DailySameButDifferent Part 21

Unread post by **OhHiImSam** » Mon Mar 23, 2015 8:06 pm

spacekitty wrote:Plenty of youtube couples (and people in general) are high school sweethearts, and I find them to be adorable. I hope I can be one someday. But I think that is part of B&M's problem. It obviously isn't for everyone and if Bryan IS straight then this could be the issue. They got engaged the day right around graduation, Missy never even went to college and Bryan dropped out. I'm not saying there's anything wrong with being committed throughout that time and still dating, but the way these two look like they have never really clicked gives me the feeling they both missed a great chance to find someone better for them. Missy needs someone to tell her no and mean it, who isn't gonna just take charge but show her the ropes of doing shit herself. Bryan needs someone who's mature and can manage money. Someone who can't bare to lie to people for their innocent donations, etc etc. These two are a complete mess.

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I agree, I wouldn't use the phrase "put het in her place" but Missy definitely needs someone with a set of balls on him to tell her she doesn't need Mommy to be around every goddamn second.

Maybe a Doctor? So he can at least cut that 24 year old umbilical cord?

I just think they both fill each other with so much negativity and that's not what a relationship is supposed to be. A relationship is supposed to want to make you grow into a better person.

Unread post by **lidialove29** » Mon Mar 23, 2015 8:06 pm

Yes I agree some girls just want to become moms (i knew a few in highschool and theyre great ones) but you can tell missy doesnt really ENJOY motherhood. Well, she enjoys being a mother to an infant but nothing past that. I am 20 and accidently got pregnant @ 17. I love my daughter and all that good stuff but I wouldve waited if I could have. And wont dare ttc just because I have one already. Lol
I just wonder if she truly believes shes a good mother to ollie now that he is a toddler. She lost that spark for him. More like she liked it better when he was more of an accessory.

Unread post by **HelloSweetie** » Mon Mar 23, 2015 8:07 pm

spacekitty wrote:
lidialove29 wrote:Ive always thought missy ttc so young was weird. Does she even have dreams or was her goal in live to be a baby making machine. My mom wouldnt support me ttc. Her family seems so chill about it.
Personally, I think some people are just MADE to be moms. My sister had her first baby at 21 and has 6 now (she's done lol), she was that kid in school who always told people she wanted to be a mom, and wanted to babysit. I'm not defending Missy because she's obviously a half-ass parent now, but the way she was pregnant with Oliver she was so different she may have seemed like motherhood was something she wanted in an unselfish way (complete opposite of now LOL)
I always just wanted to be a mom, similar to my sister and truthfully I still do but I know if I don't get some kind of a degree I won't get many places because sadly that's how things are now (boo)

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Ellie is someone that was born to be a mom, and it shows. She also has a career she loves though, and has passion for. What is Missy passionate about?

Ellie has a life, and still gets out and has tv nights with her sister, helps her family and goes on shopping trips with her family. She gets out and does things (and brings Jackson!) and no one would question the love her and Jared have for eachother. By comparison, B&M are super dysfunctional. I don't know how they have more subs than the Nulls or E&J.

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Unread post by **Deadhead_kay** » Mon Mar 23, 2015 8:07 pm

spacekitty wrote:
lidialove29 wrote:Ive always thought missy ttc so young was weird. Does she even have dreams or was her goal in live to be a baby making machine. My mom wouldnt support me ttc. Her family seems so chill about it.
Personally, I think some people are just MADE to be moms. My sister had her first baby at 21 and has 6 now (she's done lol), she was that kid in school who always told people she wanted to be a mom, and wanted to babysit. I'm not defending Missy because she's obviously a half-ass parent now, but the way she was pregnant with Oliver she was so different she may have seemed like motherhood was something she wanted in an unselfish way (complete opposite of now LOL)
I always just wanted to be a mom, similar to my sister and truthfully I still do but I know if I don't get some kind of a degree I won't get many places because sadly that's how things are now (boo)

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Exactly I always felt like I needed to be a mom, hell my goal is to be a stay at home mom. But I also realize the least I can do is attempt a degree so I always have something to fall back on, or maybe just a hobby when my kids are grown lol. Plus I'd think I'd make a decent hands on mom and not someone that takes 6 naps a day.

Unread post by **spacekitty** » Mon Mar 23, 2015 8:08 pm

OhHiImSam wrote:
spacekitty wrote:Plenty of youtube couples (and people in general) are high school sweethearts, and I find them to be adorable. I hope I can be one someday. But I think that is part of B&M's problem. It obviously isn't for everyone and if Bryan IS straight then this could be the issue. They got engaged the day right around graduation, Missy never even went to college and Bryan dropped out. I'm not saying there's anything wrong with being committed throughout that time and still dating, but the way these two look like they have never really clicked gives me the feeling they both missed a great chance to find someone better for them. Missy needs someone to tell her no and mean it, who isn't gonna just take charge but show her the ropes of doing shit herself. Bryan needs someone who's mature and can manage money. Someone who can't bare to lie to people for their innocent donations, etc etc. These two are a complete mess.

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I agree, I wouldn't use the phrase "put het in her place" but Missy definitely needs someone with a set of balls on him to tell her she doesn't need Mommy to be around every goddamn second.

Maybe a Doctor? So he can at least cut that 24 year old umbilical cord?

I just think they both fill each other with so much negativity and that's not what a relationship is supposed to be. A relationship is supposed to want to make you grow into a better person.

Sorry lost for words haha but yes, I think they try and outdo each other. Imagine the screaming in that house, "HA I GOT ANOTHER TWO BLOCKED BRYAN!"

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Unread post by **spacekitty** » Mon Mar 23, 2015 8:09 pm

I think Missy misses getting free baby shit, remember that weird hip carrier they got for free? I thought it was a cool idea but once Oliver was no longer their pride and joy they stopped even bothering to talk about one of many free items they got.

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Unread post by **lidialove29** » Mon Mar 23, 2015 8:11 pm

I agree missy needs someone to talk some sense into her and bryan isnt the one. Bryan needs someone to help him manage money and missy def. Isnt the one. When my husband want something we cant afford I have to be the dream crusher. And he doesnt like it but I help him snap out of it and the same goes for me. They just dont go well together both very childish and not willing to grow.

Unread post by **HelloSweetie** » Mon Mar 23, 2015 8:11 pm

Did anyone else see E&J today when they explained why their car got booted? They didnt make excuses or act like someone didn't do their job properly, they acknowledged that it was their mistake, and moved on with their day so much so that they forgot to update on it that vlog. That's why I like them. B&M would have bitched and moaned about how stupid the rule was and how the boot person should get fired.

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Unread post by **lidialove29** » Mon Mar 23, 2015 8:13 pm

spacekitty wrote:I think Missy misses getting free baby shit, remember that weird hip carrier they got for free? I thought it was a cool idea but once Oliver was no longer their pride and joy they stopped even bothering to talk about one of many free items they got.

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Omg yes. She can still use it but since he isnt her previous little infant anymore why bother.

Unread post by **spacekitty** » Mon Mar 23, 2015 8:15 pm

I think B&M have 0 sense on how to work as a team and make use and acknowledge they both have strengths (maybe something other Missy has eggs and Bryan has sperm?) and weaknesses. Missy could sit down and tell him the apple watch is dumb as hell and that money can be used on a new crib for the baby, and maybe even a changing table. Instead he handles it all and does whatever. And Bryan could encourage her that laying around just makes it worse and they could go for a walk, considering he at least used to try and be healthy..

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Mon Mar 23, 2015 8:22 pm

My life goal since I can remember is to be a pediatrician and then somehow be a SAHM. I'm thinking maybe after working a couple years, I'll be able to work part time and be able to stay home with my kids. My only problem is I don't want to be popping kids out TOO far into my 30s. I want hopefully 3-4 kids, at least 2, but I would love to start at maybe 27ish. Kind of OT but, I don't think it's wrong that having kids is your only goal BUT you should have a back up plan if something terrible happened.

Mon Mar 23, 2015 8:33 pm

Sorry for the double post.

Looks like M cooked a turkey all by herself!!

Unread post by **HelloSweetie** » Mon Mar 23, 2015 8:41 pm

lizyfignewton wrote:Sorry for the double post.

Looks like M cooked a turkey all by herself!!

Who are we kidding... Mimi was there.

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Unread post by **cats-or-die** » Mon Mar 23, 2015 8:48 pm

lizyfignewton wrote:Sorry for the double post.

Looks like M cooked a turkey all by herself!!

Notice Bryan called her beautiful.
Hi Bryan.

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Unread post by **lidialove29** » Mon Mar 23, 2015 8:49 pm

I agree back up plan is always good im in online college to be a teacher and its very hard but its awesome to have a goal just because. sometimes being a sahm is very hard and not just because of the housework and taking care of a child but sometimes if you have nothing to do and no friends you can feel like youre going crazy. I think b&m are feeling that as well.

Unread post by **spacekitty** » Mon Mar 23, 2015 8:52 pm

HelloSweetie1 wrote:
lizyfignewton wrote:Sorry for the double post.

Looks like M cooked a turkey all by herself!!
Who are we kidding... Mimi was there.

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Missy probably thought the turkey was too gross to touch and made Mimi do it

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Unread post by **lidialove29** » Mon Mar 23, 2015 8:53 pm

A good example of a girl who looks like she wanted to be a sahm and she is damn good at it is keyonaBBaby on yt. She is such a upbeat hands on mom. A great example. I never really wanted to be a sahm but as one I know I have a responsibility to play with my child take her outside actually sit and eat with her etc etc for her own good.

Unread post by **spacekitty** » Mon Mar 23, 2015 8:58 pm

lidialove29 wrote:A good example of a girl who looks like she wanted to be a sahm and she is damn good at it is keyonaBBaby on yt. She is such a upbeat hands on mom. A great example. I never really wanted to be a sahm but as one I know I have a responsibility to play with my child take her outside actually sit and eat with her etc etc for her own good.

Another good mom is BrittandKorey (brittandlife?). I found her through britneyandbaby and she's just so sweet. I question everyday why I love mom videos so much when I have no intention of being a mom for 5 or so years :/
I think that Missy needs to pick up her mess of an excuse for a mom
channel though, she clearly isn't doing it for her children anymore. Didn't she upload an what ***I*** got for Christmas before she did Oliver's? She's trying to act like it doesn't say /bumpsalongtheway and isn't why they make vlogs. Ellie's second channel isn't solely mom videos and they never tried to tell us that either. It's Ellie's channel to share her thoughts and interests! Missy doesn't do anything and it shows with the channel change, hence the lush haul (ripoff of her bestie) and the fact pre-2015 baby there was no videos.
Sorry I went off on a rant.

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Unread post by **OhHiImSam** » Mon Mar 23, 2015 9:01 pm

Finally got around to seeing the bow fiasco.

I like the bow, I would wear it with a sundress at a party or something in my ponytail. Not on the top of my fucking head like a five year old.

Also, even though it was probably staged for the vlog I did think the "big bro training" was cute. I think Ollie and Bryan do have a better bond than Ollie and Missy do.... I dunno their interactions seem more natural for some reason.

Unread post by **spacekitty** » Mon Mar 23, 2015 9:04 pm

I remember when Ollie was born and Missy was pissed when people said he looked like Bryan and not her, I still laugh.

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