JesssFam: Podcast w/ My Ex So We Can Talk About Sex (Pt 146)

[sondraK]

This is not a flattering angle for her. She's trying so hard to come off as confident and effortlessly sexy and it just isn't working.

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Who is she copying here? There must be someone

[ThisIsMeCeej]

This is not a flattering angle for her. She's trying so hard to come off as confident and effortlessly sexy and it just isn't working.

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Who is she copying here? There must be someone

If I had to guess, I would guess Keren (KK&BabyJ) or Kyra (OKBaby).. both of them did professional boudoir photographs (I think Keren did professional anyway).

[ThisIsMeCeej]

I really loved Kaden's hair for wacky hair day, at dance... I thought it was Lilia or Addie for a second or even and old picture of Jess when she was a kid... I had to doubletake. Why couldn't she have done his hair like Kyson's? His hair was so much better.

[girl_please]

For as much as I like to trash talk Jess, and those pictures were as cringe as it gets, I have to respect the fact that she doesn't edit herself to look thinner and I honestly love that she thinks she looks great. Even if other people don't think she does. I'm always in favor of women liking how they look (even if it's someone I don't like) since we are constantly told not to. I'd respect it more if those pictures were for Chris or for a different account, not her "family friendly" account, but that's beside the point.

[NarcoelpsyMom]

Could someone give me a quick catch up on the drake situation? Like I’m seeing a lot of dislike for him on here and people saying he wasn’t present in their life. I’m a fairly new viewer so I don’t really know anything about it

Drake is the father of Kaden, Kyson, and Landen. She married him twice, but the first time they were married, she walked in on him cheating on her with his cousin by marriage.

They broke up, got divorced, got back together, got remarried. He left her for good when she was pregnant with Landen.

He has been an absent parent from the start. He has a younger daughter he was fairly involved with, but he chose not to be able Nick ed with the boys until recently.

He asked Messs to end the child support claim, saying he couldn’t pay it, so last year she formally ended her request for support for the boys. She also has full legal custody of the boys, with Drake having no formal visitation schedule ordered.

Right now, they have a tentative schedule in place of every other weekend, and every other holiday, but Drake often cancels (including Christmas Eve), and Kaden has demonstrated he is not comfortable being there.

The boys all call him Drake because he was never around. For all intents and purposes, Chris is more of a father figure to them than Drake is.

Drake cancels, but Jess has also said in the past that she’s changed the schedule to suit her. Tbh, they’re both as bad as each other.. just in different ways.

Jess also makes huge dramas about the visits. Especially a few years ago when he would only bother see the boys once every few months by showing up to one of their sports matches. Jess made $$$ on him showing up and then discussed it in many videos after the fact to keep the ‘tension’ going with her viewers. He’s always the bad guy in her ‘blended family’ narrative to get more views. (Not disputing that fact at all, he’s been a shitty father to them so far. But for the sake of her children I don’t think she should have their father on blast all the damn time to millions of people.)

She’s also claimed that the boys have no relationship with Drake’s daughter, but there’s been quite a few pictures of all the kids together in the last few years when she was claiming Drake never saw the kids.

A few photos does not constitute a relationship or connection. Drake’s second baby mama has also said that she has only tried to have a sibling relationship for a very short time, and it became too difficult for them to both get together at the same time.

Regardless of anything, Drake has acknowledged not doing much to ensure his own relationship with his kids. That is on him.

If he’s got a child who doesn’t want to be around him, that’s on him. People need to stop adding to the narrative just because they don’t like Messs. I don’t like her either, but speculating and making it fact without any inside knowledge does not make it true.

So stick to actual facts. There are about 5 photos floating around showing Drake with the boys over the past few years. That’s not much of a relationship.

[sezzajaydee]

Drake is the father of Kaden, Kyson, and Landen. She married him twice, but the first time they were married, she walked in on him cheating on her with his cousin by marriage.

They broke up, got divorced, got back together, got remarried. He left her for good when she was pregnant with Landen.

He has been an absent parent from the start. He has a younger daughter he was fairly involved with, but he chose not to be able Nick ed with the boys until recently.

He asked Messs to end the child support claim, saying he couldn’t pay it, so last year she formally ended her request for support for the boys. She also has full legal custody of the boys, with Drake having no formal visitation schedule ordered.

Right now, they have a tentative schedule in place of every other weekend, and every other holiday, but Drake often cancels (including Christmas Eve), and Kaden has demonstrated he is not comfortable being there.

The boys all call him Drake because he was never around. For all intents and purposes, Chris is more of a father figure to them than Drake is.

Drake cancels, but Jess has also said in the past that she’s changed the schedule to suit her. Tbh, they’re both as bad as each other.. just in different ways.

Jess also makes huge dramas about the visits. Especially a few years ago when he would only bother see the boys once every few months by showing up to one of their sports matches. Jess made $$$ on him showing up and then discussed it in many videos after the fact to keep the ‘tension’ going with her viewers. He’s always the bad guy in her ‘blended family’ narrative to get more views. (Not disputing that fact at all, he’s been a shitty father to them so far. But for the sake of her children I don’t think she should have their father on blast all the damn time to millions of people.)

She’s also claimed that the boys have no relationship with Drake’s daughter, but there’s been quite a few pictures of all the kids together in the last few years when she was claiming Drake never saw the kids.

A few photos does not constitute a relationship or connection. Drake’s second baby mama has also said that she has only tried to have a sibling relationship for a very short time, and it became too difficult for them to both get together at the same time.

Regardless of anything, Drake has acknowledged not doing much to ensure his own relationship with his kids. That is on him.

If he’s got a child who doesn’t want to be around him, that’s on him. People need to stop adding to the narrative just because they don’t like Messs. I don’t like her either, but speculating and making it fact without any inside knowledge does not make it true.

So stick to actual facts. There are about 5 photos floating around showing Drake with the boys over the past few years. That’s not much of a relationship.

We’re not adding to the narrative.
What is being said in here is what Messss and others who are actually involved with the boys have said.

There may have been “only 5 photos” but it was 5 times the boys were with their father whilst their mother was claiming there was absolutely no contact.

[wasteoftime]

Does anyone else remember when Lilia called Drake dad, because at 17/18 he moved in with Jess and acted as a father figure to her daughter she tricked another boy into having. He played with her and took care of her, and went out to work and contributed. He worked and helped look after the twins until they split and Jessss refused him access to Landen at the birth. We know they slept together after then and then everything went dark, Jesss hated on him and claimed she'd be single, concentrate on her kids etc. A couple of months later she was sleeping with other people with her kids home and locking her kids in their room, online dating and subsequently with Chris, i.e. she's a known liar and full of shit.

Jesss hated on Gabe the whole time she was with Drake, claiming he never paid anything (said he still doesn't), and that he never spent much time with her and it was Gabe's family who looked after Lilia on his time. It's her USP, the narrative she likes to create or exaggerate for content.

Jesss changes things to fit her narrative.

Maybe Kaden is picked on by his step brother because of his speech. Maybe he's rude, entitled, selfish, competitive, irritating, or doesn't like being made to feel he needs to behave and won't be put on a pedestal or rewarded for obnoxious behaviour. Regardless, if he doesn't want to go then that decision is between them. Maybe Jesss should get some assistance for her kids if they need it. Maybe she should think about parental alienation, and the impact of putting far too many private moments of her children's life out there to millions of strangers and exploiting them for a prolonged period when they can't consent.

[Anxiousalyssa]

I was watching her birth video of kaden and kyson a few days ago, and you can’t tell me drake looks like he doesn’t want to be there. He looked like he was forced and didn’t even like the babies he looked at them like they were actual trash. So exactly why is he trying to be in their lives now? I’m all for having kids have a relationship with their father but I’m not sure about this one. Something just seems very off.

[Collie]

Im from Scotland so can someome tell me is there no COVID restrictions in Jess area?

We have been in full lockdown since christnas (this is our third or fourth time, I've lost count) and we are not allowed any other households in our homes, only allowed out for essential travel, such as work or essential food shopping. So many people have missed out on so many things this last year and Jess goes on like they are not having a big party (looked like quite a few people there)

Its crazy to me how different it seems through her vlogs. This may just be Jess not following rules though so correct me if I'm wrong.

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[Jennabud]

For as much as I like to trash talk Jess, and those pictures were as cringe as it gets, I have to respect the fact that she doesn't edit herself to look thinner and I honestly love that she thinks she looks great. Even if other people don't think she does. I'm always in favor of women liking how they look (even if it's someone I don't like) since we are constantly told not to. I'd respect it more if those pictures were for Chris or for a different account, not her "family friendly" account, but that's beside the point.

I unfortunately think for her she's in some denial about her size. She's not very big at all but wont wear clothes that are the right size

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[missparzival]

She is carrying on like Landen is some miracle child for taking medicine. He still does it with a drink after. Most kids I know, including my own, just take the medicine and get on with it no chaser. Your kid isn't bad ass for that Jess. Grow up. His bad ass at skating and bike riding for his age not taking medication.

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[AliceInWonder]

WHAT IS THAT BELLY BUTTON ?!

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Why is it on the side?

[happyfunmeowmeow]

For as much as I like to trash talk Jess, and those pictures were as cringe as it gets, I have to respect the fact that she doesn't edit herself to look thinner and I honestly love that she thinks she looks great. Even if other people don't think she does. I'm always in favor of women liking how they look (even if it's someone I don't like) since we are constantly told not to. I'd respect it more if those pictures were for Chris or for a different account, not her "family friendly" account, but that's beside the point.

I agree. I still think the composition of the photo (scenery, outfit choice, colours, etc) are pretty bad and cringe worthy tho.

[xoxogossip_girl]

She is carrying on like Landen is some miracle child for taking medicine. He still does it with a drink after. Most kids I know, including my own, just take the medicine and get on with it no chaser. Your kid isn't bad ass for that Jess. Grow up. His bad ass at skating and bike riding for his age not taking medication.

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Was this on Instagram? I didn’t see it in any of her videos. I don’t know the full story of what happened (obviously) but I think kids should definitely be highly encouraged to take medicine, especially if they’re naturally pretty resistant.

Was she just like talking to the camera and going on and on about it, or did she just share a clip of her cheering him on?

[xoxogossip_girl]

Also, I have to say, although I am not a fan of Jess, I do love how she edits the birthday videos with the blowing out candles and features of their lives. It’s super cute !

[ThisIsMeCeej]

She is carrying on like Landen is some miracle child for taking medicine. He still does it with a drink after. Most kids I know, including my own, just take the medicine and get on with it no chaser. Your kid isn't bad ass for that Jess. Grow up. His bad ass at skating and bike riding for his age not taking medication.

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Was this on Instagram? I didn’t see it in any of her videos. I don’t know the full story of what happened (obviously) but I think kids should definitely be highly encouraged to take medicine, especially if they’re naturally pretty resistant.

Was she just like talking to the camera and going on and on about it, or did she just share a clip of her cheering him on?

It's on her IG story... she says he has to take 10ml's of amoxicillin and says "that sh!ts nasty" and how he takes it like a champ blah blah... then shows him, and he's got a capri sun and the little cup of amoxicillin. He's all "euu" and then Jess is like "come on buddy you got your medicine and a little chaser... you can do it 3 2 1" he chugs it and then drinks the capri sun, and breathes like he just ran a mile.

She also put some kinda poll up on it, I don't remember the choices but like "he's a bad@ss" and "I still can't do that" or something... which, sure, encourage your child to do the right things and take their medications etc... but, geez.. that was overkill! If she spent even HALF that effort encouraging ALL of those kids to be better humans, to clean up after themselves, etc etc... think of what she could accomplish! But, no... she uses it all on one little cup of medicine, which they can flavor at the pharmacy, for a few dollars extra.. and it will taste like whatever you want.

(Sorry for the rant. It annoyed me... and you know she wouldn't have acted like that for Kyson at any age!)

[MiloandMax1]

Isn't the amoxicillin bubble gum flavored too? Why does he need the capri sun. Lol!

[xoxogossip_girl]

She is carrying on like Landen is some miracle child for taking medicine. He still does it with a drink after. Most kids I know, including my own, just take the medicine and get on with it no chaser. Your kid isn't bad ass for that Jess. Grow up. His bad ass at skating and bike riding for his age not taking medication.

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Was this on Instagram? I didn’t see it in any of her videos. I don’t know the full story of what happened (obviously) but I think kids should definitely be highly encouraged to take medicine, especially if they’re naturally pretty resistant.

Was she just like talking to the camera and going on and on about it, or did she just share a clip of her cheering him on?

It's on her IG story... she says he has to take 10ml's of amoxicillin and says "that sh!ts nasty" and how he takes it like a champ blah blah... then shows him, and he's got a capri sun and the little cup of amoxicillin. He's all "euu" and then Jess is like "come on buddy you got your medicine and a little chaser... you can do it 3 2 1" he chugs it and then drinks the capri sun, and breathes like he just ran a mile.

She also put some kinda poll up on it, I don't remember the choices but like "he's a bad@ss" and "I still can't do that" or something... which, sure, encourage your child to do the right things and take their medications etc... but, geez.. that was overkill! If she spent even HALF that effort encouraging ALL of those kids to be better humans, to clean up after themselves, etc etc... think of what she could accomplish! But, no... she uses it all on one little cup of medicine, which they can flavor at the pharmacy, for a few dollars extra.. and it will taste like whatever you want.

(Sorry for the rant. It annoyed me... and you know she wouldn't have acted like that for Kyson at any age!)

Ahh, that explains why I didn’t see it lol.

Okay, first of all, I understand maybe doing that for like Benadryl (SUPER SOUR) but Amoxicillin? that was like one of the easiest and sweetest meds to drink! I mean I get it if he just doesn’t like medicine at all, maybe, but, that just seems like such an odd choice! Especially considering he “chugged it”! Like, what? I’m very confused by her-

Yes, it definitely sounds like overkill!! And I agree 100%. Instead of making cleaning an advertisement or sponsorship, make it something like this! Put in that effort with schoolwork and grades and paying attention/being alert during virtual classes!

Yes, and that makes me genuinely sad. If she really wanted to have favoritism, she should have kept it to herself rather than making it blatantly obvious on the internet.

[MiloandMax1]

The other kids get compliments for the smallest things. Yet the only compliment she's given Kyson was that he's athletic then takes credit that it was because of her boobs.

[ThisIsMeCeej]

Was this on Instagram? I didn’t see it in any of her videos. I don’t know the full story of what happened (obviously) but I think kids should definitely be highly encouraged to take medicine, especially if they’re naturally pretty resistant.

Was she just like talking to the camera and going on and on about it, or did she just share a clip of her cheering him on?

It's on her IG story... she says he has to take 10ml's of amoxicillin and says "that sh!ts nasty" and how he takes it like a champ blah blah... then shows him, and he's got a capri sun and the little cup of amoxicillin. He's all "euu" and then Jess is like "come on buddy you got your medicine and a little chaser... you can do it 3 2 1" he chugs it and then drinks the capri sun, and breathes like he just ran a mile.

She also put some kinda poll up on it, I don't remember the choices but like "he's a bad@ss" and "I still can't do that" or something... which, sure, encourage your child to do the right things and take their medications etc... but, geez.. that was overkill! If she spent even HALF that effort encouraging ALL of those kids to be better humans, to clean up after themselves, etc etc... think of what she could accomplish! But, no... she uses it all on one little cup of medicine, which they can flavor at the pharmacy, for a few dollars extra.. and it will taste like whatever you want.

(Sorry for the rant. It annoyed me... and you know she wouldn't have acted like that for Kyson at any age!)

Ahh, that explains why I didn’t see it lol.

Okay, first of all, I understand maybe doing that for like Benadryl (SUPER SOUR) but Amoxicillin? that was like one of the easiest and sweetest meds to drink! I mean I get it if he just doesn’t like medicine at all, maybe, but, that just seems like such an odd choice! Especially considering he “chugged it”! Like, what? I’m very confused by her-

Yes, it definitely sounds like overkill!! And I agree 100%. Instead of making cleaning an advertisement or sponsorship, make it something like this! Put in that effort with schoolwork and grades and paying attention/being alert during virtual classes!

Yes, and that makes me genuinely sad. If she really wanted to have favoritism, she should have kept it to herself rather than making it blatantly obvious on the internet.

OMG IS that the one that tastes good??? I remember having to take it anytime I had bronchitis... and even though I broke out in hives every time (I am allergic to all antibiotics) I would always be like "yay!!! medicine time!" haha I couldn't stand the purple cough syrup but that antibiotic was good! How can he act like it was so disgusting! And Jess saying how it tastes like crap... smh she's just feeding him insecurities to make him the way he is.

I feel so bad for Kyson as well as big Caden and Tommy when they are with Jess. And it's so sad to see how much Kyson truly loves his mother, and she has him at the bottom of her list.