You nailed it. She's completely incapable of fostering any lasting relationships. And shes never at fault for her shitty decisions. It's her husband's addiction, or her "attachment issues," or his "attachment issues," or his video games, or his job... its never that she simply cannot make the decisions to make her relationship successful and meaningful.Jewel_thegem79 wrote: ↑Sat Jan 09, 2021 8:01 am Okay input please! I wrote this out, but real talk is it too mean or aggressive to post on her video?
“So by this admitted timeline and your video posting dates you’ve been in therapy less than two months at the most? You kicked him out the end of November? And have made like six videos since to help give advice or help others see they aren’t alone? In most AA and 12 step programs you can’t even sponsor someone until you’ve been sober at least a year. To everyone who says thank you for being real and authentic or it helps them, that’s great but your credibility in those areas are horseshit. How many videos did you make about faith, bettering yours marriage, giving advice or just “your perspective” when clearly that was all complete bullshit if you felt this way for a year (and longer by your admission). Now I can see if it was just delusional and you believed you were better when you made those videos wouldn’t that be a giant red flag to you, that hey maybe I don’t know what I’m talking about so quickly after these level of drama and I shouldn’t post it all for the world to see. So many, most of which you blocked over the years gave you the advice you now are clearly paying the price for ignoring. Literally tackling your husband in the dead of night to force the two of you two talk, where you both decided you didn’t want to be married and then you both changed your mind (or the spirit told you), had a handful of therapy sessions because let’s be honestly even if it’s weekly it’s just barely January so yeah great idea to post it all on YouTube. Five years of pretty much the same bs and it’s just so much better. I’ve never heard of an adult relationship sounding so much like a high school drama. And this must be great to pop up on google for any future employee of Cj’s or you (if you ever got job) or any single person your children come in contact with, or your children in general. You may talk to them about it all anyways especially when they are older but what a great childhood knowing everyone could easily know all the insane drama, addictions and problems your parents have with one click.”
5 years is a long time to fake a relationship. And shes still faking it. Which is obvious because she still cannot recognize the toxic behavior she contributes. Her problems aren't a result of porn. Her problems are a result of marrying the wrong person and being unable to maintain ANY relationship.
