JesssFam: No More Boobies for the Skubes (Part 145)

[MommaMia3]

RIP Grammie. So sad, losing a grandparent is always hard and Jess was very close to her.

I really hope that this makes her think about how she acted when Chris's dad died. I hope she lets herself and the kids grieve, and is more sensitive in the future when someone is struggling

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[missparzival]

I really hope that having a big crowd come visit her for thanksgiving didn't make her unwell. I lost my Mum to cancer and its horrible. I hope Jess allows herself to feel the pain and work through it and not plaster a fake smile on and act like its all dandy.

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[NarcoelpsyMom]

Long post by a pandemic icu nurse incoming.

Not to be a Debbie downer but it seems like Grammy had covid due to jess being in a gown and gloves. We wouldn't require that at my hospital if she was a normal hospice patient.
Or maybe it was just the flu or something

Im hoping maybe this will stop jess from being so reckless
I also really hope she doesn't hurt herself from traveling so fresh after a pretty decent size surgery. I'm glad she was even able to go visit Grammy. My hospital is a strict 1 visitor per patient. 2 if they are dying. 0 visitors if they have covid even if they're dying. Its so sad, I feel for jess. I understand what she is going through as a nurse. I wish her so much healing during her grieving period.... but I really hope she self reflects a little bit.


In reaction to her posting the hand picture

I think it's appropriate because the visitation policies are so strict, she has other family members we arnt as fortunate enough to get across the country to see their loved one but jesss can. I believe familys can take and share pictures to assure closure. We even do face time for our covid patients who cannot have family with them at end of life. Its horrific

Again feel free to ask any questions, im not white knighting jesss by any means but she deserves respect and time to grieve

In my hospital everyone is treated with COVID precautions, meaning full PPE is worn, until tested negative

Same at the hospitals local to us. In fact, our biggest hospital has only just started to allow patients (Covid or not) to have 1 guest for 1 hour, once a week. But anyone coming in has to be in PPE right now. No homemade masks, either.

I don’t know where Grammie was, none of us do- she could have been in a facility just for hospice patients. Or cancer patients. Or it could have been a full hospital. Either way, Jesss did not have a Covid test done before arriving, there wasn’t time. So her coming in and having to be in gloves, gown, and mask, is for the sake of any patients and staff as much as herself.

It could absolutely be that Grammie had Covid. But that would not be the only reason guests need to be gowned up.

[Ashedah]

They could be in full PPE because they've just travelled on a plane across the country and wouldn't have had time to take a test and wait for results though. Which is what they do here if you get an exemption from your 2 week quarantine.

[moemary1]

RIP Grammie. So sad, losing a grandparent is always hard and Jess was very close to her.

I really hope that this makes her think about how she acted when Chris's dad died. I hope she lets herself and the kids grieve, and is more sensitive in the future when someone is struggling

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How did she act after Chris’ dad passed? I stopped watching her videos after she got with Chris.

[MiloandMax1]

RIP Grammie. So sad, losing a grandparent is always hard and Jess was very close to her.

I really hope that this makes her think about how she acted when Chris's dad died. I hope she lets herself and the kids grieve, and is more sensitive in the future when someone is struggling

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How did she act after Chris’ dad passed? I stopped watching her videos after she got with Chris.

She never let him grieve. It was life is full of rainbows and sunshine. She had the attitude that you choose to be happy or sad. He got really depressed it seems.

[MommaMia3]

RIP Grammie. So sad, losing a grandparent is always hard and Jess was very close to her.

I really hope that this makes her think about how she acted when Chris's dad died. I hope she lets herself and the kids grieve, and is more sensitive in the future when someone is struggling

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How did she act after Chris’ dad passed? I stopped watching her videos after she got with Chris.

She basically just moved on with life. Chris wasn't given time and space to grieve his dad, he just had to plaster on a smile and go on like nothing happened.


My husband lost his sister a few years back. It was really hard for him, but the kids and I did everything we could to show him love and support. There were days when he couldn't get out of bed, and on those days we all helped picked up the slack, because why wouldn't we? I feel so bad for Chris that he didn't have that kind of support.

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[girl_please]

I feel such sadness for Jessica and all her family members. I truly hope she takes some time off of social media and recovers before coming back. I also hope she lets her family members (especially Mimi and the kids) to grieve on their own terms and most importantly, privately.

Not likely. Social media is her job.

Expect lots of clickbait titles.

“I flew across the country less than two weeks post major surgery.... (AND heres WHY!)”

I could see her doing either one, honestly. If she does make videos I hope she's respectful about the whole thing, I don't think she would be disrespectful on purpose though, she clearly loved her Grammie. I know youtube is her life and we all grieve in our own way, but I hope it's more of a brief explanation in a video, just to keep her audience in the loop (if she wants to at all). I picture a tribute video coming, which I think is perfectly fine, Jess loves making videos and I think it would be coming from a place of love, not a cash grab for views. I will be so mad if there is a "AND here's WHY" or any sort of clickbait. I think the way to show respect and still make a video about it is to put a real title about what the actual video is about.

[Wylee]

I’m mostly worried for Kyson. He was really close with Grammie and the one who gets picked on for being sensitive.

[Notmymonkeys]

I really hope she takes a minute to consider how she should make a video about this before putting clips of her grandmas last moments and her grieving family members on the internet. Obviously this is a hard time, my heart breaks for her kids that she’s not there to tell them in person and help the through this new grieving period (unless she’s waiting to tell them), but she really needs to think this through. Her kids should not be shown at all- no telling them, no them processing the news, crying, nothing. Let this be personal and private. I really hope when the time feels right she does a sort of sit-down video to chat about what happened(as much as she’s comfortable to share) with clips of grammie with the kids and how she had a positive impact in messss life and NO clickbaity titles. She has the opportunity to do something to honor a loved one, and it shouldn’t revolve around trying to make the most money.

[Dallas_Snob]

So given most of the conversation is about the unfortunate passing of Jessica’s grandmother I feel like this is almost in inappropriate interjection but...

I looked at Dr. Sweats website and found Jessica’s before and after photos from her first surgery.

I would have 100% done he surgery if my boobs looked like that at 26. I’m in my late 40s and they look rough but couldn’t imagine feeling confident at such a young age. He didn’t do a bad job, a bit too “perky” and not super natural but he did a great job with the nipples.

Stomach looks odd... but don’t know what the norm is for that surgery.

[socks123]

I was gonna post this a few days ago but never got around to it, but I find her relationship with Chris so weird. I feel like this girl doesn’t have any empathy for him. Not only with his dad passing but I’ve noticed it in other ways. Like she can’t ever be bothered to get him a nice gift or even thoughtful gift for Father’s Day/ b-day. It seems like he’s always last priority, and if she does include him in something it’s for views.

[sianny_threepac]

Why should Jess get to visit over Grammies actual children
It’s probably because she kicked off

[MiloandMax1]

Why should Jess get to visit over Grammies actual children
It’s probably because she kicked off

It looked like Mimi was there in the pic Jess shared (she tagged the one hand as her mom). And I'm sure the uncle was there since he lived in that area. Not sure about Amanda's mom but I assume they all flew in together.

[madewitty]

I feel so bad for Jess & her family, I really hope she takes a break and takes time to process this loss. I know she is still working and it might be easier for her but idk like I wish she would just take a breather. My grandpa passed away 2 days before Christmas and I still had to keep working for my job(& then got COVID) and it was super rough and almost sent me into a breakdown. I'm glad she got to be there because so many people this past year have not been able to. I hope she takes a break to process this.

[MiloandMax1]

I was gonna post this a few days ago but never got around to it, but I find her relationship with Chris so weird. I feel like this girl doesn’t have any empathy for him. Not only with his dad passing but I’ve noticed it in other ways. Like she can’t ever be bothered to get him a nice gift or even thoughtful gift for Father’s Day/ b-day. It seems like he’s always last priority, and if she does include him in something it’s for views.

Also how she talks about wearing the pants because SHE pays the bills. If a man did that people would point out how its not the 50's. She uses that to beat him down. If he worked I think he would be happier, if he had more friends than just Gabe her ex boyfriend he would be happier. He seemed happy when he was on the paintball league that he stopped before covid (so that wasn't the reason for him to stop).

[Hoe4Christmas]

jess’s grammie passing is so sad, but part of me wishes it was at a different time because she deserves to be criticized and held accountable for her r*pe joke. r*pe jokes are never funny and jess should not be brushed off for saying something like that AND framing it as a joke consciously.


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[nurseemilyy]

jess’s grammie passing is so sad, but part of me wishes it was at a different time because she deserves to be criticized and held accountable for her r*pe joke. r*pe jokes are never funny and jess should not be brushed off for saying something like that AND framing it as a joke consciously.


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That comment made me want to stop watching her videos. Speaking from experience, even as a victim when you get offended by those types of jokes, the person who said it will just respond with "It's a joke, get over it". Maybe a bit off topic, but I sincerely hope she teaches her kids about consent because I would not wish that experience on anyone.

Also, she and her mom are flying home and she's editing a vlog to put up but she mentioned something about updating. I don't know if she means in an IG post or adding it to the end of the vlog, but either way I think she should just take time to process and grieve and also discuss what details her family doesn't want her to disclose if she hasn't already. But then it's Jess...

[MiloandMax1]

jess’s grammie passing is so sad, but part of me wishes it was at a different time because she deserves to be criticized and held accountable for her r*pe joke. r*pe jokes are never funny and jess should not be brushed off for saying something like that AND framing it as a joke consciously.


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That comment made me want to stop watching her videos. Speaking from experience, even as a victim when you get offended by those types of jokes, the person who said it will just respond with "It's a joke, get over it". Maybe a bit off topic, but I sincerely hope she teaches her kids about consent because I would not wish that experience on anyone.

Also, she and her mom are flying home and she's editing a vlog to put up but she mentioned something about updating. I don't know if she means in an IG post or adding it to the end of the vlog, but either way I think she should just take time to process and grieve and also discuss what details her family doesn't want her to disclose if she hasn't already. But then it's Jess...

She always talks to her kids about consent and their body but yet makes jokes like that. Her kids watch her channel.

[MiloandMax1]

I don't think shes going to wait to do a vlog or take her time to do something. She knows that these kind of vlogs bring in views (sympathy or just her fans being curious) and she will do it for the money alone. The longer people have to wait the more likely they move onto someone else, as sad as that is.