The Eades Family Part 15

[wasteoftime]

I think Jace is naturally bright so she doesn't require much input, she's always floated along just fine. What is bad is the newest vlog from Joel now claiming K just doesn't like buttons and it's his personality. That he is fine and everyone needs to stop over-diagnosing their kids and dragging them to a doctor and force feeding them medication due to personality differences. There are more issues with Kacen that not liking button shirts. Jawl is so stupid that he can't see he is hindering his own child. He himself vlogged saying that K freaks out whenever he has to get dressed, that he only wears a specific type of shorts and everything has to be a certain way. People were suggesting sensory processing disorder to make life better for the poor child. It's nothing to do with not respecting personality or medication. There is nothing wrong with finding a good OT and getting a little therapy to help a child feel better. They are so determined to tell the world their children are perfect that they are neglecting them (and doing it for the world to see). Insulting every parent who takes care of their kids properly by getting them support is not the way to go about things.

[dfwmom]

Um...let's see. The list of times the police have been called includes but is not limited to:

Lucy got into a fight with the woman at a recreation centre.

Lucy accused a Chickfila employee of stealing her phone and throwing it in the bin.

Joel got into an altercation with a woman at the mall during the ...um...I think it was trick or treating at Halloween.

Lucy accused her former landlord of pushing her while she was carrying a baby.

Lucy verbally abused a former friend at Target and caused a scene.

The police were called to Lucy's house once during one of the kid's birthday parties with a report of domestic violence. I believe that this was the same party which resulted in Jacelyn being rushed to ER for having both front teeth knocked out and Kacen later reported to ER with a broken nose (or arm).

I'm sure there's more. Can anyone help?

Wow, I have missed a lot. What are the stories behind what i put in bold? Someone please fill me in.

The landlord was back when she used to be likeable. For some reason, her landlord had to come to her house. She was carrying Kacen in her arms and a video camera videoing herself talking like an A hole to this guy and she dropped the camera and claimed that he shoved her or hit her or something. If I remember correctly, he called the police to help him with the situation. This was almost exactly at the same time as the debacle with the birth photographer.

I don't know if this is the same thing as the Target story mentioned above but when Kacen was a baby she claimed that she was sitting on the ground at target feeding him and a target employee made a ruckus about it.

If you ask her about it today, she would not even remember what really happened and she would just make something up about what happened...

[wasteoftime]

I vaguely remember a Target thing where she lied and said she was assaulted and then CCTV proved otherwise, i think the police were involved in this and it was a friend of a friend or an ex friend of her that it happened with.

They complain about everything to make a buck too.

[dfwmom]

I think Jace is naturally bright so she doesn't require much input, she's always floated along just fine. What is bad is the newest vlog from Joel now claiming K just doesn't like buttons and it's his personality. That he is fine and everyone needs to stop over-diagnosing their kids and dragging them to a doctor and force feeding them medication due to personality differences. There are more issues with Kacen that not liking button shirts. Jawl is so stupid that he can't see he is hindering his own child. He himself vlogged saying that K freaks out whenever he has to get dressed, that he only wears a specific type of shorts and everything has to be a certain way. People were suggesting sensory processing disorder to make life better for the poor child. It's nothing to do with not respecting personality or medication. There is nothing wrong with finding a good OT and getting a little therapy to help a child feel better. They are so determined to tell the world their children are perfect that they are neglecting them (and doing it for the world to see). Insulting every parent who takes care of their kids properly by getting them support is not the way to go about things.

Several things about this:

- First of all, agree, agree, agree.
- I also think that Jacelyn is naturally bright. I think that she picks up new tasks easily and you can tell from her videos that she is eager to learn. My problem with this is that Joel and Lucy have used this as proof to themselves and others that they should be homeschooling her like this because they think that she is learning so much and so smart. I think that she is eager to learn new things right now because she is the one getting attention from all of this. I think that she is on track to be where a child her age should be at the end of this school term. I do not think that she is ahead but I do think that she is behind in several areas, including social interaction with other children.
- Kacen has a problem. I am not sure what it is but anyone who watches their videos can see it. If they can't or won't see it, then they are also needing to have their heads examined. We have always thought that this is why they take them to so many doctors and don't keep longterm friends or family around. You know that their families have probably said something at some time or another about how he is. My problem with Joel's rant to us the other day about how we just need to let kids be kids or whatever, was that it was like he went out of his way before that video to prove that Kacen had a problem. Don't talk for 10 minutes about how Kacen takes forever to get dressed because he won't wear certain colors, and doesn't like buttons or shirts touching his skin. One of his issues like that by itself would be a 'personality trait', but the combination of all of his issues leads people to think that there is something going on that needs doctor involvement. But, of course, per usual they won't get him checked out by anyone. I am actually amazed that they agreed to the surgery again after all of this time.
- This is the kind of thing that gets me about parents who do daily vlogs and/or regular videos. Often times they don't even realize that what they are putting out there would be potentially dangerous in a CPS style investigation. I am not saying that I would ever call CPS on them because we only know what happens about 10 minutes out of everyday, but if you are willing to put out to the public what we see in his videos, imagine how it is when the cameras are off. He doesn't realize that acknowleding your child has a problem and angrily refusing medical care for your child could be seen as damning in the future. They already have the videos from when Kacen was younger where Lucy goes on and on about refusing to get his ears fixed and then just now has started admitting that he has hearing problems/hearing loss. She doesn't understand/care that you could easily tie that back to her refusal to get him proper medical care back in the day with him. She talks in those old videos about being too busy for doctor's appointments and not wanting to see the same doctor for personality differences or whatever, which is fine... but she also should understand how bad that looks when a doctor has told you that your child needs medical care in order for his quality of life to not be affected and you refuse and change doctors.

They are both too idiotic to even understand that.

[WheresMyCoffee]

Um...let's see. The list of times the police have been called includes but is not limited to:

Lucy got into a fight with the woman at a recreation centre.

Lucy accused a Chickfila employee of stealing her phone and throwing it in the bin.

Joel got into an altercation with a woman at the mall during the ...um...I think it was trick or treating at Halloween.

Lucy accused her former landlord of pushing her while she was carrying a baby.

Lucy verbally abused a former friend at Target and caused a scene.

The police were called to Lucy's house once during one of the kid's birthday parties with a report of domestic violence. I believe that this was the same party which resulted in Jacelyn being rushed to ER for having both front teeth knocked out and Kacen later reported to ER with a broken nose (or arm).

I'm sure there's more. Can anyone help?

Wow, I have missed a lot. What are the stories behind what i put in bold? Someone please fill me in.

The landlord was back when she used to be likeable. For some reason, her landlord had to come to her house. She was carrying Kacen in her arms and a video camera videoing herself talking like an A hole to this guy and she dropped the camera and claimed that he shoved her or hit her or something. If I remember correctly, he called the police to help him with the situation. This was almost exactly at the same time as the debacle with the birth photographer.

I don't know if this is the same thing as the Target story mentioned above but when Kacen was a baby she claimed that she was sitting on the ground at target feeding him and a target employee made a ruckus about it.

If you ask her about it today, she would not even remember what really happened and she would just make something up about what happened...

The Target thing is she was shopping at Target and some girl she was in a Mommy Group was there, and they talked and Lucy said this girl HIT her while she was holding the baby. She made a big deal about it and got the cops involved but when the security tapes were reviewed it showed nothing of the sort happend... (Im now a Lucy know it all. Ive read the first 4 forums about her)

[dfwmom]

My favorite Lucy forum is the Lucy Lies or whatever we called it...

[ladybug]

Haha she's lied so much I think the lie board needs updated.

[MommyToASweetie]

Im pretty sure that CPS is involved... So guys when do you think Lucy will make a comeback

[ladybug]

I'm dying to know why lucifer has went MIA!!

[dfwmom]

Im pretty sure that CPS is involved... So guys when do you think Lucy will make a comeback

What makes you think CPS is already involved?

[twomommies]

Im pretty sure that CPS is involved... So guys when do you think Lucy will make a comeback

What makes you think CPS is already involved?

If someone suddenly suddenly disappears (minus Crayler) I'm pretty sure CPS may have gotten wind of their situation. But remember that CPS is sadly mostly prevrntative.

[woahisme]

I too think either CPS is involved or she was reading on here about people thinking about getting CPS involved, and that her own mother thinks CPS should be called. If you have nothing to hide why disappear like this? It looks really suspicious in my opinion anyway. I'm curious to see if she will make a video about how they were wrongfully attacked and reported to CPS or something along those lines....

[ladybug]

It's either CPS involement or people posting comments about Joel being a waiter.

A safety concern is NOT the reason for her leaving. This dumb ass tells where she and and is going all the time.

[MommyToASweetie]

CPS usually notifies you theyre coming for a check up, so Lucy is probably just cleaning up her social media do they can't find her

[twomommies]

CPS usually notifies you theyre coming for a check up, so Lucy is probably just cleaning up her social media do they can't find her

It isn't like Google searches aren't a thing....

[ladybug]

I'm confused. How would deleting her Instagram and personal (private) Facebook make it any harder for CPS to find her ?? I don't think it would.

[FLOSSY77]

They do not notify you. That would make no sense.
I don't think she likes all the other stuff on her ig hashtags. She is a control freak. She will spin this for sympathy and views in some way.

[twomommies]

I'm confused. How would deleting her Instagram and personal (private) Facebook make it any harder for CPS to find her ?? I don't think it would.

By deleting recent stuff. So from my summary of this nutso when you Google search "rainbow chevron" her latest minivan shows up (aka Syn #4)

[woahisme]

Hmmmm no vlog upload from Jawl again today....

[dfwmom]

She would be better off trying to get her name/address removed from the actual white pages style websites. A google search of her name reveals her current address and that can be verified by all of the times she shows their cars/front of their house in all of their videos.