JesssFam: a Year to Kill, More Seats to Fill (part 74)
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Unlike half this thread who has been converted over to the chris side, Im still indifferent about him/dont really like him. Hey Chris we dont expect you to vlog, just do 1 video, the husband tag. I think its all bull, hes not camera shy, Jessica is just ashamed about them meeting online and that would make it obvious that she was actively looking so quickly. Chris is childish, sounds uneducated and has been shown to be violent in the past, at least hes more family oriented than Drake or just more romantic than Drake, if you watch old vlogs Drake seemed very helpful and family oriented with Lilia, but Drake isnt violent. They rushed this relationship, theyve only been together a total of 2 years, its still the honeymoon phase.
The one really good thing about her being with Chris is for Landen, that poor kid was basically fatherless before even being born at least now he has a father figure. However Chris as a father to his own kids is questionable, hes ok but if I was his kid I wouldnt like him living so far away and seeing him every couple of months and missing things like their after school activities but who knows maybe the kids like the custody arrangement. Maybe Landen not having a father was a big reason she was so desperate to find a new man when landen was so young cause she didnt want him to not have any kind of father figure, if thats her reasoning I can sympathize with that even though she didnt go about it the right way. Hopefully that was her reason and not her own selfish reasons such as just being horny/fear of being alone.
The one really good thing about her being with Chris is for Landen, that poor kid was basically fatherless before even being born at least now he has a father figure. However Chris as a father to his own kids is questionable, hes ok but if I was his kid I wouldnt like him living so far away and seeing him every couple of months and missing things like their after school activities but who knows maybe the kids like the custody arrangement. Maybe Landen not having a father was a big reason she was so desperate to find a new man when landen was so young cause she didnt want him to not have any kind of father figure, if thats her reasoning I can sympathize with that even though she didnt go about it the right way. Hopefully that was her reason and not her own selfish reasons such as just being horny/fear of being alone.
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Another random thing that stuck out to me was when Landen was born how she cried when she held him. Yes every mother cries tears of joy but to me the scene looked like she was crying over a death at 23:02 in the vid, I felt like all of Landens birth was just sad. She gives birth to this new baby, which is supposed to be a happy occasion but her life was falling apart at that time, this kid is born into a mess, father just walked out, they had to move back into her moms tiny house and Landen is innocent and has no idea what hes coming into.
And it was a bit scary how he came out all grey ( which can be normal) but he didnt start crying till about a minute in and looked like he was chocking, I thought he wasnt breathing and aspirated some of the pool water, his cord was also around his neck when he first came out. Wonder what his apgar score was or if the midwife freaked out a bit, she was trying to syringe stuff out of his mouth and eventually picked him up and said "youre freaking everyone out" but jessicas family/friends didnt notice anything and where cheering
And it was a bit scary how he came out all grey ( which can be normal) but he didnt start crying till about a minute in and looked like he was chocking, I thought he wasnt breathing and aspirated some of the pool water, his cord was also around his neck when he first came out. Wonder what his apgar score was or if the midwife freaked out a bit, she was trying to syringe stuff out of his mouth and eventually picked him up and said "youre freaking everyone out" but jessicas family/friends didnt notice anything and where cheering
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I agree. She has a habit of running into things with guys and it's all love and sweetness and hearts in the beginning but then shit hits the fan. I do hope everything works out for her though. And I do think she is a hornball. Either that or the world's most fertile woman.MyGuiltyPleasure wrote:Unlike half this thread who has been converted over to the chris side, Im still indifferent about him/dont really like him. Hey Chris we dont expect you to vlog, just do 1 video, the husband tag. I think its all bull, hes not camera shy, Jessica is just ashamed about them meeting online and that would make it obvious that she was actively looking so quickly. Chris is childish, sounds uneducated and has been shown to be violent in the past, at least hes more family oriented than Drake or just more romantic than Drake, if you watch old vlogs Drake seemed very helpful and family oriented with Lilia, but Drake isnt violent. They rushed this relationship, theyve only been together a total of 2 years, its still the honeymoon phase.
The one really good thing about her being with Chris is for Landen, that poor kid was basically fatherless before even being born at least now he has a father figure. However Chris as a father to his own kids is questionable, hes ok but if I was his kid I wouldnt like him living so far away and seeing him every couple of months and missing things like their after school activities but who knows maybe the kids like the custody arrangement. Maybe Landen not having a father was a big reason she was so desperate to find a new man when landen was so young cause she didnt want him to not have any kind of father figure, if thats her reasoning I can sympathize with that even though she didnt go about it the right way. Hopefully that was her reason and not her own selfish reasons such as just being horny/fear of being alone.
I just watched the video that plays about her family's journey, and it was like watching a bad sitcom on repeat. Love guy, get married, have baby, guy leaves. Then again. Then again except Chris hasn't left.
I know this may be beating a dead horse, but did she ever find out the reason why Drake just up and left?
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I agree with you.MyGuiltyPleasure wrote:Unlike half this thread who has been converted over to the chris side, Im still indifferent about him/dont really like him. Hey Chris we dont expect you to vlog, just do 1 video, the husband tag. I think its all bull, hes not camera shy, Jessica is just ashamed about them meeting online and that would make it obvious that she was actively looking so quickly. Chris is childish, sounds uneducated and has been shown to be violent in the past, at least hes more family oriented than Drake or just more romantic than Drake, if you watch old vlogs Drake seemed very helpful and family oriented with Lilia, but Drake isnt violent. They rushed this relationship, theyve only been together a total of 2 years, its still the honeymoon phase.
The one really good thing about her being with Chris is for Landen, that poor kid was basically fatherless before even being born at least now he has a father figure. However Chris as a father to his own kids is questionable, hes ok but if I was his kid I wouldnt like him living so far away and seeing him every couple of months and missing things like their after school activities but who knows maybe the kids like the custody arrangement. Maybe Landen not having a father was a big reason she was so desperate to find a new man when landen was so young cause she didnt want him to not have any kind of father figure, if thats her reasoning I can sympathize with that even though she didnt go about it the right way. Hopefully that was her reason and not her own selfish reasons such as just being horny/fear of being alone.
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i think Jess and Chris are the perfect match! they are both out of their minds desperate!!! what mother with 4 children and their youngest being months old actively looks for a man?! I still can't wrap my head around that one
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Omg.. I forgot about that. She definitely is a raging hornball. The LAST thing I thought about with a newborn was sex.NewEnglandGirl wrote:i think Jess and Chris are the perfect match! they are both out of their minds desperate!!! what mother with 4 children and their youngest being months old actively looks for a man?! I still can't wrap my head around that one
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Jess will fuck anything that walkssmom12 wrote:Omg.. I forgot about that. She definitely is a raging hornball. The LAST thing I thought about with a newborn was sex.NewEnglandGirl wrote:i think Jess and Chris are the perfect match! they are both out of their minds desperate!!! what mother with 4 children and their youngest being months old actively looks for a man?! I still can't wrap my head around that one
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I think he said they broke up because they fight too much in front of the kids and that she partys too much, like going to the bars and getting phone numbers to get to do what she missed out on etc, or thats what Drake said. I can see that, had no idea she went out so much but the fighting I can see. She never mentions the bad things and always tries to make her relationships seem perfect. Even with Drake she would say "best boyfriend/husband ever" in her vlogs. I think shes the type that will keep a shitty relationship together even if it was a terrible relationship because she doesnt want a broken family even if that means arguing in front of kids, as we saw she was always the one being dumped, drake dumped her 2x even though he was the one who cheated. Ive noticed that she never actually mentions bad things in general even if they can be interesting, like Kaden/Kyson hating each other when they were toddlers, or kyson having trouble potty training or Lilias speech difficulty when the twins were born, she just mentions that stuff years later.smom12 wrote:I agree. She has a habit of running into things with guys and it's all love and sweetness and hearts in the beginning but then shit hits the fan. I do hope everything works out for her though. And I do think she is a hornball. Either that or the world's most fertile woman.MyGuiltyPleasure wrote:Unlike half this thread who has been converted over to the chris side, Im still indifferent about him/dont really like him. Hey Chris we dont expect you to vlog, just do 1 video, the husband tag. I think its all bull, hes not camera shy, Jessica is just ashamed about them meeting online and that would make it obvious that she was actively looking so quickly. Chris is childish, sounds uneducated and has been shown to be violent in the past, at least hes more family oriented than Drake or just more romantic than Drake, if you watch old vlogs Drake seemed very helpful and family oriented with Lilia, but Drake isnt violent. They rushed this relationship, theyve only been together a total of 2 years, its still the honeymoon phase.
The one really good thing about her being with Chris is for Landen, that poor kid was basically fatherless before even being born at least now he has a father figure. However Chris as a father to his own kids is questionable, hes ok but if I was his kid I wouldnt like him living so far away and seeing him every couple of months and missing things like their after school activities but who knows maybe the kids like the custody arrangement. Maybe Landen not having a father was a big reason she was so desperate to find a new man when landen was so young cause she didnt want him to not have any kind of father figure, if thats her reasoning I can sympathize with that even though she didnt go about it the right way. Hopefully that was her reason and not her own selfish reasons such as just being horny/fear of being alone.
I just watched the video that plays about her family's journey, and it was like watching a bad sitcom on repeat. Love guy, get married, have baby, guy leaves. Then again. Then again except Chris hasn't left.
I know this may be beating a dead horse, but did she ever find out the reason why Drake just up and left?
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One thing that I was very curious about is how the kids reacted to the breakup and how they coped, and she never mentioned it. I think she thinks it makes her look bad that she put her kids through it but its still an interesting topic that other may relate to, same with never mentioning the twins not getting along maybe she thinks it would make her look stupid for having so many kids, she talks about loving the close in age stuff and that would contradict that. She also says Kyson misbehaves bot never really talked about that in detail either.
As for her and Chris' relationship right now, one of her friends posted something on instagram a while back I think her or Chris bday and said something about how happy she is for jess even though her and chris bicker like an old couple all the time, ya lets see how the bickering goes over later on.
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Chris buying the camera was really sweet. You go chris!
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I do remember after Drake left Jess the 2nd time Jess would post a lot of pics of her and Janell drinking
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I wonder why Chris suddenly wants to vlog I wonder if he quit his job or was fired... Or is still working and just genuinely wants to vlog... Just feels weird if you ask me
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He probably realized how much money she can make from daily vlogs and hes ready to quit his job lolNewEnglandGirl wrote:I wonder why Chris suddenly wants to vlog I wonder if he quit his job or was fired... Or is still working and just genuinely wants to vlog... Just feels weird if you ask me
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Did she finish VEDA?
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lizpuff2006 wrote:I agree a lot with what has been said. I am glad Jess found someone who treats her as she deserves. I didn't think he would be able to put up with her but he has been great at dealing with the punches. He has also treated Landen as his own which is huge. I know he should spend more time with his own kids but as far as Jess goes I think he is doing pretty well
I think she's been through a lot because she is stupid and makes horrid, spontaneous decisions. I don't think that means she 'deserves' anything. She is selfish & thinks the world revolves around her, and she found someone dumb & unattractive enough to play into her crap. They both have extremely low self esteem & are a match only because they enable each other. I read back this reply and it does sound harsh but it's true. I don't think she deserves to be treated like shit, but it's crazy to act like she's a victim or something.
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I love when she says "no he doesn't have any brothers" like we are jealous of her lol
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I always think, my Husband doesn't have any brother either, whats your point? lolNewEnglandGirl wrote:I love when she says "no he doesn't have any brothers" like we are jealous of her lol
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Haha, my husband is amazing and he has 2 brothers, but they're a**holes.mydietsucks_1 wrote:I always think, my Husband doesn't have any brother either, whats your point? lolNewEnglandGirl wrote:I love when she says "no he doesn't have any brothers" like we are jealous of her lol
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Well, WE aren't, but the 12 year old minions are.NewEnglandGirl wrote:I love when she says "no he doesn't have any brothers" like we are jealous of her lol
I concur that Chris is slowly growing on me. I'm far from saying that he's great (because he still pulled a knife on his ex-wife and moved six hours away from his kids to play house with Jess), but he does seem to care about Jess and her brood, and I like his quirky sense of humor (I'll admit I giggled at some of the stuff he's said over the year). Chris is ok. He's got a long way to go before he can reach "great," but it's better than what I called him at this time last year (Stabby).
And I do hope they'll be together a while. I know I joke a lot about soulmate #11, baby daddy #7, and "last name of the year," but I'd never wish that upon her.
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#freeglen #freeben #freechris I kid I kid yes he is growing on me too,I think coz we didn't know him we went wild with speculation making judgements based on his creepy face or awkwardness on camera,as they say in the YouTube community 'you guys see a small portion of a little bit of the day' so if he's getting involved with vlogging he may well come across as an ass
Also is it just me.....when Jessica is on camera she's very upbeat and positive and good camera angles and such but when Chris was surprising her from him angle she was like a different person...lost for words and coming across slightly trashy
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Also is it just me.....when Jessica is on camera she's very upbeat and positive and good camera angles and such but when Chris was surprising her from him angle she was like a different person...lost for words and coming across slightly trashy
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Chellebailson27 wrote:
Also is it just me.....when Jessica is on camera she's very upbeat and positive and good camera angles and such but when Chris was surprising her from him angle she was like a different person...lost for words and coming across slightly trashy
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I noticed that too!!! She's such a different person when she's not vlogging. Kind of ghetto tbh