BeccaBabyMaker Part 4

[dashiiki]

They say ultrasounds can be safe if used right but that is like a max of like 5 the entire pregnancy. The waves that it sends could potentially harm the child. There is not enough study to show how harmful it could potentially be.

My doctor suggested NOT having a lot done as too many could potentially pose a risk. The fact she wants multiple ones in just her first trimester (which is most crucial) is crazy! She claims it is for health reasons which is not true. I was born with a heart issue and my child could potentially be born with one too but ya know what? They DO NOT suggest I get multiple ultrasounds. Now, with twins they like to do more but with singles (that have no risk) they would rather not. Remember last time she was pregnant she was going to a ton of different clinics, hispitals, etc and trying to find one that said she was going to have a girl? She is a nut case.

She is shitty parent and person and does anything for herself and NOT her children as we already notice. ALL she cares about is social media and attention. She is an attention whore who thrives off it. If they say boy this time she will go to a million more until someone agrees it is a girl.

Sorry this is not always the case. I had weekly ultrasounds from 6 weeks up until 30 weeks because of health issues. My baby is fine. Not defending her but you can get multiple ultrasounds for health reasons.

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[mamamayhem14]

They say ultrasounds can be safe if used right but that is like a max of like 5 the entire pregnancy. The waves that it sends could potentially harm the child. There is not enough study to show how harmful it could potentially be.

My doctor suggested NOT having a lot done as too many could potentially pose a risk. The fact she wants multiple ones in just her first trimester (which is most crucial) is crazy! She claims it is for health reasons which is not true. I was born with a heart issue and my child could potentially be born with one too but ya know what? They DO NOT suggest I get multiple ultrasounds. Now, with twins they like to do more but with singles (that have no risk) they would rather not. Remember last time she was pregnant she was going to a ton of different clinics, hispitals, etc and trying to find one that said she was going to have a girl? She is a nut case.

She is shitty parent and person and does anything for herself and NOT her children as we already notice. ALL she cares about is social media and attention. She is an attention whore who thrives off it. If they say boy this time she will go to a million more until someone agrees it is a girl.

Sorry this is not always the case. I had weekly ultrasounds from 6 weeks up until 30 weeks because of health issues. My baby is fine. Not defending her but you can get multiple ultrasounds for health reasons.

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Sure, you CAN get multiple ultrasounds. But, last time she went to multiple places and people because she wanted more not for health reasons. She had hemorrhaging during/after labor. Maybe different places do different things but mine didn't just do a bunch of random ultrasounds and told me that they could pose a risk and did not like to do more than necessary not even after the car accident. They had the baby's heart monitored for a couple weeks and I was seen a lot but they did not have have a ton of extra ultrasounds and it was a serious case too, I almost lost her.

Maybe different doctors are not as strong on the case as mine is but he also is more for the children and not the money involved.
I understand if the baby is in serious danger or if there is multiples but I highly DOUBT her doctor is having her do an ultrasound a week this early in her pregnancy when she has not even been diagnosed with Pre-Eclampsia (or whatever it was) yet, she just has a history of it. And it usually occurs AFTER week 20.

[mamamayhem14]

Like I said though, I understand people that get them for pregnancy where there is a big risk for the baby or for when a woman is carrying multiples but when Becca was pregnant last time that is not why she got so many ultrasounds. She even tried to get the gender earlier and was constantly changing places and having issues with the ultrasound techs. I think she even talked about getting a refund (which why should she care about since she gets state anyway)

I am not against ultrasounds. I usually only get somewhere around 3-4 each pregnancy. From what I gathered ultrasounds feel like (for a baby) similar to what it feels like for us to be standing next to a train track which may not seem so bad but being a developing baby seems like it would be tough. Now, I don't know as I don't remember being in my mother's womb LOL!

I would also like to add that the state does not pay our insurance and I believe I remember Tayler getting a lot of ultrasounds too...."just because" and we all know the state pays for her....I don't know how many ultrasounds our insurance covers (we have Blue Cross) but I know that the office would rather us not get a lot and they don't push them on us.

Either way, I hope all went well with your pregnancy and I will agree to disagree as I don't have the energy to argue about it and did not attend medical school lol.

[dashiiki]

Like I said though, I understand people that get them for pregnancy where there is a big risk for the baby or for when a woman is carrying multiples but when Becca was pregnant last time that is not why she got so many ultrasounds. She even tried to get the gender earlier and was constantly changing places and having issues with the ultrasound techs. I think she even talked about getting a refund (which why should she care about since she gets state anyway)

I am not against ultrasounds. I usually only get somewhere around 3-4 each pregnancy. From what I gathered ultrasounds feel like (for a baby) similar to what it feels like for us to be standing next to a train track which may not seem so bad but being a developing baby seems like it would be tough. Now, I don't know as I don't remember being in my mother's womb LOL!

I would also like to add that the state does not pay our insurance and I believe I remember Tayler getting a lot of ultrasounds too...."just because" and we all know the state pays for her....I don't know how many ultrasounds our insurance covers (we have Blue Cross) but I know that the office would rather us not get a lot and they don't push them on us.

Either way, I hope all went well with your pregnancy and I will agree to disagree as I don't have the energy to argue about it and did not attend medical school lol.

I've heard the bad side of ultrasounds. Mine were absolutely necessary my Dr didn't do it for the money lol my body can't handle pregnancies and after the many losses I've had they had to keep track of baby to make sure my little miracle was OK in there. But I agree with you don't get me wrong...I know a girl who would say she was spotting during pregnancy and go to the ER just to get an ultrasound. And she was on state also. Not ok imo

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[mac-n-cheese]

Like I said though, I understand people that get them for pregnancy where there is a big risk for the baby or for when a woman is carrying multiples but when Becca was pregnant last time that is not why she got so many ultrasounds. She even tried to get the gender earlier and was constantly changing places and having issues with the ultrasound techs. I think she even talked about getting a refund (which why should she care about since she gets state anyway)

I am not against ultrasounds. I usually only get somewhere around 3-4 each pregnancy. From what I gathered ultrasounds feel like (for a baby) similar to what it feels like for us to be standing next to a train track which may not seem so bad but being a developing baby seems like it would be tough. Now, I don't know as I don't remember being in my mother's womb LOL!

I would also like to add that the state does not pay our insurance and I believe I remember Tayler getting a lot of ultrasounds too...."just because" and we all know the state pays for her....I don't know how many ultrasounds our insurance covers (we have Blue Cross) but I know that the office would rather us not get a lot and they don't push them on us.

Either way, I hope all went well with your pregnancy and I will agree to disagree as I don't have the energy to argue about it and did not attend medical school lol.

Yes!!!^^^^ with my 1st I didn't bother researching anything I just listened to friends <I was only 18> once I had my baby I couldn't believe how fragile he was. That's when I started researching EVERYTHING. Circumcision, vaccines, organic foods and extended breastfeeding.

When I got pregnant with my 2nd son I had done as much reading as I could about ultrasounds and dopplers...
When my baby was big enough to be heard on the dopplers i let them know I only wanted the dopplers on me in 30 second intervals until they found the heart beat.

When I went in for one of my appointments, around 17 or 18 weeks, I could already feel him moving. He had been pretty quiet for the morning and when the nurse put the dopplers on he went NUTS! I could feel him squirm and the dopplers makes a high pitched sound when it catches the baby moving. The nurse said "oh they always try to run away!" .....that was it for me!!!! No more!!! From then on I denied the dopplers and only had one more ultrasound at 25 weeks to know the sex.in total I only had two ultrasounds that pregnancy.

The reaction I got from him just broke my heart. Obviously babies do not enjoy the waves and sounds these machine cause!!!

[mamamayhem14]

Like I said though, I understand people that get them for pregnancy where there is a big risk for the baby or for when a woman is carrying multiples but when Becca was pregnant last time that is not why she got so many ultrasounds. She even tried to get the gender earlier and was constantly changing places and having issues with the ultrasound techs. I think she even talked about getting a refund (which why should she care about since she gets state anyway)

I am not against ultrasounds. I usually only get somewhere around 3-4 each pregnancy. From what I gathered ultrasounds feel like (for a baby) similar to what it feels like for us to be standing next to a train track which may not seem so bad but being a developing baby seems like it would be tough. Now, I don't know as I don't remember being in my mother's womb LOL!

I would also like to add that the state does not pay our insurance and I believe I remember Tayler getting a lot of ultrasounds too...."just because" and we all know the state pays for her....I don't know how many ultrasounds our insurance covers (we have Blue Cross) but I know that the office would rather us not get a lot and they don't push them on us.

Either way, I hope all went well with your pregnancy and I will agree to disagree as I don't have the energy to argue about it and did not attend medical school lol.

Yes!!!^^^^ with my 1st I didn't bother researching anything I just listened to friends <I was only 18> once I had my baby I couldn't believe how fragile he was. That's when I started researching EVERYTHING. Circumcision, vaccines, organic foods and extended breastfeeding.

When I got pregnant with my 2nd son I had done as much reading as I could about ultrasounds and dopplers...
When my baby was big enough to be heard on the dopplers i let them know I only wanted the dopplers on me in 30 second intervals until they found the heart beat.

When I went in for one of my appointments, around 17 or 18 weeks, I could already feel him moving. He had been pretty quiet for the morning and when the nurse put the dopplers on he went NUTS! I could feel him squirm and the dopplers makes a high pitched sound when it catches the baby moving. The nurse said "oh they always try to run away!" .....that was it for me!!!! No more!!! From then on I denied the dopplers and only had one more ultrasound at 25 weeks to know the sex.in total I only had two ultrasounds that pregnancy.

The reaction I got from him just broke my heart. Obviously babies do not enjoy the waves and sounds these machine cause!!!

I understand if they are really necessary but just to have them done just because just seems insane. I know that both my girls had their hands on their head during their ultrasounds which to me seemed like it was an "ouch" thing. I refuse the transvaginal ones because of what I heard about miscarriages and those and the fact that when I was pregnant with my first I had one done and was in such horrible pain after. I can wait the extra few weeks to see my baby if it means protecting them.

[mac-n-cheese]

Like I said though, I understand people that get them for pregnancy where there is a big risk for the baby or for when a woman is carrying multiples but when Becca was pregnant last time that is not why she got so many ultrasounds. She even tried to get the gender earlier and was constantly changing places and having issues with the ultrasound techs. I think she even talked about getting a refund (which why should she care about since she gets state anyway)

I am not against ultrasounds. I usually only get somewhere around 3-4 each pregnancy. From what I gathered ultrasounds feel like (for a baby) similar to what it feels like for us to be standing next to a train track which may not seem so bad but being a developing baby seems like it would be tough. Now, I don't know as I don't remember being in my mother's womb LOL!

I would also like to add that the state does not pay our insurance and I believe I remember Tayler getting a lot of ultrasounds too...."just because" and we all know the state pays for her....I don't know how many ultrasounds our insurance covers (we have Blue Cross) but I know that the office would rather us not get a lot and they don't push them on us.

Either way, I hope all went well with your pregnancy and I will agree to disagree as I don't have the energy to argue about it and did not attend medical school lol.

[mac-n-cheese]

Like I said though, I understand people that get them for pregnancy where there is a big risk for the baby or for when a woman is carrying multiples but when Becca was pregnant last time that is not why she got so many ultrasounds. She even tried to get the gender earlier and was constantly changing places and having issues with the ultrasound techs. I think she even talked about getting a refund (which why should she care about since she gets state anyway)

I am not against ultrasounds. I usually only get somewhere around 3-4 each pregnancy. From what I gathered ultrasounds feel like (for a baby) similar to what it feels like for us to be standing next to a train track which may not seem so bad but being a developing baby seems like it would be tough. Now, I don't know as I don't remember being in my mother's womb LOL!

I would also like to add that the state does not pay our insurance and I believe I remember Tayler getting a lot of ultrasounds too...."just because" and we all know the state pays for her....I don't know how many ultrasounds our insurance covers (we have Blue Cross) but I know that the office would rather us not get a lot and they don't push them on us.

Either way, I hope all went well with your pregnancy and I will agree to disagree as I don't have the energy to argue about it and did not attend medical school lol.

Yes!!!^^^^ with my 1st I didn't bother researching anything I just listened to friends <I was only 18> once I had my baby I couldn't believe how fragile he was. That's when I started researching EVERYTHING. Circumcision, vaccines, organic foods and extended breastfeeding.

When I got pregnant with my 2nd son I had done as much reading as I could about ultrasounds and dopplers...
When my baby was big enough to be heard on the dopplers i let them know I only wanted the dopplers on me in 30 second intervals until they found the heart beat.

When I went in for one of my appointments, around 17 or 18 weeks, I could already feel him moving. He had been pretty quiet for the morning and when the nurse put the dopplers on he went NUTS! I could feel him squirm and the dopplers makes a high pitched sound when it catches the baby moving. The nurse said "oh they always try to run away!" .....that was it for me!!!! No more!!! From then on I denied the dopplers and only had one more ultrasound at 25 weeks to know the sex.in total I only had two ultrasounds that pregnancy.

The reaction I got from him just broke my heart. Obviously babies do not enjoy the waves and sounds these machine cause!!!

I understand if they are really necessary but just to have them done just because just seems insane. I know that both my girls had their hands on their head during their ultrasounds which to me seemed like it was an "ouch" thing. I refuse the transvaginal ones because of what I heard about miscarriages and those and the fact that when I was pregnant with my first I had one done and was in such horrible pain after. I can wait the extra few weeks to see my baby if it means protecting them.

Exactly! Those 10 months are such a crucial period...I don't get how some people can be so ignorant...

It pisses me off when idiots like becca buy at home dopplers and have it glued to their belly 24/7...

[mamamayhem14]

She is obsessed when she is pregnant and then when the baby gets here she takes occasional selfies with baby and throws the baby to the side like a piece of trash or pawns the baby on her parents to raise while she goes and gets her hair done ever single week and plays on social media.

[blackbetty]

If this baby is a girl, I wonder if she will treat the pregnancy and child differently

[mamamayhem14]

If this baby is a girl, I wonder if she will treat the pregnancy and child differently

You know she will. Sadly, she would favor the girl most and probably treat the boys even less.

[SilverLady]

That is the worst I could stand to be honest. Favoring a child over the other, whatever the reason behind it, even if it is the age the gender or character. I was the favored child and when growing up and realized I was mad with my father! He was favoring me based on my age and on the other hand my mother was favoring and was overly tough with me to "balance" it. Such a shame in my opinion....

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[tieruhhlynn]

My mom had a problem with playing favorites when it came to babies. I really resented it for the longest but I found out she was loco en el coco and ultimately forgave her. She got mental help too for depression and what not, and she's actually an amazing mother now. I feel like that's what Becca needs. She just seems so off in her videos AND DID SHE FORGET SHE WAS LESBIAN LIKE WHO'S SHE MOVING OUT WITH CAN WE GET A Q N A CUZ ID BE ALL OVER THAT SHIT.

[SilverLady]

She seems to work so hard to play it cool that someone could believe her if s/he didn't know.

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[SunnyLove]

Why is she posting photos of only her older boy? That's sad.

[mamamayhem14]

Why is she posting photos of only her older boy? That's sad.

That is normal for her. I don't understand why she posts his "baby pictures" but not actual pictures of her baby.

[mamamayhem14]

So she lays in bed all day due to morning sickness? Girl you have 30 weeks to go and 2 kids to raise, get your butt up!
I had morning sickness (all day) up until 20-23 weeks with both of my last pregnancies and I had morning sickness up until 10 weeks this pregnancy and still raise my kids.
I guess that means she is not going to college or work? Her poor parents are probably raising her kids while she whines and lays in bed because SHE got pregnant again.
Also, does she not realize that washing your face daily and constantly does not help because it can clean your face of the "good" oils. Not eating is also not helping as you need so many calories a day while pregnant. My doctor told me to eat small "meals" all throughout the day but that I needed to eat for my baby's sake and because my body needed it because not eating can also make you sick.


Here is helpful tips Becca because I am not a total bitch and I have "been there" and it sucks.
Try to eat small meals, and snack on things like crackers, cereal without the milk, pretzels, and popsicles.
Don't sleep right after a meal.
When you stand up or sit up, do it slowly to avoid getting dizzy and sicker.
Drink ginger ale and water, just not a lot of water all at one time.
Avoid any foods that make your nausea worse.
If it is too bad, there is nausea medicine out there, tea that helps, and even little lolipops.


And please, I hope you get out of bed to walk around at least 5 times a day unless you are constantly "kicking" your legs because staying in bed can cause a blood clot and you are at a higher risk while pregnant (I have been there and got a blood clot in my leg because I was not getting out of bed enough but I had an excuse - car accident even though I did get out of bed and walk (with help) it was not enough.)
Trust me Becca, you do NOT want to give yourself blood thinner shots if you complain about morning sickness. You would have to do it your entire pregnancy and 3 times a day and not doing the shots could lead to dying, seriously.

[blackbetty]

I had hyperemesis with my first pregnancy. I threw up so often it ruined the enamel on my teeth.

Still worked 2 jobs tho and was asked to work
A double the night before my induction and refused for the first time since I worked there.

[mamamayhem14]

I had hyperemesis with my first pregnancy. I threw up so often it ruined the enamel on my teeth.

Still worked 2 jobs tho and was asked to work
A double the night before my induction and refused for the first time since I worked there.

It is because you are awesome and you would do whatever it takes to provide for yourself/your family and you have drive.
She is the same person that has complained because her baby moved too much and she could not sleep lol.

[Yue195]

Yikes that's angry. Becca, if your face wash foams up like soap or has exfoliating beads ( like a scrub ) stop using it. It's stripping your skin causing more breakouts and making it sensitive.