8 Passengers: Resident Evil | Part Three

Unread post by **actuallydear** » Fri Dec 30, 2016 5:59 am

SweetAsANutMate wrote:If Shari's parents don't give her a reality check now, she'll definitely get one from her peers when she starts high school. Especially if she continues with the nastiness in ghe vlogs.

We all know a kid like Shari. Arrogant and filled with superiority. They don't ever change.

Unread post by **Mammabear** » Fri Dec 30, 2016 7:42 am

So, today's title is Enjoy your sexy date? Please someone tell me that it is NOT about Shari. I would be horrified to watch and find this vile woman promoting 'sexy' with her 13yo. So much for modesty and family values. I can't bring myself to watch ~ sorry, not sorry.

Unread post by **beanio** » Fri Dec 30, 2016 7:49 am

Mammabear wrote:So, today's title is Enjoy your sexy date? Please someone tell me that it is NOT about Shari. I would be horrified to watch and find this vile woman promoting 'sexy' with her 13yo. So much for modesty and family values. I can't bring myself to watch ~ sorry, not sorry.

Its about her and kevin, chad asked if they had a sexy date

Unread post by **fossilfinger** » Fri Dec 30, 2016 9:57 am

actuallydear wrote:
SweetAsANutMate wrote:If Shari's parents don't give her a reality check now, she'll definitely get one from her peers when she starts high school. Especially if she continues with the nastiness in ghe vlogs.
We all know a kid like Shari. Arrogant and filled with superiority. They don't ever change.

I used to be kind of like that. Then I got beat down (emotionally) by my parents, and I did a complete 180. I stopped talking to people because my parents told me I was fundamentally offensive to people and should let everyone walk all over me. They told me people didn't like me because of my looks, because of my personality, basically because of everything that made me me, and that I should not be myself, but aspire to be someone else. Now I have zero social skills, zero self-esteem, and lots of anxiety. The trick is helping a kid keep their confidence while also teaching them empathy. I would rather see an over-confident teenager than one who was completely destroyed like I was. What Shari needs is gentle guidance and encouragement to step up as a leader, using the personality traits she has. Unfortunately, when a parent is too obsessed with outward performance rather than developing integrity, that is very difficult.

Unread post by **Vincere** » Fri Dec 30, 2016 10:06 am

My view on Shari is that she is the typical big fish in small bowl kind of person, and she thinks she is very special.
She is better at volleyball than her peers, she has great grades and reads books.
But if she would go to a good university, not BYU, she will realise that she is a small fish in a big bowl, a lot of people are good at sports while having perfect scores and read books.

Unread post by **lmmomSD** » Fri Dec 30, 2016 10:24 am

BYU is a decent school. I think even there her "perfection" would blend in. There are thousands of Molly Mormons and their male counterparts there who are good athletes, and are smart, attractive, and get good grades. Even BYU would be a rude awakening for her.

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Fri Dec 30, 2016 10:31 am

lmmomSD wrote:BYU is a decent school. I think even there her "perfection" would blend in. There are thousands of Molly Mormons and their male counterparts there who are good athletes, and are smart, attractive, and get good grades. Even BYU would be a rude awakening for her.

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I think we need to understand that Shari is still quite young yet she probably is at that stage in life when you think everything is a breeze and that she is perfection a normal trait in young kids nowadays not to mention her 'boyfriend' girls change so much when they get a boyfriend. Also, i don't think she's expereinced a lot yet in her life she will get many rude awakening expereiences which will put her in her place it's just a learning experience but her talking to her mom like that was horrid if that was me i'd be on my deathbed my mum was so strict with me and that's how it should be! Ruby is such a pushover smh she annoys me so much!

Fri Dec 30, 2016 12:27 pm

Its such a weird balance.. sometimes i think ruby is too strict and is a total bitch.. sometimes i think shes a pushover.. i dont think she knows who she is lol

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Fri Dec 30, 2016 12:32 pm

I think Shari will figure it out, if not in high school then definitely in college. She has a lot of traits that are associated with being a firstborn child, combined with high intelligence and an upbringing that encouraged perfection. I'm sure that she is above average at her chosen hobbies, and reading books is a much better hobby than what some other girls get into at her age. She is probably brighter and much more determined than most of the girls in her grade. She is certainly smarter than Ruby. She hasn't yet had the opportunity to learn that there will always be someone smarter, prettier, more competent. But she will eventually.

I learned these lessons on the debate team when I was 15. I always won our team's practice rounds, trophied at regional tournies, etc. But beyond that, my results didn't meet my own expectations, and it was humbling. The lesson was solidified when I went to college, which was full of bright people in all fields of study who were doing incredible things.

I still think Shari's a good kid, and I'd rather see her be a little overconfident than see her torn down. I'm also kind of uncomfortable discussing her perceived flaws, as she is definitely old enough to Google herself or her mom and end up here. (My 13 yr old self definitely would have.) It's one thing to criticize adults, and some of them need to hear what is said here instead of living in an echo chamber full of endless compliments (cough cough, Ellie). Ruby has made a dangerous decision with making her children public figures. It is much different to vlog toddlers than it is to vlog teenagers. Nonetheless, I wouldn't want to be the one responsible for breaking her self-esteem.

Fri Dec 30, 2016 12:42 pm

RecklessDisregard wrote:I think Shari will figure it out, if not in high school then definitely in college. She has a lot of traits that are associated with being a firstborn child, combined with high intelligence and an upbringing that encouraged perfection. I'm sure that she is above average at her chosen hobbies, and reading books is a much better hobby than what some other girls get into at her age. She is probably brighter and much more determined than most of the girls in her grade. She is certainly smarter than Ruby. She hasn't yet had the opportunity to learn that there will always be someone smarter, prettier, more competent. But she will eventually.

I learned these lessons on the debate team when I was 15. I always won our team's practice rounds, trophied at regional tournies, etc. But beyond that, my results didn't meet my own expectations, and it was humbling. The lesson was solidified when I went to college, which was full of bright people in all fields of study who were doing incredible things.

I still think Shari's a good kid, and I'd rather see her be a little overconfident than see her torn down. I'm also kind of uncomfortable discussing her perceived flaws, as she is definitely old enough to Google herself or her mom and end up here. (My 13 yr old self definitely would have.) It's one thing to criticize adults, and some of them need to hear what is said here instead of living in an echo chamber full of endless compliments (cough cough, Ellie). Ruby has made a dangerous decision with making her children public figures. It is much different to vlog toddlers than it is to vlog teenagers. Nonetheless, I wouldn't want to be the one responsible for breaking her self-esteem.

True Shari just needs some guidance which her mother isn't giving her very much of having breeding several children she can barely pay attention to them at all. Shari is intelligent and confidence is a great thing hopefully she will be guided by her father. Me and my sister both watch this channel not together but separately and we enjoy discussing our views on the vlogs what we always agree on is that Shari comes across as someone who isn't very fond of her uneducated self centred mother. Ruby is one of those really annoying trying to be cool mothers. Although we do see Shari enjoys her father's company a lot more she's inspired by his job and education and seems to be heading into that direction rather than the regular Griffith girl who gets little to no education focuses her entire life on finding a man and breeding several children

Unread post by **seriously7** » Fri Dec 30, 2016 2:35 pm

RecklessDisregard wrote:
I still think Shari's a good kid, and I'd rather see her be a little overconfident than see her torn down. I'm also kind of uncomfortable discussing her perceived flaws, as she is definitely old enough to Google herself or her mom and end up here. (My 13 yr old self definitely would have.) It's one thing to criticize adults, and some of them need to hear what is said here instead of living in an echo chamber full of endless compliments (cough cough, Ellie). Ruby has made a dangerous decision with making her children public figures. It is much different to vlog toddlers than it is to vlog teenagers. Nonetheless, I wouldn't want to be the one responsible for breaking her self-esteem.

Yeah you're right, I plan leave all critical comments for the adults only going into the new year, the kids should be off limits, especially teens.

Fri Dec 30, 2016 2:42 pm

I don't think our comments will change her if she does read here (not condoning, just saying) I feel like a classmate or friend will "put her in her place"..what does a 13 year old care about how a bunch of strangers think. She'll care more about what those around her think of her.

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Unread post by **Namm** » Fri Dec 30, 2016 4:09 pm

PLEASE DON'T FORGET THAT SHARI IS STILL A CHILD, INFLUENCED BY HER ENVIROMENT. HAVE THAT IN MIND WHEN YOU WRITE NEGATIVILY ABOUT HER!

Her behavior isn't different from any other tweenie out there breaking into adulthood. It's quit embarrassing to see how some of you adults, express your feelings about an innocent kid. Think twice before you post things about the children, I'm sure some of you are parents and wouldn't want that for your children. Shari didn't choose to document her life to the world, her parents did and she has to deal with it the best way she can. The problem is that Ruby sold or marketed her family as a picture perfect family as mormons do. Something that the Franke's can no longer live up to, especially the children as mormons aren't any different from other families with issues even though they want to fool us into believing that mormons are perfect people with perfect wives, perfect husbands, perfect dads, perfect children, perfect grandchildren, perfect houses, perfect smiles and perfect everything.

We all see the things that some of you guys are talking about when it comes to Shari but please choose how you express it or if it's even necessary to write about it.

Unread post by **Namm** » Fri Dec 30, 2016 4:33 pm

Have you guys noticed how Ruby's children don't care for her when she's been gone. When she returnes home the children aren't that happy or they don't care about her compared to how the Holleins children act when their parents return home. You could tell in the latest vlog that something isn't as it should be. Evie is a toddler who should be missing her mother and jump out of joy when her mother comes home but Evie couldn't be bothered. I remember when Cody and Boston stayed at Franke's and how they talked about their dad and how much they loved and missed their mum and dad. You could tell how much Olivia missed her parents when they went to NY when she stayed at aunt Ellies house.

When Ruby hugs Evie, there isn't any expression in Rubys face at all, just an empty expression. Chad doesn't react with joy or anything, he just looks at his mother like hi. Ruby doesn't seem to be a nurturing or emotionel mother and now when she pretends to be one infront of the camera the kids don't know how to deal with it or it's not natural for them. The kids seem happy though when they see their dad.

Unread post by **Namm** » Fri Dec 30, 2016 8:26 pm

Im sorry but I wouldn't be surpised if Shari already know about this site as the Griffiths share everything with eachother including with the children, just have that in mind when you post things about the children.
Anyway, I'm glad that you "Kryptonite" understood where I'm coming from...

Fri Dec 30, 2016 8:33 pm

Shari's a young, smart, pretty teenage girl. Everyone's a know-it-all at that age, and I think that she should definitely knock it off, but it's totally normal.

Unread post by **freshbalsam** » Fri Dec 30, 2016 8:54 pm

I agree with whoever said Shari doesn't seem so fond of her mother. I wonder if she's ever questioned why Ruby never continued onto higher education and then thought to herself, neither did her aunt Ellie, Bonnie, Emily (?) Grandma Griffith, etc. While I definitely don't love Shari, I think she is very bright and I admire her dedication to her education. I do hope she doesn't lose that desire and drive as she gets older, because she can definitely go places with it! But you never know with the Griffith girls..

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Unread post by **Nini12** » Fri Dec 30, 2016 10:09 pm

I just see Shari ending up like Ruby, I remember that one time Ruby talked about a college professor that tried to persuade her into focusing on her education because she had potential and she was mad because what she really cared about was being a mother.

Sadly, my guess is that Ellie's and Ruby's kids will keep repeating the cycle where moms are treated like gods that can do no wrong, the dads are not that important and their only friends are their siblings.

Unread post by **Kjr123** » Fri Dec 30, 2016 10:30 pm

I definitely think most of what's frustrating about shari is her age, it's a tough age. Ruby needs to put the camera down and parent...

I wouldn't have liked my self at that age. And I wouldn't even want to know what people would have said about me. And luckily my mom didn't plaster my attitude all over youtube.

Unread post by **Vincere** » Fri Dec 30, 2016 10:43 pm

freshbalsam wrote:I agree with whoever said Shari doesn't seem so fond of her mother. I wonder if she's ever questioned why Ruby never continued onto higher education and then thought to herself.

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Ruby has an university degree from BYU, she studied accounting.
However, she decided to be a mom and let Kevin focus on his career.

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