BoobyDoesSkubeyDoo (andGabeandDrakeandJoel, too) Part 39
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Re: BoobyDoesSkubeyDoo (andGabeandDrakeandJoel, too) Part 38
Abuse is on a scale imo, there are different levels of it.
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Re: BoobyDoesSkubeyDoo (andGabeandDrakeandJoel, too) Part 38
I know what the definition of abuse is. The only one of those points that can even be argued is neglect. Even then, cps would laugh in someone's face for reporting Jess.Alyshaxx wrote:I think it's abuse what she's doing to them.Yogabbagabbat wrote:Oh my god people take stuff way too far just because they hate Jess.
She isn't mentally or emotionally abusing her children -_-
She's obviously a bare minimum mother, but her kids aren't even close to being abused. Saying things like that makes a mockery of chidlren who actually are being hurt.
http://www.americanhumane.org/children/ ... abuse.html
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Neglecting the child. This abuse may include educational neglect, where a parent or caregiver fails or refuses to provide the child with necessary educational services; mental health neglect, where the parent or caregiver denies or ignores a child’s need for treatment for psychological problems; or medical neglect, where a parent or caregiver denies or ignores a child’s need for treatment for medical problems."
It may be crappy food, but her kids are fed & I rarely see her giving them fast food or pizza. They go to their dentist & doctor checkups and have their vaccinations. Their educational needs could definitely be improved, but she has lilia in preschool which isn't required at her age.
I'm not saying her children won't have more psychological issues than most, trust me I definitely think they will. But to claim abuse is like the boy who cried wolf. Ridiculous.
Re: BoobyDoesSkubeyDoo (andGabeandDrakeandJoel, too) Part 38
I'm sorry but taking her kids to the doctor and dentist but not doing anything about their health like helping with Lilias hearing, or disregarding what the doctor says about the twins anemia so no she isn't taking care of them.
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Re: BoobyDoesSkubeyDoo (andGabeandDrakeandJoel, too) Part 38
And as a child of abuse myself I'm not making a mockery of anything.
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And locking them in their rooms so she can make videos, or letting them run around out front unsupervised, thus resulting in Kaden getting an airsoft pellet lodged in his ear because she was IGNORING her children.
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Alr2210 wrote:I'm sorry but taking her kids to the doctor and dentist but not doing anything about their health like helping with Lilias hearing, or disregarding what the doctor says about the twins anemia so no she isn't taking care of them.
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Can't believe youre making me defend Jess. jesus.
Do you accompany her to her children's doctors appointments? Weird to claim you know so much about her children's medical lives when we see a 10 minute video every 2 weeks or so. Personally, if I was a youtuber I wouldn't want to advertise my children's medical problems to the world. She's even vlogged lilia at the doctors office doing a hearing test.
About the pellet in the twin's ear- Again..were you there? You don't know if he was locked in the room or not when it happened. If she looked away for one second to nurse or some shit those things unfortunately can happen. My son stared at me from across the room yesterday and put a water bottle cap in his mouth. Obviously I was there to jump across and take it out, but toddlers are quick so I wouldn't be so quick to judge.
To be honest are any of us even positive that she 'locks' the twins out? I know she shuts the door but maybe they can't open doors. I lock my son out when I go to the bathroom. Guess I'm an abuser.
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Re: BoobyDoesSkubeyDoo (andGabeandDrakeandJoel, too) Part 38
I'm lame. What does Guns or glitter mean tho ?twomommies wrote:Guns or glitter? Oh Molesto.....smccoin wrote:mpetrie8 wrote:Her bff cortney commented that it was HER sisters gender reveal party. I call bullshit a little fb creeping and she only has 2 sisters a 12 yr old and her other sister who has an open fb account with no posts about a baby in fact a recent post about losing weight.
Although maybe she has a brother and its his gfs? Nah jess is probably pregnant
Looks like Cortney was telling the truth. What a weird way to spell that name, btw.
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I'm lame. What does Guns or glitter mean tho ?[/quote]marshmellow wrote:Guns or glitter? Oh Molesto.....twomommies wrote:mpetrie8 wrote:Her bff cortney commented that it was HER sisters gender reveal party. I call bullshit a little fb creeping and she only has 2 sisters a 12 yr old and her other sister who has an open fb account with no posts about a baby in fact a recent post about losing weight.
Although maybe she has a brother and its his gfs? Nah jess is probably pregnant
Looks like Cortney was telling the truth. What a weird way to spell that name, btw.
You're not lame, the phrase "guns or glitter" is lame lol
Basically "boy or girl"
Guns = boys
glitter = girl
Re: BoobyDoesSkubeyDoo (andGabeandDrakeandJoel, too) Part 38
You clearly have no grasp of what I'm saying. She posted this stuff for the public. If she didn't want the world to know then she shouldn't post it. I NEVER claimed to know about her children's medical lives I've posted what she herself has told. She said he was outside and put a pellet in his ear. SHE SAID THAT! And I know toddlers are quick. I've had 3 of them. But when she herself has said that she's found her kids out front while she was doing something that's cause for concern. I believe in a video she talked about how she found Kaden out front after she had given him a bath and he was playing in the dirt. So either she wasn't watching him, or she needs to invest in better locks so that they can't get out.Yogabbagabbat wrote:Alr2210 wrote:I'm sorry but taking her kids to the doctor and dentist but not doing anything about their health like helping with Lilias hearing, or disregarding what the doctor says about the twins anemia so no she isn't taking care of them.
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Can't believe youre making me defend Jess. jesus.
Do you accompany her to her children's doctors appointments? Weird to claim you know so much about her children's medical lives when we see a 10 minute video every 2 weeks or so. Personally, if I was a youtuber I wouldn't want to advertise my children's medical problems to the world. She's even vlogged lilia at the doctors office doing a hearing test.
About the pellet in the twin's ear- Again..were you there? You don't know if he was locked in the room or not when it happened. If she looked away for one second to nurse or some shit those things unfortunately can happen. My son stared at me from across the room yesterday and put a water bottle cap in his mouth. Obviously I was there to jump across and take it out, but toddlers are quick so I wouldn't be so quick to judge.
To be honest are any of us even positive that she 'locks' the twins out? I know she shuts the door but maybe they can't open doors. I lock my son out when I go to the bathroom. Guess I'm an abuser.
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Re: BoobyDoesSkubeyDoo (andGabeandDrakeandJoel, too) Part 38
She puts her kids privacy out there for the whole world to watch and judge. Dresses her daughter like she were on toddlers and tiaras ALL THE TIME, depriving her of a life of a normal 5 year old who thinks it's ok not be hair dressed every single day, who can go out in shorts, jeans and bike shorts. Who can keep her hair short and healthy and still look like a princess. A daughter is a Mom's princess even if you dont dress her like one every damn day. Her kids for most of the part eating crappy food which have NO nutrition value what so ever. She is negligent about keeping her kids vaccinated and exploits them for views and money, even if that means they had to cry for the 'cute video' or to expose them to ridicule and judgement in all their coming years. She basically installs this "pre-set" attitude and behavior in them which can effect their mental well being. There is no cleanliness or organization WHATSOEVER and the poor kids meet and delete a new father figure ever other year. No, protection services dont give a damn because bad and lazy ass parenting is sadly not a crime.
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Re: BoobyDoesSkubeyDoo (andGabeandDrakeandJoel, too) Part 38
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You clearly have no grasp of what I'm saying. She posted this stuff for the public. If she didn't want the world to know then she shouldn't post it. I NEVER claimed to know about her children's medical lives I've posted what she herself has told. She said he was outside and put a pellet in his ear. SHE SAID THAT! And I know toddlers are quick. I've had 3 of them. But when she herself has said that she's found her kids out front while she was doing something that's cause for concern. I believe in a video she talked about how she found Kaden out front after she had given him a bath and he was playing in the dirt. So either she wasn't watching him, or she needs to invest in better locks so that they can't get out.
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Lollllll but you are making assumptions.
" not doing anything about their health like helping with Lilias hearing, or disregarding what the doctor says about the twins anemia"
"locking them in their rooms" "letting them run around out front unsupervised, thus resulting in Kaden getting an airsoft pellet lodged in his ear because she was IGNORING her children"
Things you assumed about her then called abuse about without actually knowing.
1. Jess never said she didn't do anything about her ears or their anemia, 2. she never said she 'locks' them in their room, 3. and she never said the twins were running unsupervised.
So. No.. She didn't actually say any of those things. You just jumped to your conclusions.
Re: BoobyDoesSkubeyDoo (andGabeandDrakeandJoel, too) Part 38
Unfortunately this is one point you or I are not going to sway each other on. So there isn't a point in filling up the thread with my opinion or yours. You are entitled to how you feel as am I.
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Agree to disagreeAlr2210 wrote:Unfortunately this is one point you or I are not going to sway each other on. So there isn't a point in filling up the thread with my opinion or yours. You are entitled to how you feel as am I.
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I feel ya
I just thought that was taking it a step too far, but for the record I do think she's a shit parent
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Re: BoobyDoesSkubeyDoo (andGabeandDrakeandJoel, too) Part 38
She did say she locked them in their rooms. She said that she locked the door and that they knocked to get out because otherwise they would run around all night in the house getting into things. She did say that in a video I know for sure and she said it on Instagram when she had to defend herself from all the backlash she had for locking her kids in their room because it's A- Fucked up, B- A Fire Hazard, C- Just plain rude.
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Re: BoobyDoesSkubeyDoo (andGabeandDrakeandJoel, too) Part 38
Unfortunately, its true that lazy parenting isn't a crime and what Jessica is doing is just that:lazy and subpar parenting. Could there br an argument made for neglectful or harmful parenting on her behalf? Yes, I can see a good argument being made like some of you guys stated here. But she's just selfish and lazy as fuck, not abusive or even neglectful for the lost part. But i feel like the children's health doesn't seem like much of a priority for Jessica, AT LEAST from what we've seen online
Re: BoobyDoesSkubeyDoo (andGabeandDrakeandJoel, too) Part 38
Okay... this is some really passive agressive BS. Absolutely she should speak up if she feels there's something wrong, but speak up to THEM not on social media getting a bunch of your followers to gossip about their car seat usage... especially when there are pictures of HER using car seats inappropriately. Doesn't matter where or how many times, lol! The other problem I have with it is her comments about the car seats being "cheap". So anyone who uses a low budget car seat instead of a Diono or something super pricey doesn't care enough about their child's safety? That is so ignorant, and anyone who really gives a shit about CPS would never say something like that. Every single car seat on the market meets the same performance standards and safety regulations.Kryptonite wrote:Here is the car seat slam shot: http://ytmommadrama.com/download/file.php?id=5863&t=1
And then there was this gem about Natalie posting photos of her children. Hmmm... annoying when someone posts a photo of your child without permission, isn't it, Jessica? http://ytmommadrama.com/download/file.php?id=5861&t=1 BUT she likes Nat.
Also, her last Instagram photo... I hate to say this because I think Lilia is a sweet, beautiful, innocent little girl but I really wish Jessica would stop dressing her like a 20 year old hooker.
And don't even get me started on the comment about posting pictures... LOL!
Re: BoobyDoesSkubeyDoo (andGabeandDrakeandJoel, too) Part 38
For the record because I know it gets lost sometimes and people will see abuse and think I meant physically. I DO NOT think she physically abuses her children. And maybe saying she emotionally or mentally abuses them wasn't the right way I'm trying to convey what I feel she does to her children.
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Re: BoobyDoesSkubeyDoo (andGabeandDrakeandJoel, too) Part 38
Some of you hate driven posters need to look up what a real child abuse victim looks like. Mental or physical. And let me tell you, they will not look like Jess' children. I cannot believe some of you are so ignorant and full of hate that you would go as far as to say she abuses her children. This isn't just gossip anymore, this is getting out of control.
Re: BoobyDoesSkubeyDoo (andGabeandDrakeandJoel, too) Part 38
I know she has a right to privacy, but I kind of would like to see her do a video on the twins anemia. I think it would be interesting to see how she handles it/what steps she takes.Yogabbagabbat wrote:Alr2210 wrote:
You clearly have no grasp of what I'm saying. She posted this stuff for the public. If she didn't want the world to know then she shouldn't post it. I NEVER claimed to know about her children's medical lives I've posted what she herself has told. She said he was outside and put a pellet in his ear. SHE SAID THAT! And I know toddlers are quick. I've had 3 of them. But when she herself has said that she's found her kids out front while she was doing something that's cause for concern. I believe in a video she talked about how she found Kaden out front after she had given him a bath and he was playing in the dirt. So either she wasn't watching him, or she needs to invest in better locks so that they can't get out.
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Lollllll but you are making assumptions.
" not doing anything about their health like helping with Lilias hearing, or disregarding what the doctor says about the twins anemia"
"locking them in their rooms" "letting them run around out front unsupervised, thus resulting in Kaden getting an airsoft pellet lodged in his ear because she was IGNORING her children"
Things you assumed about her then called abuse about without actually knowing.
1. Jess never said she didn't do anything about her ears or their anemia, 2. she never said she 'locks' them in their room, 3. and she never said the twins were running unsupervised.
So. No.. She didn't actually say any of those things. You just jumped to your conclusions.
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Re: BoobyDoesSkubeyDoo (andGabeandDrakeandJoel, too) Part 38
And maybe IRON RICH MEALS!!....Seriously, mini wheats and hamburgers are on that list.Thegoatsmeow wrote:I know she has a right to privacy, but I kind of would like to see her do a video on the twins anemia. I think it would be interesting to see how she handles it/what steps she takes.Yogabbagabbat wrote:Alr2210 wrote:
You clearly have no grasp of what I'm saying. She posted this stuff for the public. If she didn't want the world to know then she shouldn't post it. I NEVER claimed to know about her children's medical lives I've posted what she herself has told. She said he was outside and put a pellet in his ear. SHE SAID THAT! And I know toddlers are quick. I've had 3 of them. But when she herself has said that she's found her kids out front while she was doing something that's cause for concern. I believe in a video she talked about how she found Kaden out front after she had given him a bath and he was playing in the dirt. So either she wasn't watching him, or she needs to invest in better locks so that they can't get out.
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Lollllll but you are making assumptions.
" not doing anything about their health like helping with Lilias hearing, or disregarding what the doctor says about the twins anemia"
"locking them in their rooms" "letting them run around out front unsupervised, thus resulting in Kaden getting an airsoft pellet lodged in his ear because she was IGNORING her children"
Things you assumed about her then called abuse about without actually knowing.
1. Jess never said she didn't do anything about her ears or their anemia, 2. she never said she 'locks' them in their room, 3. and she never said the twins were running unsupervised.
So. No.. She didn't actually say any of those things. You just jumped to your conclusions.
I had infusions for my anemia, and right now take pills that honestly tire me the heck out....but it would be good to educate parents who have anemic kids. More views and money..but maybe that's a dumb idea (;