DailyUltrasounds Part 25

[EleanorRigby]

It seems Bryan and Missy were more open about their losses back then because it was still something they wanted to express and inform about. They can't live the rest of their lives talking about their losses. They have a healthy child HERE and one on the way - to dwell on their losses forever isn't healthy.

I think everyone mad about her never acknowledging her losses anymore need to seriously pipe the fuck down. It might be something they're trying to fully move past (moving forward and forgetting are two different things).
I lost my father. He was a living, breathing human who I adored. I don't go around finding ways to talk about him, constantly bringing him up to people. Why? That's too painful. I want to move past the pain and hurt of losing him, and get to a point where I can remember him and talk about him without crying.


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No one is saying they should talk about it constantly. But they never even acknowledge it. The ONLY reason I disagree with you is because that's how they started their channel. It's the very core of why they have success to begin with. At the very least she could have mentioned it on mothers day.

She did last year if I remember correctly. Weren't Gabriels foot prints in the video?

[Theirmom]

It seems Bryan and Missy were more open about their losses back then because it was still something they wanted to express and inform about. They can't live the rest of their lives talking about their losses. They have a healthy child HERE and one on the way - to dwell on their losses forever isn't healthy.

I think everyone mad about her never acknowledging her losses anymore need to seriously pipe the fuck down. It might be something they're trying to fully move past (moving forward and forgetting are two different things).
I lost my father. He was a living, breathing human who I adored. I don't go around finding ways to talk about him, constantly bringing him up to people. Why? That's too painful. I want to move past the pain and hurt of losing him, and get to a point where I can remember him and talk about him without crying.


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Exactly!

And before anyone starts in with the "But that's how their channel started blah blah blah", it doesn't mean they have to continue going in that direction.

Just because they started youtube to bring attention to pregnancy loss, doesn't mean they have to dedicate their entire lives and now career to it. They've moved on, as is their right.
And that screen grab was a description written by the magazine that Bryan wrote some articles for.

It's one thing to criticize their wastefulness with money, and how hypocritical they are when it comes to being crunchy. But to rag on them because they don't dwell on their losses?

[cats-or-die]

It seems Bryan and Missy were more open about their losses back then because it was still something they wanted to express and inform about. They can't live the rest of their lives talking about their losses. They have a healthy child HERE and one on the way - to dwell on their losses forever isn't healthy.

I think everyone mad about her never acknowledging her losses anymore need to seriously pipe the fuck down. It might be something they're trying to fully move past (moving forward and forgetting are two different things).
I lost my father. He was a living, breathing human who I adored. I don't go around finding ways to talk about him, constantly bringing him up to people. Why? That's too painful. I want to move past the pain and hurt of losing him, and get to a point where I can remember him and talk about him without crying.


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No one is saying they should talk about it constantly. But they never even acknowledge it. The ONLY reason I disagree with you is because that's how they started their channel. It's the very core of why they have success to begin with. At the very least she could have mentioned it on mothers day.

She did last year if I remember correctly. Weren't Gabriels foot prints in the video?

Many beauty gurus start out as just that, and end up going in different directions completely.

People are allowed to change their paths.....


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[HelloSweetie]

It seems Bryan and Missy were more open about their losses back then because it was still something they wanted to express and inform about. They can't live the rest of their lives talking about their losses. They have a healthy child HERE and one on the way - to dwell on their losses forever isn't healthy.

I think everyone mad about her never acknowledging her losses anymore need to seriously pipe the fuck down. It might be something they're trying to fully move past (moving forward and forgetting are two different things).
I lost my father. He was a living, breathing human who I adored. I don't go around finding ways to talk about him, constantly bringing him up to people. Why? That's too painful. I want to move past the pain and hurt of losing him, and get to a point where I can remember him and talk about him without crying.


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No one is saying they should talk about it constantly. But they never even acknowledge it. The ONLY reason I disagree with you is because that's how they started their channel. It's the very core of why they have success to begin with. At the very least she could have mentioned it on mothers day.

She did last year if I remember correctly. Weren't Gabriels foot prints in the video?

Not to mention they said they started the channel because people don't talk about it, and they didn't like that people didn't feel it was ok to be more open.

Not expecting them to mention it everyday or anything, but how do you go from doing an inspirational video about how even if your child is in heaven you're still a mother, but then act like it's different once you have a child here. It's a contradiction, and they are doing the same thing they faulted others for.


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[HelloSweetie]

It seems Bryan and Missy were more open about their losses back then because it was still something they wanted to express and inform about. They can't live the rest of their lives talking about their losses. They have a healthy child HERE and one on the way - to dwell on their losses forever isn't healthy.

I think everyone mad about her never acknowledging her losses anymore need to seriously pipe the fuck down. It might be something they're trying to fully move past (moving forward and forgetting are two different things).
I lost my father. He was a living, breathing human who I adored. I don't go around finding ways to talk about him, constantly bringing him up to people. Why? That's too painful. I want to move past the pain and hurt of losing him, and get to a point where I can remember him and talk about him without crying.


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No one is saying they should talk about it constantly. But they never even acknowledge it. The ONLY reason I disagree with you is because that's how they started their channel. It's the very core of why they have success to begin with. At the very least she could have mentioned it on mothers day.

She did last year if I remember correctly. Weren't Gabriels foot prints in the video?

Many beauty gurus start out as just that, and end up going in different directions completely.

People are allowed to change their paths.....


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Ok, then I guess that's why he didn't do the Cambodia video. Songwriting took over and was a more profitable path.

Look, we all have to agree to disagree, my opinion won't change. As a loss mom, I found Missy's videos helpful and relatable. She judged those that would closet their losses, and made it clear that she was just as much a mother as those with living children. She's closeted now, fine...then she could have skipped the Mother's Day video instead of shamefully throwing one together with no inspiration, clear message or direction.


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[EleanorRigby]

It seems Bryan and Missy were more open about their losses back then because it was still something they wanted to express and inform about. They can't live the rest of their lives talking about their losses. They have a healthy child HERE and one on the way - to dwell on their losses forever isn't healthy.

I think everyone mad about her never acknowledging her losses anymore need to seriously pipe the fuck down. It might be something they're trying to fully move past (moving forward and forgetting are two different things).
I lost my father. He was a living, breathing human who I adored. I don't go around finding ways to talk about him, constantly bringing him up to people. Why? That's too painful. I want to move past the pain and hurt of losing him, and get to a point where I can remember him and talk about him without crying.


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No one is saying they should talk about it constantly. But they never even acknowledge it. The ONLY reason I disagree with you is because that's how they started their channel. It's the very core of why they have success to begin with. At the very least she could have mentioned it on mothers day.

She did last year if I remember correctly. Weren't Gabriels foot prints in the video?

Many beauty gurus start out as just that, and end up going in different directions completely.

People are allowed to change their paths.....


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Many beauty gurus start out beauty gurus and then stop talking about beauty altogether? Didn't know that. I never said people aren't allowed to change their paths?

And again no one has said they need to focus the channel around the loss.. They can keep on putting out content for 12 year olds to their hearts desire. Im just saying they act like it never happened. For so long up until recently it was a huge part if their vlogs and seemingly their lives. Now it's like a slap in the face to people who used to watch them because they could relate to their loss.

I don't feel telling people to "pipe the fuck down" is a very nice way to tell people you disagree with their opinion. Js.

[cats-or-die]

Touché. Sorry for my "pipe the fuck down" comment. That was an asshole thing to say.

Just remember, miscarriages don't relate to their audience anymore. Probably the reason they stopped discussing it.
Another reason Missy is scum.


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[EleanorRigby]

Touché. Sorry for my "pipe the fuck down" comment. That was an asshole thing to say.

Just remember, miscarriages don't relate to their audience anymore. Probably the reason they stopped discussing it.
Another reason Missy is scum.


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Hey hakuna matata.

That, I definitely agree with you on 100%. Their 12 year old audience is not interested in such complex and adult topics. They sold out because there's better money in 12 year olds who have nothing but time to watch youtube videos.

[HelloSweetie]

Touché. Sorry for my "pipe the fuck down" comment. That was an asshole thing to say.

Just remember, miscarriages don't relate to their audience anymore. Probably the reason they stopped discussing it.
Another reason Missy is scum.


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Hey hakuna matata.

That, I definitely agree with you on 100%. Their 12 year old audience is not interested in such complex and adult topics. They sold out because there's better money in 12 year olds who have nothing but time to watch youtube videos.

And it is selling out because these 12 year olds make all kinds of comments about how disappointing it is that the new baby is a boy, and how they will continue to pray that's a mistake. Or how another boy sucks and they do nothing to stop it or address it. That's just a shitty way to let people speak about your unborn baby.

We say Missy is lazy and not a single mom (all things that are true) and we get a sit down lecture


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[Greys Encyclopedia]

OT but where has Space Kitty been? I remember her saying she was going through something and took a little break then came back and now I haven't noticed her in a while.

[Greys Encyclopedia]

Cats or die: I know the issue is settled and I'm very sorry about your father, I can't imagine how you feel/felt. On Father's day, do you talk about your father? The situation is different but Missy always talked about her two other sons, and I understand not bringing it up at every chance she gets, but I think mother's day would've been a good time to talk about it

[PostyMcPosterston]

Missy was complaining in today's vlog about how she'll have to throw away a bunch of Ollie's clothes that don't fit him anymore. They looked good as new, and she wanted to THROW THEM AWAY.
I left a comment suggesting she keep the clothes for when the next baby is big enough to wear them.
If anything, she better donate them. It would be so fucking wasteful for her to throw away a bunch of perfectly good clothes that another mother could use.

I'm pretty sure she said she was separating them into donations and using them for the baby. I do the same thing, I'll say I'm throwing something out when I mean donating.

Yes, she mentioned goodwill. If my second is also a boy, I can't imagine donating anything!!! But then again their birthdays are 2 weeks apart. I guess Missy has SOME sort of excuse since this baby will be a Fall baby and Oliver was a summer baby. But honestly I probably would just keep everything, unless I absolutely hated something someone gifted me haha.


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[rdt1004]

OT but where has Space Kitty been? I remember her saying she was going through something and took a little break then came back and now I haven't noticed her in a while.

I've been wondering about her too. She is still in high school right? Might be busy finishing up the spring semester.


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[coriann1911]

Personally it frustrates me when missy talks about infertility. Her 4 pregnancies I believe she's been lucky enough to get pregnant after 1 or 2 cycles. She has NO idea what it's like to struggle to conceive, the fear & heart ache of not knowing if it will ever happen. My husband & I have been ttc baby# 1 since April 2013.

I wish she'd spend time remembering/honouring her loses that's something she should be doing, they deserve more recognition imo.


I couldn't agree more. I'm sorry you are having a difficult time ttc . We have been ttc for 6 years and its hell. I pray your time comes soon. D



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[coriann1911]

Personally it frustrates me when missy talks about infertility. Her 4 pregnancies I believe she's been lucky enough to get pregnant after 1 or 2 cycles. She has NO idea what it's like to struggle to conceive, the fear & heart ache of not knowing if it will ever happen. My husband & I have been ttc baby# 1 since April 2013.

I wish she'd spend time remembering/honouring her loses that's something she should be doing, they deserve more recognition imo.




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[blackbetty]

It seems Bryan and Missy were more open about their losses back then because it was still something they wanted to express and inform about. They can't live the rest of their lives talking about their losses. They have a healthy child HERE and one on the way - to dwell on their losses forever isn't healthy.

I think everyone mad about her never acknowledging her losses anymore need to seriously pipe the fuck down. It might be something they're trying to fully move past (moving forward and forgetting are two different things).
I lost my father. He was a living, breathing human who I adored. I don't go around finding ways to talk about him, constantly bringing him up to people. Why? That's too painful. I want to move past the pain and hurt of losing him, and get to a point where I can remember him and talk about him without crying.


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I'll be that bitch.

I think people who try to tell the rest of the forum what they should be allowed to talk about should pipe down.

It's not against the rules to discuss them not mentioning their losses anymore and people aren't at each other's throats and its on topic so they can talk about whatever they want.

[actuallydear]

for pithy mithy:

[mamaof2]

Personally it frustrates me when missy talks about infertility. Her 4 pregnancies I believe she's been lucky enough to get pregnant after 1 or 2 cycles. She has NO idea what it's like to struggle to conceive, the fear & heart ache of not knowing if it will ever happen. My husband & I have been ttc baby# 1 since April 2013.

I wish she'd spend time remembering/honouring her loses that's something she should be doing, they deserve more recognition imo.




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hugs and baby dust to you. my husband and i have been ttc since march 2012 and still no baby... meanwhile, pithy mithy has 2 babies she will hold in her arms and ignores them.

i feel like she's just spewing out the infertility stuff because ellie has made sure to keep saying how grateful she is to have her two little boys even though she struggled for a very long time and will probably struggle again.

Missy just doesn't get it. Her Mother's Day video was basically an ode to her mom about how great if besties they are, and if you read the comments it's depressed more people than it inspired/helped.

Then today's vlog she boasts about how she predicted last Mother's Day that she'd be pregnant by this one, and she is! She has a real nerve ever mentioning infertility, when (a) she has no idea what it feels like, and (b) she is as insensitive as it comes.

Thought from today's vlog...

Looks like the cleaning lady took this Sunday off so they had to do it themselves

Missy made sure to sleep in their bed last night (or get in this morning) so the minions don't realize they sleep apart.

They are playing more with Ollie lately. Am I the only one that feels like Missy is putting it on for the camera?

Big revelation in today's vlog... Missy's perfect day is with her family... and by that she means the Hollisters. We know Mithy, we know

Bryan couldn't even mention his mom at all? Super sad. He seems like an outsider whenever the Hollisters are together, and it feels like he has to minimize his mom to make Missy happy. Super sad and it must be awful for him. He really did put a nice Mother's Day together for Missy.

I bet Father's Day she will take care of Ollie in the morning, and then drag Bryan around all day out for lunch or something, followed by a day all about Papa.


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Can someone tell me where the assumption that they sleep apart comes from?? This is very interesting to me and something I must've missed.

[Buggy2010]

Missy lives in the guest bedroom where her vanity is. You can tell that someone is sleeping in that bed because it's hardly ever made and her clothes are in the closet. She constantly says Cassie spent the night with them and that's why the bed isn't made

[cats-or-die]

It seems Bryan and Missy were more open about their losses back then because it was still something they wanted to express and inform about. They can't live the rest of their lives talking about their losses. They have a healthy child HERE and one on the way - to dwell on their losses forever isn't healthy.

I think everyone mad about her never acknowledging her losses anymore need to seriously pipe the fuck down. It might be something they're trying to fully move past (moving forward and forgetting are two different things).
I lost my father. He was a living, breathing human who I adored. I don't go around finding ways to talk about him, constantly bringing him up to people. Why? That's too painful. I want to move past the pain and hurt of losing him, and get to a point where I can remember him and talk about him without crying.


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I'll be that bitch.

I think people who try to tell the rest of the forum what they should be allowed to talk about should pipe down.

It's not against the rules to discuss them not mentioning their losses anymore and people aren't at each other's throats and its on topic so they can talk about whatever they want.

A little late to this party. I already apologized for telling people to pipe the fuck down. Did you miss that post?
I never said it was against the rules LOL! I was in a shitty mood (sleep deprived children will drive you mad) and was sick of reading about loss complaints. I soon realized what a little fuck wit I was being.
Seriously. No need to be "that bitch". It's over and done.


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