Joie de Vivre wrote:Mamadrama wrote: ↑Sat Dec 12, 2020 8:42 pm
It sounds from the recent replies people aren’t glad Fletcher is potentially healthy, like seriously? I was so fucking relieved for him. Screw bitchney and frenk but that baby... thank goodness! For his own sake! He didn’t choose to come to this world, he didn’t choose those horrible human beings for his parents.
It sounds like many on here actually wanted fletcher to have dmd just so they can gloat in Britney’s misery and failure
Who isn't happy?? I think we're all deliriously happy he doesn't have it! Most of us are just sad for Nolan because there will be a HUGE disparity in their lives simply due to Britney's throw of a dice. Nolan will see all his brother grow up healthy, doing sports, walking, running, going to prom, etc. Nolan will probably be in a wheelchair by the time high school comes around. We hate Britney for playing God with these children without giving a single fuck for their futures. Don't confuse things.
Who cares if he can't walk, run, have a partner or children? Who cares if he is going to die before he really gets to live and who cares how painful his life and death will be to those around him and especially him because Brittany will still love him and that totally makes up for it right? I hate the way she says a diagnosis wouldn't make her love them any less..... Umm why the eff would it? If anything that should make her love him more because he has less time but it was like she wanted to be praised for that. Like her stupid minions were saying "she's so brave....I couldn't imagine loving my dying child.... How does she do it?"
I know she mentioned eventually moving but I think she didn't make her "dream home" wheelchair accessible because once Nolan gets too bad she is going to ship him off to a home which is totally fine for people who don't have the means or capability of caring for a sick/dying child but obviously britt can definitely afford it (at least at this point). Maybe it would be good for Nolan and I hope if it's true they find the absolute best home for him. I think with the money they spent on the house she could have very easily had it turned into a wheelchair accessible home... 1 story, wider doorways/hallways. I understand not wanting to focus on it now especially considering these are his good years but those things wouldn't have been that obvious and like we all know youtube isn't forever and you aren't guaranteed a check in 6 months or a year so what if she can't afford it later?
My grandma died of a form of MD before I was born and hearing my mom talk about taking care of her and her (my grandma) slowing losing her ability to do everything but still having her mind is heartbreaking... I couldn't imagine going through bit with my child and having the power to prevent it from happening again and just not caring. Maybe since Nolan isn't too bad it hasn't hit her yet but how could she be so careless with a child's life? Bob was telling her she could never have another child but she could have done IVF with testing and not risked it at all or even adopted because even though it does ffect her life the real victims are her innocent children who will be the ones suffering. Her son's body is going to slowly start shutting down.... He won't be able to wipe himself, move or even talk but his mind will still 100% be functional so he will completely understand what is going on and happening which I think makes it so much worse but hey his mom will still love him so it's ok
. All she can think about is herself. I know the chances are slim but I pray that somehow they find a cure for this heartbreaking disease in Nolan's lifetime or at least something to slow it's progression and give him more good years. I wonder if she has talked to him about it. I'm not sure when it will start to become apparent to him that he is different from his siblings or getting weaker? Maybe he wonders why he used to be able to jump but can't anymore? I'm just using that as an example. But I doubt she has even talked about it with him or the girls. I'm not sure how you would explain it to a child that young but if she were taking him to the specialists she is supposed to then I'm sure they could get her information or tips. The 3 older kids should all be in counseling and eventually the younger 2 as well.
I'm still not 100% convinced that Fletch is in the clear but even if he is she still risked it and if he did have it can you imagine going through all the heartbreak with Nolan, Eventually losing him and knowing in a few years it would happen all over again? Her heartlessness astounds me.
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