HayleeAndBaby: Part 2

[EleanorRigby]

We have received several reports on posts mentioning where she works. After discussion with a few of the other mods we decided that she works for a public place, therefore we have no obligation to keep that private. Not to mention ya'll have mentioned several different stores she works at, so it's mostly speculation. And it seems it's not a very well kept secret anyways.

[fossilfinger]

I just watched the GoFundMe video and I can't help thinking that if I were filming such a video with my own mom, even if she consented to film the video there is no way in hell she'd let me post it. And I don't think I could post a video like that in good conscience, either. Ignoring the fact that they are asking for money, which I can understand in extreme situations even if I wouldn't do it myself, they could have at least taken some time to calm down, discuss how they could film the video in a composed manner, and then re-post it. I really think it was in bad taste to keep the video with them crying. I know their emotions were genuine, but if I were Haylee I would be so embarrassed about showing my mom like that, I just don't think I could do it.

[honeybear]

Just say "I work retail." There's PLENTY of people who do! No shame, especially if she's studying to do better!

Exactly!

[amykay]

She doesn't work at Lowes though lol

[alyshamne]

She's been very quiet on social media lately. Not like her at all.


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[hey girl hey007]

That reaction was so fake. If I would have raised enough money for something like that I wouldn't just casually play it off. She's still getting more money on top if that!

[Lovehound11]

What was the "one and done" about?


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[hey girl hey007]

What was the "one and done" about?


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Mainly her complaining/fishing for me compliments about how good of a sister she is. She also saw that she reached her goal, which she seemed like she could care less about. I stopped after that. I helped raise my brother, there's a 15 year gap between the two of us and I never complained as much as she did or nor did I ever ask for people to give me pats on the back for helping take care of him. That's what being a sister is about.

[Blueberry]

I don't think she was fishing for compliments, she was being honest that she can't handle that many kids. Also she was going to be taking her siblings to appointments when she had to work that night and was going to be taking her sister to another appointment after not sleeping all night. That's a lot on her plate especially when they're not her kids. Shit, id be crying lol. Good for her for sucking it up.

[nela7]

She doesn't work at Lowes though lol

That's not what her Instagram award said.

[amykay]

She doesn't work at Lowes though lol

That's not what her Instagram award said.

her Instagram award was the "Homer Award." Google it. It's Home Depot.

[Maxxinsta96]

I feel like that go fund me money are going to go to her and Randy's pockets. I don't believe it's really for her grandpas surgery. Her family seems to be middle class.
I personally think that was so tacky her using YouTube. I'm sorry but I would never ask my "fans" for money.

[amykay]

I feel like that go fund me money are going to go to her and Randy's pockets. I don't believe it's really for her grandpas surgery. Her family seems to be middle class.
I personally think that was so tacky her using YouTube. I'm sorry but I would never ask my "fans" for money.

I doubt it. I'm sure the money is going towards her grandfather. Otherwise why would she also be working overnights?

I do think it's a bit odd that she is leaving Hazzel overnight with Randy every night through.

[honeybear]

I feel like that go fund me money are going to go to her and Randy's pockets. I don't believe it's really for her grandpas surgery. Her family seems to be middle class.
I personally think that was so tacky her using YouTube. I'm sorry but I would never ask my "fans" for money.

I doubt it. I'm sure the money is going towards her grandfather. Otherwise why would she also be working overnights?

I do think it's a bit odd that she is leaving Hazzel overnight with Randy every night through.

How is that "odd"? They live together. It's not odd at all.

[amykay]

I feel like that go fund me money are going to go to her and Randy's pockets. I don't believe it's really for her grandpas surgery. Her family seems to be middle class.
I personally think that was so tacky her using YouTube. I'm sorry but I would never ask my "fans" for money.

I doubt it. I'm sure the money is going towards her grandfather. Otherwise why would she also be working overnights?

I do think it's a bit odd that she is leaving Hazzel overnight with Randy every night through.

How is that "odd"? They live together. It's not odd at all.

because he's not her father. She hasn't even known him for 2 years and they just started living together a few months ago. I wouldn't feel comfortable leaving my almost 4 year old. But maybe that's just my cautious side coming out.

[ladymama]

Y'all are delusional on this thread. If she trusts Randy (which she obviously does) it's fine. 2years is no small amount of time.

Kids are molested, beat and killed by their own parents, and by family members they have known for their whole lives.

If she had known him for a few months it would be a different story, but then again how long do you know a babysitter before you let them watch your kids?

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[amykay]

Y'all are delusional on this thread. If she trusts Randy (which she obviously does) it's fine. 2years is no small amount of time.

Kids are molested, beat and killed by their own parents, and by family members they have known for their whole lives.

If she had known him for a few months it would be a different story, but then again how long do you know a babysitter before you let them watch your kids?

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yeah I'm delusional because I have my own opinion.

And I wouldn't know because the only person who's ever babysat my kids is my own mother

[ladymama]

Y'all are delusional on this thread. If she trusts Randy (which she obviously does) it's fine. 2years is no small amount of time.

Kids are molested, beat and killed by their own parents, and by family members they have known for their whole lives.

If she had known him for a few months it would be a different story, but then again how long do you know a babysitter before you let them watch your kids?

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yeah I'm delusional because I have my own opinion.

And I wouldn't know because the only person who's ever babysat my kids is my own mother

Sorry, the word I meant to use was dramatic.

Usually a parent meets the sitter for an interview of sorts, then spends a day or two with the sitter and the child to see how they interact.

I was molested by my brother from ages 9-13 (he is a year older) and as a young adult I was raped by someone I had been friends with for nearly 5 years. You can know someone your whole life and not know that they are a serial killer.

How long is she supposed to wait to trust her partner? 5 years? 10 years? Never?

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[ladymama]

Y'all are delusional on this thread. If she trusts Randy (which she obviously does) it's fine. 2years is no small amount of time.

Kids are molested, beat and killed by their own parents, and by family members they have known for their whole lives.

If she had known him for a few months it would be a different story, but then again how long do you know a babysitter before you let them watch your kids?

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yeah I'm delusional because I have my own opinion.

And I wouldn't know because the only person who's ever babysat my kids is my own mother

Sorry, the word I meant to use was dramatic.

Usually a parent meets the sitter for an interview of sorts, then spends a day or two with the sitter and the child to see how they interact.

I was molested by my brother from ages 9-13 (he is a year older) and as a young adult I was raped by someone I had been friends with for nearly 5 years. You can know someone your whole life and not know that they are a serial killer.

How long is she supposed to wait to trust her partner? 5 years? 10 years? Never?

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[hey girl hey007]

All I know is if I see a new haul in the next few months, or any big purchases I'm going to pissed.