Playsinrain wrote:ok so my thoughts on this whole video...
I think the time line is honest. they are talking way too candidly about this for this to be something that Britt JUST found out about, also the timing of their video being basically the same day as the wall banger being leaked makes me think that they are telling the truth.Shit hit the fan and they knew that it was time for them to come clean about everything. When the video started i was really hoping that we would hear about how the counseling really helped them get past this and that Brittney would open up about her feelings and reaction and that it would be a great video for someone going through the same thing.... Once they started preaching i was done.. didnt even finished the video. I understand that faith can help you through tough times, but repeating over and over that "Im a sinner too" and "God forgives.." was not what i wanted to hear. It makes me sad that Britt sounds just like Anna Duggar (although the shit Josh did was way more of a shit storm than this), Not so much that Im disappointed that shes staying with Austin, bc I really can't weigh in on that bc I've never been in the situation, but im disappointed that they turned this into a sermon about sin instead of a conversation about the healing process. I do think that this would be easier to forgive than if austin has went out and actually had sex with another woman, but it would take me a VERY long time to heal and trust after something like this. It makes Britt look naive, that shes so flippant about it. what is odd to me is that Brit deleted all her social media. I didnt finish the video so idk if it was addressed or not, but why now? And WHY wasnt Austin stepping away from Social Media one of her conditions of staying with him? Maybe she just doesnt want to see the video? And lord knows people were blowing her up with it. Im glad that they are working things out, even though i dont know if i would do the same if i was in her place. Its a hard thing to think about...
Maybe unpopular opinion, but i also feel bad for Austin. I DO NOT feel bad for his stupid choices and his breaking cardinal rule number one of sending nude pics, and it certainly doesnt give him a pass.. BUT he had photos of him in a compromising position posted without consent. I know 100% that it's his own fault for sending the pics to begin with and its NOT an excuse. But the person who leaked this nonsense is a hateful hateful person. I dont know what frame of mind you have to be in to want to ruin someone like that. if they wanted to make sure Brit knew, they could have just sent the pics to her, blasting them publicly is just dirty and spiteful. Like i said and i will repeat its NOT an excuse for Austin, but that person is just as guilty of ruining a relationship as Austin is and that shouldnt just be ignored.
Im disappointed that my burning question wasnt answered... WHY THE FREAKING WALL???????????
She probably deleted now rather than before, because before, she could heal in peace. Without everyone messaging/commenting about her husband. Whether they be rude comments, awful comments, or supportive comments, she probably just wants peace. Austin said she didn't want the ''extra noise'' and I can understand her deleting now that everyone found out. She needs her privacy. That's the difference. Before nobody knew, whereas now, everyone does.
On Instagram, people were commenting on pictures of just the children and saying awful things to her about Austin, and just constant comments on her Twitter, Instagram and YouTube. It's constant spamming of comments about the same situation that I'm sure she just wants to move on from and she deserves to.
I think that's why she deleted NOW, as opposed to prior. Now everyone knows. Nobody knew before. She had peace before, now she doesn't. So she deleted.
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