Milena Ciciotti

[tiredofmommydrama]

I'm sorry but I agree with Milena about spanking. I don't want to get into an argument about how people discipline their kids, but Milena was close to getting a degree in childhood education. I minored in childhood psychology and literally every childhood development expert agrees that spanking can have negative affects on children. My parents spanked me but I think it's a form of abuse and I 100% will not spank my children. Milena comes from an immigrant South American family- of course her parents spanked her lol. That doesn't mean she has to repeat that cycle of discipline, especially when she knows better.


I'm just surprised of all the things to hate on her for people are choosing her view on spanking.

[chlobutera93]

I'm sorry but I agree with Milena about spanking. I don't want to get into an argument about how people discipline their kids, but Milena was close to getting a degree in childhood education. I minored in childhood psychology and literally every childhood development expert agrees that spanking can have negative affects on children. My parents spanked me but I think it's a form of abuse and I 100% will not spank my children. Milena comes from an immigrant South American family- of course her parents spanked her lol. That doesn't mean she has to repeat that cycle of discipline, especially when she knows better.


I'm just surprised of all the things to hate on her for people are choosing her view on spanking.

Agreed! I too would absolutely judge a parent on spanking. You chose to bring a child into this world, the day you became their parent should of been the day you vowed to protect, love and care for them. No matter how much children misbehave sometimes, you're their entire world so imagine how crushing it must be for them when the person who you rely on and turn to comfort the most, spanks you. You wouldn't hit a fellow adult if they was acting out of line, it's assault... so don't do it to a child.

[Honest opinion]

The coffee and grocery store trips as “me time” is sooo me hahah and I feel like that’s the reality for most moms out there. Milena doesn’t understand that most mothers out there can’t just get in time for themselves, some of us are beyond tired from waking multiple times at night to tend to our babies because we don’t have night nurses. Or have our mothers stay over night to help with the kids (if y’all haven’t checked out milena’s mom Yt channel then you should) sAnd the reality is being a mother can be lonely so that’s probably why some asked if she had friends. But instead she got so defensive. It gave me mean popular girl vibes. And by the way she commented back to people further proves how conceited and rude she really is.

Omg I forgot about the night nurse! What a luxury. And yeah the friend comments were super weird... she says she struggles with friendships, which is relatable because a lot of women do, but then says "I have so many friends... don't worry I have tons of friends" Like no one cares? You legit could have just said "making/keeping close friends while also being a parent is really hard and takes work" but the bold statements about all your friends makes it seem like you're lying

True, the normal mother that what we need to do. I guess the influencer tipe of mom’s have more money and freedom. That is what she doesn’t understand, she is not relatable to the normal parenting, with no help, paying for daycare and working a normal job. The friend part was very weird for sure!

[xrubyx99]

Yes, exactly! Thank you for pointing all that out. I could not stand her attitude the whole video, extremely defensive and acting as if she is better than everyone else. She kept saying " I don't want to talk about this or I don't have to talk about this" then why are talking about it!? She acts as of her subscribers don't deserve to know anything, especially if they ask a question about it. But apparently it's not private to discuss your sex life with your husband, and her newsletter is not "helpful" is common sense crap like make sure you both "finish", thanks captain obvious. Anyways, it was so apparent that she got lip fillers, she thought no one would notice... people just want honesty, why lie about having work done WHEN YOU CAN CLEARLY TELL. Dumb. She should have just said they choose not to spank their kids, cool. Don't say it is a biblical based choice, no. Actually the Bible speaks to discipline, not spanking. Abuse and spanking or gentle physical redirection (pat on the bum, or pat on the hand) is not abuse at all. She should not make blanket statements like spanking is abuse, when there is real abuse going on inside homes, very ignorant! And they breastfeeding thing annoys me because just say you didn't want to do it or it was too demanding, don't lie and say "oh Aleatha didn't like it anymore and Ari liked it but I felt like a cow". Its all about her and what she wants, and I know for many women and mothers out there, we don't have a choice to do what we want or maybe want is easier on us instead of doing the absolute best for our kids and family. So many women actually work hard and are selfless and put others need before their own, that's what is admirable not Milenia where it is what she wants or nothing, and her pampering and needs come before her kids and husband. I am sorry but why is always complaining about all her first world problems, a lot of women don't have any help, they don't "get time to themselves", they get up and work hard and give their best everyday with no help or night nurse or date nights. So unrealistic and fake and I hope people see that she doesn't care about them just their views and making money and if you bought from her website or affiliate links or filters/presets. Bad example or young girls and mothers, no one should think that they should strive to be like her, it's so sad I see all these women glorifying her in the comments. Ridiculous, let's get better role model and realistic hard working women to look up to and support.

Yes, agree with you! Is biblical to discipline your children. Totally get it when you are coming from, I don’t have any help and me time is no a thing, even though my husband help me when he can, sometimes I go and take a chai, coffee and walk to the grocery store alone but that the time I have when I can. Not having help is very overwhelming but is worth it. I don’t complain at all, that what we are supposed to do, Jesus was always carrying for everyone and Him self was last. We need to do like Jesus did. Nothing wrong with needing a day off for us. But for her constantly and still complaining is not okay. Why have kids then, I think she see her kids as a money maker, put them on a video and talk about them and people will watch! She is not a realistic person at all, in my opinion. She was so spoiled that she has no idea what is going on around her. Honestly, she needs to come forward and say that she is a liar and doesn’t believe in GOD, she does the opposite she preaches or she is trying to be someone she is not for her family. On the breast feeding, I didn’t know, but she just couldn’t keep up so is easy for her to buy formula, don’t forget that maybe her boobs are saggy and she doesn’t like that (as all woman’s after kids) so might get a surgery there too. I don’t know I think she wants to use the CBD or what ever is call. Maybe some people like that but honestly she is using drugs in a different way, her sister smokes or what ever. I think she does other things because she is very open about alcohol, long time ago she was talking about it. So in my opinion all she does is the opposite to Christianity. I’m not judging hard, but in the scriptures also said to judge you brother or sister in Chris to call them out if they are not doing the right thing. Now a days if we say something, people are coming for you, you shouldn’t judge when the Bible clearly state that. Any ways I wish her the best, but she needs to grow in many ways.

The coffee and grocery store trips as “me time” is sooo me hahah and I feel like that’s the reality for most moms out there. Milena doesn’t understand that most mothers out there can’t just get in time for themselves, some of us are beyond tired from waking multiple times at night to tend to our babies because we don’t have night nurses. Or have our mothers stay over night to help with the kids (if y’all haven’t checked out milena’s mom Yt channel then you should) sAnd the reality is being a mother can be lonely so that’s probably why some asked if she had friends. But instead she got so defensive. It gave me mean popular girl vibes. And by the way she commented back to people further proves how conceited and rude she really is.

i know i’m late but regarding the mean popular girl vibes, it’s because she probably was a mean girl in high school and still hasn’t grown out of it yet. we went to the same high school and she was actually pretty popular, even though the school was huge with thousands of students. the area she lives in (i’m like 99% sure she still lives in the same area as the high school because i have seen her before at a bar here) is expensive, white, and suburban. this is probably why she is the way she is. just being honest.

[Hantherez]

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[chismosaaa1]

Yes, agree with you! Is biblical to discipline your children. Totally get it when you are coming from, I don’t have any help and me time is no a thing, even though my husband help me when he can, sometimes I go and take a chai, coffee and walk to the grocery store alone but that the time I have when I can. Not having help is very overwhelming but is worth it. I don’t complain at all, that what we are supposed to do, Jesus was always carrying for everyone and Him self was last. We need to do like Jesus did. Nothing wrong with needing a day off for us. But for her constantly and still complaining is not okay. Why have kids then, I think she see her kids as a money maker, put them on a video and talk about them and people will watch! She is not a realistic person at all, in my opinion. She was so spoiled that she has no idea what is going on around her. Honestly, she needs to come forward and say that she is a liar and doesn’t believe in GOD, she does the opposite she preaches or she is trying to be someone she is not for her family. On the breast feeding, I didn’t know, but she just couldn’t keep up so is easy for her to buy formula, don’t forget that maybe her boobs are saggy and she doesn’t like that (as all woman’s after kids) so might get a surgery there too. I don’t know I think she wants to use the CBD or what ever is call. Maybe some people like that but honestly she is using drugs in a different way, her sister smokes or what ever. I think she does other things because she is very open about alcohol, long time ago she was talking about it. So in my opinion all she does is the opposite to Christianity. I’m not judging hard, but in the scriptures also said to judge you brother or sister in Chris to call them out if they are not doing the right thing. Now a days if we say something, people are coming for you, you shouldn’t judge when the Bible clearly state that. Any ways I wish her the best, but she needs to grow in many ways.

The coffee and grocery store trips as “me time” is sooo me hahah and I feel like that’s the reality for most moms out there. Milena doesn’t understand that most mothers out there can’t just get in time for themselves, some of us are beyond tired from waking multiple times at night to tend to our babies because we don’t have night nurses. Or have our mothers stay over night to help with the kids (if y’all haven’t checked out milena’s mom Yt channel then you should) sAnd the reality is being a mother can be lonely so that’s probably why some asked if she had friends. But instead she got so defensive. It gave me mean popular girl vibes. And by the way she commented back to people further proves how conceited and rude she really is.

i know i’m late but regarding the mean popular girl vibes, it’s because she probably was a mean girl in high school and still hasn’t grown out of it yet. we went to the same high school and she was actually pretty popular, even though the school was huge with thousands of students. the area she lives in (i’m like 99% sure she still lives in the same area as the high school because i have seen her before at a bar here) is expensive, white, and suburban. this is probably why she is the way she is. just being honest.

No way you went to school with her?! Please tell us more

[stalkerrr]

Being a bit hypocritical are we milena? Ari waking up with a pacifier

I’m not against babies and pacifiers I’m against Milena and her not being able to stick with her word

That being said, I don’t think Ari needs his taken away as he’s much younger than alethea

Tsk tsk Milena

[Honest opinion]

Did anyone of you watch the video she is talking about depression? Seriously don’t know if she was saying the truth or lying all the damn time. All the video she say “just like” and touching the hair so much, she wasn’t looking straight at the camera, just around (that looks like some lies honestly. Also I notice that she was talking on so many many tool pics that have been discussed over here. Are she is trying to figure out who we are or something? This is so ridiculous, I guess she have struggled after baby Ariel but seriously I feel that she was lying, if was that bad as she said she will not be doing videos and be on camera the whole damn time, she needs help good for her she went to the Dr. but please I don’t thinking she really suffer about all of that she will be doing videos all the time, and putting a face like everything is great. I don’t have depression, but I have friends and family and basically they don’t be sharing all of that every single day! I think she is trying to be this tile of girl. For the ulcerative colitis she can have it under control with good medicine, but will not be 100% cure is not a cure for that, she can present flare up and inflammation anytime. Very confuse about that information, are she really knows what she was talking about. Don’t know but she needs to do better, or better take some time off from social media. Her mi time was the best decision she have mane when she have kids because she can feel her self again, what in the world she is talking about, a lot of mother don’t have help, or husband at home, they work or other are single mothers and no family around. She even talk about the CBD and why she stop breast feeding! “To much work” I think she resent having her son to fast and also thinking that he will be similar to Alethea. Don’t know this video seems fake and the way she was talking, was faked “so just like, I didn’t could stand my child, because he needs to eat 15min” (with a clench and “qut” sound. Did you guys seen it, like one of you have say she literally talk about all the topics we talk in here. She is a joke

[HonestOpinion2]

I literally just made an account to reply “this”.lol also in case she reads this. I have read this entire thread and agree with lots and lots of points you guys made. Yes she has gotten irritating. I used to love watching her back in their old house. There was something so humble and cute about her. But since the move, I hardly watch her anymore. Yes she is trying too hard to be perfect and trying to hard to portray this perfect and clean Instagram/Montessori life and how she is amazing at being a mom ect. But lets face it. That’s not how life works. It’s annoying. I am subscribed to her on YT and somedays when her new Videos come on, I have to instantly shut it off because I can’t handle the way she talks or dresses. It’s gotten too much. I am so sorry Milena. If you are reading this: I just want to let you know that I am simply disappointed of how much you changed and that there is not a lot of humbleness anymore. I am a christian myself and I also know how hard it is to be an example somedays. I feel like you need to be yourself again and be an example and not an irritation. And I am simply just keeping you in my prayers because I know you need it. And your overall wellbeing. I also feel bad for all this hate you are getting. This reply is me not being for you and also not being against you. I am just trying to tell you that if you started to be more RAW and simple again, people wouldn't be so mad at you. Just say you are struggling with Alethea. Just say where you are failing because we all do. I am a mom myself and whatever you are trying to show on YT is not realistic. I think maybe 2% off other moms can relate with you. And the rest just tries to relate with you but then feel bad because they can’t have it this perfect. And you are struggling too and we all know it. If you could admit it and just be YOU again.

Now to everyone else: I think the recent holistic Depression video was probably the most raw video of her. I was able to relate on lots of the points she made. I was also unable to function with little sleep. Post partum is a real thing and some moms just struggle more than others. That’s why I don’t think it was fake what she said. I also gave up breastfeeding because I couldn’t do it mentally. And NO its not a “suck it up sissy”-thing like some of you mentioned above. Nope. Too me my mental state was more important than feeding my baby breastmilk. My baby turned out fine in case you are wondering. I think she actually struggled alot with post partum depression and anxiety as she said because I did and I know alot of women that did too. Its not easy. As much as I don’t like that she contradicts herself with everything, I think its not nice to say she lied about everything. Look here is the thing: I needed my mom and MIL’s help soo much after I had my little one. And I am glad I did. Some moms can’t have that “luxury” I get it, but its still not right to say that moms that do get help, are spoiled and entitled and bad moms. Like I said, some are just more affected than others. I am glad she is doing whatever she needs to feel better, even if that means “mi time” like hey, you go girl and do what makes you happy. But please be REAL and dont throw around with your money the money thing always gets me. I hope she changes. Id love to see more faith videos. Also as one of you mentioned above, she should take a break from YT and be off camera. I don’t agree. I mean if that’s their main or one of the main income, I wouldn’t stop either tbh.

[Olynn96]

I don’t think there is anything wrong with disagreeing with how your parents raised you. I don’t think my parents were good to me, I’d like to break those generational traumas.

[Blah00]

I'm sorry but I agree with Milena about spanking. I don't want to get into an argument about how people discipline their kids, but Milena was close to getting a degree in childhood education. I minored in childhood psychology and literally every childhood development expert agrees that spanking can have negative affects on children. My parents spanked me but I think it's a form of abuse and I 100% will not spank my children. Milena comes from an immigrant South American family- of course her parents spanked her lol. That doesn't mean she has to repeat that cycle of discipline, especially when she knows better.


I'm just surprised of all the things to hate on her for people are choosing her view on spanking.

Well, she does claim to be a Christian. Spanking children is Biblical. Like, a flat out command. So, it doesn't make sense for her to act like it's a bad thing to do, when God specifically says to spank your children. I guess Milena knows more about child rearing than God does.

[grrrl]

I'm sorry but I agree with Milena about spanking. I don't want to get into an argument about how people discipline their kids, but Milena was close to getting a degree in childhood education. I minored in childhood psychology and literally every childhood development expert agrees that spanking can have negative affects on children. My parents spanked me but I think it's a form of abuse and I 100% will not spank my children. Milena comes from an immigrant South American family- of course her parents spanked her lol. That doesn't mean she has to repeat that cycle of discipline, especially when she knows better.


I'm just surprised of all the things to hate on her for people are choosing her view on spanking.

Well, she does claim to be a Christian. Spanking children is Biblical. Like, a flat out command. So, it doesn't make sense for her to act like it's a bad thing to do, when God specifically says to spank your children. I guess Milena knows more about child rearing than God does.

Wait but remember she went school for early childhood education (mind you she dropped out)!! That’s why she knows better


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[stalkerrrr]

no offence to Milena or Jordan, but I do not see their relationship lasting at all. They already have so many marital issues(that they've openly spoken about) and who knows what else. The only thing that I see working for them is their vitamin d that is just so funny! I fully believe that if they weren't christian(well jordan) they would've broken up a long time ago

I also think milena has definitely changed and I don't think Jordan likes it either

[stalkerrrr]

no offence to Milena or Jordan, but I do not see their relationship lasting at all. They already have so many marital issues(that they've openly spoken about) and who knows what else. The only thing that I see working for them is their vitamin d that is just so funny! I fully believe that if they weren't christian(well jordan) they would've broken up a long time ago

I also think milena has definitely changed and I don't think Jordan likes it either

[chismosaaa1]

What’s up with milena stans coming on here to defend her lmao

[Honest opinion]

What’s up with milena stans coming on here to defend her lmao

I think so, the times I want to comment or something, they say on the top of the page “trolls are working hard to get the page down”. I guess the people that love her came on here to defend her in all the ways possible. Now in the other page I saw many topics that I’m like yeap, agree with you on that. I think she is having a some issues after that video. “This” is why I say that I don’t think she was saying the truth, but here we are!

[to25]

Is there a new thread on her?

[Snarkybutt]

She named her new kid the same thing Jinger Duggar named her daughter...