The Nive Nulls: Drywall & Jesus - Part 2

[lmmomSD]

I understand at least trying to work on the issues before leaving, because they do have kids. But staying _just_ because of the kids if you can't _really_ forgive him, is also wrong. Kids are smart and can figure things out, and it's better to model a healthy co-parenting ex-spouse relationship than stay and be passive aggressive or be full of recrimination or openly hostile.
Just my two cents. It's been said here that everyone has their own line in the sand, and we obviously don't know what Britt's is, or what she values in their relationship enough to stay.

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[youmustbecrazy]

first time poster..yes we are all different. My line in the sand is a man who comes in my life to make it easy otherwise I don't need your ass. I have always taken care of myself and family. Any self respecting strong woman would never let a man treat her like this. I will never play mind gymnastics with anyone sitting around wondering this and that, please who has time for that. when the trust is gone good luck trying to get it back. When you know your worth you don't mess around. I don't feel sorry for either of them. Britt and her rude, rotten, self hating personality she made her bed now let her husband dry hump it.


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If you've been taken out out of context then please explain what you mean. 'Any self respecting strong woman would never let a man treat her like this'. 'Like this'. if you're not saying that women who stay after cheating have no self respect, what does 'like this' mean then?

And the last sentence about her personality and saying she made her bed? Please clarify because you make it sound (to me) like her husband did this because of her personality? Like she deserves it?

[tryburch]

No I am good, too many assumptions being thought up. I will go back to reading what you all have to say on the topic.

[ghostgrrl]

I understand at least trying to work on the issues before leaving, because they do have kids. But staying _just_ because of the kids if you can't _really_ forgive him, is also wrong. Kids are smart and can figure things out, and it's better to model a healthy co-parenting ex-spouse relationship than stay and be passive aggressive or be full of recrimination or openly hostile.
Just my two cents. It's been said here that everyone has their own line in the sand, and we obviously don't know what Britt's is, or what she values in their relationship enough to stay.

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That right there. Also I didn't mean to come off as approving those that called Britt rotten, or said she didn't respect herself... But there were people who literally just said they personally would leave in that situation and people were freaking. We're all entitled to an opinion (not a response to you or this post, ImmomSD).

[youmustbecrazy]

I understand at least trying to work on the issues before leaving, because they do have kids. But staying _just_ because of the kids if you can't _really_ forgive him, is also wrong. Kids are smart and can figure things out, and it's better to model a healthy co-parenting ex-spouse relationship than stay and be passive aggressive or be full of recrimination or openly hostile.
Just my two cents. It's been said here that everyone has their own line in the sand, and we obviously don't know what Britt's is, or what she values in their relationship enough to stay.

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I agree. Although I can only imagine what it might feel like to be in her position - I don't think you would know for sure straight away if I could forgive or not. Like, working on it for the sake of the kids to me would be like 'OK, let's go to counselling and work on things and reasses in a year whether this thing is going to survive' or something like that.

[Sapphire]

first time poster..yes we are all different. My line in the sand is a man who comes in my life to make it easy otherwise I don't need your ass. I have always taken care of myself and family. Any self respecting strong woman would never let a man treat her like this. I will never play mind gymnastics with anyone sitting around wondering this and that, please who has time for that. when the trust is gone good luck trying to get it back. When you know your worth you don't mess around. I don't feel sorry for either of them. Britt and her rude, rotten, self hating personality she made her bed now let her husband dry hump it.


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If you've been taken out out of context then please explain what you mean. 'Any self respecting strong woman would never let a man treat her like this'. 'Like this'. if you're not saying that women who stay after cheating have no self respect, what does 'like this' mean then?

And the last sentence about her personality and saying she made her bed? Please clarify because you make it sound (to me) like her husband did this because of her personality? Like she deserves it?

^^^this. It's genuine curiosity because I am one who took what you said the wrong way and it seems like you didn't mean it in the way that it was perceived.

Anyway, we're clogging up the thread with this. If anything, we can private message eachother to understand the other's misunderstanding/intention better. I think you have some good things to say and some valid opinions and I do apologize if I took your message the wrong way. We can move on and get back to speculating as to why Austin picked a wall of all things.

[cjwilkins1]

Link?


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[ferriswheel]

There is no link to the video anymore. Please stop registering and asking for it, at least contribute to the conversation.

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[sadie]

I'd like to know how the video got removed from everywhere lol. I thought once something was online it was there FOREVER! At least that's what people warn will happen.

Also lol but I thought there was gonna be like a hole in the wall that he was fucking lol but according to comments he was just rubbing his dick on the wall hahahhahaha him and his family must be so embarrassed.

[VJ13]

Everyone just needs to get the heck over it! These people are beyond boring anyway.

[Eponine24601]

SHHHHHHH


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[blackbetty]

So boring you had to comment lol

Anyway, I just handed out 3 more temp bans... Anyone else wanna ask for the link?

Sadie - you didn't miss much. If you look at my to the window, to the wall meme, you've almost seen the video.

Just imagine him making weird faces and dry humping for like 15 seconds while a haunting sandpaper like sound is heard every time he hits the wall.

[ghostgrrl]

I'd like to know how the video got removed from everywhere lol. I thought once something was online it was there FOREVER! At least that's what people warn will happen.

Also lol but I thought there was gonna be like a hole in the wall that he was fucking lol but according to comments he was just rubbing his dick on the wall hahahhahaha him and his family must be so embarrassed.

As it was posted to tumblr, pretty much the only way their support team will remove anything is if it's "copyright infringement". Honestly I'm pretty surprised he was able to get it off so quickly; tumblr support sucks and has a terrible reputation for being too lax when it comes to things like this.

[actuallydear]

I'd like to know how the video got removed from everywhere lol. I thought once something was online it was there FOREVER! At least that's what people warn will happen.

Also lol but I thought there was gonna be like a hole in the wall that he was fucking lol but according to comments he was just rubbing his dick on the wall hahahhahaha him and his family must be so embarrassed.

Honestly I'm pretty surprised he was able to get it off so quickly

To be fair, we don't know how long it took him. That wasn't in the video.

Is there another video? LINK LINK LINK

/sarcasm

[meganshay]

I'd like to know how the video got removed from everywhere lol. I thought once something was online it was there FOREVER! At least that's what people warn will happen.

Also lol but I thought there was gonna be like a hole in the wall that he was fucking lol but according to comments he was just rubbing his dick on the wall hahahhahaha him and his family must be so embarrassed.

Honestly I'm pretty surprised he was able to get it off so quickly

To be fair, we don't know how long it took him. That wasn't in the video.

Is there another video? LINK LINK LINK

/sarcasm

Dead.


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[NotTheMama13]

If this man says "everyone makes mistakes" one more time.



I hate when people do that. It's trying to water down your stupidity. When I make mistakes, I make them. It doesn't matter that anyone else has messed up - if I did wrong, I did it. Whenever Austin said anything in the video or in his tweets since, he says something along the lines of "well, yes, this was a mistake, but it's not a big deal because everyone does it."

No, not everyone cheats on their wife, very stupidly sends explicit videos to a stranger, and meanwhile puts his life on the Internet so his child can easily Google all of this one day.

Own it, Austin, and you'll have a much better platform.


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[Jessi31]

Everyone who wants the link (that doesn't exist anymore) should think themselves lucky they didn't see the video. That shit is forever burned into my cornea's. If my Husband ever did that I would take his "pee pee" and shove it where the sun don't shine. Austin is so gross.


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[kyliejimjam]

The mistakes thing annoyed me. There's making mistakes and then there's making a mistake which means you've lied consistently well, over a long period, hidden stuff from the person you made vows to, did something completely alien to the persona you put across, made your self look like a hypocrite, made a mistake where your own narcissism and need to look "hot" is plastered all over the Internet and finally, made it look like you had a really odd fetish that most people have probably never even heard of. It was certainly a new one on me.
I think that's a bit more than most people's average mistakes but hey that's just me. I'm not a Christian, I clearly don't have Austin and Britt's idea of being a sinner. I don't think what he did is a "sin," it was just bloody stupid, narcissistic and arrogant and he literally got caught with his pants down.
OT, He's lucky he's not British as the British tabloids would have it on their front page! Years ago we had a very prominent member of Parliament called Paddy Ashdown who had an affair. The sun newspaper nicknamed him "Paddy Pantsdown" and boy, did it stick!


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[arden]

What I really truly don't get is the fact that they continued to vlog,they took a week off,if you watch their worlds best mommy video then that's when they mention taking a break, but a week to deal with a 5 month relationship your husband had with another man/woman? Britney just went along with everything and made these videos portraying this fun happy family when those were suppps sly the hardest months of their marriage. It's all fake,it's as fake as these reality shows on tv.

[Upallnight]

What I really truly don't get is the fact that they continued to vlog,they took a week off,if you watch their worlds best mommy video then that's when they mention taking a break, but a week to deal with a 5 month relationship your husband had with another man/woman? Britney just went along with everything and made these videos portraying this fun happy family when those were suppps sly the hardest months of their marriage. It's all fake,it's as fake as these reality shows on tv.

That "fun happy family" is how they make money. Most people keep these issues hidden from everyone but their closest family and friends especially if they are trying to work things out. I don't blame Brittany for putting on a happy face because that's what paid her bills. I'm sure they aren't the only family on YT with personal issues they keep off camera. It just sucks for her because a very personal and embarrassing situation is now being talked about by thousands of people.


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