RaisingEyebrows part 46

[RootBeerFloatie]

Stay in school, kids.

[HelloHayley]

I have nothing to do with tayler working or not working. I could tell her to get a job and if she doesn't want to or can't that's her not me . I worry about my family . Shit mother ? Cause I'm friends with her . If you think that fine but my parenting has nothing to do with her being my friend .

[hannahbanana]

I understand Hayley coming on here to clear that it was chuckie admitting doing drugs, not chuckie admiring Dustin for doing that. This is why it's important to read what type before you post because one autocorrect can cause a great misunderstanding...
But please don't come here and start talking about how she's such a damn good mom. You may not post your life out there like she does, but you do instigate a lot and come off as immature like she does in comments and in vlogs (calling each other welfare queens, saying that you'll both go down on Caitlyn Jenner etc).

[twomommies]

Ugh. I wish we could just throw this complaining Welfare Queen trash into a third world country so maybe they wouldn't be so proud to be collecting from the government. I'd be so embarrassed.

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[HelloHayley]

Lol I'll admit at times I can be immature . I won't lie . The only help I have through the government is medical . Dustin makes to much for us to be on anything else and I'm not one to mess with the system . The welfare queen thing was a joke because of a comment on yt lol.

[AutumnLane]

I'm sorry but anybody who can condone the life she is giving those three little kids is a shit person. Where was she when Alesana cut her hair off...again. She has ONE job to look after her kids when they are not in school or at Chuck's parents house and she can't even do that. She can't afford Christmas presents but as a friend you don't find it strange she can afford hair dye, Weed, alcohol and tattoos? All those things came before she paid her utility bill so her in-laws had to pay it? That's not how the real world works. You can't have kids and then pawn the cost off on everybody else.


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[HelloHayley]

Actually I have talked to her about those things .

[HelloHayley]

I can't force her to do anything any more then yall can .

[AutumnLane]

Let me guess she told you the world is working against her came up with every excuse in the book including let's make a list ladies!

I never treat myself
I don't have a babysitter
I have a learning disability
I have a mental illnesses
I don't have a car
I don't have a ride
I don't have a license
I'm to good for the welfare bus
I won't be hired because I modified
I won't be hired because I'm a teen mom

Also after talking with you for even just a few minutes you seem to have more sense than her. At least you are not making excuses for her. I give you credit in that department.

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[SomethingGoodCanWork]

I actually do think it reflects back on you if one of your closest friends is a shit mom.

I had a best friend who purposely got pregnant by a loser, abusive drug addict knowing he had other kids he didn't do shit for. He didn't stick around so now she's a single mom of course. She somehow thinks she has a right to be a stay at home mom anyway and is in section 8, on food stamps, government medical, etc. The whole nine yards. She is not a nurturing, caring mother to her child, she is much like Tayler and just sees the girl as a little sibling she's babysitting. She is almost 30 with no GED or anything and no job. I had to drop her as a friend, I cannot be friends with someone I do not respect and I cannot respect a "mother" like that...

[AutumnLane]

I actually do think it reflects back on you if one of your closest friends is a shit mom.

I had a best friend who purposely got pregnant by a loser, abusive drug addict knowing he had other kids he didn't do shit for. He didn't stick around so now she's a single mom of course. She somehow thinks she has a right to be a stay at home mom anyway and is in section 8, on food stamps, government medical, etc. The whole nine yards. She is not a nurturing, caring mother to her child, she is much like Tayler and just sees the girl as a little sibling she's babysitting. She is almost 30 with no GED or anything and no job. I had to drop her as a friend, I cannot be friends with someone I do not respect and I cannot respect a "mother" like that...

Exactly yes I can so relate to this on every level. My best friend from middle school/high school took the exact same path but it wasn't until I became a mother myself I could really see the light. I had to drop her as a friend because I just couldn't stand to witness the situation continue to get worse over time. It was emotionally draining. My own mother keeps tabs on her and fills me in from time to time. But I knew enough one to leave that friendship behind because in a way although I was giving her good advice I was condoning her poor behavior and choices. Knocked up in high school she had three kids by the time she was 21. Of course terrible choices all along the way.


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[HelloHayley]

Tayler can't get a job right now and honestly that has nothing to do with me . If you knew her you'd know she is working on it . It takes time . I'm not here to argue I was simply telling yall that something was worded wrong .

[twomommies]

It doesn't take time if you follow up instead of waiting on your ass like you're the damn queen

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[leem91]

If all you did was come on here to correct something you worded wrong then why are you still here, Hayley?

[SomethingGoodCanWork]

She had a fucking job and quit after one shift.

She can feign her mental illness but her "such severe mental illness" doesn't stop her from posting nudes on public social media or going to every concert she can, etc. It's bullshit. There are people with cancer, kidney failure, autism, down syndrome, etc aka way worse deficits than whatever she may have who hold down jobs.

And yeah, you corrected that one little sentence, now you are just making yourself look worse trying to white knight Tayler on here.

[HelloHayley]

Answering questions . If I get questions or " attacked " saying I'm trash I'm gonna clear things up .

[SomethingGoodCanWork]

You are responding to much more than the one person who indirectly may have called you trash...

[HelloHayley]

All I said was she's trying . Other then that I have said shit about myself .

[hannahbanana]

Lol I'll admit at times I can be immature . I won't lie . The only help I have through the government is medical . Dustin makes to much for us to be on anything else and I'm not one to mess with the system . The welfare queen thing was a joke because of a comment on yt lol.

Wow how sad that you still think the welfare queen joke is still funny to you. And from what I can remember, the comment was directed to Tayler, not you because I remember you saying that Dustin made too much money. You just like to instigate a lot and involve yourself in things that don't have to do with you. yes, everyone acts immature when they're with their friends, the difference is that we don't go around and post it on YT for the world to see. Like said above, you hang out with shitty moms, people will assume that you're a shitty mom as well. I would drop Tayler (before she drops you), because from what you're telling us, she doesn't listen at all nor has done anything to better her life. Last thing you want is have a friend like that in your life.

[HelloHayley]

The comment was " welfare queens " with a s .. therfore directed twords us both . If people want to assume I'm a shit mom because of my friends that's fine . It's not my problem my kids family and anyone who knows me knows differently .