JesssFam: Podcast w/ My Ex So We Can Talk About Sex (Pt 146)

[cod5]

I think Jess needs to keep more of an eye on Lilia. Just because she's hiding in her room all day doing god knows what and gives Jess some peace and quiet doesn't mean she doesn't need parenting. She may be acting mature for her age, but she's only 10. She's not a teenager like Jess keeps saying. It was really odd and awkward how she was speaking about her dad as Jessica's 'ex-boyfriend' and saying it multiple times. Jess is going to have her hands full in a few years when most of the kids will be teenagers.

[sondraK]

I think Jess needs to keep more of an eye on Lilia. Just because she's hiding in her room all day doing god knows what and gives Jess some peace and quiet doesn't mean she doesn't need parenting. She may be acting mature for her age, but she's only 10. She's not a teenager like Jess keeps saying. It was really odd and awkward how she was speaking about her dad as Jessica's 'ex-boyfriend' and saying it multiple times. Jess is going to have her hands full in a few years when most of the kids will be teenagers.

Agree,esp. about Lilia.
I think Kaden will give her the most problems.Since he loves money,I hope she steers him in the direction of a pt job to keep him busy.But those kids are so spoiled,I doubt it

[sondraK]

I think Jess needs to keep more of an eye on Lilia. Just because she's hiding in her room all day doing god knows what and gives Jess some peace and quiet doesn't mean she doesn't need parenting. She may be acting mature for her age, but she's only 10. She's not a teenager like Jess keeps saying. It was really odd and awkward how she was speaking about her dad as Jessica's 'ex-boyfriend' and saying it multiple times. Jess is going to have her hands full in a few years when most of the kids will be teenagers.

Agree,esp. about Lilia.
I think Kaden will give her the most problems.Since he loves money,I hope she steers him in the direction of a pt job to keep him busy.But those kids are so spoiled,I doubt it

[annieschaefferd]

Does Jess honestly not realize that lilia isn’t a great singer ?

She posted on insta something like ‚listen to Lila sing’ and then it was lilia obnoxiously shouting the text (Hamilton) and totally off key trying to sing a few words.

Same in the vlog. That is not really singing and it’s certainly not proper singing
, does Jess not hear it or is she just blind and deaf to the fact that lilia was not born without a beautiful voice and without any musical talent whatsoever?

She is certainly enthusiastic i will give Lilia that
I just don’t get that this is her showing off her best singing considering she goes to music school and is recording a song ?

[cod5]

Does Jess honestly not realize that lilia isn’t a great singer ?

She posted on insta something like ‚listen to Lila sing’ and then it was lilia obnoxiously shouting the text (Hamilton) and totally off key trying to sing a few words.

Same in the vlog. That is not really singing and it’s certainly not proper singing
, does Jess not hear it or is she just blind and deaf to the fact that lilia was not born without a beautiful voice and without any musical talent whatsoever?

She is certainly enthusiastic i will give Lilia that
I just don’t get that this is her showing off her best singing considering she goes to music school and is recording a song ?

Agreed, she shouts and calls it singing. I always have to skip clips of Lilia 'singing' as the second hand embarassment is too much. Well the kid is in for a shock if she intends on making a career out of singing and no one in the business will take her seriously after being hyped by Jess for so long. Clearly Jess pushes her so she can get the proper fame she never got and live through her.

[sondraK]

I really hope Natalie's latest Instagram story doesn't indicate that her father passed away. I feel so bad for her being his caretaker for all this time


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Me,too.She was worried about him not being able to walk her down the aisle,but he did,and I'm glad she got that moment

[haleyc20]

I’ve been watching Jess for a while now but I was watching an old vlog when she was at her old house and I noticed a huge dumpster in front of her house. What’s with that? Im sure this has been discussed before and sorry for asking but I know Jess doesn’t follow rules and stuff but how does someone get away with that? It look so bad and trashy.

[BrokenHeart410]

It sounds like Caden and Tommy really just don't want to go to the "Messsfam" house anymore.... I think Tommy finally agreed because after using the anxiety excuse what could he say when Chris agreed to drive up to get him? You would think caden would be well enough to be there for Easter and I think if he wanted to he would but he's probably scared one of the kids will hurt him more. How do you break your foot falling anyway? Could he be faking it? Could he have done it on purpose to avoid the messs? I'm joking about the last part but I wouldn't blame him

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[Haulnarse]

Why didnt chris fly down and back with tommy??

Wait til the next day even, find out whats going on with caden and make a new plan.

Is he so thirsty for time? So thirsty to prove that hes the “good dad”. Or is jess so thirsty for “7 kids” clickbait titles for vlogs??

[Haulnarse]

[GGF1987]

Tell us you don't care about your kid, without telling us you don't care about your kid.....How about talking about how big a help he is with the younger kids and that he can cook when he's broken his foot and can't come to see you.... Seriously he didn't seem at all concerned about Caden or upset he was hurt. He didn't even seem upset about not getting to see him. He just went on and on and on about all Caden does to help out... One of these days those boys are going to leave and not come back and they will no one but themselves to blame for it. Caden is probably thrilled to be at home and not have to deal with Mess and her kids and be their slave. It's probably the only upside of breaking his foot.

[BrokenHeart410]

It would have been so much easier for Chris to get a hotel where Caden and Tommy live and stay there for a few days... C & T could have stayed in the hotel with him and they could have found stuff to do around there (most places you can use/rent a wheelchair) I bet the boys would have love alone time with their dad. Chris could have even gone with to Cs appointments but of course Messs would never let that happen.

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[hooboy]

It's probably been discussed before but do we have any dancers in this thread who can say whether Jesssss was/is a good dancer?
She always talked about it as her big passion but idk anytime I've seen clips of her dancing it's a little cringe to me. Maybe it's just the exaggerated cheerleader smile she does?

[MommaMia3]

It's probably been discussed before but do we have any dancers in this thread who can say whether Jesssss was/is a good dancer?
She always talked about it as her big passion but idk anytime I've seen clips of her dancing it's a little cringe to me. Maybe it's just the exaggerated cheerleader smile she does?

Former dancer here. I haven't danced in about 10 years due to injuries but I had about 15 years of experience as well as teaching and judging.

Jess does have some natural rhythm, she can keep tempo and follow a beat. The reason her dancing is so cringey in my opinion is that she is overly enthusiastic with her movements and has little to no technique. She does the moves as big as possible and doesn't seem to have a lot of control. Which, incidentally, is also how Lilia dances lol.

She would've done well on a sports cheer team, where the moves are very basic and it's more about putting on a show than actually being a good dancer.

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[hooboy]

It's probably been discussed before but do we have any dancers in this thread who can say whether Jesssss was/is a good dancer?
She always talked about it as her big passion but idk anytime I've seen clips of her dancing it's a little cringe to me. Maybe it's just the exaggerated cheerleader smile she does?

Former dancer here. I haven't danced in about 10 years due to injuries but I had about 15 years of experience as well as teaching and judging.

Jess does have some natural rhythm, she can keep tempo and follow a beat. The reason her dancing is so cringey in my opinion is that she is overly enthusiastic with her movements and has little to no technique. She does the moves as big as possible and doesn't seem to have a lot of control. Which, incidentally, is also how Lilia dances lol.

She would've done well on a sports cheer team, where the moves are very basic and it's more about putting on a show than actually being a good dancer.

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This is really interesting so thanks for responding. I think you're right about the exaggerated movements

[abihanna]

No podcast... No update... We all knew it wouldn’t last long.


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[socks123]

The podcast is up, should be interesting since they talk about grief. I would put money on Jess monopolizing the entire episode talking about Grammy and Chris won’t say much about his loss.

[MiloandMax1]

Jess saying that Chris should do a dad co-parenting class, another shot at Drake. But Chris's ex also was willing to work with Chris and drive 4 hours to meet him.

I cant believe that Jess said Tommy should just do it (basically getting over his anxiety to fly). Yet she tells Kaden that it's HIS decision to not go to Drake's. Even if its different situations (anxiety and not wanting to follow rules are different things) once again her "sunshine and rainbows be positive" shows. Obviously anxiety isn't real to her just like depression isn't.

Caden isn't even there and hes bringing in the $ this vlog.

[sondraK]

I’ve been watching Jess for a while now but I was watching an old vlog when she was at her old house and I noticed a huge dumpster in front of her house. What’s with that? Im sure this has been discussed before and sorry for asking but I know Jess doesn’t follow rules and stuff but how does someone get away with that? It look so bad and trashy.

There was no HOA, so as long as they didn't break the local laws,they could do it.There's no HOA where she is now,but I'm not sure she would risk the push back she would likey get from her new nbors,in a better nborhood,with her trashy ways.We already see she isn't trying to keep the bounce houses up for an extended amt of time

[Hoe4Christmas]

it’s awful how the expectations for visiting their fathers are different between drake and chris’s boys. just a shame. they should have respected tommy’s decision instead of pressuring him. i can just imagine tommy trying to explain his reasoning to chris over the phone while messs pipes in in the background. also i hate how chris just HAD to add in that he was the one going “well over the halfway mark” like okay probably because their mother left caden at home alone or something, no need to be a bitter asshole about it. and messs seemed to be pissed about the tickets being non-refundable, i’m sure she said that to tommy to make him feel guilty. she’s a piece of shit.


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