God yeah, I'm a terrible bitchnickypicky wrote:your just a kindred spirit of that mess. your just like her huh? defending it huh? gross.Bluewolf wrote:Ok ok here I go again.... In defence..... Why am I hear again?
The "I'll kill you" thing, it's a colloquialism. If I had a € for every time my mother said that to me when I was small "if you touch that again - ill kill you", "eat your dinner or - ill kill you", "pinch your brother again-I'll kill you". It's an Irish ism if you like and I doubt it was said with any real intent.
I let my dog lick the plates, kill me now I'm a horrible person.
While I do find them both annoying in a lot of ways and irresponsible and reprehensible careless I do have to say that if the didn't put a foot wrong and were Peter perfect the perfect parents someone would still have something mean to say.
There are an awful lot of assumptions regarding bonding and love etc but here's the thing, I feel bad for her in some ways. Having a baby is VERY HARD. Physically, mentally and emotionally. I'm more that ten years older than her and u just had my 1st baby last year and it's not all sunshine and lollipops and it is very overwhelming and some moms don't feel that bond and live right away particularly if they had a tough labour, cuts, tears or stitches.
She's 24, very very young to be a mom. I know it's her own personal choice and all that but I can't help but feel somehow bad for her that NOTHING she does is the right thing.
Not sure where I'm going with this and not able to type properly on phone but just doing the thinking aloud thing....
Bitch features bastard face is actually my real name