2011Teenagemom Part 18

[Freaksngeeks]

I find Lily to be weird as well. I noticed when she interacts with other kids she kinda just stares at them with a blank look and then does her own thing. She does seem like a zombie & always goes to her parents.
I personally don't think she should have these stunning princess images to look up to and be obsessed with, but that's a different story & my opinion that might be to much.

[Snow White]

I have been saying some of this since Vanessa mentioned School for Lily this time last year. I don't know that I would use the word weird, but something is off, and I respectfully disagree with the over used excuse of "Shy" I was painfully shy, I've known shy kids, I know shy kids now. While I agree Lily may be shy, there is something else at play. I wish Vanessa recognize Lily needs interaction with adults NOT related to her (dance teacher, teacher, coach) and children NOT related.

Sadly due to Vanessa, I think Lily will struggle considerably in school. The Social skills just aren't there, and Vanessa is doing nothing to change that. Not only will Lily struggle socially, she'll also have her Mother's behavior to live down. Anyone raising children NOW, I'm sure can understand what I'm talking about. We can all think of "that one Mom". The mom who's completely in denial, is highly competitive, lives in Drama.. the mom all of the other mom's avoid.

And lily will suffer those consequences.

[Lovehound11]

You guys are just plain mean, picking on a 3 year old. I am willing ing to bet you all aren't perfect human beings and are perfect communicators with others


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[Freaksngeeks]

Nobody is being mean or picking on her. I think SnowWhite said it better, that something is off. Not so much weird.
And no I'm not close to perfect. Nobody is. However That's the downside of putting your child on the internet. People talk. This site is designed for it.

[mommyplusOne2010]

Her teeth are still super yellow even after that expensive tooth brush......

[mariahjim]

Tbh lily appearance bothers me. She seems so blank all the time i hate how v always uses a tone like babytalk it annoys me..

[Lovehound11]

Ok that makes sense saying something is off, sorry I just feel bad when I see people putting her down, she already has faced more challenges in her short 3 years of life than most of us ever will. I guess it's the special education teacher in me. I think starting school will be great for her, and once she is in school she will be able to get the extra help (if she needs it)


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[geezeeuss]

One of my girls is painfully shy. Even at home, she doesn't ham it up front of the camera, hates to be in videos or in pictures. She just hates being the center of attention. That being said, being shy does NOT explain that vacant look in Lily's eyes. Almost like she's "checked out".

[Freaksngeeks]

For some reason that photo she put on Instagram does not look like her.
She looks different in videos. Maybe it's the angle. She looks older, like 30.

[pitbulllove]

Maybe its because we haven't seen her in person. I don't know, I don't see anything "off" about her. She just seems reserved and shy. I see kids go "blank" all the time. Its the way some of them go through the thought process.

[Curtain06]

I agree with a lot that has been said but to say you aren't picking on a 3 year old child commenting on her not being cute and saying her teeth are yellow is EXACTLY that. Disgusting.
I understand the mothers put themselves out there to be judged but please remember the children haven't!


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[Curtain06]

I agree with a lot that has been said but to say you aren't picking on a 3 year old child commenting on her not being cute and saying her teeth are yellow is EXACTLY that. Disgusting.
I understand the mothers put themselves out there to be judged but please remember the children haven't!


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[Freaksngeeks]

I agree with a lot that has been said but to say you aren't picking on a 3 year old child commenting on her not being cute and saying her teeth are yellow is EXACTLY that. Disgusting.
I understand the mothers put themselves out there to be judged but please remember the children haven't!


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Who are you talking to? Don't group us all together. Not everyone on this site says shit like that.

[Curtain06]

No that's directed to the ones who HAVE said that. I'm sure there's a number of people who feel the same way as me.


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[RubyRed]

I assumed whoever said that was talking about Vanessa's teeth being yellow, not Lily's?

[Snow White]

I assumed whoever said that was talking about Vanessa's teeth being yellow, not Lily's?

I agree, I assumed the poster was (is) referencing Vanessa's teeth.

Re: Curtain
As for the Moral lecture, I agree, to a point. The line is often crossed on this website. However I encourage you to go read other threads and make a stand for ALL the children on this website. I look forward to seeing you fight the good fight for all the YT children!

Jesus, I'm so sick of the moral rants. Look I've said more times than I care to admit, that I disagree with something's that are said about the children on this site. As an adult, I read it. Shake my head, and IGNORE IT. Being a keyboard warrior isn't going to change anything, furthermore I understand the nature of the website I've seeked out and signed up for!

[gypsophila]

*sought out, not seeked out

The nature of this site is that the majority of people do relentlessly put down mothers and children, with or without cause. That doesn't mean that it's the rule. It's flat out wrong to criticize a child for things they cannot change. Maybe Lily does have developmental issues. The thing none of us knows, no matter how much Dr. Google we play, is how much is Turners, and how much is just her normal personality. It's apples and oranges trying to compare Lily to any other child around here, unless there is another child with Turners or some other syndrome.

It's also the nature of people to want to blame Vanessa for everything. It's not her fault that Lily has Turners, or that she has certain delays. She works so hard with her, I don't see how anyone can say she doesn't help her at all. Lily sees a doctor once a week. I think Vanessa says she has 7 specialists and a speech therapist. Lily isn't weird, that's such an insult. Such an easy shot when you just want to get at Vanessa. I'm not buying it. The last couple of videos showed Lily running around squealing like a normal little girl. She was jumping up and down and clapping at Piper's party, and running around outside. She's normal. She's shy and introverted. She may or may not have trouble in school. Turners girls have known difficulties in some areas. That's no one's fault either.

[mimiii]

I don't think Lily is cute. Everyone is titled to their opinion.

[Curtain06]

I assumed whoever said that was talking about Vanessa's teeth being yellow, not Lily's?

I agree, I assumed the poster was (is) referencing Vanessa's teeth.

Re: Curtain
As for the Moral lecture, I agree, to a point. The line is often crossed on this website. However I encourage you to go read other threads and make a stand for ALL the children on this website. I look forward to seeing you fight the good fight for all the YT children!

Jesus, I'm so sick of the moral rants. Look I've said more times than I care to admit, that I disagree with something's that are said about the children on this site. As an adult, I read it. Shake my head, and IGNORE IT. Being a keyboard warrior isn't going to change anything, furthermore I understand the nature of the website I've seeked out and signed up for!

No moral lecture, I just think people need to sit back and think for two seconds you are talking about CHILDREN. You are insulting innocent children who have no choice about people seeing them and unfortunately judging them. It's for their mothers to decide and as we see time and time again, they often don't make the right choice do they?
I and others who agree with me are on here to judge the mothers/fathers as we see fit, even if that means to be an irrational cunt about them. That's the nature of the site, not to insult fucking 3 year old children and in this case about a disabled child's appearance! You may happily sit back and go oh well but no I'll still say it's fucking revolting even if these people continue.


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[09love]

I don't think Lily is cute. Everyone is titled to their opinion.

THANK YOU! It's not like I said she's ugly or hideous. I dont find her cute and I'll leave it at that. The people having a problem with me calling her not cute would throw a bitch fit if they went on the Lucy eades thread. Her kids have a bunch of nicknames there. It's my opinion and you don't have to like it but don't act like youve thought all the babies and kids you've seen were beautiful.