JesssFam: Crying About "Homeschool" to Pay for the Pool (Pt 144)

[Theyneedananny]

Why would she put in one of the boys peeing the bed? The latest vlog she said stop eating ice or you’ll peel the bed. I know kids have accidents but their friends and such can easily watch the video and make fun of them

[MiloandMax1]

Jess claims she makes her kids listen but even when that happened with Drake and Kaden called her then Jess talked to Drake she said "I would have done the same thing". So if she would have done the same thing she supposedly agreed with how he handled it yet went and got Kaden.

Just like the next time she filmed Kaden on the bed before they were supposed to go and he would say ok I will go then she would start patting his back saying "if you don't want to" blah blah blah. She didn't want him to go because she need vlog material. Also this was the vlog where she says Drake would be picking up Landens old bed so he would "have a bed there" when her step kids went without their own bed for how many years in the old house?

[MiloandMax1]

Here is the vlog of why Kaden doesn't want to go. Drake says that Kaden took his own brothers gun and that was fine, but Stephanie son did it and that's when Kaden wanted to go home, Drake took their ipads and took all of the kids off the game. Which in this video Jess said she would have done the same. Listen to Kaden he didn't get his way and freaks out. Of course Jess goes and picks him up. Probably babied him some more on the way home and of course hes not going to want to go back, gets him stuff from Jess.

[MiloandMax1]

Also Jess said that Kaden was "probably hungry". We've seen what she feeds her kids, surprised he's not angry more if that's the case.

[tuttifruittitea]

This seems to be an unpopular option. I went through my parents separating when i was 11. it was a v traumatic situation and didn’t see my father.
I totally understand why Kaden doesn’t want to see Drake. And I don’t think he should be forced to see him. He is old enough to make his own choices (he isn’t 3!!) The way he doesn’t actually want to talk about why he doesn’t want to go, means there is defs a reason but I don’t think it’s as simple as he just gets in trouble when he is there.
Seeing your biological father every second weekend after pretty much growing up without him in your life (random visits here and there), it something difficult to adjust to. Some kids don’t like change. It’s fair enough.
Yes I don’t like jess and haven’t wanted a vlog in a few months. Yes I know this is a gossip site but I don’t think we should really be sitting here judging why a kid doesn’t feel comfortable seeing his absentee father. Trust me, kids realise from a young age what people in their lives really matter.

sorry - rant over. I just think it isn’t as black and white as we think


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[MiloandMax1]

That depends on what you believe. There is proof that even when Jess was saying that they didn't see their dad he WAS seeing his dad. I think something happened when they moved and she had to admit that yes they go over there. It wasn't just this year.

If Kaden didn't want to go why didn't he throw a fit when he eventually went? Notice she didn't film that "conversation" they had (she typed in that he decided to go) but Jess films everything else. That makes me believe she was rambling about him not wanting to go for vlog content. Drake has said multiple times if he doesn't want to go he isn't going to force him. If Jess thought there was neglect or a real reason she wouldn't let him or any of them over there especially her shining light, Landen.

Kaden seemed fine going there for well over a year (given pictures as proof that he was seeing drake even when Jess was saying they hadn't seen their dad as well as Natalie talking about Bella seeing the boys even when Jess kept saying they didn't even know who their sister was and she wanted to get them together). It wasn't until he got into it with Stephanie's son over the video game and Drake didn't let ANY of the kids play fortnite for the rest of the day. And while Jess said she would have done the same she instead went and picked him up. You know why, for vlog footage. Drake is bad = views. Kaden didn't get away with something and threw a for just like Jess does when she doesnt get her way.

[hooboy]

This seems to be an unpopular option. I went through my parents separating when i was 11. it was a v traumatic situation and didn’t see my father.
I totally understand why Kaden doesn’t want to see Drake. And I don’t think he should be forced to see him. He is old enough to make his own choices (he isn’t 3!!) The way he doesn’t actually want to talk about why he doesn’t want to go, means there is defs a reason but I don’t think it’s as simple as he just gets in trouble when he is there.
Seeing your biological father every second weekend after pretty much growing up without him in your life (random visits here and there), it something difficult to adjust to. Some kids don’t like change. It’s fair enough.
Yes I don’t like jess and haven’t wanted a vlog in a few months. Yes I know this is a gossip site but I don’t think we should really be sitting here judging why a kid doesn’t feel comfortable seeing his absentee father. Trust me, kids realise from a young age what people in their lives really matter.

sorry - rant over. I just think it isn’t as black and white as we think


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Especially when the question of Kaden possibly being autistic has been raised in the past.

I wasn't on this forum when Jesss had mentioned that in a few vlogs so Idk what the general opinion here is. But if Kaden does have some kind of neurodiversity it might make it more difficult for him to adapt to different people in a different place with different rules.

With Jesss there are no rules so even if Kaden doesn't have a condition I'm not sure I'd blame him for not handling punishment well. If you're always coddled and allowed to do what you want then yeah, punishment probably feels really mean. Not to mention that Jesss doesn't let Chris be "strict", there have maybe been times when he's attempted to punish the kids and he and Jesss have argued in front of them and Jesss has made it clear that it's "not allowed". She's possibly taught her kids accidentally that any sternness is bullying.

[Person12345]

When Jess asked Kaden about how their time at their Dads was, and Kaden said how he didnt enjoy one second if it, you could tell he was lying. Just by looking at his face it was obvious. He doesn't seem to have a real reason for not going except the fact the Drake must "punish" them when not behaving. Even though jess loves to bash on Drake, he seems to want to reprimand the bad behaviour. Drake seems to have actually cleaned up his act a bit and actually disciplined the kids, unlike Jessica

[Person12345]

This seems to be an unpopular option. I went through my parents separating when i was 11. it was a v traumatic situation and didn’t see my father.
I totally understand why Kaden doesn’t want to see Drake. And I don’t think he should be forced to see him. He is old enough to make his own choices (he isn’t 3!!) The way he doesn’t actually want to talk about why he doesn’t want to go, means there is defs a reason but I don’t think it’s as simple as he just gets in trouble when he is there.
Seeing your biological father every second weekend after pretty much growing up without him in your life (random visits here and there), it something difficult to adjust to. Some kids don’t like change. It’s fair enough.
Yes I don’t like jess and haven’t wanted a vlog in a few months. Yes I know this is a gossip site but I don’t think we should really be sitting here judging why a kid doesn’t feel comfortable seeing his absentee father. Trust me, kids realise from a young age what people in their lives really matter.

sorry - rant over. I just think it isn’t as black and white as we think


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Fair point. Especially since Kaden had the traumatic experience with Drake cutting his hair. But I dont think Jessica tells the truth about how often the boys really see Drake. She has taken any opportunity to paint him as bad person and a bad person. Yes he cheated. And imo once a cheater always a cheater. But we dont know the true relationship he actually has with his boys. Kyson loves going over there. He was happy to go there and he was so happy to tell Jess all about their weekend - that speaks volume.

[MiloandMax1]

Landen seems to enjoy going as well. Kaden had no issue going until he had the game taken away. But also I think Jess is using Kaden for views. In the video where Kaden was trying to decide to go back after the fortnite incident he saw the camera that's when he was like "I'm gonna stay here" and then Jess moved in front of the camera (he's on Addie's bed). Drake said he wasn't going to force him. I don't think Drake is a saint at all, but this is just another one of those things I don't think needs to be filmed regardless of how the boys feel about their dad.

Also recent video why does Jess act like she's the only parent that's ever had to have a custody arrangement?

[Haulnarse]

Jessica certainly doesnt tell the truth about how often hes seen the boys, thats for sure.

[SkyWolfX]

She literally got caught out lying in that video. "The boys haven't seen their dad in months" then Drake goes "Kaden hasn't come for the last 3 visits i haven't seen him in 3 months". She can't even keep lies consistent for a 10 min video

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[Kayla]

Just out of curiosity, does anyone think that Jessica and Chris will stay together? I always thought they seemed like a strong couple and worked well together. But lately, Chris has seemed really dull, especially in videos involving Jessica and Gabe flirting and her cringy tik toks. Jess has also seemed A LOT more controlling and bossy as she’s constantly making him build things for her and making a huge deal about the things he wants to buy.


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[emlyx]

Just out of curiosity, does anyone think that Jessica and Chris will stay together? I always thought they seemed like a strong couple and worked well together. But lately, Chris has seemed really dull, especially in videos involving Jessica and Gabe flirting and her cringy tik toks. Jess has also seemed A LOT more controlling and bossy as she’s constantly making him build things for her and making a huge deal about the things he wants to buy.


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She needs someone to control and he needs someone to pay his child support, so yes.

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[sianny_threepac]

Is she for real ? She’s nearly 30 and she has to get her slave to do her parting ?
I think she just gets more stupid every day.
She’d never have surgery on her nose but she had surgery that made her look even worse? Ok then ...

[sezzajaydee]

The only time I’ve seen Kaden upset about going to Drake’s was after the issue with the video game.
He’s 8. He’s spoiled. His mother has always made excuses for when he’s gotten into genuine trouble. Remember the tantrum he had over the high five incident. Messss made excuses for his behaviour and undermined the teacher and her rules.
So I don’t doubt he didn’t want to go. But not for any reason other than the fact he has never had to follow rules. He’s always gotten his own way. It’d be a culture shock for him.

With that said, he’s old enough to learn that different places have different rules and that he needs to adjust his behaviour or face the consequences. It’s a vital skill he’s going to need when he’s older too.

[CottonCandySky]

Just out of curiosity, does anyone think that Jessica and Chris will stay together? I always thought they seemed like a strong couple and worked well together. But lately, Chris has seemed really dull, especially in videos involving Jessica and Gabe flirting and her cringy tik toks. Jess has also seemed A LOT more controlling and bossy as she’s constantly making him build things for her and making a huge deal about the things he wants to buy.


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No I don’t think they will stay together, but not until she finds a new man she can have a new baby with. In my point of view, Chris isn’t just lazy, but he seems very depressed actually. I hope he finds a way to snap out of that and at that point he will put his kids first.

[socks123]

I really think Jess should stop mentioning anything about Kaden not wanting to go to Drakes. I’m sure it’s a very complex situation but she’s teaching Kaden that If he whines and puts up a fight about it he gets screen time and attention from her. If he really doesn’t want to go then whatever, but don’t question him about it on camera. I know so many kids with split families that have learned to say what parent that they are with wants to hear. It’s funny to me how Kyson is apparently so sensitive but has no issues going and finding a way to get along with stephanies kids. And Jess put yourself in Drakes shoes, I’m not defending him as a person but what if Stephanie and Drake started Vlogging and showing Kyson crying that he didn’t want to go back to Jess’s house?

[missparzival]

Off topic but what happened to the phone watches? I haven't seen them since the original video.

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[Kayla]

Off topic but what happened to the phone watches? I haven't seen them since the original video.

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I was wondering the same thing, I’m sure they’re somewhere buried away because the kids would rather use their iPads. We all know Jessica spends money on useless garbage and doesn’t care when it’s wasted


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