TheStyleDiet/LeFloofTv-Part 29

[SoBeee]

Ugh, reading through this thread is so frustrating. You all complain about Anna being lazy, yet when someone brings up that she seems like she suffers from quite severe depression, you just ignore it. You all complain what an asshole Jofus is, also before Emilia, but when someone asks what exactly he did you ignore it? How ridiculous. I don't support all this hate on them but can't you at least TRY and act logical just for once? wow

Oh look its Guru Gossips loneliest hypocrite. Note the 'I don't support all this hate' but its okay for her to hate on other gurus on this board

I can't believe I just checked my answers just because I read this, but anyway. I don't think that criticizing one or two gurus ONCE even comes close to what you guys have been doing on this board, everyday for months. So keep trying to insult me, I certainly don't care.

You're really funny... Nobody on this board ever explains what J. is actually doing wrong??! As a matter of fact almost every single post on here is very detailed about that. A&J deliver new reasons to get mad and be worried about Emilia every, single day. How they treat their baby is just horrible! That's why this thread has gotten so big and why so many new people start writing here. It's not about hate or jealousy at all. Also, Jonathan himself creates all of this controversy, so he's clearly not your "poor victim" of some mean haters.

[monkeyseemonkeydo]

In today's vlog, Anna is getting on E for turning her cereal bowl upside down on the table and spilling the cereal and milk. Um, what the hell do they expect her to do???? They do that in front of her every damn day. She doesn't KNOW she's supposed to eat out of the bowl. You have to TEACH them how to do things. Not just let them grow up like wolf children. Their stupidity still amazes me every day even though it shouldn't at this point.

I noticed that, and thought the same exact thing. Emilia is only doing what she see's her lazy, ignorant parents doing. How is
it possible that two grown people are this unacquainted with common sense? I just can't get over them feeding her like that. It's seems so outlandish that when I first started watching them again I thought it was some kind of weird joke. Who pours milk and cereal all over the table like that other than these two morans? I would be so embarrassed to feed her in public if I were them. Poor baby honestly is fed like some kind of animal. I would also be disgusted if I was in a public place having dinner and witnessed this catastrophe.

[Meringue]

Ugh, reading through this thread is so frustrating. You all complain about Anna being lazy, yet when someone brings up that she seems like she suffers from quite severe depression, you just ignore it. You all complain what an asshole Jofus is, also before Emilia, but when someone asks what exactly he did you ignore it? How ridiculous. I don't support all this hate on them but can't you at least TRY and act logical just for once? wow

Oh look its Guru Gossips loneliest hypocrite. Note the 'I don't support all this hate' but its okay for her to hate on other gurus on this board

I can't believe I just checked my answers just because I read this, but anyway. I don't think that criticizing one or two gurus ONCE even comes close to what you guys have been doing on this board, everyday for months. So keep trying to insult me, I certainly don't care.

You only ever come in here to get attention, don't you?

*hugs*

[monkeyseemonkeydo]

Ugh, reading through this thread is so frustrating. You all complain about Anna being lazy, yet when someone brings up that she seems like she suffers from quite severe depression, you just ignore it. You all complain what an asshole Jofus is, also before Emilia, but when someone asks what exactly he did you ignore it? How ridiculous. I don't support all this hate on them but can't you at least TRY and act logical just for once? wow

Have you even read this thread A lot of the members here have discussed Anna possibly being depressed, and possible ppd. In GREAT detail. It has not been ignored by no means. I personally think she is just incredibly lazy. She is perfectly capable of doing everything she wants to do. It's only when the responsibility of her child comes into the picture that we see her suffer from depression like symptoms. I did think she was depressed for a while, and of course it is still a possibility. If she is then she and her husband need to sort that out, and seek out professional advice. All anyone here can do is speculate on why she's such a shitty mother, and wife. Right?
Again, have you read this forum? There are pages and pages talking about Jonathon's asshole-ish ways. Did you come here and ask a question, and no one answered you? Is that why you're so bent? I really am a bit confused if you really read here how you don't already know the answers to these questions.

[monkeyseemonkeydo]

Just curious, who are you trying to convince?

I think she cares.

[proudmama]

I'd just to point out that there isn't a direct correlation between depression and 'laziness'. The reason people with depression stay in bed or have trouble getting out of bed is an inability to respond to, or cope with the world around them. You don't really see the point in anything, so you think 'why should I bother?'.

I managed two years of university with unmedicated depression. Sure, there were papers handed in late and I didn't do as well as I could have, but depression in some people isn't as physically debilitating as most believe. I certainly never spent eons caking on make up, doing my hair or checking my phone. If she has time for that she has time to care for her child. I spent a lot of time going over school work again and again, just for something to do and take my mind of the horrible emptiness I was feeling. If Anna has depression, I think she could still care for her properly, I know there's a lot of theories floating around about why she doesn't, that doesn't relate to depression.

I'm not sure whether she is properly depressed or not, it's not the same for every person. But to the poster above who thinks people on here just ignore it, I don't agree. I've been reading these boards for a while, and I have never seen anybody trivialize the possibility of depression. There are arguments on both sides, but I actually don't think she does have it. She was giggling like a maniac the other day with her 'friend' and she puts an awful lot of effort into planning Emilia's outfits.

Just wanted to throw that out there

After reading your post, I'm beginning to wonder if it's not depression (in the classic sense) that Anna has but that it's actually bipolar disorder. How else could she possibly go from sad and whiney one minute to laughing like a lunatic and smashing an avocado the next? Anna seems very superficial to me, piling on the makeup every day despite staying at home all the time, doing her hair, dressing up like she's going somewhere, and getting excited over picking out E's clothes yet wants nothing to do with her child. Regardless of what Anna's problem is, one thing for sure is that chick needs professional help.

[HeyItsCourtney]

I have made a point to lay out the reasons why I think Anna could possibly be manic depressive/have PPD. However, I only think she has bipolar tendencies. I don't think she has full-on depression.

The only symptoms that are entirely evident by both Anna and Jofus are that of narcissts.

[tamithomas]

I managed two years of university with unmedicated depression. Sure, there were papers handed in late and I didn't do as well as I could have, but depression in some people isn't as physically debilitating as most believe.

Amen! Depression does not make you feed junk to your kid all day, be more worried about clothing then your baby's health and well being. Nor does it make you forget your kid in a contraption all day while you do your own thing. She may have tendencies, but it's not a crutch or excuse. I take anti-depressants but even before I got diagnosed I didn't suddenly think letting my dogs shit in the house and feed my cat cake was a good idea. It's the same with Anna, her depression is not an excuse to not take care of someone who depends on you in ever aspect of their life. Every experience of PPD I've witnessed, mothers were actually 10 times more careful with their baby because they were scared of doing something dangerous. I've seen the extreme of a friend who's brain couldn't help but think of drowning her kid. Luckily she loved her kids enough to get help before actually doing anything. But even with that extreme, she still took care of them night and day like a precious flower.

Again I'm not knocking that Anna couldn't have anything but even if she does...it's no excuse to treat Emilia the way she does. If she does, I trully hope she does get help. After all, we may rip on her but she's still human and if she does have issues for the love of mankind of for the love of Emilia : Anna get help!

[monkeyseemonkeydo]

I'd just to point out that there isn't a direct correlation between depression and 'laziness'. The reason people with depression stay in bed or have trouble getting out of bed is an inability to respond to, or cope with the world around them. You don't really see the point in anything, so you think 'why should I bother?'.

I managed two years of university with unmedicated depression. Sure, there were papers handed in late and I didn't do as well as I could have, but depression in some people isn't as physically debilitating as most believe. I certainly never spent eons caking on make up, doing my hair or checking my phone. If she has time for that she has time to care for her child. I spent a lot of time going over school work again and again, just for something to do and take my mind of the horrible emptiness I was feeling. If Anna has depression, I think she could still care for her properly, I know there's a lot of theories floating around about why she doesn't, that doesn't relate to depression.

I'm not sure whether she is properly depressed or not, it's not the same for every person. But to the poster above who thinks people on here just ignore it, I don't agree. I've been reading these boards for a while, and I have never seen anybody trivialize the possibility of depression. There are arguments on both sides, but I actually don't think she does have it. She was giggling like a maniac the other day with her 'friend' and she puts an awful lot of effort into planning Emilia's outfits.

Just wanted to throw that out there

After reading your post, I'm beginning to wonder if it's not depression (in the classic sense) that Anna has but that it's actually bipolar disorder. How else could she possibly go from sad and whiney one minute to laughing like a lunatic and smashing an avocado the next? Anna seems very superficial to me, piling on the makeup every day despite staying at home all the time, doing her hair, dressing up like she's going somewhere, and getting excited over picking out E's clothes yet wants nothing to do with her child. Regardless of what Anna's problem is, one thing for sure is that chick needs professional help.

Have either of you ever heard of Borderline Personality Disorder? Anna definitely exhibits a lot of the symptoms. I was looking at this a few months ago because my brother was seeing someone who claimed to have it. Now that I think about it, the girl did remind me a lot of Anna. Anyway, just a thought.

[tamithomas]

Whatever it is that she may have.. she should get it checked out, just in case. Problem is, with her minions being the great wall of china to Anna, no message of concern ever reaches her because her fans makes sure everything is filtered so that only the good stuff gets heard which is ultimately worse then anything some "hater" can say.

[HeyItsCourtney]

I'd just to point out that there isn't a direct correlation between depression and 'laziness'. The reason people with depression stay in bed or have trouble getting out of bed is an inability to respond to, or cope with the world around them. You don't really see the point in anything, so you think 'why should I bother?'.

I managed two years of university with unmedicated depression. Sure, there were papers handed in late and I didn't do as well as I could have, but depression in some people isn't as physically debilitating as most believe. I certainly never spent eons caking on make up, doing my hair or checking my phone. If she has time for that she has time to care for her child. I spent a lot of time going over school work again and again, just for something to do and take my mind of the horrible emptiness I was feeling. If Anna has depression, I think she could still care for her properly, I know there's a lot of theories floating around about why she doesn't, that doesn't relate to depression.

I'm not sure whether she is properly depressed or not, it's not the same for every person. But to the poster above who thinks people on here just ignore it, I don't agree. I've been reading these boards for a while, and I have never seen anybody trivialize the possibility of depression. There are arguments on both sides, but I actually don't think she does have it. She was giggling like a maniac the other day with her 'friend' and she puts an awful lot of effort into planning Emilia's outfits.

Just wanted to throw that out there

After reading your post, I'm beginning to wonder if it's not depression (in the classic sense) that Anna has but that it's actually bipolar disorder. How else could she possibly go from sad and whiney one minute to laughing like a lunatic and smashing an avocado the next? Anna seems very superficial to me, piling on the makeup every day despite staying at home all the time, doing her hair, dressing up like she's going somewhere, and getting excited over picking out E's clothes yet wants nothing to do with her child. Regardless of what Anna's problem is, one thing for sure is that chick needs professional help.

Have either of you ever heard of Borderline Personality Disorder? Anna definitely exhibits a lot of the symptoms. I was looking at this a few months ago because my brother was seeing someone who claimed to have it. Now that I think about it, the girl did remind me a lot of Anna. Anyway, just a thought.

Is that the one with the unnecessary/unexplained anger and unstable emotions? I did 2 years of psychology before switching majors and I always mixed up the personality disorders.

[monkeyseemonkeydo]

Have either of you ever heard of Borderline Personality Disorder? Anna definitely exhibits a lot of the symptoms. I was looking at this a few months ago because my brother was seeing someone who claimed to have it. Now that I think about it, the girl did remind me a lot of Anna. Anyway, just a thought.

Is that the one with the unnecessary/unexplained anger and unstable emotions? I did 2 years of psychology before switching majors and I always mixed up the personality disorders.

Borderline Personality Disorder is a mental health disorder that generates significant emotional instability. This can lead to a variety of other stressful mental and behavioral problems. You may have a severe distorted self image and feel worthless and fundamentally flawed. Anger, impulsiveness and frequent mood swings may push others away, even though you may desire to have a loving and lasting relationships.
This is from mayoclinic.com

[magicdragon]

I would say what is happening with A is that she is beginning to realize what bad choices she made. She got married far too young to begin with and to completely the wrong partner for her. She wouldn't be the first woman to do it but it's going to be much more difficult for her to get out of the situation now given the vlogs etc. I still don't really get the motivation for J painting her in such a bad light a lot of the time. Sure, it momentarily makes him look like the victim and gets him a little praise from the minions but he's not doing their relationship any favours. There is of course the chance, the bad bits we do see are nothing compared to what happens when the camera is off.
She is extremely superficial, this again proven by rushing out to meet those two Zlisters from the TV and then arriving late to the Christening of the "friend" she was gushing over for months. Given the opportunity to up their profile any bit, these two would drop you quicker than a hot bun.
I suspect there was a problem with the Porsche the way he got rid so suddenly. Pretty dumb buying an equally big and flashy car to replace it but he's not the brightest button in the box is he.
Since the kid arrived, I've given up feeling sorry for either of them because she should be priority since last September and she's not. In fact, things are getting worse and it breaks my heart to see the poor little thing being treated so badly. I really wish family would take her to one side and talk to her or get her help. The last few videos even have me quite concerned for the little child. Even if it's being done to be controversial it is very wrong.

[BlueEyedBelle]

Wow - that picture Jonathan posted of Emilia in the garden this morning looks JUST like him. Emilia is going to have a big gap in her front teeth, nothing wrong with that - its just starting to be really prominent.

[sand and water]

Ugh, reading through this thread is so frustrating. You all complain about Anna being lazy, yet when someone brings up that she seems like she suffers from quite severe depression, you just ignore it. You all complain what an asshole Jofus is, also before Emilia, but when someone asks what exactly he did you ignore it? How ridiculous. I don't support all this hate on them but can't you at least TRY and act logical just for once? wow

We have discussed the possibility of Anna having severe depression and we also talked about why J is an asshole, as you put it. Try reading through the threads before firing off with your fingers, it would be a logical thing to do. Also, if you don't support it then why are you here...in a trash a guru section. Wow your logic astounds me.

[monkeyseemonkeydo]

If Anna has a self distorted self image it could explain the layers of foundation, concealer, bronzer and self tanner. It could also explain the "past" eating disorder. Also perhaps this is why it is damn near impossible for her to make a video on TSD without apologizing and making excuses.
Her throwing that avocado against the wall was clearly done out of anger and frustration. Right before I stopped watching them was when she had her breakdown and was so stressed over feeling like a failure. Like she couldn't do anything right.
Something is off about her. I just don't think it's depression because I can't see anyone being able to put their life on the internet everyday, not to mention dealing with the criticism without becoming completely overwhelmed. I guess I think of depresssion as being more of someone not being physically able to cope with life in general. Anna seems perfectly happy when she's doing what she wants, and getting her way. This could also explain why she is so cold toward her entire family. I remember reading that people with this disorder are so afraid to get close to anyone for fear of being left. Could this have happened when her father passed? Of course, I am totally speculating, and probably completely off. I just find her behavior fascinating. I would love to hear others thoughts. Gin? I know you also like to talk about this sort of thing. Any thoughts??

[sand and water]

So, ifhy, it's ok for you to hate on people:


But if someone else discusses something YOU don't agree with, then we are wrong?

Do you personally know Bethany or the grave yard girl? Is it only ok to hate as long as you are on the bandwagon? Who died and made you queen of opinions?

[monkeyseemonkeydo]

So, ifhy, it's ok for you to hate on people:


But if someone else discusses something YOU don't agree with, then we are wrong?

Do you personally know Bethany or the grave yard girl? Is it only ok to hate as long as you are on the bandwagon? Who died and made you queen of opinions?

[Lilja]

Have either of you ever heard of Borderline Personality Disorder? Anna definitely exhibits a lot of the symptoms. I was looking at this a few months ago because my brother was seeing someone who claimed to have it. Now that I think about it, the girl did remind me a lot of Anna. Anyway, just a thought.

It sounds plausible as somebody else said. She apologizes for everything wants so much to come across as 'perfect'. I'm not sure about Bi-polar disorder, though. It think it might be more obvious if she had that. I'm obviously not an expert, but from what I know about BPD is that you have long periods (a few weeks/months) of a 'high' and then a 'low'. Somebody please correct me if I'm wrong

I'm sure there is something wrong with her though, even if it's just that she's an awful human being

[magicdragon]

To be fair. When she was 18/19 snagging a boyfriend with a motorbike and a good few years older than her was probably pretty cool. He was also making a music video and prob bullshitted her into thinking he'd be the next Martin Scorsese. Now her friends have caught up and are dating/marrying men who are out working, have nice things and are socially active. J has admitted himself to having no friends. It doesn't appear to have always been the case as I do recall in earlier vlogs of hers where she was upset because he was out with friends. How they live their life is not healthy and will have a negative effect on their child.