Nchollywood part 6

[atr1252]

She's really a mini jessssss. Wouldn't be suprised if allyshia worships her! Jess is pregnant again so ya no allyshia has to follow her footsteps. Only difference is allyshia hasn't been married, yet as far as I no. But engaged to atleast 2 men before.

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[SaltandBurn]

Is it just me or is it weird that Canada gives you that much money every time you have a kid. I mean yeah, it can be beneficial and everything but it seems like they pay you to have kids and never expect you to work. Must be nice!! Welfare around here in nj, you get foodstamps and cash assistance. Foodstamps are based off income. If your unemployed each family member gets 100 max a month for food. Cash assistance is only given to those who have kids, and a child support order. Other parent pays them the child support while they give you the money except if they give you the money is between 50 and 75 dollars less then you would get from the actual parent. Getting any kind of housing assistance is also impossible. There's a 7 year waiting list just for that. Childcare is covered based on income as well, but even minimum wage parents only get maybe between 80 and 100 bucks knocked off there childcare which costs normally around 800 a week for full time. You can't get help with childcare without a job.

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I agree that it seems crazy how much she gets. And I definitely feel like she is abusing the system. However, she is one person out of hundreds of thousands of good people that really do deserve that money. I would love it if the US would have a years paid maternity leave and baby bonuses like other countries. But people are so afraid of the abusers of these systems, like Allyshia, that no US law would ever pass to give us that.

Its a shame in her case. But probably really amazing and helpful to other hard working new moms.

[atr1252]

Is it just me or is it weird that Canada gives you that much money every time you have a kid. I mean yeah, it can be beneficial and everything but it seems like they pay you to have kids and never expect you to work. Must be nice!! Welfare around here in nj, you get foodstamps and cash assistance. Foodstamps are based off income. If your unemployed each family member gets 100 max a month for food. Cash assistance is only given to those who have kids, and a child support order. Other parent pays them the child support while they give you the money except if they give you the money is between 50 and 75 dollars less then you would get from the actual parent. Getting any kind of housing assistance is also impossible. There's a 7 year waiting list just for that. Childcare is covered based on income as well, but even minimum wage parents only get maybe between 80 and 100 bucks knocked off there childcare which costs normally around 800 a week for full time. You can't get help with childcare without a job.

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I agree that it seems crazy how much she gets. And I definitely feel like she is abusing the system. However, she is one person out of hundreds of thousands of good people that really do deserve that money. I would love it if the US would have a years paid maternity leave and baby bonuses like other countries. But people are so afraid of the abusers of these systems, like Allyshia, that no US law would ever pass to give us that.

Its a shame in her case. But probably really amazing and helpful to other hard working new moms.

Exactly. I'm sure there are many hardworking mom's that could really benefit from it. Hell, I could of after I had my daughter. Sometimes it's a little to much. Allyshia has clearly become dependant on it. Has she ever had a job? She's still not furthering her education either. She doesn't seem to want to do anything with her life because she has everything handed to her on a silver platter. I love my daughter and would love to be a stay at home mom forever but it's not a possibility. Some of us actually have to work hard to support our families. Plus, I couldn't live with myself knowing that the government took care of me and my kids forever. Doesn't seem like she has anything to be proud of about herself other than pushing out 3 kids. One thing I really wish the US would do is the year maternity leave. That would be freaking amazing! Paid or not, just having that time off with your child would be so great. I think it's only like 4 to 6 weeks over here

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[Metalheadmama666]

Child tax is awesome. If you use it right. I use mine to pay a bill or two. Buy groceries and diapers. Stuff the kids need. Helps my boyfriend so he doesn't have to pay for it all.

I don't get how her mom allows men over. But awhile back she explained how she pays rent her mom can't say much. As much as I dislike the girl. She is an adult. I just hope men aren't in and out of there when she goes on breaks with Alex. Kids see it all and hear it!

[atr1252]

Child tax is awesome. If you use it right. I use mine to pay a bill or two. Buy groceries and diapers. Stuff the kids need. Helps my boyfriend so he doesn't have to pay for it all.

I don't get how her mom allows men over. But awhile back she explained how she pays rent her mom can't say much. As much as I dislike the girl. She is an adult. I just hope men aren't in and out of there when she goes on breaks with Alex. Kids see it all and hear it!

I really don't think she pays rent at her mom's, even though she claims she does. I don't understand why it's so easy for her to bring multiple men around her kids. Their probably confused as to why everyone has a different dad.

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[red3head]

In California, section 8 doesn't necessarily mean you have to stay in a section 8 apartment. You could find a landlord that accepts section 8 at a house and you can rent from him. Do they give housing allowances to low income in Canada? Maybe she is paying rent but the money is actual from the government.


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[yummles]

How old are her kids? Right now, it's probably easier because they are young and don't understand the idea that they all have different fathers. The difficulty will come when they get older.

My SIL is the same. She has 4 kids and all of them have different fathers. Her kids are 9, 7, 5, and 18 months. She's also pregnant with her 5th (who know who the dad is). Her two oldest know that they all have different fathers and when they get mad at their mom, they say things like "why doesn't MY dad want to see me but (their sibling's name) dad always come and see them?" They even ask her why can't they all have the same father do they can be a family. The youngest two don't get it, and will bond with whatever guy she's with, but the older kids hate when their mom is having yet another baby with another strange man. It's sad.


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[atr1252]

I think her oldest is 4 or 5 I believe. She may be a little older than my daughter who is currently 4. The younger 2 obviously are to young to get it, but lilia seems old enough to understand. My daughter understands that her step brother and her have the same daddy, but different moms. I don't think I'd be able to introduce different men to my kids. I mean I get having one step dad, but having more than that is just crazy.

About her being an adult and paying rent so she can bring different men in the house is also crazy. I wouldn't bring different men to my house and sleep with them while my mother and kids were just feet away. I have more respect for my mother than that, regardless of age or if you pay to live there.

Not every man she decides to get freaky with needs to meet her kids. If you wanna be a hoe, do it on the down low and keep your kids out of it. Unless you are in a very serious relationship! I'm all for waiting as long as possible to introduce someone to your kids. She's obviously not done having them, and she's still not married so I'm sure if her and Alex don't work out there will be another baby daddy.

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[atr1252]

Won't let me edit the post, but I didn't mean step brother lol, I meant half brother!

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[aurora85]

Welfare deducts any childtax, child support and gst cheques as well as any money made over a certain amount from the monthly allowance they give you. If she makes money and doesn't claim it, welfare can find out and make you pay them back. It happened to friend of mine and another friend who is a single mom informed me of the rest regarding welfare and child tax/child support payments.

She could get into some form of BC housing and get subsidized hydro bills tho if she wanted to live on her own. Because she is low income she can apply for a free leisure pass for herself and each kid to get 75% off lessons and services as well as 40 free visits to the pools, she could get free transit passes, subsidized daycare, a super cheap if not free pass to the YMCA, and access to so many amazing programs for her kids. She has no excuse to not get out of the house with her kids.

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[Metalheadmama666]

I love the YMCA in pg. The pool there is really cool too!

[aurora85]

Oh dear, she is asking about midwives in town for her 'friend' who is a few weeks pregnant. Dare we hope it's an actual friend and not her cookin up baby #4?

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[mommaof2cuties]

Oh dear, she is asking about midwives in town for her 'friend' who is a few weeks pregnant. Dare we hope it's an actual friend and not her cookin up baby #4?

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How does she even have friends?

[PGLURK]

Oh dear, she is asking about midwives in town for her 'friend' who is a few weeks pregnant. Dare we hope it's an actual friend and not her cookin up baby #4?

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90% sure she's just asking to get people speculating about her.

[atr1252]

Oh God no. It better not be baby number 4! I swear she's a mini jess. Wish these females would stop spreading their legs, neither of them need more kids.

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[Metalheadmama666]

Someone's always looking for attention. Vegan lifestyle and now pregnancy speculation. Haha.

[atr1252]

Why is this girl still living with her mother with 3 kids smh. She gets free money, she can move the hell out on her own and get a job like everyone else has to. She gets free daycare, so I don't see why she cant. I'd be embarrassed living with my mother as an adult with 3 kids. Hopefully she grows the hell up and becomes an adult and is marries before she gets knocked up again.

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[atr1252]

I don't follow her on any social media because I was blocked for calling her out on her bullshit and standing up to her judgemental comments. Is she still with her sons dad or is it a new guy? Last I remember they split.

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[SaltandBurn]

Why is this girl still living with her mother with 3 kids smh. She gets free money, she can move the hell out on her own and get a job like everyone else has to. She gets free daycare, so I don't see why she cant. I'd be embarrassed living with my mother as an adult with 3 kids. Hopefully she grows the hell up and becomes an adult and is marries before she gets knocked up again.

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It irked me how she complained about getting hate on that in her video. If she just had lilia and was a full time student I would understand. But she spent the last five years changing her mind, getting knocked up, following trends, and avoiding being an actual adult. So yea. Its totally stupid for her to still live with her mom.

[atr1252]

Exactly. I could see if she was still a teenager with one child but she's not. What the hell does she plan on doing long term. Apparently school will never be finished, she will never have a job, she will keep popping out kids from different men and all while still living with her mom. It's people like her who shouldn't be getting any kind of government assistance. She has no clue what the real world is like. She's gonna milk the system as long as she can, it's pathetic

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