JesssFam: Crying About "Homeschool" to Pay for the Pool (Pt 144)

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Admittedly, I don’t watch all of Jess’s videos and when I do I usually skip around/ my majority of my focus is on something else BUT in the video of Jess dropping the kids off Drake says “Why now? He hasn’t been over here in like 3 months?” They then go back and fourth a little bit and Drake says “I mean, I don’t want to force him to stay here but I’m really trying to be like more involved and like have them all on my time but I mean like *mumbles* I haven’t seen him damn near almost three months because he didn’t come the last 2 or 3 times.” There’s an edit in the video and Jess goes “I’ll tell him” and then the convo is basically over.

How often is Lilia seeing Gabe on his actual time, not them just getting together in an entertainment setting?

By that statement from Drake he admitted to only seeing boys every 7-8 weeks (based on 2-3 times in 3 months) AND that he’s been absent prior. IF Drake really cared to the fullest extent he’d take Jess to court for a legal agreement whether he has pay child support or not.

I definitely think there’s more to the story then what we know but I am leaning more towards Jess being more honest than she’s been given credit for based on what Drake said alone.

Kaden later on said he didn’t have fun because Drakes girlfriends son is mean to him, if I only saw my Dad every 7-8 weeks and when I went I felt uncomfortable or felt like another child there was being mean to me I wouldn’t want to go back, either. It’s clear Drake has different rules than Jessica just like Gabe has different rules, Lilia is able to adjust based on each household because that’s all she knows while Kaden doesn’t even know Drake.

Imagine going to someone’s house you barely see, having completely different rules and see another child bond with your parent better than you.
Kaden probably feels the exact same as Caden and Tommy feel at Jess’s.


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motocrosshunny420 wrote:I know I just commented but I noticed something after watching Gabe and Amber’s Christmas special. When Jess brings the kids over, all but Kaden are really well behaved which shows it’s an act around Messs. Lilia is actually a pretty chill kid and is actually pretty likable. Kaden on the other hand is the same misbehaving terror. The kid still screaming, greedy, screechy, and even at one point was commenting on Logan’s Christmas gifts.


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I know! Lilia gets so much snark but, it probably sucks growing up in that house!


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Lolislol26 wrote: Mon Dec 28, 2020 10:56 am Admittedly, I don’t watch all of Jess’s videos and when I do I usually skip around/ my majority of my focus is on something else BUT in the video of Jess dropping the kids off Drake says “Why now? He hasn’t been over here in like 3 months?” They then go back and fourth a little bit and Drake says “I mean, I don’t want to force him to stay here but I’m really trying to be like more involved and like have them all on my time but I mean like *mumbles* I haven’t seen him damn near almost three months because he didn’t come the last 2 or 3 times.” There’s an edit in the video and Jess goes “I’ll tell him” and then the convo is basically over.

How often is Lilia seeing Gabe on his actual time, not them just getting together in an entertainment setting?

By that statement from Drake he admitted to only seeing boys every 7-8 weeks (based on 2-3 times in 3 months) AND that he’s been absent prior. IF Drake really cared to the fullest extent he’d take Jess to court for a legal agreement whether he has pay child support or not.

I definitely think there’s more to the story then what we know but I am leaning more towards Jess being more honest than she’s been given credit for based on what Drake said alone.

Kaden later on said he didn’t have fun because Drakes girlfriends son is mean to him, if I only saw my Dad every 7-8 weeks and when I went I felt uncomfortable or felt like another child there was being mean to me I wouldn’t want to go back, either. It’s clear Drake has different rules than Jessica just like Gabe has different rules, Lilia is able to adjust based on each household because that’s all she knows while Kaden doesn’t even know Drake.

Imagine going to someone’s house you barely see, having completely different rules and see another child bond with your parent better than you.
Kaden probably feels the exact same as Caden and Tommy feel at Jess’s.


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Well, in regards to the 3 months comment, Jessica had said prior that the boys hadn't seen Drake in months when in reality that wasn't the truth. I don't think she's trying to be malicious but she does lie and withhold the truth, which she is allowed to do, but I don't think it's as simple as Jess is right here and Drake is wrong. Again I think Drake is garbage but Jessica isn't exactly truthful in these situations. She wants people to think she is the better parent (which is obvious) but like she ALWAYS finds a way to bring up Drake.

And in Ambers vlog Gabe said something about Lilia not coming over as much as he wants but she is allowed to make her own decisions so take that as it is.
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2-3 times in 3 months isn't every 7-8 weeks. 3 months is 12 weeks most likely. 3 times in 3 months is 1 time a month which is 1 weekend a month at least. Jess did admit that she had changed some overnights because she had things going on.

Kaden hasn't wanted to go back since Jess went and picked him up. If Jess really wanted him to be there she would have let what happen, happen (all of the kids were taken off of fortnite. Kaden got mad at Stephanie's son for taking his gone when minutes prior Kaden did the same to Kyson or Landen. He just doesn't like when it happens to him). Isn't it funny that Kyson and even the shining light Landen have no issue going over there? But the one that doesn't like being told no is the one that doesn't want to to?

Again I think Drake is a pos. I think he should have shown up to court so she didn't automatically get the sole custody she mentions every single chance she gets. I think he could come,out and say so much about her and her lies (just like his gf posting the boys pics last year which made Jess admit he was seeing them). I also believe Natalie that he sees them regularly yet Jess still went on and on about getting the boys and Arabella together, as well as saying they didn't even know their sister.

At the end of the day Jess is the one putting this stuff out there, so yeah I am going to comment on that. She's been caught in lies, like others have said she also edits to make herself look good and films convos when it fits her story but doesn't share those when it doesn't so I think there was way more to it. Imo I don't think she had to share at all but she did for one reason and one reason only (to bash Drake). Regardless he's the boys dad and they are the ones that will look back on things she's put out there.
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Tommy had two mini cupcakes for his birthday cake again Jess is a shitty step parent I guess money doesn’t equal class.
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Aaliyah_uk wrote: Mon Dec 28, 2020 12:30 pm Tommy had two mini cupcakes for his birthday cake again Jess is a shitty step parent I guess money doesn’t equal class.
Did he get the birthday pancakes though lol. I don't know why she thinks that's special considering the kids always get pancakes.
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Idk if anyone has mentioned it but there was a tik tok someone made about their dad abusing them and making them take a shower with him. Alayna commented and said “the only person I trust to bathe me is my grandma”
I screenshotted it but it’s not letting me upload it.
It’s a weird statement to make.


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The majority of hospitals in Northern California (if not all of CA) are cancelling non-elective surgeries, so we will see what happens with her January surgery.
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Shes not having a surgery in a hospital, its an outpatient surgery center so it's it'll be handled differently from the big hospitals that need the staff for covid surges.
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Nekonekonee wrote:Shes not having a surgery in a hospital, its an outpatient surgery center so it's it'll be handled differently from the big hospitals that need the staff for covid surges.
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Yes Jesss. You're the more mature one. By posting this online.Image

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Ehxsnohs wrote:Yes Jesss. You're the more mature one. By posting this online.Image

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Hard to make out for sure, but does the name say “Sperm Donor”? Image


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that’s so cringey. even if drake sucks. why air out dirty laundry online? it’s supposed to be a lighthearted instagram trend, not a cry for sympathy or showing that your ex is a pos


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I can’t quote but no one here thinks Drake is a saint.
We hear Jessica’s side only, with random bits of conversation she chooses to air which can be used completely out of context.
Messss is a known liar. She outright lies, or twists things to suit her narrative. She manipulates situations to make her look favourable.

People not believing her doesn’t mean we think Drake is 100% right or even close to being a decent person. It just means we aren’t foolish enough to believe every word that comes from Messss.
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They're both teenagers in their mind, who had too many children, because they couldn't think straight, or reach mature decision. Just because Jess dealt with the children she had, doesn't make her more mature, it just makes her at least responsible enough. To this day Jess can't get out of that teenaged mindset and Drake the same. He "wants" to be more involved, but as soon as things start to get difficult, he caves. He wants to be more involved, unless he doesn't. She "wants" to be more mature, unless she isn't.
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Cannot believe she posted that. It for sure says Sperm Donor, which she has showed us before to be Drake.

The ironic thing is she is calling him mature sarcastically there (assuming this was some years ago) and she is now being ‘super mature’ by posting it

We get it, Drake treated you badly. Build a bridge, it’s been six years!!


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And how mature is it for her to keep that text on her phone?!
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ReyRey61 wrote:And how mature is it for her to keep that text on her phone?!
Maybe at one point she was afraid for her safety or for leverage in court? Personally, if I received a text like that I would keep it, too.
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Lolislol26 wrote:
ReyRey61 wrote:And how mature is it for her to keep that text on her phone?!
Maybe at one point she was afraid for her safety or for leverage in court? Personally, if I received a text like that I would keep it, too.
Keep it don't publicize it.


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Lolislol26 wrote:
ReyRey61 wrote:And how mature is it for her to keep that text on her phone?!
Maybe at one point she was afraid for her safety or for leverage in court? Personally, if I received a text like that I would keep it, too.
True, True. I myself would keep it in my Google cloud account so I don’t have to see it. But that’s just me. It is smart to somehow keep it.
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