what happened. That baby was without oxygen for so long that he died and then was listed as brain dead. What makes you think his organs would be viable? And everyone talking about the honor walk.... I don’t believe they faked that. I mentioned in my original comment that I believe they did indeed donate crews body/organs, but Not to other children. Instead, I think they donated crews body to science. They’d still have the honor walk & flag. Not disagreeing with you there. But, I do not believe his organs were viable to actually donate to recipients in need.charliema16 wrote: ↑Sat Nov 21, 2020 9:15 amI think you are reaching way too hard there. Organs can most definitely be donated even after the brain has been starved of oxygen. My person belief is Crew died from unsafe sleep practice ie being left on an adult bed and he moved and got stuck and suffocated, or one of the older kids put a blanket on him which (unintentionally) ended up over his face.FinnMiaBelle wrote: ↑Fri Nov 20, 2020 9:03 pm She wouldn’t have been able to donate crews organs if that were the case. If crew stopped breathing for any amount of tome at home, which Brittani claimed he did, then his organs would be useless.
Lack of oxygen, even for a few minutes causes cell death. His organs would have been unviable. It does not matter that they hooked him up to a respirator. It doesn’t change the fact that he was unresponsive & ceased breathing.
This was ultimately why he couldn’t be resuscitated, Because he had been unresponsive for too long prior to EMS arriving on scene. He was effectively brain dead by then, and nothing doctors could do.
They tried, but it was too late. Crew had been without oxygen for far too long.... so my question still stands; How were they able to donate his organs?
My opinion is they didn’t. They probably donated his body to research, but no one received any of crews organs. My opinion is Crew had A well-documented pre-existing condition that parents & doctors knew full well about.
I think this is why there was no autopsy. No investigation into his sudden & unexplained death, and why Brittani is keeping tight-lipped on cause of death, Because if there were a pre-existing condition that caused his death, then the GoFundMe campaign was fraudulent, and Brittani knows this.
Does anyone else remember a close family member posting on social media a day or so after crew died? They admitted that his death was caused by a pre-existing condition. It’s since been scrubbed from the internet.
I went back and looked at photos of crew, specifically of his head, and I noticed that it resembled that of a hydro baby. Hydrocephalus. It’s quite common, and there are many different forms & severities. Some benign and others fatal, a few almost always fatal. We do know that crew suffered head trauma during his birth.
Not sure if it could be related to hydrocephalus or not, but I believe hydrocephalus can be caused from trauma. If you go back and watch brittanis birth Vlog for crew, at the end she talks about having a hat on crews head because of the bruising he sustained during birth.
Something about his head hit against her pelvic bone on the way through the birth canal, because he came out so fast. What if she knew crew was on borrowed time? What would that mean for the hundreds of thousands of dollars she received from the GoFundMe campaign? Promoting a fundraiser under false pretenses. It looks a lot like Brittani being in a heap of shit for fraud.
One more thing; where is Crews obituary? I have yet to find it. It is not posted anywhere. It’s as if there wasn’t one. It’s all truly bizarre. Just my own personal opinion.
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I follow several moms who have had a loss and they all took a stance on something pertaining to their child’s death.. SIDS... drowning... etc
There are crickets coming from Brittani. She won’t even talk about that day and what happened. It makes them look 100% guilty in that it was an unsafe sleep environment.
Their son asks if Cole was alive... she laughs and says he’s just sleeping. Well no sh*t... so was Crew when he died so don’t laugh at your freakin kid who is obviously severely traumatized.
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There are crickets coming from Brittani. She won’t even talk about that day and what happened. It makes them look 100% guilty in that it was an unsafe sleep environment.
Their son asks if Cole was alive... she laughs and says he’s just sleeping. Well no sh*t... so was Crew when he died so don’t laugh at your freakin kid who is obviously severely traumatized.
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Re: Brittani Boren Leach: Christmas Decor, Unsafe Sleep Galore | Part 8
I can't believe she laughed at her son when he said that
She is disgusting
She is disgusting
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I can't believe this dumb woman can't even let her kids heal from Crew's death before bringing another baby into the mix. What is wrong with her seriously. She is so far gone.
This video just shows that her kids are still traumatized. Unbelievable. Just absolutely heartbreaking.
Also I will add I fully believe she desperately wanted a girl and I think she had another boy for a reason. If she had of had a girl.... it just wouldn't of been healthy. It isn't healthy anyways to have a baby so soon like this but hope what Im saying makes sense.
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This video just shows that her kids are still traumatized. Unbelievable. Just absolutely heartbreaking.
Also I will add I fully believe she desperately wanted a girl and I think she had another boy for a reason. If she had of had a girl.... it just wouldn't of been healthy. It isn't healthy anyways to have a baby so soon like this but hope what Im saying makes sense.
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Was it already known here that her mom is with her ex? Or is this something new?
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Yes it was. Someone that used to post here knew her or Jeff
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Those poor kids. I can’t imagine what it’s like losing a sibling.
They’ve basically just been thrown in the ocean by their parents and are expected to swim perfectly.
I probably wouldn’t be so annoyed by the choices Brittani and Jeff were making IF they gave their children the tools to cope with what they’ve been through the last year.
They’ve basically just been thrown in the ocean by their parents and are expected to swim perfectly.
I probably wouldn’t be so annoyed by the choices Brittani and Jeff were making IF they gave their children the tools to cope with what they’ve been through the last year.
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Honestly it’s gross that instead of focusing on the mental well-being of their living children after crew died they instead get right on with popping out another one... my heart hurts for those kids.
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I don't care to watch her anymore, but hearing about those boys asking about the baby and if it's alive broke my damn heart. They seriously need therapy, this is not healthy for them
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I went to the birth vlog just to tell her what a piece of trash she is for laughing at her kid when he asks if the baby will wake up. She still has her comments off. She probably gets that message 100 times a day.
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I watched the video again that they made after Crews death. Crews heart saved the life of a seven month old baby. That baby was flown to where Crew was and operated on simultaneously with Crew.
Any talk of the organ donation being a farce is absolute bullshit. They did not get to be with their son as he passed, because they chose to allow his organs to give life to another. This 100% makes Crew a hero, and nothing changes that.
Any talk of the organ donation being a farce is absolute bullshit. They did not get to be with their son as he passed, because they chose to allow his organs to give life to another. This 100% makes Crew a hero, and nothing changes that.
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Exactly this. Of all the things up for debate/criticism on this thread- Crews organ donation shouldn’t be one of them.In the middle wrote:I watched the video again that they made after Crews death. Crews heart saved the life of a seven month old baby. That baby was flown to where Crew was and operated on simultaneously with Crew.
Any talk of the organ donation being a farce is absolute bullshit. They did not get to be with their son as he passed, because they chose to allow his organs to give life to another. This 100% makes Crew a hero, and nothing changes that.
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It would also have helped if she didn't race right back into a) social media and b) conceiving another one. She should have put social media on hold and stayed in their more affordable home to just be there for the kids and focus on healing herself. Jeff has a good job and the GFM would have afforded her a year or two to not work and focus on the kids if it wasn't blown on 4K fridges and her Tara-Aaryn wannabe home. It's one thing if sharing things about fashion/makeup on her page is a positive distraction for her, but she shares so many private moments of her children and family during this traumatic time for views (let's also not forget her telling the world that Sydney started shaving her legs, for the sake of a sponsorship).
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FinnMiaBelle wrote: ↑Sun Nov 29, 2020 7:09 pmThe problem here would be the timing; how long crew went without oxygen. I mean, from the time the incident occurred, to the time they found him, and then called 911, and then the time it took for paramedics to arrive and begin cpr, that’s a long time to be without oxygen. Sure, you can get blood pumping again, but your organs are effectively dead. If he were without oxygen for let’s say 3 minutes, sure he could have been fine and survived! But that’s definitely not what happened. That baby was without oxygen for so long that he died and then was listed as brain dead. What makes you think his organs would be viable? And everyone talking about the honor walk.... I don’t believe they faked that. I mentioned in my original comment that I believe they did indeed donate crews body/organs, but Not to other children. Instead, I think they donated crews body to science. They’d still have the honor walk & flag. Not disagreeing with you there. But, I do not believe his organs were viable to actually donate to recipients in need.charliema16 wrote: ↑Sat Nov 21, 2020 9:15 amI think you are reaching way too hard there. Organs can most definitely be donated even after the brain has been starved of oxygen. My person belief is Crew died from unsafe sleep practice ie being left on an adult bed and he moved and got stuck and suffocated, or one of the older kids put a blanket on him which (unintentionally) ended up over his face.FinnMiaBelle wrote: ↑Fri Nov 20, 2020 9:03 pm
She wouldn’t have been able to donate crews organs if that were the case. If crew stopped breathing for any amount of tome at home, which Brittani claimed he did, then his organs would be useless.
Lack of oxygen, even for a few minutes causes cell death. His organs would have been unviable. It does not matter that they hooked him up to a respirator. It doesn’t change the fact that he was unresponsive & ceased breathing.
This was ultimately why he couldn’t be resuscitated, Because he had been unresponsive for too long prior to EMS arriving on scene. He was effectively brain dead by then, and nothing doctors could do.
They tried, but it was too late. Crew had been without oxygen for far too long.... so my question still stands; How were they able to donate his organs?
My opinion is they didn’t. They probably donated his body to research, but no one received any of crews organs. My opinion is Crew had A well-documented pre-existing condition that parents & doctors knew full well about.
I think this is why there was no autopsy. No investigation into his sudden & unexplained death, and why Brittani is keeping tight-lipped on cause of death, Because if there were a pre-existing condition that caused his death, then the GoFundMe campaign was fraudulent, and Brittani knows this.
Does anyone else remember a close family member posting on social media a day or so after crew died? They admitted that his death was caused by a pre-existing condition. It’s since been scrubbed from the internet.
I went back and looked at photos of crew, specifically of his head, and I noticed that it resembled that of a hydro baby. Hydrocephalus. It’s quite common, and there are many different forms & severities. Some benign and others fatal, a few almost always fatal. We do know that crew suffered head trauma during his birth.
Not sure if it could be related to hydrocephalus or not, but I believe hydrocephalus can be caused from trauma. If you go back and watch brittanis birth Vlog for crew, at the end she talks about having a hat on crews head because of the bruising he sustained during birth.
Something about his head hit against her pelvic bone on the way through the birth canal, because he came out so fast. What if she knew crew was on borrowed time? What would that mean for the hundreds of thousands of dollars she received from the GoFundMe campaign? Promoting a fundraiser under false pretenses. It looks a lot like Brittani being in a heap of shit for fraud.
One more thing; where is Crews obituary? I have yet to find it. It is not posted anywhere. It’s as if there wasn’t one. It’s all truly bizarre. Just my own personal opinion.
This is simply scientifically untrue. There are many cases where resuscitation is achieved after brain hypoxia/anoxia and the patient still has viable organs. Here are some articles on the matter:
[Organ Donation in Pediatric Patients with Severe Anoxic Brain Injury][/https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6069613/]
[Time trends in organ donation after neurologic determination of death: a cohort study][/https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5378522/]
and the cause of hypoxia has a huge influence on what happens in the rest of the body at this time. If we assume Crew's COD was positional asphyxiation, there is no reason to assume his organs would not be viable from this. Hanging is another cause of positional asphyxiation that also often results in brain death with the possibility of organ donation, if you would like to do more reading on it. Then there are examples like hypothermia, which also cause brain hypoxia but have (obviously) high rates of success for organ donation. BBL did openly state they did test the functioning of Crew's organs for viability which is how the decisions were made about what was donated. If your only argument is that if Crew was brain dead than his other organs must be dead I would love to see a scientific article backing that up because it goes against almost all the literature and practice out there. Emergency responders are even instructed to attempt resuscitation even if the chance of recovery is low because of the possibility of organ donation.