Brittani Boren Leach: Christmas Decor, Unsafe Sleep Galore | Part 8

[aimendoza4]

Another post about crew that should’ve been about cole turning 3 months old but she just has to turn it into a post about crew. Poor poor cole will it ever just be about him and only him? Not him in relation to crew.


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I have yet to see one post where Cole is his own person without any mention of Crew giving Cole blue eyes, or the llama next to Cole is Crew, or that the cardinal near us when I hold Cole is Crew. It's going to be like that for as long as she can milk it because, because that's what gets her more sympathy points , which in turn equals to more following, likes, comments, and $$$.

At some point her other boys, her husband and even Cole himself when he gets older will call her out on it. To stop comparing them both. That Cole is his own person and that Crew was his own person as well, as short as his life may have been.

I really wish that Crew was still here. I get upset when I think of him being laid to nap in a place that I'm sure was not safe. I highly doubt there was a crib at BBL's grandma house. If there was, she would have already mentioned it by now.

Anyway, the whole situation with Cole being compares to Crew is going to stick around for a while because that's what sells in this page.

[party of four]

Another post about crew that should’ve been about cole turning 3 months old but she just has to turn it into a post about crew. Poor poor cole will it ever just be about him and only him? Not him in relation to crew.


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I have yet to see one post where Cole is his own person without any mention of Crew giving Cole blue eyes, or the llama next to Cole is Crew, or that the cardinal near us when I hold Cole is Crew. It's going to be like that for as long as she can milk it because, because that's what gets her more sympathy points , which in turn equals to more following, likes, comments, and $$$.

At some point her other boys, her husband and even Cole himself when he gets older will call her out on it. To stop comparing them both. That Cole is his own person and that Crew was his own person as well, as short as his life may have been.

I really wish that Crew was still here. I get upset when I think of him being laid to nap in a place that I'm sure was not safe. I highly doubt there was a crib at BBL's grandma house. If there was, she would have already mentioned it by now.

Anyway, the whole situation with Cole being compares to Crew is going to stick around for a while because that's what sells in this page.

Exactly. I’ve known someone that lost a child and then had a new one to replace the one that was lost. That child is now an adult and has no contact with the mother, because she would force comparisons on him all the time and only gave him his dead brother’s toys/clothes/etc. BBL’s other children are gonna end up resenting her as well because they’re gonna think that they don’t mean as much to her as crew etc.

[glowing564]

Cole is the replacement bandaid baby and that’s all he will ever be. I don’t even think he helped anything to be completely honest. The added stress of thinking she could lose him too has to weigh heavy every single day. She is in denial and truly needs weekly therapy. The girl has never unplugged and given her family time to heal. Cause then the paychecks would stop. You see all too clearly where her priorities are at. Since the day crew died.

[babyshark]

It was never said how he died. She just said that he was put down for a nap in the evening hours of Christmas and when he was checked on, he was unresponsive. But she’s never talked about SIDS, so it’s assumed that he was put in an unsafe sleep space and suffocated or something.

It is also said that a relative found Crew in between the headboard and the mattress, but that statement was retracted. Someone correct me if I'm wrong.

There are a lot of parents on IG who speak about their children's unfortunate, but very much accidental deaths, and they become huge advocates of the cause. With her amount of following, you would think she would just come forward and do the same. She could be doing a lot of great things to raise awareness on SIDS. But she rather get you to buy her whitening strips, candles, diaper bags, and IG picture presets.

Exactly. And it was also stated that he had brain swelling, which would be consistent with positional asphyxiation or being wedged between something etc. If it was SIDS, why not say that? It would be random and at no fault of anyone. But she doesn’t say anything because it couldn’t have been SIDS. She knows she would be torn apart if she admitted it was because of her negligence.

While we’re on the topic of Crew possibly being wedges between headboard & mattress, it reminds me of the theory someone had on here about one of the other young boys moving Crew & then he ultimately got wedged. It makes sense bc if the family member who said he got stuck in between the headboard & mattress was accurate, then it adds up that one of her other kids went in the room & moved the baby. Crew was about 3 months old which is barely rolling yet (I know all kids are different). Having a bunch of kids running around & one of them could’ve snuck in the room where Crew was sleeping & moved him.

Bc like others have mentioned, why doesn’t she use her platform for GOOD & prevention as most parents who go through horrible tragedies like this? It would make sense for Brittani to be so protective over the cause of death.

Also on a more personal note, my mom dealt w a toddler pulling a baby off a bed & it reminded me of Brittani’s story. In the 90s we were having a play date & a family friend came over w her 6 boys. SIX. So two moms, her 6 boys, me, & my 2 brothers. One of my brothers was a newborn at the time, about 6 weeks old. He was sleeping on my mom’s bed, in the middle, w pillows propped around the edges of the bed. Not rolling yet or anything. Again this is the 90s, so yes safe sleep standards have changed since then obviously. Anyway, one of lady’s young boys snuck into my mom’s room, got up on the bed to play w my 6 week old brother, & pulled him off the bed & put him on the floor, likely dropped him as he was getting off the bed. He ran into another room & told my mom “Uhh baby is on the floor” & my mom asked if he picked up the baby. He said “No! He fell off!” Which obviously wasn’t the case as a 6 week old isn’t rolling. My brother was fine & he did go to the hospital for screening but it just reminded me of Brittani’s story. I truly wonder if one of Brittani’s boys had something to do with it & she’s hiding it bc obviously they could never live with themselves growing up knowing you killed your brother.

[Wintaosam]

It is also said that a relative found Crew in between the headboard and the mattress, but that statement was retracted. Someone correct me if I'm wrong.

There are a lot of parents on IG who speak about their children's unfortunate, but very much accidental deaths, and they become huge advocates of the cause. With her amount of following, you would think she would just come forward and do the same. She could be doing a lot of great things to raise awareness on SIDS. But she rather get you to buy her whitening strips, candles, diaper bags, and IG picture presets.

Exactly. And it was also stated that he had brain swelling, which would be consistent with positional asphyxiation or being wedged between something etc. If it was SIDS, why not say that? It would be random and at no fault of anyone. But she doesn’t say anything because it couldn’t have been SIDS. She knows she would be torn apart if she admitted it was because of her negligence.

While we’re on the topic of Crew possibly being wedges between headboard & mattress, it reminds me of the theory someone had on here about one of the other young boys moving Crew & then he ultimately got wedged. It makes sense bc if the family member who said he got stuck in between the headboard & mattress was accurate, then it adds up that one of her other kids went in the room & moved the baby. Crew was about 3 months old which is barely rolling yet (I know all kids are different). Having a bunch of kids running around & one of them could’ve snuck in the room where Crew was sleeping & moved him.

Bc like others have mentioned, why doesn’t she use her platform for GOOD & prevention as most parents who go through horrible tragedies like this? It would make sense for Brittani to be so protective over the cause of death.

Also on a more personal note, my mom dealt w a toddler pulling a baby off a bed & it reminded me of Brittani’s story. In the 90s we were having a play date & a family friend came over w her 6 boys. SIX. So two moms, her 6 boys, me, & my 2 brothers. One of my brothers was a newborn at the time, about 6 weeks old. He was sleeping on my mom’s bed, in the middle, w pillows propped around the edges of the bed. Not rolling yet or anything. Again this is the 90s, so yes safe sleep standards have changed since then obviously. Anyway, one of lady’s young boys snuck into my mom’s room, got up on the bed to play w my 6 week old brother, & pulled him off the bed & put him on the floor, likely dropped him as he was getting off the bed. He ran into another room & told my mom “Uhh baby is on the floor” & my mom asked if he picked up the baby. He said “No! He fell off!” Which obviously wasn’t the case as a 6 week old isn’t rolling. My brother was fine & he did go to the hospital for screening but it just reminded me of Brittani’s story. I truly wonder if one of Brittani’s boys had something to do with it & she’s hiding it bc obviously they could never live with themselves growing up knowing you killed your brother.

That could very well be the case. Because like you said, it makes no sense that BBL isn’t advocating for safe sleep, SIDS prevention etc. She has a platform that she she could do so much good with, but doesn’t. She would rather not talk about the circumstances because that just brings up more questions. And we have seen how her boys are around a newborn- they are rough and rambunctious and she never steers them to be safe around the baby. It’s quite probable that one of the boys (my guess is cooper) went in to play with Crew and it all went sideways. It might just be me but I find that BBL has a softer spot for Cooper than she does the other boys. That could be just her way of nurturing and protecting him? I don’t know. But I always cringe when I see one of the boys in BBL’s bed with the baby...

[lmmomSD]

I can’t get over how she thinks Crew picked Cole’s eye colour.

What would she say if Crew hadn’t passed and attempt number 6 at a girl came out with blue eyes?

It's just so creepy.
Why would she say Crew picked Cole's blue eyes if she doesn't believe that they are "better" somehow? She just proved that person's point.
And all I think of when she says that is the bit from the Addams Family Values movie "He has my father's eyes" "Gomez, take those out of his mouth"

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[Ld5]

I always had the feeling that one of the other boys was also taking a nap with crew and he might have pushed/move him in his sleep or rolled over him.


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[aimendoza4]

I always had the feeling that one of the other boys was also taking a nap with crew and he might have pushed/move him in his sleep or rolled over him.


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This kind of sounds similar to what someone on here said around the time it happened. That maybe one of her other boys put a blanket over Crew during his nap, when nobody was around. Not to intentionally hurt him, but you know how older siblings are. They don't know babies aren't supposed to have blankets over them.

[aimendoza4]

Exactly. And it was also stated that he had brain swelling, which would be consistent with positional asphyxiation or being wedged between something etc. If it was SIDS, why not say that? It would be random and at no fault of anyone. But she doesn’t say anything because it couldn’t have been SIDS. She knows she would be torn apart if she admitted it was because of her negligence.

While we’re on the topic of Crew possibly being wedges between headboard & mattress, it reminds me of the theory someone had on here about one of the other young boys moving Crew & then he ultimately got wedged. It makes sense bc if the family member who said he got stuck in between the headboard & mattress was accurate, then it adds up that one of her other kids went in the room & moved the baby. Crew was about 3 months old which is barely rolling yet (I know all kids are different). Having a bunch of kids running around & one of them could’ve snuck in the room where Crew was sleeping & moved him.

Bc like others have mentioned, why doesn’t she use her platform for GOOD & prevention as most parents who go through horrible tragedies like this? It would make sense for Brittani to be so protective over the cause of death.

Also on a more personal note, my mom dealt w a toddler pulling a baby off a bed & it reminded me of Brittani’s story. In the 90s we were having a play date & a family friend came over w her 6 boys. SIX. So two moms, her 6 boys, me, & my 2 brothers. One of my brothers was a newborn at the time, about 6 weeks old. He was sleeping on my mom’s bed, in the middle, w pillows propped around the edges of the bed. Not rolling yet or anything. Again this is the 90s, so yes safe sleep standards have changed since then obviously. Anyway, one of lady’s young boys snuck into my mom’s room, got up on the bed to play w my 6 week old brother, & pulled him off the bed & put him on the floor, likely dropped him as he was getting off the bed. He ran into another room & told my mom “Uhh baby is on the floor” & my mom asked if he picked up the baby. He said “No! He fell off!” Which obviously wasn’t the case as a 6 week old isn’t rolling. My brother was fine & he did go to the hospital for screening but it just reminded me of Brittani’s story. I truly wonder if one of Brittani’s boys had something to do with it & she’s hiding it bc obviously they could never live with themselves growing up knowing you killed your brother.

That could very well be the case. Because like you said, it makes no sense that BBL isn’t advocating for safe sleep, SIDS prevention etc. She has a platform that she she could do so much good with, but doesn’t. She would rather not talk about the circumstances because that just brings up more questions. And we have seen how her boys are around a newborn- they are rough and rambunctious and she never steers them to be safe around the baby. It’s quite probable that one of the boys (my guess is cooper) went in to play with Crew and it all went sideways. It might just be me but I find that BBL has a softer spot for Cooper than she does the other boys. That could be just her way of nurturing and protecting him? I don’t know. But I always cringe when I see one of the boys in BBL’s bed with the baby...

This reminds me, I still haven't forgotten that part of her youtube blog where cash wants to clim into the crib with Cole and all BBL says is that he will get the crib dirty. That's another major, major problem here. She is the definition of superficial.

[party of four]

While we’re on the topic of Crew possibly being wedges between headboard & mattress, it reminds me of the theory someone had on here about one of the other young boys moving Crew & then he ultimately got wedged. It makes sense bc if the family member who said he got stuck in between the headboard & mattress was accurate, then it adds up that one of her other kids went in the room & moved the baby. Crew was about 3 months old which is barely rolling yet (I know all kids are different). Having a bunch of kids running around & one of them could’ve snuck in the room where Crew was sleeping & moved him.

Bc like others have mentioned, why doesn’t she use her platform for GOOD & prevention as most parents who go through horrible tragedies like this? It would make sense for Brittani to be so protective over the cause of death.

Also on a more personal note, my mom dealt w a toddler pulling a baby off a bed & it reminded me of Brittani’s story. In the 90s we were having a play date & a family friend came over w her 6 boys. SIX. So two moms, her 6 boys, me, & my 2 brothers. One of my brothers was a newborn at the time, about 6 weeks old. He was sleeping on my mom’s bed, in the middle, w pillows propped around the edges of the bed. Not rolling yet or anything. Again this is the 90s, so yes safe sleep standards have changed since then obviously. Anyway, one of lady’s young boys snuck into my mom’s room, got up on the bed to play w my 6 week old brother, & pulled him off the bed & put him on the floor, likely dropped him as he was getting off the bed. He ran into another room & told my mom “Uhh baby is on the floor” & my mom asked if he picked up the baby. He said “No! He fell off!” Which obviously wasn’t the case as a 6 week old isn’t rolling. My brother was fine & he did go to the hospital for screening but it just reminded me of Brittani’s story. I truly wonder if one of Brittani’s boys had something to do with it & she’s hiding it bc obviously they could never live with themselves growing up knowing you killed your brother.

That could very well be the case. Because like you said, it makes no sense that BBL isn’t advocating for safe sleep, SIDS prevention etc. She has a platform that she she could do so much good with, but doesn’t. She would rather not talk about the circumstances because that just brings up more questions. And we have seen how her boys are around a newborn- they are rough and rambunctious and she never steers them to be safe around the baby. It’s quite probable that one of the boys (my guess is cooper) went in to play with Crew and it all went sideways. It might just be me but I find that BBL has a softer spot for Cooper than she does the other boys. That could be just her way of nurturing and protecting him? I don’t know. But I always cringe when I see one of the boys in BBL’s bed with the baby...

This reminds me, I still haven't forgotten that part of her youtube blog where cash wants to clim into the crib with Cole and all BBL says is that he will get the crib dirty. That's another major, major problem here. She is the definition of superficial.

That drives me crazy. He needs to be told to stay out of cole’s crib. Before she has another child that passes.

[NikkiinTexas1]

Brittani is a DRAIN on society. She is arrogant and a seemingly scathing bitter woman. She has stated on her IG stories that she graduated early due to having stellar grades and being in the top 10% of her class. Yet what has she done with this academic talent? She did NOT go to a prestigious university. She does NOT work and hardly ever has. She did NOT pursue professions that require good grades that would help others such as becoming a doctor, lawyer, teacher, counselor, scientist or anything. She was a nurse for 5 seconds, then met Jeff, got pregnant and stayed home....She claims YT is her only means of income. If she's academically talented, then why not start taking night courses or maybe find another route to making an income? MANY MANY mothers have multiple children and go to school and work. NOPE not Brittani. Instead she has chosen to arrogantly yell/whine to complete strangers on the internet. Seek attention from strangers and profit off of the loss of her baby. She has chosen to become pregnant over and over and over and over again...instead of focusing on making better choices for her future. Brittani if you're reading this...YOuTUBE IS NOT YOUR ONLY CHOICE OF INCOME. You have made a shitty bed for yourself. When people call you out.....YOU put yourself in this position. This is America and YOU have options. Rant over.

[party of four]

Brittani is a DRAIN on society. She is arrogant and a seemingly scathing bitter woman. She has stated on her IG stories that she graduated early due to having stellar grades and being in the top 10% of her class. Yet what has she done with this academic talent? She did NOT go to a prestigious university. She does NOT work and hardly ever has. She did NOT pursue professions that require good grades that would help others such as becoming a doctor, lawyer, teacher, counselor, scientist or anything. She was a nurse for 5 seconds, then met Jeff, got pregnant and stayed home....She claims YT is her only means of income. If she's academically talented, then why not start taking night courses or maybe find another route to making an income? MANY MANY mothers have multiple children and go to school and work. NOPE not Brittani. Instead she has chosen to arrogantly yell/whine to complete strangers on the internet. Seek attention from strangers and profit off of the loss of her baby. She has chosen to become pregnant over and over and over and over again...instead of focusing on making better choices for her future. Brittani if you're reading this...YOuTUBE IS NOT YOUR ONLY CHOICE OF INCOME. You have made a shitty bed for yourself. When people call you out.....YOU put yourself in this position. This is America and YOU have options. Rant over.

Right! Girl, you chose this life for yourself. So don’t complain about haters when you chose to open your life up to the judgement of others. It’s no one’s fault but her own. She just cranks out swipe ups all the time cause her content is ass and she’s boring af. I can barely use the bathroom with two kids. How the hell do you have time to do all the brainless crap you do with all those damn kids?

[sezzajaydee]

That could very well be the case. Because like you said, it makes no sense that BBL isn’t advocating for safe sleep, SIDS prevention etc. She has a platform that she she could do so much good with, but doesn’t. She would rather not talk about the circumstances because that just brings up more questions. And we have seen how her boys are around a newborn- they are rough and rambunctious and she never steers them to be safe around the baby. It’s quite probable that one of the boys (my guess is cooper) went in to play with Crew and it all went sideways. It might just be me but I find that BBL has a softer spot for Cooper than she does the other boys. That could be just her way of nurturing and protecting him? I don’t know. But I always cringe when I see one of the boys in BBL’s bed with the baby...

This reminds me, I still haven't forgotten that part of her youtube blog where cash wants to clim into the crib with Cole and all BBL says is that he will get the crib dirty. That's another major, major problem here. She is the definition of superficial.

That drives me crazy. He needs to be told to stay out of cole’s crib. Before she has another child that passes.

I swear there was a post with Crew where she was laughing because one of the boys had thrown a huge fluffy blanket on him.
So I really wouldn’t be shocked if something similar happened the day Crew passed.

[party of four]

This reminds me, I still haven't forgotten that part of her youtube blog where cash wants to clim into the crib with Cole and all BBL says is that he will get the crib dirty. That's another major, major problem here. She is the definition of superficial.

That drives me crazy. He needs to be told to stay out of cole’s crib. Before she has another child that passes.

I swear there was a post with Crew where she was laughing because one of the boys had thrown a huge fluffy blanket on him.
So I really wouldn’t be shocked if something similar happened the day Crew passed.

She made a lot of posts that were hella questionable regarding safe sleep. Like this post, where she references bedsharing during naps.

[CrimsonAndClover]

You guys... I can't be seeing her stories today correctly. Last year, less than TWO . MONTHS after losing Crew, she and the creepy fucking Fred she's married to went on a trip for Valentine's day and found the strength to smile and laugh and shit? Are you fucking kidding me?

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[aimendoza4]

That trip she took last year to South Carolina, that she is currently bragging about in her IG stories, is absolutely disgusting!

How do you go on a trip 2 months after your son passes away? I would be crushed! You wouldn't be able to get me out of my bed.

If Iost a son, I would have a very difficult time leaving my other sons to be watched by someone else that isn't me!

I don't know about you guys, but I don't anyone personally close to me that has lost a child and done the shit that she has done. It's infuriating.

[lmmomSD]

Brittani is a DRAIN on society. She is arrogant and a seemingly scathing bitter woman. She has stated on her IG stories that she graduated early due to having stellar grades and being in the top 10% of her class. Yet what has she done with this academic talent? She did NOT go to a prestigious university. She does NOT work and hardly ever has. She did NOT pursue professions that require good grades that would help others such as becoming a doctor, lawyer, teacher, counselor, scientist or anything. She was a nurse for 5 seconds, then met Jeff, got pregnant and stayed home....She claims YT is her only means of income. If she's academically talented, then why not start taking night courses or maybe find another route to making an income? MANY MANY mothers have multiple children and go to school and work. NOPE not Brittani. Instead she has chosen to arrogantly yell/whine to complete strangers on the internet. Seek attention from strangers and profit off of the loss of her baby. She has chosen to become pregnant over and over and over and over again...instead of focusing on making better choices for her future. Brittani if you're reading this...YOuTUBE IS NOT YOUR ONLY CHOICE OF INCOME. You have made a shitty bed for yourself. When people call you out.....YOU put yourself in this position. This is America and YOU have options. Rant over.

Especially right now, when nurses are desperately needed.
Not that I would want her selfish, self-absorbed, ass taking care of anyone I cared about...

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[Ld5]

I would still be in bed two months later and probably drugged if I lost a child. Seeing those Instagram posts made me sick.


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[Jennaleeds19]

Brittani is a DRAIN on society. She is arrogant and a seemingly scathing bitter woman. She has stated on her IG stories that she graduated early due to having stellar grades and being in the top 10% of her class. Yet what has she done with this academic talent? She did NOT go to a prestigious university. She does NOT work and hardly ever has. She did NOT pursue professions that require good grades that would help others such as becoming a doctor, lawyer, teacher, counselor, scientist or anything. She was a nurse for 5 seconds, then met Jeff, got pregnant and stayed home....She claims YT is her only means of income. If she's academically talented, then why not start taking night courses or maybe find another route to making an income? MANY MANY mothers have multiple children and go to school and work. NOPE not Brittani. Instead she has chosen to arrogantly yell/whine to complete strangers on the internet. Seek attention from strangers and profit off of the loss of her baby. She has chosen to become pregnant over and over and over and over again...instead of focusing on making better choices for her future. Brittani if you're reading this...YOuTUBE IS NOT YOUR ONLY CHOICE OF INCOME. You have made a shitty bed for yourself. When people call you out.....YOU put yourself in this position. This is America and YOU have options. Rant over.

I agree. I was never a bad student but I certainly never got straight A’s. I wish I had that ability! Heck- if I did I wouldn’t waste that ability popping out kid after kid and go on the internet a bitch at strangers.... Brittani has the opportunity to counsel other women or be an advocate for sids parents. But nope, she’s to busy buying 5,000 refrigerators and yelling at ppl on the internet.

[aimendoza4]

I was going through Aaryn & Tara's IG. And tehy have their comments section on. Do you all know of they also delete their comments like BBL. BBL so desperately wants to be like them huh?