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[westwuff]

I agree with Gymchick. Sapphire clearly is feeling a lot of volatile emotions. We may not be able to understand and Sapphire may not even understand completely why she's said some of the things she has posted, but she shouldn't be ridiculed and antagonized. Imagine feeling emotions so powerfully that you cannot make straightforward logical decisions..

[nmkstj]

Don't forget Alice, AnOceanLover, and Lizardqueen... all from that original sapphire and her 18 personalities thread.

[sarahshortcake]

I agree with Gymchick. Sapphire clearly is feeling a lot of volatile emotions. We may not be able to understand and Sapphire may not even understand completely why she's said some of the things she has posted, but she shouldn't be ridiculed and antagonized. Imagine feeling emotions so powerfully that you cannot make straightforward logical decisions..

No, she shouldn't. While we may joke that we've missed her and such every time we have extended to her our desire that she gets help and used her seemingly endless internet access to find resources to help her deal with her issues.

If I remember correctly her ip registered in Canada.

[Theirmom]

I'm just pissed that one of her incarnations (Motheringthem) could so easily be confused with my username.

It almost feels intentional


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[saltliferocks]

What if she did something to hurt herself, and that's why she's being so quiet?

[Theirmom]

What if she did something to hurt herself, and that's why she's being so quiet?

Nah, she's relishing that the tides have turned and she's now getting sympathy instead of disdain. This fits her pattern.

Angry outburst
Defensive bickering
Woe is me
Sunbathes in a sea of sympathy
Joins in on the gossip gleefully while rug weeping previous outburst
And when the asspats stop because she takes some of the gossiping too far and some members call her out on it, the cycle starts over.

She'll be back.


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[nmkstj]

Don't give her any ideas to threaten suicide on here to make us feel guilty. She would seriously love it. She is the type who just thrives over any attention. I feel like paying any attention to her or "feeding" the troll is like giving a drug addict a fix. The more we get excited to interact with her the more she enjoys the attention she receives. I feel like a ban and move on is the best course of action, but of course I'm not a mod so I'm just going to stop interacting with her.

[GymChick]

I just don't get a troll vibe from her, I get a mental health vibe. Like border line personality vibe- which actually matches the description of what you described above (wanting attention/sympathy and creating scenarios for getting that attention)

[westwuff]

^^^^^^^^

[actuallydear]

You made up the fact that you had a fucking miscarriage in the past. You fucking lied about a miscarriage. You created a fake Facebook page and said that Missy wrote these horrible things about your fake miscarriage to you. You don't seem to get that you are the most pathetic one of all. Get off of YTMD and get some fucking help.

You have no fucking idea what I've been through and what I've lost. Go back in threads, I NEVER admitted to NOT having suffered a loss.

Maybe if you stopped making shit up people may start to believe you when you tell them about your tragedies. Instead, you continue to lie and reinvent yourself with a whole new set of sob stories. We feel taken advantage of and it does make me question a lot of new participants because YOU KEEP COMING BACK. We can't get emotionally invested in each new user who claims they have lost a child, had eating disorders, been personally attacked by the you tubers we are discussing. I come here for fun not to feel drained by other participants constantly lying about everyone and everything.

In all seriousness though, this forum cannot help you recover from all your issues, whatever they may be. I truly hope you seek the help you need. Best wishes.

[rock_on]

It's pretty obvious Sapphire has some mental health problem, is in need of attention and has an unhealty obsession with this site. She wants to be here, she wants to be a part of the group, she wants to be considered popular and have attention from the most active members on here. However, she is too emotionally unstable to keep her emotions/opinions under control and ends up going off on people. It's obvious Sapphire, ocean breeze, mothering them and all her 50 personality are the same person. I don't even think this is about B&M anymore, she's legit obsessed with this site and what people think about her to the point of creating multiple fake accounts. Like she would say something, would be told otherwise and there would be a bunch of new poster agreeing with her. She's acting like she doesn't care about being banned but she will be back, I can bet you 100$ that in a week there will be a new poster with some sob back story and the same verbatim than Sapphire. I swear I always spot her but never say anything by fear of being wrong. This bitch is starting to be the where is waldo of the DB thread.

Sapphire if you read this, I don't hate you but this forum is clearly exacerbating your issues and your distress. You deserve something more fullfiling in your life and I really think you should put your energy into something that would make you happy instead of something that is clearly not helping you feel better.

[Sapphire]

So, if you're one of the suspected accounts... speak now. Prove your innocence.

Accounts We Know Of:

SapphireTrinity (OG)
SapphireIn2016
MotheringThem
Ocean
Alice
Lizardqueen

Suspected Accounts:
flowerchildmommy
Fallonlynn

I was SapphireTrinity, which was my first and original.
Then I became Ocean, then Alice, then Lizardqueen. After those were all banned, I decided I'd leave because I burnt bridges. A few months later, I came back as Motheringthem, in attempt that enough time had passed that hopefully I could start over. For a while, I did. I had a lot of fun here. When I'm '' stable '' I'm okay. I'm self aware, opinionated, very kind. When I'm not emotionally stable, I sabotage things. I can't get a hold of my emotions. I forget who I am and honestly, it's like I go back to everything that caused pain in my life all, at once like a movie, and then I lash out. So no, nobody was here was dealing with a normal person who just likes to troll. I don't think anyone really likes being a troll. I wouldn't have kept coming back if my original account was remaining.
I'm just emotionally unstable, deeply unhappy and very, very, very, very depressed.

No, I wasn't flowerchildmommy or Fallonlynn. I was just a lurker when flowerchildmommy was here and I didn't really like Fallonlynn. I actually told her off once as Motheringthem when she gave actuallydear attitude for welcoming her if I remember correctly.

I don't have anything to lose in real life. I don't have a child because I lost him. I don't have a husband. I got together with my best friend and I got pregnant. He didn't want to have anything to do with me when he found out I was pregnant but I was so happy. Unfortunately I lost him.
I lost my parents a long while ago. I despised Missy because she was poster girl for everything I wanted and everything she had, she takes for granted. A husband who loves her, a mom and dad who adore her and drop everything for her and beautiful kids. That's where my seemingly unjustified hatred came from as sapphiretrinity.

Imagine seeing someone who has everything you want and they take all of it for granted.

[Sapphire]

I don't have anything left to lose, I don't have what I '' should '' have. I feel like everyone should have a mom and dad. I don't. I almost had a happy family. I had a boyfriend who was my best friend. I got pregnant, everything was great until later in the pregnancy when I lost the baby. My boyfriend left and wanted nothing to do with me after that.

It was when I lost my child that I really went crazy. Got a therapist, was honest with her and eventually she told me that '' I'd have to get over it eventually and why are you in so much pain, your baby wasn't here yet. '' So obviously I left her, found a new one who was great for a while until she left.

Eventually I was just using the internet, minding my own business until I found this site. I read and people were hilarious and I found out that other people hated Missy too. I found out that other people had also went through the same thing I did. So eventually I joined.
That's kind of the back story. And you know all know what happened from there until now.

[Sapphire]

Kryptonite, honestly, I'm not going to lie.

I could leave and I'd probably stay away for a few months or so. But I cannot promise that in a fit, I won't come back and try to fit in. I'm not a bad person. I got along with people. I was normal. I had valid points. I tried to have more sense in regards to Missy and not completely resent her for taking for granted everything I wanted and lost. I wasn't '' mean '' to anyone. I was an active member. I mostly kept things on topic (as my recent account Motheringthem).
Eventually, my unhappiness becomes very hard to ignore and I grieve. Then it becomes difficult to get a hold of my emotions and breathe through them. Then I get angry because I shouldn't have this kind of pain. Then it becomes difficult to express exactly what's going on because it's like everything in my mind becomes a big tornado mess.

That's kind of what happens. Episodes like that don't last very long. Nobody's in danger when they are around me, not that I have anyone around. But if someone were, I'd just isolate away. I like isolating because I don't want to get too attached to anyone out of fear that I lose someone.
I wouldn't ever hurt someone. I'm unstable but I'm not THAT kind of unstable. I care about people.

I'm not Bryan's minion. I'm not Missy's minion. I hated Missy for reasons I stated above. Bryan seemed like a better dad who at least didn't take his wife for granted and he loves Oliver and Finn. Is he a wonderful dad? No. So I'd appreciate it if everyone could stop calling me a minion and wanting Bryan's attention and making jokes about it for the sake of being funny. It's not funny.

[RootBeerFloatie]

A breakdown of Sapphire's past lies and stories because I have nothing better to do before work:

http://ytmommadrama.com/search.php?st=0 ... r_id=21178

A search of sapphire's posts with the word husband. Not all of them are about her fictional husband but some of them are, all lies.

http://ytmommadrama.com/search.php?st=0 ... r_id=21178

She claims several times to have had a stillborn baby girl in these posts.

I can't search for posts with son in it because it's not four letters (which is stupid because it's a word) but the general theme is that she's got a living son born after the stillbirth.

http://ytmommadrama.com/search.php?st=0 ... 8&start=25

She has a few posts about how her single mother was great, took care of her when her father left, and is now a wonderful grandmother, implying she's still alive.

Nowhere in her post history does she mention an eating disorder.

She does claim to have gotten pregnant again and lost the baby sometime between doctoring fake facebook conversations with Bryan about an entirely different loss. When confronted she disappeared due to that miscarriage, but quickly came back with more doctored "proof."

Above, you can see her story now. No husband, no son, no stillbirth, just one miscarriage.

[rock_on]

Sapphire I know you are hurting, whatever your story is. However for me and I guess alot of posters, it's hard to believe you when you have told so many different story. The things you have done are concerning whatever your story is, myself and i'm sure many posters have had horrible childhood, yet we don't act like that. Hell, some posters have admitted to having a mental illness and still don't act like that.

I can see you are hurting, at this point I believe this is a cry for help and I can hear you, but you won't find the kind of help and fullfillement you need on a gossip forum. I don't think you can get efficient therapy on the internet. I would strongly encourage you to log off this site, find a good therapist and work on finding things that really make you value yourself. Trolling a gossip site won't help you and I believe the more we talk about you and to you, the more it obviously feeds some issues you have and is clearly not helping you, so this is the last thing I will ever say about you and I really don't think the mod should allow you to come back since it's obviously detrimental to you. But anyway that's just my two cents, sorry if that offense anyone.

[Sapphire]

I didn't miscarry. I did have a stillbirth. Again, I could prove that with just one picture.

Nobody has to believe me necessarily. But people wanted an explanation. That's the explanation. There's a reason why I'm messed up and it's not because it's a hobby.

[RootBeerFloatie]

http://ytmommadrama.com/viewtopic.php?f ... 07#p688907

Oh and here's where she made a new account, told herself to go "get raped" and then revealed that she was sexually abused as a child.

And fine one stillbirth, no miscarriage. I'm sure you can prove it with a picture, just the way you proved that Bryan and Missy said nasty things to you on facebook.

[westwuff]

Seriously, Root and others, stop antagonizing her. Does it really matter if you are right at this point?

[saltliferocks]

Sapphire, I think you need to look for a psychiatrist as well a therapist. You need medication to treat your mental illness. You appear to have more going on than depression. I am sure you would have a more positive experience with therapy, if your brain chemistry was not so unbalanced. Your quality of life could be much better than it currently is. You really need to find professionals to help you. I don't think you can handle your problems without professional help.