Bumsalongtheway Part 11

[staceymj]

I'm sorry but Missy's outfit from the picture she posted in IG....no.

Can someone post it? She blocked me from her IG so I can't see it. Sad lol.

Are you the one who spoiled pretty little liars for her? Hahaha jk. Let me see if I can figure out how to post a picture.

Haha no! I agreed with someone's comment on one of Bryan's pics of some ugly unflattering outfit missy had on, the girl was getting abused by the bump fans and I just said that I would want someone to tell me if my outfit was that unflattering. Blocked by missy afterward but not bryan.

Thanks for the pic! Wow that looks awful. She needs to get a full length mirror.

[actuallydear]

It was kinda sad to see Nancy not there.... Missy didn't look at the phone once. She doesn't even try to hide her hatred, then denies it. LOL.

I see bumper Heidi was there (she has a channel too.. Something about sleeping or napping?), Bryan's Dad's family was there. And his aunt Bev (mom's sister? They look alike).

It looked like a good birthday. The bit where they sang happy birthday reminded me a lot of family birthdays we have on VHS. Ollie looked like he was having so much fun with the cake!

[Ambrosia]

I didn't know where else to post this (they remind me of each other lol), how do we get a thread for cullen and Katie? I'm on the mobile version so I don't even know if I can make one...

[mamaof2]

I just watched the "Oliver coming home" video, and in the vlog they put on Ollie's first cloth diaper. Brian actually says, "time to get rid of those nasty disposables" Guess they're not so nasty anymore! Lol

[mommadee]

I don't think Missy is pregnant, but I bet she will be by the end of the year if she gets her surgery... now that Oliver is 1 and she stops BF.

[00Riga00]

I doubt she's pregnant, unless it was an accident. She seems dead set on waiting until she is able to get that surgery done. I think she'd actually be upset if she were pregnant.

I was kind of worried about this myself while watching the "birthday special." When Missy is with Ollie doing the whole candle thing she looked like she was holding her stomach. I was thinking either cramping, pregnant, or ...miscarrying. =[ I know that's how I held my stomach when I was miscarrying.. =/

[mumma2one]

I've only been watching Bryan & Missy consistently for a little over 5ish months now & have seen her Labour & delivery video but could someone explain what surgery she needs to have?

I know they have lost two babies before Ollie but that's all I really know..

[MamaJoAnna]

I've only been watching Bryan & Missy consistently for a little over 5ish months now & have seen her Labour & delivery video but could someone explain what surgery she needs to have?

I know they have lost two babies before Ollie but that's all I really know..

She has a septum dividing her uterus and the previous two babies before Oliver had to have implanted on or near the septum to have not survived. Oliver implanted in a "good" spot and was fine until he went into distress at 37 weeks (when he was born). The doctors have to basically get rid of the septum I think?

[mommyluvv]

[Amelia322]

What the...

[mumma2one]

I've only been watching Bryan & Missy consistently for a little over 5ish months now & have seen her Labour & delivery video but could someone explain what surgery she needs to have?

I know they have lost two babies before Ollie but that's all I really know..

She has a septum dividing her uterus and the previous two babies before Oliver had to have implanted on or near the septum to have not survived. Oliver implanted in a "good" spot and was fine until he went into distress at 37 weeks (when he was born). The doctors have to basically get rid of the septum I think?

Thanks Jo!

I just found the video explaining it after reading you're comment..

Very scary stuff but Ollie really is a little a miracle never fully understood the situation till now but hopefully she gets the surgery soon I don't think they would risk getting pregnant right now..

[rodgerdodger]

[mandylouwho]

My SIL has a septum too and her ob strongly advised against the surgery until she was done having babies. It can cause you to never be able to conceive again. Missy thinks that doesn't apply to her since she got pregnant right away all three times. My sil is the same way but she's never miscarried. She has two babies and had to take progesterone shots through most of her pregnancies

[thenightowl]

My SIL has a septum too and her ob strongly advised against the surgery until she was done having babies. It can cause you to never be able to conceive again. Missy thinks that doesn't apply to her since she got pregnant right away all three times. My sil is the same way but she's never miscarried. She has two babies and had to take progesterone shots through most of her pregnancies

Wow, I was under the impression that she was set on having surgery before trying again although I was never sure what was keeping her from going ahead with it, I thought maybe because she was breast feeding she wanted to wait.. I hope she does her research before jumping into a decision!

[mumma2one]

My SIL has a septum too and her ob strongly advised against the surgery until she was done having babies. It can cause you to never be able to conceive again. Missy thinks that doesn't apply to her since she got pregnant right away all three times. My sil is the same way but she's never miscarried. She has two babies and had to take progesterone shots through most of her pregnancies

Wow, I was under the impression that she was set on having surgery before trying again although I was never sure what was keeping her from going ahead with it, I thought maybe because she was breast feeding she wanted to wait.. I hope she does her research before jumping into a decision!

Oh wow, yeah in her video "why I lost my two babies".. she explains that she will be having the surgery BEFORE another pregnancy, but she also mentioned that she would switch doctors if her doctor says she isn't a candidate as she's had one full term pregnancy.. but that's all I am aware of the situation.. I think she should do an update with the situation, I'm really curious now..

[mandylouwho]

My SIL has a septum too and her ob strongly advised against the surgery until she was done having babies. It can cause you to never be able to conceive again. Missy thinks that doesn't apply to her since she got pregnant right away all three times. My sil is the same way but she's never miscarried. She has two babies and had to take progesterone shots through most of her pregnancies

Wow, I was under the impression that she was set on having surgery before trying again although I was never sure what was keeping her from going ahead with it, I thought maybe because she was breast feeding she wanted to wait.. I hope she does her research before jumping into a decision!

Oh wow, yeah in her video "why I lost my two babies".. she explains that she will be having the surgery BEFORE another pregnancy, but she also mentioned that she would switch doctors if her doctor says she isn't a candidate as she's had one full term pregnancy.. but that's all I am aware of the situation.. I think she should do an update with the situation, I'm really curious now..

Yeah I'd have to go back to see which video she said it in but it was something about her doctor saying the surgery could make it hard to conceive but she doesn't think that'll be a problem for her because she's never had an issue with infertility and she gets pregnant right away every time she tries.

I asked my sil if she ever thought about having surgery (when she was first wanting to have a baby her ob told her she probably wouldn't be able to get pregnant on her own and if she did she'd probably not make it to 24 weeks even with progesterone shots) and she said her Dr told her all the risks and she didn't want to take the chance that she'd never be able to conceive. Obviously doctors don't know everything, they were wrong about her being able to conceive and carry to term. In fact, her babies implanted on the smaller side of her uterus, increasing the chances of miscarriage, and she went to 37 weeks the first time and 39 the second.

I've never experienced a miscarriage so I can't say what I'd do to prevent one. But it sounds like she's set on having the surgery no matter how many doctors advise against it. I'd have a hard time asking a doctor to go in and cut up my uterus during my child bearing years. I think the biggest issue is the uterus being able to stretch during pregnancy after surgery but also the scar tissue it would leave behind can stop her from ovulating or implanting.

[danizaurr]

Not defending Missy but I'm pretty sure she is aware that the surgery can cause it to be harder to conceive. She says she wants it anyway because she would rather not be able to have anymore children than risk another miscarriage or stillbirth with her septate uterus. It's in her "the lesser of two evils" video I think. She did say she feels like she won't deal with infertility but I think I would be hopeful too in her situation. And her doctor did end up whole heartedly (so she says) backing the surgery.

I don't like their daily vlogs and they get on my nerves 99% of the time but I follow her updates about the surgery and stuff. It seems to me like she's making the best decision for herself. I just wanted to bring that to light.

[mandylouwho]

Not defending Missy but I'm pretty sure she is aware that the surgery can cause it to be harder to conceive. She says she wants it anyway because she would rather not be able to have anymore children than risk another miscarriage or stillbirth with her septate uterus. It's in her "the lesser of two evils" video I think. She did say she feels like she won't deal with infertility but I think I would be hopeful too in her situation. And her doctor did end up whole heartedly (so she says) backing the surgery.

I don't like their daily vlogs and they get on my nerves 99% of the time but I follow her updates about the surgery and stuff. It seems to me like she's making the best decision for herself. I just wanted to bring that to light.

I agree, she's making what she feels is the best decision for her. She seems to have her heart set on more children, and it seems like they want them pretty soon. I don't like missy at all but obviously I'm hoping she doesn't have to deal with more miscarriages or infertility.

[mandylouwho]

Also many women experience subsequent miscarriages and don't have a bicornuate uterus. So it's not like this surgery will guarantee her no more miscarriages. It's more than just choosing between miscarriages and infertility.

[danizaurr]

Also many women experience subsequent miscarriages and don't have a bicornuate uterus. So it's not like this surgery will guarantee her no more miscarriages. It's more than just choosing between miscarriages and infertility.

Right. I guess in my mind if I had another miscarriage without the surgery I would feel like I didn't do anything to try and fix it and I risked another baby's life. Even though the doctor can't prove for sure that that is what is causing her losses, if it were me I would still do it just to do everything I could. Damned if you do and damned if you don't. It would be such a hard decision.

If I had the surgery and still had a miscarriage, regardless of complications or just would have happened anyway, then at least I would feel like I did what I could do and look into other problems that could be addressed.