RaisingEyebrows part 46

[lmmomSD]

Guess I missed my chance... I was spending time with my child.

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[oh4thelawls]

huurrr huuurr duuurrr i can talk good i ain't no welfare queen huuurrr duuurrr

[ladymama]

So I don't know too much about Tayler, have only been following for a little while.

BUT I need to clear up some mental health comments in here.

Quick personal briefing before I make my point. I have PTSD from being molested by my brother as a kid, and my daughter was conceived in a rape. I also have Borderline Personality Disorder. I don't work because after a week or two I end up with suicidal thoughts. I am not on government assistance simply because my partner works.

Now to the point.
There are SO many mental illnesses that can keep people from working. Anxiety, depression, paranoia, and so on and so forth, get too much for some people. Also, a symptom of BPD is being reckless and making reckless choices. Which is not an excuse for the shit she does, but it may be the reason for a lot of her behaviour.

I don't think people with mental illness should accept that as life and live in personal hell. I think we should all fight to be the best we can be. But the amount of ignorance surrounding mental health on this thread is astounding. This girl is fucked up, and she makes bad decisions, but don't shit on those of us with mental illness because of her.

Mental illness is an illness just like cancer. It eats at you mentally and physically.


Tayler, if you read this, I believe in your mental illnesses, and you NEED to get help. For yourself and for your kids. Be honest, be open, and work on being a better person.

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[SomethingGoodCanWork]

I have BPD, too. And I get what you are saying but just as a person with diabetes or kidney failure has a responsibility to seek treatment, we have a responsibility (especially as mothers) to seek treatment for our mental illness/personality disorders. Tayler has never done anything to get any help at all. I am sorry for what you have gone through and do know that some severe cases of mental illness can prevent coping in a work environment but the thing with Tayler is, she is only mentally ill when it suits her. She is only mentally ill when it comes to working or schooling, she is not mentally ill when it comes to going to concerts, the mall, hanging out and smoking pot with loser randos around her kids, etc. I'm sorry but I just feel like she makes a mockery out of mental illness/personality disorders... Most opinions here are referring to Tayler's supposed mental illness and lack of self help, not meant to be taken as a generalizations.

[lily1995]

Whatever happened to Tayler getting help? Did she just get a mental health evaluation and then didn't bother to seek treatment? I thought the kids were going to therapy too.

[hannahbanana]

So she cleared her IG because of the fight earlier and doesn't want to be accused of lying. If you're not lying about anything, why do you need to delete everything? Especially when she's already deleted the pictures of her bruises and FB post. What do pictures of the kids and dog have anything to do with her lying? Seems to me like she's being investigated on...

[placebo]

Tayler and Chuckie have both had hard core prescription meds to their name. They can be just as dangerous and hc as off the street heroin or lsd.

Also, Hayley, what about Tayler ignoring the recommendation for Jakoby to attend speech therapy? What's Tayler's excuse for that? Being better than professionals at their jobs?

Also, what's your opinion on her getting a dog she very clearly can't afford?

[SomethingGoodCanWork]

She has medicaid and could get a psychiatrist, psychotherapy and medication for FREE. She chooses not to.

Her kids definitely need therapy as well. She mentioned them all (including herself) getting therapy very briefly, like once or twice and that was it. She's obviously not following up with it because we would never hear the end of it if she were on psych meds and going to a therapist, we would get play by plays of her sessions via instagram weekly.

[mamamayhem14]

In my opinion (also struggled with anxiety/depression/etc) some people need jobs to keep their minds busy and from going crazy. She tends to "clean" or play on social media a ton and doesn't seem to tend much to her children therefore I believe a job would benefit her a lot. I don't work as my husband makes enough but my kids keep me busy (and they are wayyy too attached for me to not be nearby for too long and I breastfeed still) but I've held jobs and would be willing to work to provide for my children because honestly when you are busy it keeps your mind busy. Working helped me a lot because I was too busy to think about the negative stuff and when I got home I was too tired to worry about social media. I do understand that some people have real issues that can cause problems with having a job but I don't believe Tayler is one of those people. I think she would benefit from a job and feel good knowing she is bringing in an income. I don't want her to hinder herself or use anxiety as a crutch to not try. I personally think working as a housekeeper at a hotel would be great for her. They have a high turn over rate so she would more than likely get the job, most of the guests are gone when she would clean, and she claims to be OCD and she would get paid.

[SunnyLove]

She's back to posting pics of her bruise. GIRL! It's annoying. If I got beat to a pulp would I post it for the world to see and keep bringing it up? I don't think so.. I don't want to say get over it, and move on because that seems insensitive to abuse victims but.. Get over it! I just can't stand people who keep bringing things up so they can get a pity party.

[sadie]

Hayley come back I wanna know about tayler's new man. How old is he and what does he do for a living?

[lily1995]

I can't stand people who thrive on being a victim (whether they actually are or not) she is so fucking pathetic, I can't get over how hard she is trying to get sympathy.

[Yue195]

Why is she blasting on social media? Go to the cops!!! File a domestic violence order! Or is she scared they're gonna find out she's being full of shit, again?

[mommaof2cuties]

Why is she blasting on social media? Go to the cops!!! File a domestic violence order! Or is she scared they're gonna find out she's being full of shit, again?

Last I saw she said that there was a protection order for her and the kids until court or something

[SilverLady01]

She has posted on the 5th that she has full custody until court. The court date is on 14th.
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[Primadxnna]

She has medicaid and could get a psychiatrist, psychotherapy and medication for FREE. She chooses not to.

Her kids definitely need therapy as well. She mentioned them all (including herself) getting therapy very briefly, like once or twice and that was it. She's obviously not following up with it because we would never hear the end of it if she were on psych meds and going to a therapist, we would get play by plays of her sessions via instagram weekly.

She probably thinks she's too good for free help but ironically has no problem living off of the government.

Also, she wiped out her instagram too.




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[Primadxnna]

Literally no one cares what you have to say. Your friend is tras . She's never gonna amount to anything. She's gonna ride the welfare gravy train for as long as she can before they'll cut her off. She will more than likely end up back with Chuckie. Their wedding anniversary is next month after all. Gotta bring that baby #4 in to the world. She doesn't deserve the kids she has now. How long until she threatens to kill them again? How long until one of them seriously ends up injured again because she has her face buried in her phone or whatever nasty bum guy she brings around next trying to make Chuckie jealous ? Don't you have kids to take care of too or are you a piss poor excuse of a mother too like your bff?

Why wasn't she arrested if she threatened to kill her children?!

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[Metalheadmama666]

I watched her video. From what I see. Something happened. I don't believe he was there just to warm up. Bet he spent the night and in the morning the fight started. Sure she's banged up and that sucks. But making out like she's a survival role model makes me side eye her. She's really milking this. Probably so it looks worse for court.

I feel so bad for the kids.

Personal thing here - I have horrible anxiety and depression. My youngest is 5 months old. I'm finally get a hang on it. I'm actually driving. Taking my oldest to preschool. Took medication and a good counsellor.


I hope she finds help soon!

[lmmomSD]

I've wondered all along if he didn't spend the night, WTF was he doing there at 5 am? He came knocking on her door, and she actually let him in at 5am? Oh, yeah. That makes a lot of sense. Not.

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[Primadxnna]

I watched her video. From what I see. Something happened. I don't believe he was there just to warm up. Bet he spent the night and in the morning the fight started. Sure she's banged up and that sucks. But making out like she's a survival role model makes me side eye her. She's really milking this. Probably so it looks worse for court.

I feel so bad for the kids.

Personal thing here - I have horrible anxiety and depression. My youngest is 5 months old. I'm finally get a hang on it. I'm actually driving. Taking my oldest to preschool. Took medication and a good counsellor.


I hope she finds help soon!

That whole survivor thing is just bullshit to me. I don't think that he's capable of actually killing the mother of his children and all that (after reading what Sara had to say). It's obviously not as terrible as she makes it seem because of all the posts. Also, the video talking comfortably about it the day after it happened.

And that's great, congrats!! ️ I've also suffered from severe anxiety and it feels so good to finally get help and be able to bounce back to a normal life. ️


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