Hoebag Haleigh Everts: my husband is a DOCTOR | Part 3

[DoeEyes]

I'm glad she's documenting this...so when her 12 year old hops in Google, she finds that her mom publicly humiliated her dad for years. Then, when they were on the verge of divorce, mommy posted lots of private info: Mommy cheated on dad. Daddy love porn more than mommy.

Its a technique...

[Blossom76]

What a disaster! I'm not sticking up for CJ and his porn addiction, but her cheating as well isn't going to help anything, I also think its pretty fucked up if she loses her temple rec and he keeps his. I could almost feel sorry for her if she wasn't such a bitch. Wonder what she actually did? Kissing, sending nudes, finger banged by some random, so many options

Her hair looks like shit and that jumper she has on is awful. It does explain her need to have 3 million photographs of herself half naked or garmet free all over the internet, I mean its obviously what CJ likes so maybe its her way of trying to rub it in his face.

Their parents will be so proud when they see it

[Blossom76]

I'm glad she's documenting this...so when her 12 year old hops in Google, she finds that her mom publicly humiliated her dad for years. Then, when they were on the verge of divorce, mommy posted lots of private info: Mommy cheated on dad. Daddy love porn more than mommy.

Its a technique...

Fuck me, and she lumps porn in with video games and work, ok Haleigh, totally the same thing

[kikiluvsu]

I'm glad she's documenting this...so when her 12 year old hops in Google, she finds that her mom publicly humiliated her dad for years. Then, when they were on the verge of divorce, mommy posted lots of private info: Mommy cheated on dad. Daddy love porn more than mommy.

Its a technique...

“Remember ladies...” bitch SHUT UP! How far up her ass must her head be that even when her marriage is falling apart she still that she’s in a position to be giving advice? Gag me.


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[kikiluvsu]

What a disaster! I'm not sticking up for CJ and his porn addiction, but her cheating as well isn't going to help anything, I also think its pretty fucked up if she loses her temple rec and he keeps his. I could almost feel sorry for her if she wasn't such a bitch. Wonder what she actually did? Kissing, sending nudes, finger banged by some random, so many options

Her hair looks like shit and that jumper she has on is awful. It does explain her need to have 3 million photographs of herself half naked or garmet free all over the internet, I mean its obviously what CJ likes so maybe its her way of trying to rub it in his face.

Their parents will be so proud when they see it

I just don’t know how she would’ve even found someone to have an affair with... she has no friends, she’s a slave to her family, she refuses to put her kids in real school... I personally don’t think she had sex. It sounds logistically impossible for that to have happened.


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[kikiluvsu]

At the end of the day it doesn’t matter what she did or what he did. It’s their business. It’s between them and God..... oh wait, she broadcasts everything to the world! So how could it not be everyone else’s business?

Jokes aside, I’m glad she saw a therapist. I hope she goes regularly. Seeing a therapist and taking medication changed my life! To address some of the comments above, I do agree that talking to your bishop isn’t a replacement for therapy. That being said, the LDS church does have a family services program that employs licensed therapists who carry valid temple recommendations. Typically it’s inexpensive but can be free depending on your financial situation. I’ve personally used those services and found it very helpful to receive professional help from a licensed professional who understood the Faith context when advising me. To me that was very helpful because my religion is such a huge part of who I am. Of course it’s a hit or miss; I’ve heard horror stories from friends. But I think it’s like with every therapist, lds or not, you have to shop a bit.


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[kikiluvsu]

Regarding the whole repentance thing, I don’t judge her for cheating on CJ. Of course I don’t condone it or think it’s acceptable or justified. However, I also put myself in her situation... I’ve never been married to someone who liked porn and video games more than me. Who was lazy and didn’t help with the kids/house. Who told me what I could and couldn’t eat. Who shoved a flashlight up my vagina after giving birth to his child to see if he was up for having sex with me. Who blindsights me literally minutes after giving birth to our second child that he changed his mind about how many kids we should have. Hopefully I’ll never be in that situation. But imagine being in that crappy marriage, plus you already have super low self esteem, you got a 2.0 gpa on the easiest major and have zero career prospects, you have no friends and constantly burn bridges..... that sounds very lonely! And when you’re as insecure as she is, it’s no wonder it happened.

I try not to judge people who sin differently than I do and I’m glad she’s recognizing her mistakes and is seeking spiritual guidance from her bishop. The repentance process is painful; it’s hard to forgive yourself (especially with serious sin). But it’s also very humbling. I hope she will allow this experience to soften her heart and be less of a bitch.

We all warned her about this... the golden ticket mentality, that CJ was a crap husband, that listening to podcasts won’t fix your situation, that she was prideful.... and she blocked us. Now she is literally citing all the stuff she blocked us for as “look what I learned I’m so wise” no bitch WE SAID IT FIRST

So I don’t judge her for cheating, I judge her for being a prideful, selfish person.


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[kikiluvsu]

I'm glad she's documenting this...so when her 12 year old hops in Google, she finds that her mom publicly humiliated her dad for years. Then, when they were on the verge of divorce, mommy posted lots of private info: Mommy cheated on dad. Daddy love porn more than mommy.

Its a technique...

I love that she posts all these illustrations of how CJ is messed up but doesn’t do the same for herself. I don’t care if she got a legally binding signature from him stating he’s okay with her posting all this crap... he will inwardly and subconsciously resent her even more for doing this..... and if she keeps disrespecting him this way her situation will only get worse


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[DoeEyes]

I do feel really sorry for her that her relationship got to this point. It sucks to be unhappy in a marriage. But this is an opportunity to look back at all the shitty decisions they made and make better choices.

Shotgun wedding
Honeymoon baby
Another baby right away
Hundreds of thousands in Student loans
Buying a house outside of their finances
Throwing lamps
Talking about explicit things with minors
....

It is also really sad that she and CJ aren't on the same page with family and kids. Sounds like CJ is completely emotionally unavailable to her, which is making the symptoms of her mental illness worsen. No wonder she reached out to someone else for love and validation. She is taking on a lot of the responsibility. I wonder if CJ acknowledges his part in the breakdown of their relationship.

Its really fucked up that she convinced herself thay having expectations of a spouse and lover is bad. And that she can fix things by being a stepford wife.

She has a lot of work ahead of her. Im glad she's working on it now before she raises her kids to be fucked up sociopaths like their dad. Haleigh is a major bitch. But I wonder how much of it is a result of being in an emotionally abusive relationship.

[Sippinda_tea69]

This is one of those times I’m probably wrongly shocked she’s sharing so much personal information. My opinion is that religion aside, CJ is simply not a good spouse and she didn’t know him long enough before they got married to see it. I would leave, screw working on a relationship with a lazy man. At some point if you’re always the one putting in effort, you’ve got to really scrutinize the other person. Haleighs not perfect but I would not tolerate anything she’s tolerated.

[DoeEyes]

Apparently her IG is a place to "repent" publicly.

[spillthattea19]

Anyone who saw Haleigh and CJ do that IG live two years knows he’s a massive, emotionally abusive douchebag. I know Haleigh can be a bitch, but CJ preyed upon her insecurities by hinting to her that he wanted a stereotypical Mormon housewife. She starved herself, fried her hair, and ruined her lashes and cakes her face daily for him. CJ is the one that’s emotionally unavailable, provided zero financial stability for years, he sucks at being a parent, has several hobbies while his wife has no life outside of taking care of the kids, doesn’t want to have sex with his wife, and withheld having more kids with her by guilting her into thinking they’d have to take in her nieces and nephews.

I honestly feel sorry for her as awful as she can be sometimes. I think she genuinely tried to be a better wife while he continued to not bother to improve his behavior. As a Christian, I hate divorce, but Haleigh and CJ are not meant to be together. She’s young and pretty enough to find a better man.


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[Blossom76]

Well that didn't take long, any bets on how long it takes for her to take it down, although she is getting a shit ton of views on it compared to everything else she's done this year.

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[Jewel_thegem79]

She made another video right after this huge confession but the whole video is her preaching her sudden "expert" advice/knowledge on pornography addiction? She goes completely past the fact that she fucking cheated, whether emotionally cheated or whatever, she said infidelity, at the least, she did something fucked up enough to lose her recommend. Also pornography addiction is not souly a LDS issue and yet she says no one can not get over this addiction without Christ/atonement. So all 12 step programs that include simply a higher power are shit without LDS backing? Clearly she has done SO much research. I almost felt bad for her after her last video and I thought I saw more "real logic" in her than I have ever seen in years of content until she right away made this know it all video addressing only CJ's problem. Which don't get me wrong I think he is an asshole as well but its like she is milking it. And how many videos has she made constantly talking about realizations and progress she has made in her marriage, to then say for five years both of them have basically had one foot out the door and she was so unhappy and just done this year, done enough to look outside her marriage. Talk about fake, goddamn I'll never get over watching this car wreck.

[DoeEyes]

Nothing says "I love you" more than capitalizing off your spouses supposed addiction by posting a video for the entire world to see. (I'm sure he's on board with allowing his potential patients to know everything happening in his marriage and personal life.)

It feels like she has a new topic to discuss that will get her a lot of attention and views and likes and sympathy. She's an attention whore.

Honestly, I think its disgusting. If you have a problem with your marriage, go to a therapist. Not YouTube. If you need another shoulder to lean on, talk to a friend. Not YouTube. Goes to show that she lacks all emotional intelligence. Interesting for someone who claims to be an expert in marriage and family relations.

[kikiluvsu]

Well that didn't take long, any bets on how long it takes for her to take it down, although she is getting a shit ton of views on it compared to everything else she's done this year.

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Lol if it bugs her that much she can disable the comments...


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[DoeEyes]

Holy shit. She's publicly shaming Ireland on her IG stories. Yes, kids make mistakes, they're mean sometimes, they misbehave...

But haleigh is forcing Ireland to explain what she did to a camera so she can put it on her IG. She needs to go to therapy for parenting, too. This is gross.

[okpaytonn]

Holy shit. She's publicly shaming Ireland on her IG stories. Yes, kids make mistakes, they're mean sometimes, they misbehave...

But haleigh is forcing Ireland to explain what she did to a camera so she can put it on her IG. She needs to go to therapy for parenting, too. This is gross.

Pls share for those of us who don’t follow her!!


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[DoeEyes]

Holy shit. She's publicly shaming Ireland on her IG stories. Yes, kids make mistakes, they're mean sometimes, they misbehave...

But haleigh is forcing Ireland to explain what she did to a camera so she can put it on her IG. She needs to go to therapy for parenting, too. This is gross.

Pls share for those of us who don’t follow her!!


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It's a video recording, which i can't post on here.

[sickofthebs]

ok, I was going to give her a chance after the "comeback" video, but this one absolutely takes the cake. First of all, did CJ lose HIS temple recommend for his terrible porn problem? No, he (most likely) did not, or she would have mentioned this in the previous video. So-- she did something bad enough to where she's not allowed in the temple for the foreseeable future, but CJ's "pornography addiction" is what we're talking about in this video? OH MY GOD HOW CAN SHE BE SO CLUELESS?!

Seriously-- does she not watch her own videos? She's desperate for CJ to like her and fits herself into the mold of the "perfeCT wife" (with perfect enunciation), but then she nitpicks and criticizes him all the time. Go back and watch the "making pizza" video from May. This poor guy is trying to make a pizza and she is all over him, like "do you not want to WHISK that? Really? Don't you? I WOULD WHISK IT."

I'm not even saying CJ is any kind of prince, but come on. Five years ago- he's a young guy, he's Mormon, he wants to have sex. He meets her and is duped into thinking this is his dream life. Is it his fault that she quickly shows herself to be the nightmare person she is? Should they have to try SO HARD to get along? They are obviously not "meant to be," but their weird religion basically makes it so they are "married for all eternity" so they can't admit they made a mistake and move on with their lives.

I'm sorry, but she is obviously the one that needs MUCH more therapy than CJ. I honestly think he was just sucked in to her nonsense and is going to be dealing with her until the children are 18. YIKES.

She made another video right after this huge confession but the whole video is her preaching her sudden "expert" advice/knowledge on pornography addiction? She goes completely past the fact that she fucking cheated, whether emotionally cheated or whatever, she said infidelity, at the least, she did something fucked up enough to lose her recommend. Also pornography addiction is not souly a LDS issue and yet she says no one can not get over this addiction without Christ/atonement. So all 12 step programs that include simply a higher power are shit without LDS backing? Clearly she has done SO much research. I almost felt bad for her after her last video and I thought I saw more "real logic" in her than I have ever seen in years of content until she right away made this know it all video addressing only CJ's problem. Which don't get me wrong I think he is an asshole as well but its like she is milking it. And how many videos has she made constantly talking about realizations and progress she has made in her marriage, to then say for five years both of them have basically had one foot out the door and she was so unhappy and just done this year, done enough to look outside her marriage. Talk about fake, goddamn I'll never get over watching this car wreck.