Off-Topic Banter Part 2

[placebo]

It's been said by relatives of Nikkole that she wasn't pregnant as well. Personally, I believe she faked it.

The supposed bare belly shots tell nothing. I can photoshop my stomach to look pregnant, all it takes is a liquify tool. It's really that simple. What I've also noticed is that 90% of those supposed pregnancy pictures are very bad in quality and therefore even easier to photoshop.

What comes to the festival picture.. There really isn't a way. Uterus does not shrink that fast and the after bleeding is usually two weeks minimum. So, in a bikini less than a week (or even little as 4 days as speculated by some) after birth? Just nope. And I would think even less after stillbirth.

What comes to the supposed hospital stay and the proof.. Like someone mentioned, the bill is always folded and comes in a smaller envelope. All my bills are folded. ALL. Epicrisis however isn't usually folded and half of mine have been sent in a bigger envelopes.

Anyway. If it really didn't happen, there shouldn't be any legal scare for the staff of the hospital to just confirm she was never there for stillbirth.

[Kierstenalexis]

It's been said by relatives of Nikkole that she wasn't pregnant as well. Personally, I believe she faked it.

The supposed bare belly shots tell nothing. I can photoshop my stomach to look pregnant, all it takes is a liquify tool. It's really that simple. What I've also noticed is that 90% of those supposed pregnancy pictures are very bad in quality and therefore even easier to photoshop.

What comes to the festival picture.. There really isn't a way. Uterus does not shrink that fast and the after bleeding is usually two weeks minimum. So, in a bikini less than a week (or even little as 4 days as speculated by some) after birth? Just nope. And I would think even less after stillbirth.

What comes to the supposed hospital stay and the proof.. Like someone mentioned, the bill is always folded and comes in a smaller envelope. All my bills are folded. ALL. Epicrisis however isn't usually folded and half of mine have been sent in a bigger envelopes.

Anyway. If it really didn't happen, there shouldn't be any legal scare for the staff of the hospital to just confirm she was never there for stillbirth.

She has blue cross blue shield insurance just like me and my bill was folded up in an envelope. Those documents are definitely not right at all.

[ClutchthePearls]

I've gotten TONS of medical bills and they were all folded. Also, I have Blue Cross Blue Shield and they don't look like the bill she posted. Someone also pointed out that some of the medications were misspelled on the bill as well.

And I agree about the bleeding and belly there is no way in hell she got in a bikini a few days after having the baby !! I noticed the pregnancy pics are all fuzzy and bad quality. Did she really think people were stupid enough to not figure it all out eventually ?? She pulled a Tayler and actually tried to delete all of the pics from her instagram. Doesn't she realize once its on the internet its out there for good.

[TaylorKnows]

I normally just lurk in this section but as someone who watches 16&Pregnant, that really shocks me about Nikkole. That is so sick to do something like that...

[ClutchthePearls]

I normally just lurk in this section but as someone who watches 16&Pregnant, that really shocks me about Nikkole. That is so sick to do something like that...

I was surprised as well !! Its not going to be long before the truth comes out though. I think she should just fess up before it gets really bad.

[thegooseiscooked]

Just got drowned in a sudden spring downpour at my daughter's netball match. Bath time!

[blackbetty]

Also don't forget she's had a child before, there is a definite possibility she recycled some pics...

The Sam girl, I wasn't sure if I believed her but she filed a POLICE REPORT allegedly... If I saw proof of the police report I'd 100% believe her... she has a real baby and I don't believe she would fake that and risk trouble for herself.

Also, maybe this is just a coincidence but her baby was named Ashton... Ashton Kutcher, anyone? Punked? Hmmmm...

[sleep84]

Ok, girls. This made me laugh a lot. (it's ironic, but it's funny because when you think about other girls who keep making babies (why?) and unimaginable (no offense to anyone) things like placenta pills or cooking your own placenta, that now have become normal options... LOL!!!!!

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[TWDfan]

Ok, girls. This made me laugh a lot. (it's ironic, but it's funny because when you think about other girls who keep making babies (why?) and unimaginable (no offense to anyone) things like placenta pills or cooking your own placenta, that now have become normal options... LOL!!!!!

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WTF.

[placebo]

Just because I'm bored. Too bad I haven't the slightest clue as to re-size it to be bigger in sig or how to make it fit as my avatar.

[Guest]

Ok, girls. This made me laugh a lot. (it's ironic, but it's funny because when you think about other girls who keep making babies (why?) and unimaginable (no offense to anyone) things like placenta pills or cooking your own placenta, that now have become normal options... LOL!!!!!

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link for those of us on mobile?

[ClutchthePearls]

Ok, girls. This made me laugh a lot. (it's ironic, but it's funny because when you think about other girls who keep making babies (why?) and unimaginable (no offense to anyone) things like placenta pills or cooking your own placenta, that now have become normal options... LOL!!!!!

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link for those of us on mobile?

Here ya go

[thelittlefamilyof3]

More future MIL drama!

My bridal shower is tomorrow, and of course because I am a nice person and didn't want to leave anyone left out, I invited Josh's mom. She said she was going to be on vacation so she wouldn't be able to make it. Fine with me! =) The shower was supposed to be on the 24th, but because I had back surgery on the 20th, we pushed it back a week and made it for tomorrow. So about 2 weeks ago I emailed her to let her know of the date change and she said "Darn! We'll still be on vacation!" She made it sound like she was genuinely sad about it. I thought maybe things were looking up. HAHA. No.

Today I asked Josh if his mom needed me to come over and feed the dogs. He asked why I would need to do that. She's been back for a week! I said....Soooo she's there working the route with you now? She's not on vacation? Nope. She was 15 ft away from him.

Bitch lied just to be spiteful and get out of coming to the shower. It's not like I want her there anyway, but man oh man does this make my blood boil!! I HATE liars. And she is always claiming to be someone who "Soars with the eagles" and is all about the no drama. And yet here she is....A lying liar that lies just to be a vindictive bitch.

I hate her. Ew.

[thegooseiscooked]

My MIL is still doing that to me 15 years later Ashley. My MIL refused the invitation to my bridal shower for unspecified reasons. Sometime during the event, she drove around to my parents house and put an envelope with some cash shoved in it and a card in the letterbox. My husband tried to get me to ring and thank her but I refused. He couldn't see what an insult it was.

Some mothers are unable to cope with "losing" their precious baby boys and no girl is ever going to be good enough.

I don't really have any helpful advice for you given that the relationship between me and my husband's parents has not improved in all that time. We manage to be civil and pleasant to each other for the kids' sake but my honest opinion of her is that she is a stupid bitch and I'm sure her opinion of me is about the same. We live really close but I only endure a visit once a month or so.

Anyway, you're not going to change her, accept that it is what it is, try not to poison your daughter's opinion because grandparent time is so special and try to enjoy your wedding without poisonous thoughts ruining it. After all, you didn't really want her at this thing anyway and she obviously doesn't want to come. So its better for both of you. Forget the obvious insult of lying about it, don't sweat the small stuff. You've done the right thing by inviting her, she has been made to look small and dishonest. Don't drag yourself down to her level.

[thegooseiscooked]

Can I just ask, from what you said I assume Josh works with his mother/parents?


That's not good. If at all possible, I'd convince him to get out of that situation as soon as possible.

[thelittlefamilyof3]

Can I just ask, from what you said I assume Josh works with his mother/parents?


That's not good. If at all possible, I'd convince him to get out of that situation as soon as possible.

He co-owns the company with her, but has recently accepted a supervisor position for a bigger company. She has overworked and underpaid him for YEARS. He was supposed to receive a % of the profits as co-owner, but instead she tripled his work and gave him a slight hourly raise. She offered no incentives or benefits either. With his new job, he is salaried so he'll be getting a paycheck even in the off season (November-February). Bennies out the Wazoo and a company phone and truck. Honestly, this position couldn't have come at a better time and I truly feel God answered our prayers. So he has dissolved the partnership with his mother. I couldn't be happier! The man has been killing himself working 80+ hours a week while she goes on 6 vacations a year, and continues reaping all the benefits of his hard work.

He's wanted out for so long, but an opportunity had never come up until now. She is such a slave driver, she has already gone through 6 new people who all quit by the 2nd week. Some even after just a few days. I know she is shitting herself and freaking at the thought of *gasp* actually having to run her own company again!

I would never even dream of keeping Kenzie from her. She kept Josh from her parents for years out of spite. I refuse to sink to her level. I'm just sitting back and watching her dig her hole deeper and deeper.

[whatsername_]

Okay. All this MIL talk reminded me of an episode of Dr. Phil I watched today.

This guy seriously abused his family and children, so the wife/mother did something about it and now he's in prison for sexual and physical abuse charges.
His parents were literally so convinced he was innocent that they hired a hitman to kill the daughter in law, the grandchildren and their family pet.
Thankfully, the "hitman" was actually an undercover cop and now the MIL, FIL and ex husband are in prison for attempted murder.
It was crazy.

[thelittlefamilyof3]

Okay...I was going through old picture of Kenzie and found some of my favorites from when she was TINY and I just had to share. Gosh, I miss her being so small. The love I have for this kiddo, is insurmountable.

My big ass 38 week belly. 1 week before I had her.


My little imp when she was about 7 weeks old


And now at almost 24 months old. I can't believe how much she changed!

[whatsername_]

Kenzie is so adorable. Oh my god. Her blonde hair melts my heart, lol.

I'm sure she has you and Josh wrapped around her little finger.

[thegooseiscooked]

Lets try something new here girls.

Pick a member and see if you can come up with 3 facts about them. Try not to pick someone you know really well (through Facebook or someone you might have had brunch with for example). See how well you've listened to things they've said.

I am going to go with Taylorknows. She is 18, has one brother and wants to be an English teacher.