BumpsAlongTheWay Part 1

[Kayliecoburn]

I don't give a damn whether you think he is gay or not...I'm pissed at your fucking stereotyping of what a gay man is like. Yeah, ok some are flamboyant but many are not. Personality does not determine orientation. My best friend in high school was gay and he acted like anyone else. Saying a fucking tilt of the palm makes you gay? Grow the fuck up and get some education.

Morons.

[Beth_munday]

I think citylightsburn meant defensive not offensive. different words different meanings

[Yue195]

My dad was thought to be gay because of how he tilted his hands. Proved her wrong with 25 years of being together and three kids. Also because she realized my dad was the most manly man asking her to show her legs when they first met.

[thecitylightsburn]

I don't give a damn whether you think he is gay or not...I'm pissed at your fucking stereotyping of what a gay man is like. Yeah, ok some are flamboyant but many are not. Personality does not determine orientation. My best friend in high school was gay and he acted like anyone else. Saying a fucking tilt of the palm makes you gay? Grow the fuck up and get some education.

Morons.

First off, I have no problem with gay people whatsoever. I support the gay community.
Second off, I made an observation about Bryan. The same observation that half of the people on here got from watching their vlogs. It doesn't make someone an asshole, because they point out something that could make someone VERY flamboyant. You're taking what someone says on the internet way to fucking seriously. Hop off my dick, okay? I think maybe you should come to terms that not EVERYONE that makes a comment about gay people, hates them. I'm bisexual, myself. And, I have plenty of gay friends' as well as a gay family member. The last thing I would do is poke fun at them for their life choices'. I don't see how me saying the tilt of his palm was wrong, stereotyping, yes.

[ladybug]

I also love gay people. I've known quite a few since highschool. Maybe that's why I'm good at spotting it. Ive also known grown men that were gay that married women and had children and covered it up for years. Usually religion is a big factor why they choose to do that, I've seen it quite a bit. And they both claim to be pretty religious. It's very sad that they can't live their true life, I honestly can't imagine.

[thecitylightsburn]

I agree. I get royally pissed that they can't express how they feel about someone, publicly. And, it does break my heart to see teenagers' who are gay being bullied and some even taking their own lives. I think this society is so fucked up that people can't be themselves.

[hannahbanana]

I know this has been discuss already but I hate how Bryan pokes Ollie!!! I was going to flip out when Bryan said how he was going to pinch Ollie. I started cringing so bad! I hate pinches and pokes, its of my biggest pet peeves. I know Bryan didn't pinch Ollie but just seeing him pretending to really made bothered me. Idk I guess in weird like that.

[oh4thelawls]

I don't think he's gay at all. I think people are taking his behaviors to the extreme. Everyone just needs to take a deep breath and move on.

[dfwmom]

I really love how honest they seem about their lives. I like when women talk candidly about what happens postpartum as far as pain, what their stomach looks like, how they are feeling towards their baby, etc. It makes them feel so much more personable. I don't care for the dailybump updates as much as the actual vlogs but I think that they are a cute couple and they both seem like they are off to an awesome start as parents.

[lovethelifeyoulive]

Tank tops only look good on men with toned arms.

[surferbunny]

UGH could not stand them before but watching them now makes me soo excited to meet my little guy

[shortstop]

It just me or does missy look slightly uncomfortable with Bryan's mom??

[surferbunny]

It just me or does missy look slightly uncomfortable with Bryan's mom??

She probably does not know her very well

[VolcomCherry]

It just me or does missy look slightly uncomfortable with Bryan's mom??

Thinking the same thing! Myself and my mil have a strained relationship and its like watching ourselves!

[nswe2002]

It just me or does missy look slightly uncomfortable with Bryan's mom??

I actually figured that would happen before I watched!

[Snarklover]

Tina (tweedletee10) is talking about Missy and Bryan on her Facebook page. She is dredging up the past about how they "stole" her intro.

I'll be honest, i don't know if i'm feeling pregnancy vlogs with the next pregnancy. I tried to make vlogs that were different from everyone else's. Not better, not worse, just different. And then someone watched my videos, stole every single idea I mentioned, did every single thing I did that made my videos different, emailed me saying she "thought I wouldn't mind" and then had the audacity to post on her channel that all of her intros/ideas/everything else were just hers. Including "thumbs up for the cool intro my husband came up with!" And many people who I consider friends were all just totally okay with it. And I just kind of feel like, if I do make similar videos for my next pregnancy, they're now going to just get lumped in with hers.

Her responses to others comments on that post:

Tina TweedleTee i know that you guys are trying to make me feel better BUT i don't feel better to say i'm prettier, or anything else. it's not a competition. none of it is...

the point is just that i tried to be different, and then she took something that was mine. and then when i emailed her about it, she told me that yes, she copied it, but she didn't think i would mind. and then when i said that i DID mind, she said too bad, and to leave her alone or i would cause her a miscarriage. and that my intro was shitty compared to theirs, and theirs at least looked professional. and then hours later she got her husband to email me stating what "copyright infringement" was and telling me to do some research on it. and that by emailing her i had "harrassed her" when she was in too fragile of a place and i would be causing her a miscarriage.

she then began sending messages out to anyone who commented on her videos saying she stole my intro, saying "i'm not going to give her credit for it. i guess if you think i should, then i should also credit the first person who ever vlogged? and the first pregnant vlogger? and the first person who ever did a belly shot? and the first person who ever did a dance? if i'm going to credit her I guess I should credit anyone who feels they did something before i did"

she was just rude and shit all over me. to me, to my subs, to my friends. and then played the defensive card by saying that if anyone told her to stop, they were wishing a miscarriage on her. then in her very next video, she said she was "so happy everyone LOVED the intro that HER HUSBAND created" and blabbed on about how they came up with it. after emailing ME and saying they did use my intro to create it. they were both rude and awful and no one saw through it and i don't want to be lumped in with them at all.

she gave shoutouts to people who did the same for her. she knew from the moment i told her i was not okay with it that she was never going to be in my good books. in her first email telling me that she thought i wouldn't mind, she said that she loves my channel and watches it all the time. but she wasn't friends with me on fb, wasn't a subscriber on either of my channels, and had never ever once commented on anything i had posted. she knew that she was watching my channel for research purposes.

or hey, maybe i just want to think the worst. but i am upset.

maybe i'm just being whiny. i don't know why it's such a big deal to me but it is. someone commented saying they "lost respect for me" for saying this, and that's fine. I helped them to unfollow me. just because i have a few subs some people believe i am not allowed to have human emotions. and my emotions are because i feel that she took something that was mine. i'm a person. i feel that i created something that was taken from me. i am allowed to feel that way.

NAME REMOVED BY MOD i don't feel bad because i have seen screenshots of things she wrote to people about me. I have the decency not to mention her name, channel name, husband's name, etc. i deleted the comment where someone did. i am allowed to be sad. and to express it. i clearly stated that i didn't want people saying she was awkward or ugly, etc. this is NOT a session to bash her. this is me talking out my feelings and i believe i am entitled to it. i am really sorry if you feel otherwise and i don't want to upset you but i just don't feel the same way.
6 hours ago · Like · 7

i have only every watched her 5 and part of her 6 week bumpdate but i have been told about things from different people. i can't comment on what i don't know for sure. i DO believe that the made the progression video that i said i wanted to make in my 4 or 5 week pregnancy update but i won't watch it because if she did copy it, i'll just be sad. i never followed through so now it just looks like her idea i suppose.

NAME REMOVED BY MOD What is copyright infringement?
As a general matter, copyright infringement occurs when a copyrighted work is reproduced, distributed, performed, publicly displayed, or made into a derivative work without the permission of the copyright owner.

I suppose he should look it up. I would consider the intro intellectual property.
6 hours ago via mobile · Like
Tina TweedleTee NAME REMOVED BY MOD that's what i had told her. but then when he emailed me hours later he said

"Just wanted to send you some information about copyright infringement.

YouTube defines copyright infringment as the following:
"(e.g. the sound is copied, the entire video is a copy of an original work made by you, etc.)"

Because we did neither, reporting our video won't do anything, except flag you to YouTube that you're improperly reporting videos. I really hope you know what you're trying to accomplish with this and that we were well within our rights to produce a vlog that featured "pointing at titles" and "showing all sides of ones belly"."

i only know what i'm told. i don't watch their videos. i believe they live in their parents' garage.
6 hours ago · Like · 3

i don't want them to fall on their faces or anything. i mean...okay i'd get a laugh if they did but i don't want to wish it on them or anything. i just want to find a way of not feeling with my next pregnancy that i would just be another pregnancy vlogger lumped in with them. i hate that they would ever be compared to me because i know what they are really like, and i hate that i would ever be compared to them if i were to make pregnancy vlogs next time around.

yeah, he quoted those things because he was trying to make my issue seem petty. music. her caressing her belly. the dance. her stepping on the scale. more dance. her putting the measuring tape around her self. more dance/caressing. it was totally exactly mine but with a more expensive camera. the email she sent claimed hers were "professional" and mine were not, therefore hers were better. but mine were never meant to be professional. it was never meant to be for money. for a tv show with titles and such on it. for professionality at all. it was a girl in her bedroom with a $50 camera that wanted to do something different and fun.

to top it off, in order to otherwise make me seem petty. she told me that i should be worrying about things other than her intro, and why am i obsessing over such a silly thing when there are people having miscarriages and stillbirths and starving to death all over the world. they did the best they could to trivialize my feelings.
6 hours ago · Like · 5

i'm not upset with you lol. i know that you mean well.

i know that other pregnancy vlogs really started putting intros on them after i did. i didn't see many on older channels and i did after. and it didn't bother me. i like it, that's why i did it. what bothered me was that it was EXACTLY my intro. it was the same motions. the same stepping on the scale. the same measuring. it was exactly the same in every way, except for sub exciting music for something dreary, add a professional camera, and add the fruit in. that's just how i feel.

actually to add to that. it's not even that it's an exact copy of what i did that bothers me. it was how they treated me when i told them i was bothered.

i definitely WANT them to BF and CD. just because they suck (pardon my french) does not mean i don't want less diapers in landfills and less babies fed the best possible way lol.

I know that was long, but I wanted to copy and paste it all in one place in case she deletes it. She has a major chip on her shoulder about all of this, but I don't know if I believe her or not about Bryan and Missy's interactions with her. I think she likes to dramatize stuff, so maybe she didn't lie, but embellished the truth?? I don't know. If Bryan and Missy actually said all of that stuff, it DOES change my opinion of them. They could have at least admitted in their vlogs that they were INSPIRED by her at the very least. I don't know. Maybe she got bitchy with them first and it just escalated. Either way, it is a very immature argument on all sides IMO.

[staceymj]

So she says she only watched their 5&6 week bump dates but she's bringing it all up now? Come on lady, that was like 33 weeks ago. Move on already.

[dfwmom]

I don't watch her vlogs - she is saying that they stole her intro? Or the pieces within the vlogs?

Unfortunately, most youtube moms do similar things in their pregnancy vlogs so I don't know if she would have a leg to stand on.

[ladybug]

I 100% agree with Tina and I think Missy stole her unique into all the way. I would be pissed too! I can see both of them saying those bitchy comments to her.

[yeahbuddy]

i don't think tina is pissed about the intro stealing as much as she is pissed about how rude they were to her about it and how no one sees this about them, i posted this in the tina thread too.