Backyard Chicken wrote: ↑Sun Jan 17, 2021 7:48 am
Of course she is going to organize and clean the home they are in. 3 months is a long time to live like your on a regular Vacation. What’s interesting to me is , right now it’s fun and new. Like a vacation!
But you can’t go to the beach, go hiking , and sit sunning yourself all day. Adam will have to work. She will have to do homeschooling. She should be finding out local doctors office for the kids and herself. She will need to make her videos , go shopping , learn the area, and do whatever the hell else she did in OH that kept her so busy. Sure, a week of relaxing after a big move and time zone change is fine but it already seems like she is just living in a “dream” world. If she moved there , her house wouldn’t look look like that. She won’t have that view to wake up to everyday.
I moved from a cold climate to a warm environment and at first it was great! No more coats, we have a pool. Got to explore our new area. But now it’s been a while and while people may vacation to where you live , for you , it everyday life. Homeschooling , grocery shopping , work , taking out the trash , making diner etc. Sure we have more options on the weekend do to outdoor things but most weekends are spent with me cleaning and my kids complaining they are bored lol Don’t get me wrong , I love my life, but fundamentally my life didn’t change so drastically. I still have the same stressors as before. I just don’t have the weather to worry about as much lol
haha yes, all of this. i’ve always lived near the beach too and guess what? nobody goes to the beach much because....real life. there’s work, there’s chores, stuff to do around the house, kids, taking the car to get fixed etc. just because you have the beach nearby doesn’t mean your life stops being dull and boring. it’s called a vacation for a reason, then you return to normal life. as you say, you just worry about the weather less. and it’s nice to have the beach as an option, but nobody sits on it getting burned to a crisp day in day out.
you can tell from her pics she’s never been to the beach much. as someone who has grown up and lived in a hot
climate and around the beach all their life, i can say you don’t sit there laying out and getting bright red. is she angling for a melanoma? we all wear protection, rash vests and board shorts and big hats and loads of sunscreen. you’d be mad not to. not only will the sun cause damage and aging to your skin very quickly, who wants to risk skin cancer?? trust me, laying there like a barbie doll hasn’t been done since the 80s
and i agree about a newborn at the beach. i can’t think of anything worse. i would not be having an 8 week old in the hot sun, she will give him sunstroke for crying out loud.