LumpsAlongTheWay Part 7

[FibroMommy]

OMG give this guy an adjustment period. IMO his mom should have manned up, grew the balls to face her past and initiated the call. She had 24 years to get over it.. She actually knew this baby daddy, she would have made a connection.

[rolo]

they went about that all wrong :/

[Jessica911]

Why did they make it seem like all they wanted was medical history? Kind of weird, I wonder if that's what the locator guy told them to do. Bryan is making it seem like it's obvious he wants some sort of relationship with this guy but he didn't feel that way during the call.

[mommyluvv]

That call was done SO WRONG. There is no way he would answer medical history questions and then be like, "I DON'T KNOW WHAT YOU'RE TALKING ABOUT." The guy seriously probably thought that she was talking about something from a doctors office, because he did say, "I may lose you, I'm in a bad cell spot." Leaving me to think that he didn't hear her at the beginning of the call. And if it's a first call to someone who you assume is your long lost parent, you don't ask them medical question in the first minute of talking to them.

[CuzYoureGone]

um. Are they sure this is the guy? I mean I don't want to sound Jerry Springer but if his mom was sleeping around and barely knew this guy what else was she doing? This whole thing is wrong on so many levels. Recording phone calls and saying that this guy walked out on them. Like he never even got to say his side of the story yet they have put him on full blast. They make him sound like the bad guy yet none of us knows what really happened 20 years ago. I can see Bryan wanting to believe his mom but hopefully she told him everything or this might turn out bad. H should man up and call him and just say I believe I am your son, i might not be, but I would like to meet you so if you ever want to meet me call me whenever and we can get something to eat. I want to respect your privacy so if I don't hear back from you then you won't hear from me again. Why does M&B have to be so shady and rude about it? Gosh I really hope this isn't a ploy that they are going too far with because that would be really sick. The yearbook photo didn't look like bryan except maybe the eyes

[FibroMommy]

Troy Dunn did tell them to start out with innocuous things like medical information so that it didn't scare him off. It wasn't till He mentioned his mom's name that he freaked out and hung up. This is why I think that his mom, Nancy, should have been the one to initiate the contact because she is the one who actually slept with him. I understand that she may have felt dejected that they didn't stay together forever, etc, but she could have tried to find her sons father earlier. Its far less creepy to hear from your old lay than some young man claiming to be your child.

It also leaves you wondering why Bryan has NEVER mentioned wanting to find his father before this. I haven't watched all their daily vlogs, but this is the first I've heard of it. It just seems suspicious, especially with Missy prepared to have surgery in a couple months to have more babies. Why wouldn't they have tried to find out this before Ollie was conceived when Missy was having her losses. Especially when some losses are due to recessive conditions.

[MamaJoAnna]

He probably/definitely has no idea he has/had a son (if this even is the guy)...because from what it sounds like, Bryan's "dad" and mom hooked up and it sounds to me like it was a one-night type of thing. However, correct me if I'm wrong...

Who the heck knows...the way they went about that was a total mess though. I wouldn't be surprised if he never was in contact with them again. If Bryan's dad has gone 24 years without acknowledging his existence - a subject I know all too well but from the opposite parent - then he's better off raising Ollie "to be a better parent than what he dealt with growing up."

[VerucaSalt]

It sounds to me like Bryans mom has been telling him his whole life that his father did know he existed but walked out on them anyway. But in reality maybe she never in fact told the man he was a father or wasn't sure who his dad was to begin with so just gave Bryan a name and a story to keep him quiet and stop him from asking anymore questions. That was probably the reason she hasn't been much help with the search and was so hesitant about Missy and Bryans interest in finding him.

[Amelia322]

Missy said they had a very long exhausting day????? HAHAHAHA wtf!! Buying a bed and target???

[Jessica911]

Missy said they had a very long exhausting day????? HAHAHAHA wtf!! Buying a bed and target???

I think she meant emotionally exhausting, regarding the whole dad thing.

[longhairdontcare1006]

Did anyone watch her TMI tag? She said she's 123lbs... But if you go back to her 5 week "bump" date, she weighed 123 then. There's no way she's the same weight with that diet, lol.