OkBaby: Part 8
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In other news, are we ever going to get a fucking name for this kid
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Agreed but you comment made me think of a comment of the day (I think) where Kyra said that Oscar was a very strict father and I think she said that sometimes she hides from Oscar the "bad things" Levi has done ... I remember when I heard that I was like WTF, I have never seen him being "strict" so or they don't know what the word means or they are a lot we are not seeing and if they are not showing it why do Kyra felt the need to "protect" Levi from Oscar discipline (for me parents both have to agreed on a way to discipline their child, one shouldn't feel the need to protect their child from the other parent ...). Does someone remember this talk?IjustCANT wrote:They need to start stepping up as parents and discipline their child, he is past the age of understanding right from wrong. My child is under one but understands that when I use a firm voice and say no they stop (obviously I have to repeat myself and I don't have any way of discipline a child under one yet), also with taking things away from my child is nooooo where near as bad as Levi, seems like they joke around so much that Levi thinks everything is a joke, in reality they should be using different tones (discipline and rewarding tones) and laughing in the middle of teaching something is very immature. Kyra thinks that she can't discipline Levi but he is smart enough to know right from wrong without spanking, timeout would do him wonders. Levi has so much lack of discipline and it's because their lack of parenting and they need to get it together before this next baby comes, or Levi will hurt this baby.
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It is expensive to register your car, and the DMV is not fun... but I mean, neither of those are a valid excuse for them. It's got to be done. If they got pulled over I'm suuuuure they would get a hefty fine. On another note, do either of them even have a valid UT license? I think you need an in state license to register your car in that state, which btw, you can also get a fine for not doing within a certain time of living there (at least where I live).Mlburk21 wrote:I was thinking the same thing. And even when you buy the car they put the paper temporary plate on.NHJLLK wrote:Why do they not have a license plate on the car yet? Here in Alabama you have to get one within 28 days or so.
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I'm not sure why they wouldn't get the license, unless neither of them even have a valid license to begin with? When I moved states it literally cost me $25 and 25 minutes of my time to get a new license. It's not hard & it's not like they don't have the time.
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I do remember that. Tbh kind of sounds like Oscar is abusive. The hole in the wall they never talk about. Kyra admits not to ask Oscar for help cleaning it unless he thinks she absolutely needs help. Hiding that a 1 year old did something wrong to protect them is very weird to me unless your scared of what the other parents reaction is. We all know that Oscar likes to control things, maybe he is abusive (I do not mean he is physically abusive but more mentally). Mentally abusive people are very controlling and you can tell whatever Oscar wants he gets it.Midia wrote:Agreed but you comment made me think of a comment of the day (I think) where Kyra said that Oscar was a very strict father and I think she said that sometimes she hides from Oscar the "bad things" Levi has done ... I remember when I heard that I was like WTF, I have never seen him being "strict" so or they don't know what the word means or they are a lot we are not seeing and if they are not showing it why do Kyra felt the need to "protect" Levi from Oscar discipline (for me parents both have to agreed on a way to discipline their child, one shouldn't feel the need to protect their child from the other parent ...). Does someone remember this talk?IjustCANT wrote:They need to start stepping up as parents and discipline their child, he is past the age of understanding right from wrong. My child is under one but understands that when I use a firm voice and say no they stop (obviously I have to repeat myself and I don't have any way of discipline a child under one yet), also with taking things away from my child is nooooo where near as bad as Levi, seems like they joke around so much that Levi thinks everything is a joke, in reality they should be using different tones (discipline and rewarding tones) and laughing in the middle of teaching something is very immature. Kyra thinks that she can't discipline Levi but he is smart enough to know right from wrong without spanking, timeout would do him wonders. Levi has so much lack of discipline and it's because their lack of parenting and they need to get it together before this next baby comes, or Levi will hurt this baby.
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Yeah I remember! Kyra mentioned that Levi sometimes hides from Oscar when he knows he's done something bad. It was kind of weird.Midia wrote:Agreed but you comment made me think of a comment of the day (I think) where Kyra said that Oscar was a very strict father and I think she said that sometimes she hides from Oscar the "bad things" Levi has done ... I remember when I heard that I was like WTF, I have never seen him being "strict" so or they don't know what the word means or they are a lot we are not seeing and if they are not showing it why do Kyra felt the need to "protect" Levi from Oscar discipline (for me parents both have to agreed on a way to discipline their child, one shouldn't feel the need to protect their child from the other parent ...). Does someone remember this talk?IjustCANT wrote:They need to start stepping up as parents and discipline their child, he is past the age of understanding right from wrong. My child is under one but understands that when I use a firm voice and say no they stop (obviously I have to repeat myself and I don't have any way of discipline a child under one yet), also with taking things away from my child is nooooo where near as bad as Levi, seems like they joke around so much that Levi thinks everything is a joke, in reality they should be using different tones (discipline and rewarding tones) and laughing in the middle of teaching something is very immature. Kyra thinks that she can't discipline Levi but he is smart enough to know right from wrong without spanking, timeout would do him wonders. Levi has so much lack of discipline and it's because their lack of parenting and they need to get it together before this next baby comes, or Levi will hurt this baby.
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IjustCANT wrote:I do remember that. Tbh kind of sounds like Oscar is abusive. The hole in the wall they never talk about. Kyra admits not to ask Oscar for help cleaning it unless he thinks she absolutely needs help. Hiding that a 1 year old did something wrong to protect them is very weird to me unless your scared of what the other parents reaction is. We all know that Oscar likes to control things, maybe he is abusive (I do not mean he is physically abusive but more mentally). Mentally abusive people are very controlling and you can tell whatever Oscar wants he gets it. Have you ever seen Kyra say no to Oscar?Midia wrote:Agreed but you comment made me think of a comment of the day (I think) where Kyra said that Oscar was a very strict father and I think she said that sometimes she hides from Oscar the "bad things" Levi has done ... I remember when I heard that I was like WTF, I have never seen him being "strict" so or they don't know what the word means or they are a lot we are not seeing and if they are not showing it why do Kyra felt the need to "protect" Levi from Oscar discipline (for me parents both have to agreed on a way to discipline their child, one shouldn't feel the need to protect their child from the other parent ...). Does someone remember this talk?IjustCANT wrote:They need to start stepping up as parents and discipline their child, he is past the age of understanding right from wrong. My child is under one but understands that when I use a firm voice and say no they stop (obviously I have to repeat myself and I don't have any way of discipline a child under one yet), also with taking things away from my child is nooooo where near as bad as Levi, seems like they joke around so much that Levi thinks everything is a joke, in reality they should be using different tones (discipline and rewarding tones) and laughing in the middle of teaching something is very immature. Kyra thinks that she can't discipline Levi but he is smart enough to know right from wrong without spanking, timeout would do him wonders. Levi has so much lack of discipline and it's because their lack of parenting and they need to get it together before this next baby comes, or Levi will hurt this baby.
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You cannot put a 1.5 year old on time out. They literally do not understand punishments at that age. Sorry that's just a fact. However when they're telling Levi no, they need to be serious about it instead of messing arounf
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Did it look like when Levi was head butting Keira Oscar flicked him on the forehead to get him to stop. I have a feeling Keira says no spankings but Oscar has no problem with it!
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Can someone point out the origin or first appearance of the hole in the wall and the speculation around it? I keep hearing about it and I don't know what it's all about.
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Midia wrote:Agreed but you comment made me think of a comment of the day (I think) where Kyra said that Oscar was a very strict father and I think she said that sometimes she hides from Oscar the "bad things" Levi has done ... I remember when I heard that I was like WTF, I have never seen him being "strict" so or they don't know what the word means or they are a lot we are not seeing and if they are not showing it why do Kyra felt the need to "protect" Levi from Oscar discipline (for me parents both have to agreed on a way to discipline their child, one shouldn't feel the need to protect their child from the other parent ...). Does someone remember this talk?IjustCANT wrote:They need to start stepping up as parents and discipline their child, he is past the age of understanding right from wrong. My child is under one but understands that when I use a firm voice and say no they stop (obviously I have to repeat myself and I don't have any way of discipline a child under one yet), also with taking things away from my child is nooooo where near as bad as Levi, seems like they joke around so much that Levi thinks everything is a joke, in reality they should be using different tones (discipline and rewarding tones) and laughing in the middle of teaching something is very immature. Kyra thinks that she can't discipline Levi but he is smart enough to know right from wrong without spanking, timeout would do him wonders. Levi has so much lack of discipline and it's because their lack of parenting and they need to get it together before this next baby comes, or Levi will hurt this baby.
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IjustCANT wrote:I do remember that. Tbh kind of sounds like Oscar is abusive. The hole in the wall they never talk about. Kyra admits not to ask Oscar for help cleaning it unless he thinks she absolutely needs help. Hiding that a 1 year old did something wrong to protect them is very weird to me unless your scared of what the other parents reaction is. We all know that Oscar likes to control things, maybe he is abusive (I do not mean he is physically abusive but more mentally). Mentally abusive people are very controlling and you can tell whatever Oscar wants he gets it.
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Exactly! I don't know how I could have forget to talk about it here when I saw the video because I find it really weird! He is one year old, it's not normal for Levi to hide from Oscar when he's done something wrong, I don't have children but that sounds really wrong, same with Kyra sometimes hiding Levi bad behaviour to protect Levi, that's just means she, herself, thinks Oscar in "too strict" and I don't get how you can be "too strict" with a one year old child without being "abusive"... I don't want to say he is abusive toward Levi, I have no proof but he obviously seem controlling (which is kind of a mental mental abuse in my opinion) but something is not normal there...ecf997 wrote: Yeah I remember! Kyra mentioned that Levi sometimes hides from Oscar when he knows he's done something bad. It was kind of weird.
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I have a 10 month old and whenever she gets into somthing that she's not supposed to I always tell her In a very firm voice ... "nooooooooo, nooooo" and she will stop and back away from whatever i told her not to get into
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webbygurl626 wrote:Did it look like when Levi was head butting Keira Oscar flicked him on the forehead to get him to stop. I have a feeling Keira says no spankings but Oscar has no problem with it!
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I'm watching right now and it totally looked like he flicked him! I'm sorry but you DO NOT hit or flick a 1.5 year old. Levi has no schedule, no structured play, he's bored and stir crazy because of your mediocre parenting.. he's having a rough day because he hardly has any stimulation! And you FLICK HIS HEAD? It's your fault Oscar! I wish I could flick Oscar in the head. Fucking asshole. This has me so mad. I don't think I've ever been so irritated with Oscar.
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oscar is sick in the head. he is So immature. That's something middleschoolers do to each other or what big bros do to little bros to annoy them. He is nowhere near a father, let alone a good father.missy-1010 wrote:webbygurl626 wrote:Did it look like when Levi was head butting Keira Oscar flicked him on the forehead to get him to stop. I have a feeling Keira says no spankings but Oscar has no problem with it!
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I'm watching right now and it totally looked like he flicked him! I'm sorry but you DO NOT hit or flick a 1.5 year old. Levi has no schedule, no structured play, he's bored and stir crazy because of your mediocre parenting.. he's having a rough day because he hardly has any stimulation! And you FLICK HIS HEAD? It's your fault Oscar! I wish I could flick Oscar in the head. Fucking asshole. This has me so mad. I don't think I've ever been so irritated with Oscar.
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Just finished watching the new vlog. For the most part I actually feel kind of bad for Kyra. Mostly just with Oscar not understanding how hard it is to actually be pregnant. And about him not kissing Levi on the lips- I don't think its weird at all. We don't kiss my daughter on the lips either (and won't let anyone else) only because mouths are gross lol Especially an adult mouth. There are life long viruses (cold sores) passed on that way and there are way too many people in our family who get them (myself included). BUT if he doesn't do it because he views it as "gay" or not manly than that's just wrong. I don't know how anyone can look at it that way when in regards to their own child but anyway..
I think we see such a change in Oscar these last few months (more irritable, controlling, etc) is because he really wasn't showing us his true self in the beginning (like he already mentioned) and he just gave up acting positive and now just acts the way he really is. Honestly I think it was a dumb idea to even start a family youtube channel when they were not even together for a year. You don't even know each other well enough in that amount of time to know if you'll stay together forever and sometimes I feel like they don't even like each other anymore but have to "keep up appearances" for the vlog. There's just weird vibes between them sometimes that does not seem like love and I guarantee there's A LOT about their lives they don't share.
I think we see such a change in Oscar these last few months (more irritable, controlling, etc) is because he really wasn't showing us his true self in the beginning (like he already mentioned) and he just gave up acting positive and now just acts the way he really is. Honestly I think it was a dumb idea to even start a family youtube channel when they were not even together for a year. You don't even know each other well enough in that amount of time to know if you'll stay together forever and sometimes I feel like they don't even like each other anymore but have to "keep up appearances" for the vlog. There's just weird vibes between them sometimes that does not seem like love and I guarantee there's A LOT about their lives they don't share.
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I think with her family background she's too scared to fight with Oscar in fear that he's going to leave her so she doesn't say anything. She has said in the past when he's being an idiot, like when he was holding Levi while riding the hover board. But he's so rough with him and everything around him.kkkk wrote:KK are definitely greedy asshats for asking for all that expensive stuff when they had just had their first baby boy a little over a year prior.... where's all the stuff they had with Jackson?! I know obviously he's still in his crib but why did Keren need ANY clothes? Even if Kyra were having another boy, I get the feeling she would be NOTHING like that.
And this hot tub sh*t pisses me off. Kyra lets Oscar do the dumbest stuff with Levi. Like what's her deal?? Driving around Las Vegas at 1 am while happily seeing them off, baiting him off a mattress, watching him run around in a diaper in the freezing cold and letting him go into a hot tub? I don't know what her problem is but if she sees nothing wrong with Oscar doing those things, then she's just as bad as he is. They should not be trusted to be alone with Levi in water. He's had WAY too many incidents of falling/slipping than he should have. It's ridiculous.
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I just legit think he's mentally slow that he doesn't understand, combined with his immaturity and assholeness. I think he's impaired.
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He's not old enough to "know right from wrong" he's only one.IjustCANT wrote:They need to start stepping up as parents and discipline their child, he is past the age of understanding right from wrong. My child is under one but understands that when I use a firm voice and say no they stop (obviously I have to repeat myself and I don't have any way of discipline a child under one yet), also with taking things away from my child is nooooo where near as bad as Levi, seems like they joke around so much that Levi thinks everything is a joke, in reality they should be using different tones (discipline and rewarding tones) and laughing in the middle of teaching something is very immature. Kyra thinks that she can't discipline Levi but he is smart enough to know right from wrong without spanking, timeout would do him wonders. Levi has so much lack of discipline and it's because their lack of parenting and they need to get it together before this next baby comes, or Levi will hurt this baby.
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He needs to learn about boundaries, but to go from that to say he can differentiate from right and wrong?
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So tell me what age a child learns right from wrong? Also please tell me how teaching boundaries isn't teaching him right from wrong?Teethfloss wrote:He's not old enough to "know right from wrong" he's only one.IjustCANT wrote:They need to start stepping up as parents and discipline their child, he is past the age of understanding right from wrong. My child is under one but understands that when I use a firm voice and say no they stop (obviously I have to repeat myself and I don't have any way of discipline a child under one yet), also with taking things away from my child is nooooo where near as bad as Levi, seems like they joke around so much that Levi thinks everything is a joke, in reality they should be using different tones (discipline and rewarding tones) and laughing in the middle of teaching something is very immature. Kyra thinks that she can't discipline Levi but he is smart enough to know right from wrong without spanking, timeout would do him wonders. Levi has so much lack of discipline and it's because their lack of parenting and they need to get it together before this next baby comes, or Levi will hurt this baby.
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He needs to learn about boundaries, but to go from that to say he can differentiate from right and wrong?
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Pretty sure once a kid understands mommy and daddy are mad or proud , they'll quickly understand right from wrong but what do I know right?
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OkBaby: Part 8
Positive reinforcement when he does the right thing. Lots of praise and cuddles when he's good. Negative reinforcement when he's naughty. Stern NO, take things off him if he isn't supposed to have them or he's throwing them. He will pick up quickly what he should and shouldn't do.IjustCANT wrote:So tell me what age a child learns right from wrong? Also please tell me how teaching boundaries isn't teaching him right from wrong?Teethfloss wrote:He's not old enough to "know right from wrong" he's only one.IjustCANT wrote:They need to start stepping up as parents and discipline their child, he is past the age of understanding right from wrong. My child is under one but understands that when I use a firm voice and say no they stop (obviously I have to repeat myself and I don't have any way of discipline a child under one yet), also with taking things away from my child is nooooo where near as bad as Levi, seems like they joke around so much that Levi thinks everything is a joke, in reality they should be using different tones (discipline and rewarding tones) and laughing in the middle of teaching something is very immature. Kyra thinks that she can't discipline Levi but he is smart enough to know right from wrong without spanking, timeout would do him wonders. Levi has so much lack of discipline and it's because their lack of parenting and they need to get it together before this next baby comes, or Levi will hurt this baby.
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He needs to learn about boundaries, but to go from that to say he can differentiate from right and wrong?
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Pretty sure once a kid understands mommy and daddy are mad or proud , they'll quickly understand right from wrong but what do I know right?
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Toddlers are smarter than some people give them credit for and Levi is switched on. He will pick it up quickly if they're consistent with it.
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This was the exact point I was trying to prove, he I fully capable of learn what he is doing is right (positive reinforcement) or what he is doing wrong (negative reinforcement). Thank you.staceybrax wrote:Positive reinforcement when he does the right thing. Lots of praise and cuddles when he's good. Negative reinforcement when he's naughty. Stern NO, take things off him if he isn't supposed to have them or he's throwing them. He will pick up quickly what he should and shouldn't do.IjustCANT wrote:So tell me what age a child learns right from wrong? Also please tell me how teaching boundaries isn't teaching him right from wrong?Teethfloss wrote:
He's not old enough to "know right from wrong" he's only one.
He needs to learn about boundaries, but to go from that to say he can differentiate from right and wrong?
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Pretty sure once a kid understands mommy and daddy are mad or proud , they'll quickly understand right from wrong but what do I know right?
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Toddlers are smarter than some people give them credit for and Levi is switched on. He will pick it up quickly if they're consistent with it.
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Kids younger than his age understand the word no. Levi is pretty smart so I'm sure he will not problem on picking up on these lessons, as long as Oscar and Kyra are keep a straight face instead of laughing.
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