It’s R Life: From Rich to Rags

[Gymfan]

I don’t have Tiktok but was looking at Kendal’s page. The third video where she says she caught Daniel cheating at the Mac & Cheese store and caught it on video and posted it, what the heck is she talking about? Is she just being annoying or did I miss something.

[Glass Half Full]

I don’t have Tiktok but was looking at Kendal’s page. The third video where she says she caught Daniel cheating at the Mac & Cheese store and caught it on video and posted it, what the heck is she talking about? Is she just being annoying or did I miss something.

She’s being annoying and ‘responding’ to all the comments that said cheating is rife amongst restaurant owners since they work long hours etc.

[lemonquisha]

Do you think he’s still cheating glass? Pelican?
I think he is tbh

[disgruntled_pelican]

Do you think he’s still cheating glass? Pelican?
I think he is tbh

I would not be surprised if he is. If he’s not, he’s def thinking about it. I don’t think he’s happy in his marriage since nothing has changed since he started cheating.

Also Kendal is trying WAY too hard to prove she’s happy. All her dumb Instagram stories about “couple goals” and “he’s a keeper” BS just shows how desperate she is. Her self worth is tied up in being a wife and she can’t let that go.

[Glass Half Full]

I don’t think he’s cheating but I also don’t think he’s happy. Kendal spends her whole time trying to prove to everyone that she’s doing the right thing by staying with him. And she’s trying to show the other woman how happy they are together and how Daniel has changed. But all of this is deflecting from the actual situation. Is she really trying to work on her marriage? I don’t think so. I think she’s working hard to show everyone that she’s working on the marriage.

It’s like watching someone pretending to be busy rather than watching someone who’s actually busy. Some people put as much effort into avoiding work that they might as well just do the work. Kendal is doing just that: putting so much effort into saving face that she might as well put the same effort into saving her marriage

[lemonquisha]

I don’t think he’s cheating but I also don’t think he’s happy. Kendal spends her whole time trying to prove to everyone that she’s doing the right thing by staying with him. And she’s trying to show the other woman how happy they are together and how Daniel has changed. But all of this is deflecting from the actual situation. Is she really trying to work on her marriage? I don’t think so. I think she’s working hard to show everyone that she’s working on the marriage.

It’s like watching someone pretending to be busy rather than watching someone who’s actually busy. Some people put as much effort into avoiding work that they might as well just do the work. Kendal is doing just that: putting so much effort into saving face that she might as well put the same effort into saving her marriage

Damnnnn fr LOL

[Gymfan]

I don’t think he’s cheating but I also don’t think he’s happy. Kendal spends her whole time trying to prove to everyone that she’s doing the right thing by staying with him. And she’s trying to show the other woman how happy they are together and how Daniel has changed. But all of this is deflecting from the actual situation. Is she really trying to work on her marriage? I don’t think so. I think she’s working hard to show everyone that she’s working on the marriage.

It’s like watching someone pretending to be busy rather than watching someone who’s actually busy. Some people put as much effort into avoiding work that they might as well just do the work. Kendal is doing just that: putting so much effort into saving face that she might as well put the same effort into saving her marriage

Spot on. Maybe Daniel is just awkward in front of the camera, but I’ve always found something phony about the way he will smile and nod in agreement with everything Kendal says. I’m not convinced they are that happy. He works a ton of late hours, when is there even time to work on their marriage. The restaurant business is hard and comes with no immediate reward, I expect both of them to lose patience with it soon.

[disgruntled_pelican]

What happened to Daniel’s year long therapy? Also did anyone catch in recent vlog Daniel said “this might be a 5 year process” referring to their healing journey. That right there shows Kendal is still very very angry and they are NOT in a good place like she says they are.

[Southern_walker]

You can tell Kendal hasn’t moved on at all. The constant social media posts relating to the cheating and the other woman are dead giveaways. Kendal is seemingly obsessed with her. Also, just look at her attitude in the car shopping video. She’s obviously pissy and feeling entitled to whatever she wants because of it, even if it’s cars she shouldn’t be buying. Her tone when she talks to Daniel in that video is a dead giveaway she’s still mad and nothing has truly changed relationship wise. She has this mindset of "you did me wrong, therefore shut up and go along with whatever I want." Not including Daniel on an expensive car purchase, blowing a ton of BOTH of their funds, is a horrible start to their "new beginnings.”

Despite all of what’s been said about Daniel, I really don’t think he’d blow house profits on a stupid flashy 100k Escalade. That’s 100% Kendal wanting to appear rich. He’s just doing whatever Kendal wants and totally enabling her bad attitude. Don’t get me wrong, Kendal has every right to be angry. However, if they are starting over and fixing their marriage, Kendal using the cheating as manipulation to do and get whatever she wants won’t end well. Daniel will get sick of never being listened to, and he’ll cheat again for validation from someone else. I can just see it.

[lemonquisha]

You can tell Kendal hasn’t moved on at all. The constant social media posts relating to the cheating and the other woman are dead giveaways. Kendal is seemingly obsessed with her. Also, just look at her attitude in the car shopping video. She’s obviously pissy and feeling entitled to whatever she wants because of it, even if it’s cars she shouldn’t be buying. Her tone when she talks to Daniel in that video is a dead giveaway she’s still mad and nothing has truly changed relationship wise. She has this mindset of "you did me wrong, therefore shut up and go along with whatever I want." Not including Daniel on an expensive car purchase, blowing a ton of BOTH of their funds, is a horrible start to their "new beginnings.”

Despite all of what’s been said about Daniel, I really don’t think he’d blow house profits on a stupid flashy 100k Escalade. That’s 100% Kendal wanting to appear rich. He’s just doing whatever Kendal wants and totally enabling her bad attitude. Don’t get me wrong, Kendal has every right to be angry. However, if they are starting over and fixing their marriage, Kendal using the cheating as manipulation to do and get whatever she wants won’t end well. Daniel will get sick of never being listened to, and he’ll cheat again for validation from someone else. I can just see it.

PERIODTTTT
You too pelican. The way they’re both acting doesn’t reflect Kendals words of peace and love.

[Gymfan]

Also, just look at her attitude in the car shopping video. She’s obviously pissy and feeling entitled to whatever she wants because of it, even if it’s cars she shouldn’t be buying. Her tone when she talks to Daniel in that video is a dead giveaway she’s still mad and nothing has truly changed relationship wise. She has this mindset of "you did me wrong, therefore shut up and go along with whatever I want." Not including Daniel on an expensive car purchase, blowing a ton of BOTH of their funds, is a horrible start to their "new beginnings.”

Yes! Any large purchase obviously needs to be a joint decision no matter whose car it is. I don’t know why Kendal even brings Daniel car shopping with her, she doesn’t value his input at all. She claims her van is broken but I think she would rather just ride in the Tesla. So Daniel becomes her chauffeur.

It reminds me of famous rich men who cheat and try to make it up to their wives by buying them very expensive jewelry. That’s what Kendal’s making Daniel do except with a car (and they’re not rich!) Their relationship will probably never be that healthy unless they commit to going to therapy together.

[Willow2015]

I really don’t think they have any plans to move. It’s been like what a month?

[disgruntled_pelican]

Kendal saying she’s excited to move to a new town makes me wonder if it’s because they have a bad reputation in Wellington. It’s a nice town so why would she be so anxious to get out? I’m sure it’s because they are not well liked and want to start fresh and terrorize a new place.

[lemonquisha]

Kendal saying she’s excited to move to a new town makes me wonder if it’s because they have a bad reputation in Wellington. It’s a nice town so why would she be so anxious to get out? I’m sure it’s because they are not well liked and want to start fresh and terrorize a new place.

Definitely, she’s had so much drama in Wellington (remember the old gym?)
I think it’s also just because she wants to be closer to the beach lol Wellington is a good half hour from the shore

[Glass Half Full]

They have become soooo cautious about showing where the potential new rental properties are located. Remember when they were looking to buy we were easily able to locate them on Zillow. Now we don’t see neighborhoods, nor road signs nor the outside of the houses.

In kapri’s vlog she showed one of the Top Gun teams…almost the entire routine. I swear they are setting us up for a club change and kapri will be changing to Top Gun.

Kendal posing in her outfits of the day on instagram is definitely targeted at the affair woman. She’s so desperate to prove she has won.

[Elon557]

They have become soooo cautious about showing where the potential new rental properties are located. Remember when they were looking to buy we were easily able to locate them on Zillow. Now we don’t see neighborhoods, nor road signs nor the outside of the houses.

In kapri’s vlog she showed one of the Top Gun teams…almost the entire routine. I swear they are setting us up for a club change and kapri will be changing to Top Gun.

Kendal posing in her outfits of the day on instagram is definitely targeted at the affair woman. She’s so desperate to prove she has won.

What exactly does Kendal think she won? Danny boy? Lol
It’s probably the only thing keeping her around. She thinks she’s in competition. That and she knows she can’t do it on her own. Sounds like a depressing marriage

[disgruntled_pelican]

Their house closes tomorrow. That means we’ll soon know how much they sold it for and how much they made. My guess is it sold for less than asking but we’ll see- we already know how they plan to spend a big chunk on the car and I’m sure Kendall’s hair, nails, Botox, fillers, etc.

I am also very curious to see where they end up renting.

[Gymfan]

In kapri’s vlog she showed one of the Top Gun teams…almost the entire routine. I swear they are setting us up for a club change and kapri will be changing to Top Gun.

That would be fun, although Kendal refused to film the last cheer competition, I guess because she’s so upset over her views being down, so I don’t know how much cheer stuff we’re going to hear about anymore. What else would Kendal talk about though. It’s either that or shut down the channel.

I think Kapri was just fangirling over the “famous teams” that have won World titles- she showed 2 of the famous Top Gun teams (TGLC and Lady Jags), and one from Cheer Extreme- Raleigh (where the kids would have went if they never moved out of North Carolina).

They’d have to move way further south for Kendal to drive to Top Gun. I imagine she might be intimidated by a gym that large. She probably couldn’t be buddies with the coaches/owners like she tries to be at their current gym. But the more times Cheer Extreme is non-competitive at competitions, the more I think she’ll consider it. If Kapri or Sebi starts showing Level 5/6 potential, I’m sure they’ll definitely consider it. But right now Kapri seems happy getting 4th place and just hitting their routine.

[disgruntled_pelican]

Oh please Kendal, try harder.

Who does she think she’s fooling? “Affairs don’t happen for reasons you think”? He was in a dark place yet you had NO idea? What kind of wife does that make you?? Daniel had an affair cause he was depressed with his life - because YOU treated him like garbage. And now all of a sudden he’s a different person? After two therapy sessions? After years of a bad marriage you have a marriage from the movies? Get out of here. Y’all are still miserable and will continue to be. She knows the other woman watches her stories and is determined to show Heather she (Kendal) won. Daniel is no prize though, so she won nothing.

[Glass Half Full]

So Daniel was not only unhappy but he was also unkind? And 2.5 months on he’s a dream husband? His eyes are still joyless, even when his mouth is being enthusiastic about something.

I’d say this is a big reason why Kendal has no relationship with Hampton. Probably she had no or a very difficult relationship with Daniel and used Hampton as a fuel for her argument. I can only imagine the arguments….”you deal with Hampton, you wanted him, I’m not taking him, give him to your parents, he’s too much work”….. etc.

Prior to the affair the marriage must have been pretty toxic.