JesssFam: No More Boobies for the Skubes (Part 145)

[Jennabud]

This get to know me thing she is doing on her Instagram stories, she put something about exclusively breastfeeding lilia but I'm sure she formula fed her at a few months old?
Either is fine but if she did switch to formula why not add, we breastfed for --- months and made the switch to formula.

I think she did. She also says she had 5 natural births but I thought someone said she had an epidural with Lilia. Again no big deal if she did but why lie? (I was not watching at the time so I don't know, someone that was might know).

No she breastfed. Maybe gave formula at times but primarily breast. She stopped at like 1 year. Said was because she was over at gabe's and weaned off

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[Captain Smooth]

Just watched a video from a guy, that talked about interior trends, that need to go and mentions the farmhouse trend. He says farmhouse fine, but all those signs that say "live, laugh, love", or other signs that just rhyme, or sound nicely (family is where life begins and love never ends, etc.) and are often hung up in the farmhouse kitchen. They need to go, in his opinion. Too tacky.

I had to think about Jess immediately, since she loves to hang all those nice rhymes about family everywhere in her house. Sorry, if any of you like that too, it's just funny how he described Jess' sense of interior style perfectly.

[sezzajaydee]

This get to know me thing she is doing on her Instagram stories, she put something about exclusively breastfeeding lilia but I'm sure she formula fed her at a few months old?
Either is fine but if she did switch to formula why not add, we breastfed for --- months and made the switch to formula.

I think she did. She also says she had 5 natural births but I thought someone said she had an epidural with Lilia. Again no big deal if she did but why lie? (I was not watching at the time so I don't know, someone that was might know).

No she breastfed. Maybe gave formula at times but primarily breast. She stopped at like 1 year. Said was because she was over at gabe's and weaned off

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She stopped because Drake didn’t like it. She mentioned that in a video not long after they started dating.

[Haulnarse]

Just watched a video from a guy, that talked about interior trends, that need to go and mentions the farmhouse trend. He says farmhouse fine, but all those signs that say "live, laugh, love", or other signs that just rhyme, or sound nicely (family is where life begins and love never ends, etc.) and are often hung up in the farmhouse kitchen. They need to go, in his opinion. Too tacky.

I had to think about Jess immediately, since she loves to hang all those nice rhymes about family everywhere in her house. Sorry, if any of you like that too, it's just funny how he described Jess' sense of interior style perfectly.

I had a late 40’s male in a work last week with a “live, laugh, love” tattoo on his forearm resisted the urge to laugh lol

[sondraK]

Just caught up with everything. Grammy dying is a sad, sad event, hopefully she didn't feel too much pain.

I also couldn't shake the feeling of "wait, let me set up the camera first". But, alright, it was an ok amount, maybe she took some video just for her private sake, even though it's going to be a sad video, but kind of the last time she's able to see her. In that context the snippet may not be so exclusive.

It's the first time Jess has actually lost someone close to her, but knowing her she'll bounce back in no time, because she is the kind of person, that always needs a distraction, to glaze over any bad feelings she may have. I hope that doesn't come back to bite her, one day.

Yes,there's such a thing as delayed grief,so it could very well come back to bite her someday.It happens when someone doesn't grieve properly at the time of death.Maybe they have other distractions going on.But in time,it can pop up again,and the person may grieve all over again,as if it just happened

[socks123]

The instastory of her “story” from getting pregnant as a teen just solidified the fact that all her problems she brought on her self. I know it’s easier said than done leaving a toxic relationship but I’m just like why the hell did you have kids with this dude when your relationship was in shambles?

[sondraK]

The instastory of her “story” from getting pregnant as a teen just solidified the fact that all her problems she brought on her self. I know it’s easier said than done leaving a toxic relationship but I’m just like why the hell did you have kids with this dude when your relationship was in shambles?

i agree.I wouldn't even consider having a baby w someone unless he was committed to a future w me first.
But this is Jessss.Idk if she thought a baby would keep them together or what.
I also think she wanted the attn that comes w being a teen mom.Jessss loves attention!And the vlogging she obv. already had in mind.She said there was another teen mom vlogger she idolized and wanted to be just like her.So yeah,gotta be pregnant to mimic that! And Gabe had no idea

[MiloandMax1]

She wanted to be on teen mom. Didn't she send in a video or something? That's another thing I think of when I think of how Lilia was planned, not "my birth control failed"

[twomommies]

I don't like some of the shots she put in the video. I dont think it was necessary to show the kids and Mimi crying.

That being said, I appreciate that she showed the reality of the situation. There wasn't a sunshine and rainbows take on it. I'm hoping that in the coming videos we see her giving her kids time to grieve, even as they go on with every day life.

Did anyone else notice that we really didn't see a clip of Kaden? Obviously Addie is a bit to young to really grasp what's happening. But we saw Kyson, Lilia and Landon all getting emotional, we didn't see Kaden. I wonder why

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Because Kaden probably didn't even care. He has some high functioning autism going on for sure. He lacks emphty

She needs to get him tested but won't. His speech is a bit better than my niece's (she's been tested and my SIL makes excuses for why she misses every speech therapy appointment)...at their age (she's K&K age) you probably won't be able to completely correct his speech so he will eventually be bullied and not able to get a job.

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[twomommies]

i wish mimi would grow some tits and put messs in her place. like NO, you CANNOT film my mother dying. NO you CANNOT profit off of my grandchildren’s tears. not trying to blame mimi because this is all jess’s fault, but mimi could have drawn a line there and said “this is my mother and she’s dying, we’re not going to film and post this and i don’t want the footage of my grandkids being told about her death being shared online.”


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She's an enabler who needs therapy. My Mother in Law is the same way with my SIL...she's been cut off by all of her siblings because they won't enable her either and I see Ben doing the same thing eventually.

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[sondraK]

I don't like some of the shots she put in the video. I dont think it was necessary to show the kids and Mimi crying.

That being said, I appreciate that she showed the reality of the situation. There wasn't a sunshine and rainbows take on it. I'm hoping that in the coming videos we see her giving her kids time to grieve, even as they go on with every day life.

Did anyone else notice that we really didn't see a clip of Kaden? Obviously Addie is a bit to young to really grasp what's happening. But we saw Kyson, Lilia and Landon all getting emotional, we didn't see Kaden. I wonder why

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Because Kaden probably didn't even care. He has some high functioning autism going on for sure. He lacks emphty

She needs to get him tested but won't. His speech is a bit better than my niece's (she's been tested and my SIL makes excuses for why she misses every speech therapy appointment)...at their age (she's K&K age) you probably won't be able to completely correct his speech so he will eventually be bullied and not able to get a job.

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Or even a date! Can you imagine him asking someone out? They'd be like,"What?"
That might be a good thing though.Grabby Kaden might get too fresh w someone,right off the bat.He might end up getting punched or slapped for it.Those kids seem to have no respect for anyone.Jmo

[Apm1993]

This is what I see when I see Kayden (or however she spells it.)


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[TreeHugger11]

Watching her instastories from last night, and it’s crazy to think that time span between Lilia and Addie being born is only a little over six years. With all that happened — three marriages, four births, etc it seems like it would be longer than that. And somehow she managed to “find herself” as she says in the short time between Landon being born and meeting Chris... good for her if that’s true, I know I didn’t find myself that quick

[cod5]

Watching her instastories from last night, and it’s crazy to think that time span between Lilia and Addie being born is only a little over six years. With all that happened — three marriages, four births, etc it seems like it would be longer than that. And somehow she managed to “find herself” as she says in the short time between Landon being born and meeting Chris... good for her if that’s true, I know I didn’t find myself that quick

Same here lol. I think by 'finding herself' she meant she found a man willing to stay with her for longer than a few months. She's not able to be alone because she's too insecure and also let's not forget someone needs to take care of those little rugrats she kept popping out each year.

[SeriouslyCurious]

Her life story insta stories she kept saying " eventually"... what does he mean eventually??? Its not like she waited a long time between events, so there is no eventually.... it should be a short time later. She acts like it was forever after landen was born that she met her "prince charming"

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[MiloandMax1]

Landen was born in March and she met Chris in September. So 6 months. In between that wasn't she with Kally's ex? Or was that after Drake the first time?

[sondraK]

Landen was born in March and she met Chris in September. So 6 months. In between that wasn't she with Kally's ex? Or was that after Drake the first time?

i was wondering that,too.She also had revenge sex when pregnant w the twins,then continued to see Drake after he left her when pregnant w Landen,even though he was also seeing Natalie at that time.
Doesn't sound like finding yourself to me.Jmo

[ReyRey61]

She hasn’t found herself. She may think so, but no way. It takes many more years of experience and wisdom to have found yourself. She doesn’t know it yet, which is natural. But her sugary-sweet self-arrogance is nauseating. She’s only 28 but she acts like the wisest woman on Earth. Everything SHE did was spot-on perfect. Natural births, breastfeeding, going to school, doing it all so well. Any mishaps were not her fault! I had my 3 kids between 18 and 24 years old and can look back on so many mistakes I made that were directly related to youth and inexperience. But not perfect Messss. No way.

[Silentcucumber]

I’m new here. Do we not like Chris? Is there any links about him?

[ReyRey61]

I’m new here. Do we not like Chris? Is there any links about him?

IMO Chris seems to be a good guy. Loves his little girl. But he’s trapped in the narcissistic web of Jessica. He lost his independence, friends and hobbies; he traded them to serve her. So he seems depressed a lot, like he gave up.