Off-Topic Banter Part 3

[thegooseiscooked]

**pictures poor little Ashley sitting there with her Pumpkin Spice candle lit wondering where it all went so horribly wrong**

[AutumnLane]

**pictures poor little Ashley sitting there with her Pumpkin Spice candle lit wondering where it all went so horribly wrong**

Hopefully not with a bag of chips & a gallon of ice-cream from her emotional eating disorder.


Not nice


Very serious condition I know...Sorry if that offended anybody just a joke.

[placebo]

For what it's worth though, mental recovery isn't a short road. This is something everyone should take into consideration when certain posters waltz back in here screaming "HALLELUJAH I'M ALL GOOD NOW."

[whatsername_]

**pictures poor little Ashley sitting there with her Pumpkin Spice candle lit wondering where it all went so horribly wrong**

Hopefully not with a bag of chips & a gallon of ice-cream from her emotional eating disorder.


Not nice


Very serious condition I know...Sorry if that offended anybody just a joke.

If you know it's a serious condition, and you didn't want to offend anyone, why'd you say it?
I know you're joking, but any kind of eating disorder is serious and really a sensitive subject for some.
As for everyone else calling Ashley stupid, dumb, etc...
Sigh... Can we move it back to her thread, please?
I can't stop it from happening, but at least there I can avoid it, ya know?
And she does have a thread here for a reason.

I hope y'all see where I'm coming from.

[placebo]

I get where you're coming from, I just don't care (sounds harsh, but generally, I try not to get too emotionally involved with people I meet online). I haven't even really been contributing to the mess, but she is well able to defend herself if she wants to. If she wants it do die out, then she shouldn't be igniting more flames.

[whatsername_]

I get where you're coming from, I just don't care (sounds harsh, but generally, I try not to get too emotionally involved with people I meet online). I haven't even really been contributing to the mess, but she is well able to defend herself if she wants to. If she wants it do die out, then she shouldn't be igniting more flames.

I gotcha. that's why I would really appreciate if they moved it elsewhere.
They say she makes herself the center of attention but here's the off topic thread all about her. Why not take it to her thread to keep everything organized, lol.
I'm just over here cringing, and wishing it would stop from both parties.

[placebo]

Well, like I said to the Sierra person.. you loose your face here once, it's pretty damn hard getting it back.

[blackbetty]

SO HOW BOUT THEM KANSAS CITY CHIEFS?

[whatsername_]

So I worked 8am to 9pm tonight with a 20 minute break.
I came home, ate a blt minus the t and crashed around midnight.
I just woke up and I'm wide awake now.
I just wanna sleeeeeeeep.


Someone tell me a bedtime story!

[placebo]

Haa. Ordered pizza for lunch. Actual pizza. Was too lazy to do the cauliflower crust version. I'm also in my gym clothes. Oops.

[Yue195]

I just had a realization that I will be a qualified beauty therapist in 3 weeks. Holy shit.

[sleep84]

I just had a realization that I will be a qualified beauty therapist in 3 weeks. Holy shit.

Great!

btw. in that thingy at the top of the page, I did say that I feel decrepit (mostly because it didn't even occur to me that someone could wate time and energy like that. I don't even get the whole concept of "trolling". why on earth would you get your kicks doing it?)
I do remember lots of nicknames but sometimes I confuse them (flossy or fossilfinger - I'll always be lost there! ) so I wasn't really sure if it was a joke or not.

Where are all the others? Hello, Is there anybody in theeeereee? Just nod if you can hear meee... Is there anyone home?

[MakeupGirly]

I'm having a quarter life crisis, don't know what to do with my life...

[Boorads]

I'm having a quarter life crisis, don't know what to do with my life...

I think you missed the boat from profiting from teen mom vlogs. Darn. All kidding aside, most people are right there with ya. I know people in their 40's that still don't know what they want to do with their life. I work in a slowly crumbling industry and I will be right there with ya in a few years.
My best advice would be pursue something you love and not just what your diploma says.

[AutumnLane]

**pictures poor little Ashley sitting there with her Pumpkin Spice candle lit wondering where it all went so horribly wrong**

Hopefully not with a bag of chips & a gallon of ice-cream from her emotional eating disorder.


Not nice


Very serious condition I know...Sorry if that offended anybody just a joke.

If you know it's a serious condition, and you didn't want to offend anyone, why'd you say it?
I know you're joking, but any kind of eating disorder is serious and really a sensitive subject for some.
As for everyone else calling Ashley stupid, dumb, etc...
Sigh... Can we move it back to her thread, please?
I can't stop it from happening, but at least there I can avoid it, ya know?
And she does have a thread here for a reason.

I hope y'all see where I'm coming from.

I said it because I can . I was not poking fun at the condition itself I was poking fun at the fact she has like every condition under the sun. Sorry you feel we have been to harsh, I will TRY to avoid the topic in this thread. She could help the situation if she stops contributing to the mess, just sayin.

[whatsername_]

Oh, I completely understand. I was just reminding you all that she does have a thread and the appropriate place to talk shit would be there, lol.
Thank you for TRYING to avoid it here, at least for my sanity, hahaha.

[sleep84]

I'm having a quarter life crisis, don't know what to do with my life...

I'm there with you, girl. (and I'm even older...) I've been in a little bit of an existential crisis since I was out of secondary school.
It's like everything I did in the past 10 yrs were all mistakes. I feel like I really did everything wrong.
When I chose to go left, it would have paied off if I had gone right. Blah, I feel like my life is beyond help already.
Like I'm already too old to reinvent myself, I feel like I wasted the past years of my life... and now it's too late.
That ship has sailed and I made my bed, I should lie in it. Man, I got dark tonight...

[TaylorKnows]

Watching "To Catch A Predator".

This is so freaking creepy. There are way too many sickos out there.

[placebo]

Never too old to re-invent yourself

I spent a good while studying business and management. Dropped out because of panic disorder. Took some time to get my head back in the game again. Realized I don't want to go finish the degree in said field. Took up volunteering for the summer at kiddo car (bicycle cars) park. From there, signed up for job practice in autistic class. And THIS is what I am supposed to be doing. THIS is what I am passionate about and I will be going for qualifying degree in this field instead. I can use most of my B&M courses though to replace some courses and therefore not having to attend those, the generic ones, so I don't feel like I've wasted so much time. The courses I finished are all A's too, so no need to redo the courses to lift the grades either.

Still, it took me this long to find out what I'm supposed to be doing (aside of being a mom, of course). I've made many mistakes as well, but I am not letting those mistakes dictate who I am. I am more than my mistakes and I have learned from them.

My main issue with knowing what I wanted to be doing was being interested in way too many fields. For me, the right way to find out was by doing the actual work said degree would lead me to. Not sure if you have similar there though, but volunteering is also a great way to find new sides about oneself.

[thegooseiscooked]

I had a complete change of career in my early 20s, i had finished uni and started working as an English teacher. It became obvious quite early on that I just wasn't cut out for teaching, so against my parents wishes, I threw away my education and got an office job. I did work my way up to quite a well paid and respected position in the legal industry but my heart wasn't really in that either. However, I did meet my husband to be through that job so it was fate that I listen to my heart and change careers.

To be perfectly honest, all I ever wanted to be was a mum.