It’s R Life: From Rich to Rags

[lemonquisha]

omg it’s real
it’ll probably be a bit before we see residency changes though. official divorce does take a while
I’m pretty sure it was cheating based on evie’s TikToks. I feel bad for Kendal tbh she doesn’t deserve that garbage but maybe she can find someone better and richer. wonder what her estranged parents think and if they’ll try to contact her.
She’ll definitely need to get a job soon. She should try Nordstrom. They pay well with good benefits.

[Yewkan2]

I wonder if she will let him take bones. He’s the only one that pays any attention to him, I really worry about him.

She will probably MAKE him take Bones. She won’t be able to do 4 kids in cheer and handle him.


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I really hope so. She’s not good with him at all. I also wonder what this will mean for duck donuts. Are they able to pull out of that this late in the process?

[disgruntled_pelican]

Whoa. You guys. As much as we snark, who saw this coming? Days ago they seemed fine. I wonder what happened

[TrulyMegan]

Whoa. You guys. As much as we snark, who saw this coming? Days ago they seemed fine. I wonder what happened

Agreed. They always seemed off, but I never saw like a big switch/change. However, something big happened. Something really big. It is RIGHT before Christmas. Most would wait till after Christmas to break it off. I think it is more then cheating. I think it is a combination of D cheating on Kenny, D getting tired of Kenny, Kenny realizing she's only married to him because she needs money and someone to work, and I think there is some money involved too (ex: Daniel works, Kenny spends it all behind his back. Like major money)

[TrulyMegan]

omg it’s real
it’ll probably be a bit before we see residency changes though. official divorce does take a while
I’m pretty sure it was cheating based on evie’s TikToks. I feel bad for Kendal tbh she doesn’t deserve that garbage but maybe she can find someone better and richer. wonder what her estranged parents think and if they’ll try to contact her.
She’ll definitely need to get a job soon. She should try Nordstrom. They pay well with good benefits.

I also feel bad for Kendal if cheating was the case. Or for Daniel if K was the one who cheated (which I doubt but gotta be fair). I also feel horrible for the kids. I think this is going to be hard on all of them, especially Bones and Seb. It seems both the boys were extremely close with him. I think if they don't do shared custody (which Kenny would be thrilled if they didn't) I think Bones would go with D and Kenny would take the girls plus Sebi only for cheer. And you are right. Kenny NEEDS a job now.
Also, any idea of what will become of Duck Donuts?
What will happen with the house? I think Daniel and Bones will move to a smaller house and Kendall and the girls plus Sebi will probably try to stay in their current house, but will have to move to a smaller house, which will horrify Kenny. That is unless D somehow will stay paying for the house, OR magically will stay in the guest bedroom of the house.

[SwaggySpungo]

Whoa. You guys. As much as we snark, who saw this coming? Days ago they seemed fine. I wonder what happened

I'm completely surprised, to be honest. If anything, I thought they were rekindling things now that the kids are getting older. They've been going on dates the past few weeks. And they seemed closer than usual on the vlogs. Though I did find it odd that Kendal posted either a picture or video of the two of them attending a basketball game on their instagram, and Daniel wasn't sitting next to Kendal.

I'll have to read through the thread to gather more info, because I have no clue what happened.

This decision does seem to have been made very abruptly though. Kendal was vague on a video she uploaded to YouTube a few hours ago, but it did sound like this was a sudden decision, not something they had been considering for a long time. I mean, it's unlikely they were separate days before Christmas if something major didn't happen.

[disgruntled_pelican]

Whoa. You guys. As much as we snark, who saw this coming? Days ago they seemed fine. I wonder what happened

I'm completely surprised, to be honest. If anything, I thought they were rekindling things now that the kids are getting older. They've been going on dates the past few weeks. And they seemed closer than usual on the vlogs. Though I did find it odd that Kendal posted either a picture or video of the two of them attending a basketball game on their instagram, and Daniel wasn't sitting next to Kendal.

I'll have to read through the thread to gather more info, because I have no clue what happened.

This decision does seem to have been made very abruptly though. Kendal was vague on a video she uploaded to YouTube a few hours ago, but it did sound like this was a sudden decision, not something they had been considering for a long time. I mean, it's unlikely they were separate days before Christmas if something major didn't happen.

I agree it’s something major. You don’t decide to get divorced suddenly unless something big happens- like infidelity. But who knows, maybe it wasn’t sudden for Daniel. Maybe he was thinking about it for a while and he finally broke. Based on Kendall’s YT, it sounds like it was his decision.

I don’t know if this is the reason, but I always thought Daniel might be closeted. There’s no romantic chemistry between K&D and he just always seemed like he was hiding something. If this is the case, I’m happy for Daniel for being able to be true to himself. I’m also happy that he chose his own happiness rather than Kendals. He did everything for that family and he deserves to be happy.

Kendal is a monster and while I hate to say it, she deserves this karma. Good luck to her and her bank account moving forward.

[SwaggySpungo]

Did Evie delete her TikTok account?

[Cheerinfo]

Despite everything, I do feel bad for Kendall. To be dealing with this right before Christmas has to be hard. I think that Kendall might have been blindsided. My theory is that finances probably played a huge role. After all, money is the number one reason why people divorce. Perhaps they didn't have the money for their next Ducks Donuts payment. Perhaps, their recent cheer payment got declined due to insufficient funds. Maybe Daniel invested the money that Kendall thought that they had in Ftx! I don't necessarily think it had to do with Kendall's spending bc she did it openly so Daniel had always been fully aware of it ( and perhaps supportive) for years. Of course there could have been infidelity too - maybe Daniel met someone through his new job? Daniel always gave me somewhat gay vibes.

[lemonquisha]

Damn pelican I don’t think kendal deserved it but y’all probably right when it’s a combination- I bet when the cheating came out Kendal rethought everything and realized they have zero chemistry.
Anyone else hear Kendal mention being a single mom this Christmas? She kicked his ass out lol
He can go live with side bitch I guess

[lemonquisha]

Also if said “side bitch” didn’t know he was married he’s ROYALLY f’ed

[ThisIsMeCeej]

Did Evie delete her TikTok account?

It's still up.

[ThisIsMeCeej]

Despite everything, I do feel bad for Kendall. To be dealing with this right before Christmas has to be hard. I think that Kendall might have been blindsided. My theory is that finances probably played a huge role. After all, money is the number one reason why people divorce. Perhaps they didn't have the money for their next Ducks Donuts payment. Perhaps, their recent cheer payment got declined due to insufficient funds. Maybe Daniel invested the money that Kendall thought that they had in Ftx! I don't necessarily think it had to do with Kendall's spending bc she did it openly so Daniel had always been fully aware of it ( and perhaps supportive) for years. Of course there could have been infidelity too - maybe Daniel met someone through his new job? Daniel always gave me somewhat gay vibes.

I really don't think Daniel had it in him to cheat.. but, it would be kinda funny if he did, but I do think you're onto something about the money.. that Kendal was blindsided about not having enough money for something, because Daniel invested wrong, or maybe got fired and didn't tell her, and a check got declined.. And Kendal, being the angry troll she is, can't be calm about anything.. she just goes crazy (look what she does at comments that aren't even remotely rude!).

[lip]

Also the way she went about the ex-boyfriend of her daughter, you can imagine what she does when her own relationship goes south...

[Willow2015]

Wow just Wow I have no words!

[Greygoose28]

I must say I do feel really sorry for her and the kids - no matter what you think of them this is a hard thing for anyone to go through especially with the rising costs . I don’t think I can be part of this anymore as I genuinely feel bad for them

[Willow2015]

She is not a single mom until her divorce is finalized!

[SwaggySpungo]

I watched her YouTube video again and I noticed she used the word "remorseful". She said something to the effect of "people are going to say that I don't look upset or that I'm not remorseful".

She may have misspoke, but you'd only feel remorse if you were the one who did something wrong in the relationship. You'd not be expected to feel remorseful if your spouse cheated on you.

So it is at least a possibility that Daniel left her after she was unfaithful or she did something MAJOR related to finances.

In all of the videos she's posted since this happened, nowhere does she come across as someone who is hurt or was wronged, in my opinion. She comes across more to me as someone who is defiant, sort of like "Yeah, I did it. But I had my reasons." She also doesn't even make an attempt to portray herself as the victim - and don't we all think she would if Daniel had been the one who wronged her?

The language she is using (and not using) is also interesting, apart from "remorseful". She is being very, very vague, but in a situation like this the party who is wronged usually makes it clear that was the case, even if they don't go into details. You sort of tell people what happened without literally telling them.

But maybe what is most striking to me is how unemotional and matter-of-fact she is about everything. This is more the behavior of the cheater, not the one who was cheated on. The body language, the attitude, the words she's choosing, everything.

I could be way, way off and I admit that. But I'm at least open to the idea that Kendal was mostly responsible for this breakup.

[disgruntled_pelican]

I watched her YouTube video again and I noticed she used the word "remorseful". She said something to the effect of "people are going to say that I don't look upset or that I'm not remorseful".

She may have misspoke, but you'd only feel remorse if you were the one who did something wrong in the relationship. You'd not be expected to feel remorseful if your spouse cheated on you.

So it is at least a possibility that Daniel left her after she was unfaithful or she did something MAJOR related to finances.

In all of the videos she's posted since this happened, nowhere does she come across as someone who is hurt or was wronged, in my opinion. She comes across more to me as someone who is defiant, sort of like "Yeah, I did it. But I had my reasons." She also doesn't even make an attempt to portray herself as the victim - and don't we all think she would if Daniel had been the one who wronged her?

The language she is using (and not using) is also interesting, apart from "remorseful". She is being very, very vague, but in a situation like this the party who is wronged usually makes it clear that was the case, even if they don't go into details. You sort of tell people what happened without literally telling them.

But maybe what is most striking to me is how unemotional and matter-of-fact she is about everything. This is more the behavior of the cheater, not the one who was cheated on. The body language, the attitude, the words she's choosing, everything.

I could be way, way off and I admit that. But I'm at least open to the idea that Kendal was mostly responsible for this breakup.

First off- I want to walk back my comment about saying it’s karma for Kendal. She doesn’t deserve this and neither do the kids.

Second- I heard and thought the same thing, Swaggy. But given the rest of her video I think she misspoke and meant to say something other than remorseful. I also think Daniel initiated the separation, not Kendal. Not sure if it was cheating but the suddenness of it all makes me think it was. If it was financial, I think Kendal would have faked it for a few days to get through Christmas before doing anything. It doesn’t make sense to move out of the house 3 days before Xmas if it’s not something like cheating. I also think Kendal is just in shock and that’s why she’s not bawling. 4 days ago she thought everything was fine and out of nowhere she gets hit with information that tears apart her family. It’s going to take time for her to come to terms with it.

But yeah, I don’t think Kenny deserves it (as vile as she is).
I don’t think the kids should suffer (Especially around the holidays- this will taint Xmas for them forever), and I definitely think Daniel was the one who made the decision to leave. Why? Could be lots of things but my guess is he was unhappy and finally had enough.

[Yewkan2]

I agree that she and the kids didn’t deserve it if he did cheat. They didn’t deserve for their worlds to be completely turned upside down days before Christmas. I’m really sad for the boys though, they both seemed especially close to Daniel, and also being the youngest, I’m sure they’re hurting extra bad.