Off-Topic Banter Part 2

Unread post by **hjl226** » Sun Nov 03, 2013 11:54 pm

True. Also on fb she shared a pic about how horrible buying used carseats are then a few days later maybe even that day she tried selling a carseat. Sorry I know take it to her thread but I just wanted to bring her being kicked out of some where else up lol

Sun Nov 03, 2013 11:55 pm

It's all good. It's the off topic thread

Mon Nov 04, 2013 1:20 am

Yeah, anyhow, one final word from me and then I'm bowing out for the night to watch a movie with my daughter.

Sorry to bring up the group again, I know it's old and raises hackles with people. But obviously there is still a lot of unresolved stuff going down.

For my part, Ashley is a meddling, trouble making, drama queen who is always in the thick of things. She likes to play the victim but she's always there swinging away at anyone who dares to cross her. I'm kind of sick of it. I'm calling bullshit. I fully believe Josh left her, more full of sympathy to that guy I could not be. But the story after that gets mighty dubious for me. Smoke screens, pure bullshit and "tugs at your heart strings" stories to gain the sympathy vote.

There, I said it. I don't believe her. Once a liar, always a liar.

Unread post by **sleep84** » Mon Nov 04, 2013 5:13 am

Breeandbabies wrote:I'm so broken right now. I can't explain how bad my heart feels, I've spent all day sobbing...

My baby finally started moving around about 5 days ago, but yesterday evening I felt nothing. & today nothing again, my OB told me to call her if this happened. So I called her this morning around 8, she told me to come in at 9... We couldn't find a heartbeat on the Doppler....

When she put on the ultrasound, after a few minutes she got a weak heartbeat, & our baby only measures at 16 weeks, and I'm 18w3d...

She is about 85% sure there is a block in my placenta, & it's worsening, causing the baby to have decreased oxygen.

I have 2 options. I can carry on, on strict bed rest, & get more tests, until the baby gets old enough for birth (at this rate they anticipate at 35-37 week c-section). Or, passes away.

My other option is an abortion... Since her & the other doctors agree this baby Will not survive, I'll either miscarry, stillbirth, or my baby will die soon after birth.best case, it will require time in the NICU, & have physical/mental disabilities. Only way to have a healthy baby at this point would require a miracle.

I am torn apart, I don't want to have to prolong my baby's suffering, but couldn't live with myself if I took their only chance....

I need my fiancé, but he can't come home, & I am dying inside.

Sorry to bring this up again, it's definitely belated..but Bree (if you're even logging in anymore.. I tried to send you a PM but I can't... :-/ ) I'm so so sorry

I wish there was something I could say to comfort you or help you.. in such cases the only thing that you can do is to stay close to your family and loved ones and make your decision. Look into yourself and feel really what you want to do. There is no right and wrong, follow your gut instinct. Whatever YOU decide, it's going to be the right decision. No one should make you feel wrong/or guilty for any decision you make regarding this... I know that you are a mother already, but you are still young and this is such an unimmaginable situation...it would be devastating for people 8 times your age. The choice is yours and yours alone. Talk to your doctors, if you can talk it through with them, know as much as you can of the prognosis. Try to ask doctors who deal with the condition that your baby will most likely face, or maybe other parents from online first-hand sources. No one should push you in ANY direction. I know that I sound very aseptic right now

I'm really sending you vibes of comfort

Unread post by **TaylorKnows** » Mon Nov 04, 2013 7:05 am

cakewalked wrote:well hi. anyone remember me? ;D

I believe I do...

Unread post by **subject99** » Mon Nov 04, 2013 7:11 am

Oh good morning!!! Life is beautiful!!!

Unread post by **Yue195** » Mon Nov 04, 2013 7:24 am

CAKEWALK!!! * cyber hugs *

Unread post by **MakeupGirly** » Mon Nov 04, 2013 7:43 am

TaylorKnows wrote:
thelittlefamilyof3 wrote:Just to make it clear- There were 2 other admins in the group. Sooooo it's not like I am siting here playing God. It was a group decision. I just happen to be the one here right now to target.

Ashleigh you're my sweet thang, but I don't need to be cut any slack!! I love you for saying it though

Taylor the reason no one messaged anyone is because we essentially wanted the group to die off on its own and disappear because of all the trouble it was causing on GG. We figured it would just start more drama by telling people "We've cut you because of X Y Z" so we just chose to tell people it was closed, since that was the ultimate goal anyway. It was absolutely nothing person. There was just a whole lot of shadiness going on after Allyshia and no one knew who we could trust. See...Even after cuts were made, apparently there were still people we couldn't trust!
The person that told me, told me because she knew it was the right thing to do. I know there was another mod (placebo was gone by this point I believe) and I hold her accountable too, but she left GG shortly after this happened. It was handled poorly...but I learned that day who my true friends were. Had a kick ass weekend after that and realized it was stupid. I've always said this site taught me a lot.

For the record you do see people for who they really are after something like this. I don't think anyone was innocent in all of this.

Except for the overalls, they were always innocent.

Are no mods seriously around here? I thought we were no longer to discuss the FB group lol.

I don't see a problem with discussing the group, it's the off topic section so it's fine to me

Unread post by **subject99** » Mon Nov 04, 2013 7:55 am

cakewalked wrote:
TaylorKnows wrote:
cakewalked wrote:well hi. anyone remember me? ;D
I believe I do...
HEY. hows life. i haven't even been on this new site yet. are there even threads for each mom? i'm so lost.

Where have you been hiding? Under a rock ?

Unread post by **whatsername_** » Mon Nov 04, 2013 8:24 am

It's a sad day on the forum, the clubhouse really is no more.

Unread post by **whatsername_** » Mon Nov 04, 2013 8:31 am

cakewalked wrote:

Hahahahahahaha! How appropriate!

Unread post by **TaylorKnows** » Mon Nov 04, 2013 9:05 am

It is sad it couldn't work out, we did have some good times.

Unread post by **FLOSSY77** » Mon Nov 04, 2013 10:18 am

thegooseiscooked wrote:Because Ashley is still being the crazy person.

I have no problem hugging it out with you, Ashleigh. I wouldn't trust Ashley to provide me with the steam off her piss in a fire.

Bhaaahaa!!!!

Unread post by **FLOSSY77** » Mon Nov 04, 2013 10:45 am

thelittlefamilyof3 wrote:Not particularly, Goose. I don't tend to enjoy immature internet brawls with people who I try to post side by side with in a discussion. I'm glad you get your kicks that way, though.

What a load of crap! You love it. You post, vlog and use the computer at work for it. We can add being delusional to your long list of woes.

Unread post by **Emcee** » Mon Nov 04, 2013 11:14 am

We have definitely been abandoned over here. The time change hasn't even been done yet on this website or is it just me? Last post says at 11:55, and it's only 11:14.

Unread post by **TaylorKnows** » Mon Nov 04, 2013 11:28 am

cakewalked wrote:
TaylorKnows wrote:It is sad it couldn't work out, we did have some good times.
Like late night conversations that got weeeird ahaha.

Lmao...that night was classic and odd. I don't think I ever laughed so hard lol.

Unread post by **TaylorKnows** » Mon Nov 04, 2013 11:33 am

MC30 wrote:We have definitely been abandoned over here. The time change hasn't even been done yet on this website or is it just me? Last post says at 11:55, and it's only 11:14.

It hasn't been changed on the index page but for me if I click on the actual time, it's the correct one. Idk. I don't think they care if we rip each other apart on here as long as we don't do it on their website. This one is a free for all from what I can see.

Unread post by **gypsophila** » Mon Nov 04, 2013 11:55 am

TaylorKnows wrote: It hasn't been changed on the index page but for me if I click on the actual time, it's the correct one. Idk. I don't think they care if we rip each other apart on here as long as we don't do it on their website. This one is a free for all from what I can see.

It sure is. I guess now we'll see some people's true colours, while others stay the way they've always been. Today has been enlightening so far.

Unread post by **subject99** » Mon Nov 04, 2013 12:03 pm

I'm complete lost. What is the "clubhouse"

Unread post by **TaylorKnows** » Mon Nov 04, 2013 12:12 pm

Completely unrelated...

Saturday marked a year of my friend's brother suicide. I took it hard and I never knew him well. It took a long time for me to get past it, it just hurt me so much. But on Saturday, I didn't cry, I didn't get sad. He has been on my mind, but I've just been at peace with it.

Rest in paradise A. I still wish someone could've helped but I know you're not in pain anymore.

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